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By *edeWoman
over a year ago
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"I have a date with my sofa, discounted chocolates and my dog 
If I put you in your restraints I could steal your chocolate?!!  xx"
Haha I'd like to see you try and get my chocolate off me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, the kids & I shall have a love in and splurge in some way.
Even when married I didn't do valentines beyond a treat steak dinner with all the trimmings at home.
I wouldn't enjoy paying inflated prices to go out. I can't abide being price gouged  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just a date in the calendar. People should show folk they care about them all year round, I feel
Mrs
…..one day would be nice. "
It will come when you least expect it, don't give up hope
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By *icktMan
over a year ago
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"I have a date with my sofa, discounted chocolates and my dog
If I put you in your restraints I could steal your chocolate?!! xx
Haha I'd like to see you try and get my chocolate off me "
Well if you’re restrained there’s not much you can do about it! xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being dateless on Valentines night isn't the end of the World , l did valentine's once upon a time , trying l suppose , you know , maybe in vain but then you realize it's not returned so you stop , tough when it first happens but you grow used to it and then comes a stage when you don't even think about it , so to the dateless people out there just remember it's not the end of the World . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just imagine all those poor buggers out eating meals pretending they like each other and having to be all soppy over candle light. Ugh. Im taking the dog a walk |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dateless ain't half bad to spend Valentines, if you clean up well you could hit the town as a snazzy bachelor or hot as hell bachelorette! That's my intention anyway. |
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I am....though I usually am on Valentines. I don't mind so much, I feel like most out tomorrow night aren't going to be couples and also most may have celebrated last weekend? I do have the night off though so I may just have a cheeky glass of wine, I know, party central! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the human race is headed to becoming a sea of singletons all propping eachother up and briefly crossing paths but never pairing off.
But things typically work in cycles so perhaps coupledom will become desirable once more and people will be less like little puppies bouncing around chasing easy D & V all over the show. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to hate vd when I was in a couple. It felt so fake and forced."
Yes it's quite contrived to make out that one day is so different. I'm single now and not at all bothered now whether I'm with someone that day or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the human race is headed to becoming a sea of singletons all propping eachother up and briefly crossing paths but never pairing off.
But things typically work in cycles so perhaps coupledom will become desirable once more and people will be less like little puppies bouncing around chasing easy D & V all over the show."
Seems like it. Its gonna drop far lower before a turnaround!
Hearts n minds are tainted and truamatised beyond repair atm. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just a date in the calendar. People should show folk they care about them all year round, I feel
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Absolutely this!! "
Maybe it's really cheesy, but I love doing wee things for Mr randomly through the year. And he's thoughtful, too 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never leave the keys of happiness in someone else's pocket because that could be a doorway to a life of misery."
Never a truer word has been said. If you aren't happy on your own, no one else will make you happy 
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"I think the human race is headed to becoming a sea of singletons all propping eachother up and briefly crossing paths but never pairing off.
But things typically work in cycles so perhaps coupledom will become desirable once more and people will be less like little puppies bouncing around chasing easy D & V all over the show.
Seems like it. Its gonna drop far lower before a turnaround!
Hearts n minds are tainted and truamatised beyond repair atm. "
I prop up myself and I'm on the road of repair and recovery..Very happy with my current self-love and self-partnership journey.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to hate vd when I was in a couple. It felt so fake and forced.
Yes it's quite contrived to make out that one day is so different. I'm single now and not at all bothered now whether I'm with someone that day or not."
I'm with the same someone this year as I was last VD, and he's made it unexpectedly special both times. I hated VD in previous relationships for the fakeness etc as well. But this time it's different...in a good way
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"I used to hate vd when I was in a couple. It felt so fake and forced.
Yes it's quite contrived to make out that one day is so different. I'm single now and not at all bothered now whether I'm with someone that day or not.
I'm with the same someone this year as I was last VD, and he's made it unexpectedly special both times. I hated VD in previous relationships for the fakeness etc as well. But this time it's different...in a good way
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The way I grew up nothing was ever special.
So now I make an effort on those "commercialized" celebration days because my default is just to be a workaholic until my brain and body crash and burn out.
If I'm with someone in a committed life partnership, they better make it special or I will be going to make it special by myself.
that's what happened in my marriage. My former husband didn't make any attempt to my birthday so I buggered off to the spa for the whole day alone. Obviously he thought I was cheating but I didn't give a fuck. I wanted to be treated special so I did it myself.
That's my current view I'm not going to wait around for people who don't know how to celebrate life. i'ma celebrate every chance I get and squeeze as much out of life as I can until the glorious end.
I will be the one telling dirty jokes in the nursing home, pinching the male nurses' bottoms and winding up the other residents and sneaking in cakes. 
Everyone else who wants to go quietly into the night before they shuffle off this mortal coil, that's their prerogative but it certainly isn't going to be me. |
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"On the plus side its my birthday lol "
Yeah forgot to say happy birthday...Now you need triple drinks. One for your self love, one for Vally day and one for your birthday.
I'm currently on the passion fruit martini. Co au vin, Roquefort tart in my tummy and there is some Heston tart in the fridge about to go into the tummy too!
Repeat tomorrow.
For my birthday I usually celebrate a whole week minimum these days.
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"It's just a date in the calendar. People should show folk they care about them all year round, I feel
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Absolutely this!!
Maybe it's really cheesy, but I love doing wee things for Mr randomly through the year. And he's thoughtful, too
Mrs "
You see I forget. I spend so much time looking after my physical and mental health and caring that it's way too easy for me to forget the little things.
Being a neurodivergent from 2 workaholic parents doesn't help matters either.
This "just a date in the calendar" actually reminds me "hey you fucking celebrate life! and stop over fucking working and actually go fuck yourself or fuck someone else for a change." Lol!
It's a reminder that human beings need fun, joy, pleasure, intimacy and connection.
dunno maybe it's a London thing....we are obsessed with being busy and being workaholics and a lot of neurodivergents live here too. |
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xx
I think he must be hiding under a massive rock somewhere. So it's just another day 
