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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Different things to different people. For me the singularly most important asset is "his" brain and with that his confidence, followed by his sense of humour, wit, ability to banter, warmth and last but not least his body which I prefer to be on the strong/ stocky side. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Different things to different people. For me the singularly most important asset is "his" brain and with that his confidence, followed by his sense of humour, wit, ability to banter, warmth and last but not least his body which I prefer to be on the strong/ stocky side. "
Of course it means different things to different people, would there be a fuss if we all liked the same lol
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"Different things to different people. For me the singularly most important asset is "his" brain and with that his confidence, followed by his sense of humour, wit, ability to banter, warmth and last but not least his body which I prefer to be on the strong/ stocky side. Of course it means different things to different people, would there be a fuss if we all liked the same lol"
lol... i noticed you like them up to age 44 - I prefer them older than 44 -Thank goodness  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The mind and how you use it. creativity "
Yes partly, but if you dont look good to the other person/s it matters not, you have to want to fuck them/their body, not their creativity (for me anyway) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Different things to different people. For me the singularly most important asset is "his" brain and with that his confidence, followed by his sense of humour, wit, ability to banter, warmth and last but not least his body which I prefer to be on the strong/ stocky side. "
 I agree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sexy is........ giving me butterflies in my tummy, without even taking your clothes off  "
You got it in one sentance, its the chemistry between two people that's sometimes hard to explain. |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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Just thinking that sometimes people that do not fit the common idea of "good looking" are with very attractive partners... so the mind has got to have an impact somewhere. And lets face it the BDSM scene relies heavily on the mind ... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sexy is a frame of mind, the look in a mans eyes to say 'i want you and i will have you' His confidence, his smell of lust and desire. "
What does lust and desire smell like?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The mind and how you use it. creativity Yes partly, but if you dont look good to the other person/s it matters not, you have to want to fuck them/their body, not their creativity (for me anyway) "
no I understand that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it can be many things
someone's natural charisma and charm
they way they smile or a look in their eye
the way they dress or carry themselves
.... anything that leaves you with that unexpected tingling of excitement and feeling of vulnerability... but not wanting it to go away...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"it can be many things
someone's natural charisma and charm
they way they smile or a look in their eye
the way they dress or carry themselves
.... anything that leaves you with that unexpected tingling of excitement and feeling of vulnerability... but not wanting it to go away...
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That's a pretty good description you have there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Whole package for sure - I was in a Spa once, talking away to people, limited interest. At the end everyone was dressed and it was a whole different light, I went home with this girl who'd been ignoring me all night because she saw I dressed well (at least wasn't in a tracksuit and T-shirt) when I left the place.
For me it can be everything: looks, attitude, music taste, dance moves and all equal factors. |
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