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A question for the ladies and phone sex
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Hi all, male half here.
I'll start with, I love phone sex (before I get the jokers here, I mean talking sexy on the phone, not putting it in places it doesn't need to be) and in my opinion it's far more fun than webcams. Yet it never really seems a popular option.
A question for women here. Do you enjoy it? Have you ever had really good phone sex? Or if you hate it, what about it don't you enjoy? What was your worst experience?
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"I hate it. I'm such a visual person so it does absolutely nothing for me! Xx"
Interesting, if you weren't able to play with someone in person, what would you prefer as an alternative? Or would you just not want anything? |
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"I hate it. I'm such a visual person so it does absolutely nothing for me! Xx
Interesting, if you weren't able to play with someone in person, what would you prefer as an alternative? Or would you just not want anything?"
Face time or maybe sexting with pictures. If that wasn't an option I wouldn't bother  - definitely wouldn't get into it with someone I hadn't already been physical with.xx |
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"I hate it. I'm such a visual person so it does absolutely nothing for me! Xx"
I'm just curious, but is phone sex really a thing anymore, especially with the advent of modern technology and a plethora of live video messaging/chat apps? |
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"Not for me, never managed to make it sexy rather than a bit cringey/cheesy. That said, the scene in Get Carter is hot.
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I think that is one of the hard parts, making it too 'porno' like with lots of silly talk instead of someone being natural with it. Starting with flirting and then getting into the deeper stuff. |
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I'm just curious, but is phone sex really a thing anymore, especially with the advent of modern technology and a plethora of live video messaging/chat apps?"
For me yes, I generally prefer being able to send voice notes to start. I think you can learn a lot about someone's sex drive better through their voice than sending texts. Sure the odd videos or photo might go back and forth but it makes the experience better.
Personally there's only so much excitement from seeing a girl tug at her breasts or slide something inside herself before it gets a bit same. I'm sure women feel the same about a guy stroking his cock.
Instead talking, you get to explore more kinky ideas and focus on the person, rather than the acts. |
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Maybe with someone I know but not with some random.
When men ask in the forum they seem surprised that no one takes them up on it.
What the random bloke means is ..... I'm horny, I will say dirty things to you and you will act as if it's a turn on even if you find it repulsive cos I need a wank'
He sure as hell wouldn't be the 'dolly' for any woman that takes up his offer.
If I want stimulus I have my own brain to live out my own needs..... that's far better than giving someone instructions or hoping they will hit the mark...... |
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"Maybe with someone I know but not with some random.
When men ask in the forum they seem surprised that no one takes them up on it.
What the random bloke means is ..... I'm horny, I will say dirty things to you and you will act as if it's a turn on even if you find it repulsive cos I need a wank'
He sure as hell wouldn't be the 'dolly' for any woman that takes up his offer.
If I want stimulus I have my own brain to live out my own needs..... that's far better than giving someone instructions or hoping they will hit the mark...... "
what turns you on granny?  |
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I’m with you OP
It’s actually a really visual experience as you both immerse yourselves into whatever reality you are visualising
It makes you imagine and feel everything that you imagine is going on
For me it’s so much better than porn or videos
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