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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I had a phone call from my aunt earlier to say my Nanna (Dad's grandma) is in hospital and its not looking good. She's old but after losing Dad I was so dreading losing another family member. Tonight I need a cuddle, its so rare for me to say that but I'm in need of one tonight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a phone call from my aunt earlier to say my Nanna (Dad's grandma) is in hospital and its not looking good. She's old but after losing Dad I was so dreading losing another family member. Tonight I need a cuddle, its so rare for me to say that but I'm in need of one tonight. "
Hugs go out to you Ruby....
It's not a good start to 2013 by the look of things.... 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone. She's the matriarch of the family. She's a proper Eastend battle axe, wouldn't divorce her husband back in the day so he couldn't marry his girlfriend! Last time I saw her was at Christmas and she wasn't great then to be honest. Just feel crap. |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks everyone. She's the matriarch of the family. She's a proper Eastend battle axe, wouldn't divorce her husband back in the day so he couldn't marry his girlfriend! Last time I saw her was at Christmas and she wasn't great then to be honest. Just feel crap. "
Sounds the same as my late nanna.
Thoughts are with you and your nan xxx |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm at that awful stage of trying to decide whether to go down to Sussex and see her or not. It's a long trip not sure what to do. "
Weigh up what it would mean to you if you did not get to see her again. I was in that position once and I regret to the day that I did not decide earlier to travel.
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm at that awful stage of trying to decide whether to go down to Sussex and see her or not. It's a long trip not sure what to do. "
Do what you feel is right.
But dont drive in a state xx take care x |
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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm at that awful stage of trying to decide whether to go down to Sussex and see her or not. It's a long trip not sure what to do.
Do what you feel is right.
But dont drive in a state xx take care x"
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By *haunMan
over a year ago
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Really sorry to hear this Ruby.
Not the start for 2013 that you were looking for.
(BIG HUGS) from me with a long holding cuddle.
And a difficult one regarding going down to see her..
As mentioned, don't drive while in a state.
And I know it is a long drive but will you regret not going?
A personal choice and decision you have to make.
A tough decision to make, so try and rest tonight and think about it over night.
Take care.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm at that awful stage of trying to decide whether to go down to Sussex and see her or not. It's a long trip not sure what to do. "
If your close make the trip (((hugz))) x |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry to hear this. There isn't anything you can do for her now so try and sleep on it and see what you want to do in the morning.
Go if it is on your mind to, there is always things to do. Take care and have a hug from me too. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've spoken to the hospital. She's stable tonight but the infection she has is aggressive. The consultant is seeing her in the morning. I'll know more then. Thanks everyone particularly to roxy for chat on the phone and cali for being there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just spoken to my mum. Its bad news, she's slipping away and there's nothing they can do. To say I'm upset is an understatement. Thank you to everyone who's sent me PMs so far, you know who you are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know how your feeling.
Huge hugs xx
My nan passed away 2 days ago, news years eve, still trying to get my head around it all. Xx"
Big hugs to you, deepest sympathies to you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Please accept our condolences to both forumites who lost loved ones recently. It's never a good time to lose a loved one but losing them at Xmas/New Year must be awful for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had a phone call from my aunt earlier to say my Nanna (Dad's grandma) is in hospital and its not looking good. She's old but after losing Dad I was so dreading losing another family member. Tonight I need a cuddle, its so rare for me to say that but I'm in need of one tonight. "
Big hug my lovely and wishing you and your family well xxx |
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"Please accept our condolences to both forumites who lost loved ones recently. It's never a good time to lose a loved one but losing them at Xmas/New Year must be awful for you. "
By posts on here Wishy there are many more than 2.
Thoughts and prayers with everyone who have lost |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Please accept our condolences to both forumites who lost loved ones recently. It's never a good time to lose a loved one but losing them at Xmas/New Year must be awful for you.
By posts on here Wishy there are many more than 2.
Thoughts and prayers with everyone who have lost"
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ur loses r heavens gains they needed special angels,dont think there not around u just because u carnt see them.there will be smells that appear from no wear that remind u of them.5yrs ago i lost 7family members in 7months 1 of them the father to my 3 children.its hard at times but i have fantastic memories an thats what keeps mean my kids going .big hugs to all that need 1 xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So much bad news going around at the moment thinking of you ruby, go see her when you can xxx"
I'm not going to be able to. I just spoke to my grandpa who said not to come down. They've no idea of time frames but that coming down will only upset me. |
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"So much bad news going around at the moment thinking of you ruby, go see her when you can xxx
I'm not going to be able to. I just spoke to my grandpa who said not to come down. They've no idea of time frames but that coming down will only upset me. "
do what you feel is right....if you want to go and see her then see her. if you dont then you may regret it in the future.
Yes, it will be upsetting, its never nice to see the people we love hurting so you will have to ready yourself for that.
big hugs again to you x x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So much bad news going around at the moment thinking of you ruby, go see her when you can xxx
I'm not going to be able to. I just spoke to my grandpa who said not to come down. They've no idea of time frames but that coming down will only upset me.
do what you feel is right....if you want to go and see her then see her. if you dont then you may regret it in the future.
Yes, it will be upsetting, its never nice to see the people we love hurting so you will have to ready yourself for that.
big hugs again to you x x "
I trust my grandpa. He will be totally honest with me and I don't like the thought of her lying in a hospital bed. I will take his guidance on it. Its bringing stuff about my dad back too which is hard. |
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