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Like a needle in a haystack for york blokes
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What’s York got to do with it ? I’m sure a bloke from bognor Regis feels the same.
The mr
I’m sure they might but I’m from york  "
I like York, it’s a nice place, you should find it easy getting people to come to you with that type of advertising. Take them up the tower!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books. "
And you won't drive more than an hour away, damn it, I'm 1 hour 5 minutes away, ahhh well.
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"What’s York got to do with it ? I’m sure a bloke from bognor Regis feels the same.
The mr
I’m sure they might but I’m from york
I like York, it’s a nice place, you should find it easy getting people to come to you with that type of advertising. Take them up the tower!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.
Yeh I have but I’ve been on here since 2015 x"
Do you enjoy the York social event that's regularly held? |
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"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.
And you won't drive more than an hour away, damn it, I'm 1 hour 5 minutes away, ahhh well.
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Durham is more than that lol but I have been to consett before |
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"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.
Yeh I have but I’ve been on here since 2015 x
Do you enjoy the York social event that's regularly held?"
I’ve been asked to go but never been I’m a bit shy for that sort of thing tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.
And you won't drive more than an hour away, damn it, I'm 1 hour 5 minutes away, ahhh well.
Durham is more than that lol but I have been to consett before "
Not where I Iive Durham/North Yorkshire |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
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"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least  "
According to your profile you had a meet a week ago ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.
Yeh I have but I’ve been on here since 2015 x"
That’s still a meet every 2-3 months on average which is way more than most guys on here. |
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"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least
According to your profile you had a meet a week ago ?? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.
Yeh I have but I’ve been on here since 2015 x
Do you enjoy the York social event that's regularly held?
I’ve been asked to go but never been I’m a bit shy for that sort of thing tbh "
Bit of advice then, you need to be pro active. As with most things in life, effort put in often equals the rewards reaped. Shyness and being a swinger aren't over compatible in my book. If you want something in life you have to take positive steps yourself. Good things don't have a tendency to just land in your lap. I wish you luck. |
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"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.
And you won't drive more than an hour away, damn it, I'm 1 hour 5 minutes away, ahhh well.
Durham is more than that lol but I have been to consett before
Not where I Iive Durham/North Yorkshire "
Ahhh ok where abouts ? |
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"You have 44 verifications, that's a lot of meets in some people's books.
And you won't drive more than an hour away, damn it, I'm 1 hour 5 minutes away, ahhh well.
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I'll drive to you . I'm from York lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly OP just read through this thread, and not trying to have a go, but you just come across as entitled…
2 lines on your profile, a rinse and repeat selection of cock pictures, not willing to travel far (in a county that demands it), had what a lot of guys would consider to be plenty of meets, unsatisfied with a webcam meet, won’t go to a local social event.
We would, and have, met guys from York even just for socials, so it is possible. You just have to be willing to try harder and stop complaining.
Hope you find what you’re looking for |
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"Honestly OP just read through this thread, and not trying to have a go, but you just come across as entitled…
2 lines on your profile, a rinse and repeat selection of cock pictures, not willing to travel far (in a county that demands it), had what a lot of guys would consider to be plenty of meets, unsatisfied with a webcam meet, won’t go to a local social event.
We would, and have, met guys from York even just for socials, so it is possible. You just have to be willing to try harder and stop complaining.
Hope you find what you’re looking for "
Not entitled at all and wasn’t even complaining just saying and I wasn’t unsatisfied with the cam meet at all! |
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"Personally I’d say your success is based less on when you live and more on how you present yourself.
Conflicting profile content and photos is a red flag for most! "
Conflicting profile content and pictures how?? |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
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"Personally I’d say your success is based less on when you live and more on how you present yourself.
Conflicting profile content and photos is a red flag for most!
Conflicting profile content and pictures how?? "
Probably the safe sex bit on profile and the pics wearing no condom ? |
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"Personally I’d say your success is based less on when you live and more on how you present yourself.
Conflicting profile content and photos is a red flag for most!
Conflicting profile content and pictures how??
Probably the safe sex bit on profile and the pics wearing no condom ?"
I’m happy with using a condom but prefer not too |
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"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least "
Its actually 985 men to 1 woman according to the latest moray poll and they are mostly in the northern hemisphere, so unless you have abs, tatts and a personality your chances of getting a meet here are negligible.  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
OP the ratios have always been single guy top heavy. Always.
But that is the what stops all men getting meets.
Those that know how best to portray themselves and engage with others will do better than others.
You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give any. But I know many single guys who do well. Very well. The kind that would never have to complain about how hard life on Fab is.
Certain things work in someone's favour and others work against them. The key is minimising the latter. 
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"OP the ratios have always been single guy top heavy. Always.
But that is NOT what stops all men getting meets.
Those that know how best to portray themselves and engage with others will do better than others.
You haven't asked for profile advice so I won't give any. But I know many single guys who do well. Very well. The kind that would never have to complain about how hard life on Fab is.
Certain things work in someone's favour and others work against them. The key is minimising the latter.
A"
Typo corrected. 
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"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least "
Hi op. The last time I did a mini survey on the forums - which was several years ago - there were 10 time more men than women.
Many guys do themselves no favours though. Having a fairly blank ‘shadow’ profile - or one with mostly/all cock pics will appeal only to other men - not women.
I never open messages where the profile pic is a silhouette or a cock - and neither do many other women. Simply putting effort into your pics and profile text - and attending group socials to get yourself known - will make a huge difference.
However - many guys prefer to have a whine rather than put the effort in.
I’m not referring directly to you here op - just to fab single males in general. X |
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"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least "
Ps …. Just checked out the first page of your pics. They’ll appeal to men - not most women. The torso pics were nice but all the others would be considered off putting to many women. They’re very dick focussed - and all based around ‘look at who I’ve shagged before you!’ |
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"It’s so difficult for york blokes to get a meet but I’m sure it’s because I’d say there’s 70% more men than women on this site at least
Ps …. Just checked out the first page of your pics. They’ll appeal to men - not most women. The torso pics were nice but all the others would be considered off putting to many women. They’re very dick focussed - and all based around ‘look at who I’ve shagged before you!’ "
He does have a womans hand around it and can spray 2 ways  |
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If you lived in a different location you’d still have the same issue - nothing to do with York at all.
I’d say the bare back pics with different women and your sole focus on your cock are where your problem lies. And not much effort put into your profile.
But some are happy with it as you’ve met people
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