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Ever payed a compliment and then got blocked
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once got blocked the quickest imaginable way. I sent a message saying I'd been to her town and know how damn ugly it is so it must be thought being a rose amongst thorns and honestly, the speed in which she read and blocked was baffling. Maybe 3 seconds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How many times has this happened to ya’ll"
I've been blocked by people I've not directly communicated with
I don't need to waste time with compliments. |
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"[Removed by poster at 08/02/23 21:40:33]
You’ll get there _viatrix
Me and jetlag don’t get on very well… should be getting ready for the long slog home instead of fabbing!  "
You look stunning…. Happy to get blocked by you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 08/02/23 21:40:33]
You’ll get there _viatrix
Me and jetlag don’t get on very well… should be getting ready for the long slog home instead of fabbing! "
 well I am glad you posted so as to have a perv at your profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No but I once gave a friendly bit of advice to a woman who mentioned she only meets guys at her place even though she had a very young child.
I simply told her to be very careful who you invite home.
Her response was "Don't patronise me!"
and then I was blocked. |
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"Personally, I don't really want random compliments, from people I'm not interested in.
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So would you prefer to make the initial contact to save you from getting compliments and avoid unwanted attention |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No but I once gave a friendly bit of advice to a woman who mentioned she only meets guys at her place even though she had a very young child.
I simply told her to be very careful who you invite home.
Her response was "Don't patronise me!"
and then I was blocked."
She was right though, you were patronising her a tad
She'd have already weighed everything up, as an adult |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't pay compliments.
Problem solved.
How does one get your attention or do you call the shots "
Do you only announce your arrival with a complimentary?
Hello is pretty reliable. |
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Yes. Once.
Which was interesting due to the fact that she messaged me first. She was, however, kind enough in her temerity to inform me that it was my loss.
That last part always confuses me because I struggle to reason with stupidity. |
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"I'm not directing this specifically at you OP as I have no idea what you said, but I fear what a lot of men on here consider a compliment may not be received as one"
Ok so this is what I had said
“It’s a shame your so far away”
Response
“You’ve never been with a Nepalese woman”
My response
“Didn’t even realise you were Nepalese but your very beautiful”
Next thing I’m blocked
I guess I deserved it coz I’ve never been with a Nepalese woman before  |
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"She just didn't like the cut of your jib"
^^ this
Don’t give it a second thought OP. You were too far away for a start, and probably not what she was looking for either.
Please don’t name on the forum though as it is against the rules for a good reason and you will be put on the naughty step I’m sure.
Grasp the positives. She wasn’t for you and now you can’t message her again  |
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"Maybe it was a creepy compliment.
You have beautiful eyes, I'd love to pop them out of your skull with my penis.
Something like that? "
You forgot the part where you offer me money to hide my knickers up a tree or in a dog poo bin or whatever. |
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"Maybe it was a creepy compliment.
You have beautiful eyes, I'd love to pop them out of your skull with my penis.
Something like that?
You forgot the part where you offer me money to hide my knickers up a tree or in a dog poo bin or whatever."
I never offer money, that is really creepy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am I the only one on here who is surprised by how surprised others get by what happens on here ?
It’s Fab. No rules. No rhyme. No reason.
Just play the game. Ask no questions. Hear no lies. |
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I don’t often pay compliments but actually did today. I wasn’t interested in the guy but thought he had a superb profile, so I told him so but prefaced it by saying it wasn’t a come on.
Receiving compliments can be lovely, but like the person said above I don’t really enjoy it if it’s from someone I don’t find attractive. My experience is that, like you OP, a compliment is often used as an icebreaker. If that person isn’t what I’m looking for I want to avoid the conversation escalating so I do use the block button.
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"Personally, I don't really want random compliments, from people I'm not interested in.
So would you prefer to make the initial contact to save you from getting compliments and avoid unwanted attention "
Oh.
Yes please.
Safely assume that if I haven't contacted you then I'm not interested in compliments from you. It sounds perfectly reasonable to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm not directing this specifically at you OP as I have no idea what you said, but I fear what a lot of men on here consider a compliment may not be received as one
Ok so this is what I had said
“It’s a shame your so far away”
Response
“You’ve never been with a Nepalese woman”
My response
“Didn’t even realise you were Nepalese but your very beautiful”
Next thing I’m blocked
I guess I deserved it coz I’ve never been with a Nepalese woman before "
Perhaps it was mentioned in her profile so it was clear that you hadn't read it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once got blocked the quickest imaginable way. I sent a message saying I'd been to her town and know how damn ugly it is so it must be thought being a rose amongst thorns and honestly, the speed in which she read and blocked was baffling. Maybe 3 seconds."
We've thought about it and you've never paid either of us a compliment   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a thought OP.
Some here, block just to avoid contact.
If they feel they won't have interest, rather than be pulled into a conversation, and feel pressured to say no thank you, they block.
It's nothing personal to you, for some reason you're not what they're looking for.
I wonder what the compliment was, because that's another thing, they might not have seen it the way you have.
We all deal with things differently, and maybe they were correct to block, as your response of a status and forum thread to rejection is enough to put many off.
They chose to do what they wanted with their profile.
Unfortunately, that mean in this case, restricting contact with you.
I wonder how many others they blocked on the same day.
Enjoy the positive aspect this site can bring, don't allow how others use it to offend you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I once got blocked the quickest imaginable way. I sent a message saying I'd been to her town and know how damn ugly it is so it must be thought being a rose amongst thorns and honestly, the speed in which she read and blocked was baffling. Maybe 3 seconds.
We've thought about it and you've never paid either of us a compliment "
I said the Mr was a sweetie once. Mrs gets none on account of being an ASS  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol... Yet another thread on this. It very obviously happens constantly to us guys. Follow all the advice on here from the ladies and get blocked straight off... It's really quite demoralising isn't it (qué the white knight brigade appearing to offer further advice!) ..
Wouldn't waste so much of your time creating literary nirvana for your readers OP, short and sweet and introduce yourself is the best ... Leave it at that. The genuine nice attractive ladies do reply in fact .. so shows it can be done. |
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I’ve blocked people who consistently send me messages even though I’d made it clear they’re not my type. Most of the messages were compliments but I didn’t want to keep getting daily messages from them |
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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago
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A friendly message showing you have read their profile, not just looked at the pictures is the best way. A random compliment knowing she lived miles away is a bit weird and the wording you used is dreadful. Despite being from that country you thought she was beautiful. That's actually a huge insult.
Moaning about it on here and on your status isn't a good move either. |
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"I’ve blocked people who consistently send me messages even though I’d made it clear they’re not my type. Most of the messages were compliments but I didn’t want to keep getting daily messages from them "
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JåmiePånts, you forgot to insert a full stop at the end of that lamenting remark. |
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"I’ve blocked people who consistently send me messages even though I’d made it clear they’re not my type. Most of the messages were compliments but I didn’t want to keep getting daily messages from them
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JåmiePånts, you forgot to insert a full stop at the end of that lamenting remark. "
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"I’ve blocked people who consistently send me messages even though I’d made it clear they’re not my type. Most of the messages were compliments but I didn’t want to keep getting daily messages from them
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JåmiePånts, you forgot to insert a full stop at the end of that lamenting remark.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only give compliments to those I'm already talking to. Other than that, I'll rarely send the first and if I do, I might compliment them on their profile but won't specify any body part because I imagine they can only read "your tits are wicked" so many times. |
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"I only give compliments to those I'm already talking to. Other than that, I'll rarely send the first and if I do, I might compliment them on their profile but won't specify any body part because I imagine they can only read "your tits are wicked" so many times."
I’ve never once been told my tits are wicked and now I’m pissed off that I haven’t. What a day ruiner |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"I only give compliments to those I'm already talking to. Other than that, I'll rarely send the first and if I do, I might compliment them on their profile but won't specify any body part because I imagine they can only read "your tits are wicked" so many times.
I’ve never once been told my tits are wicked and now I’m pissed off that I haven’t. What a day ruiner "
don't worry I'm sure you will in 5... 4... 3... 2... 1... |
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"Personally, I don't really want random compliments, from people I'm not interested in.
So would you prefer to make the initial contact to save you from getting compliments and avoid unwanted attention "
If someone read my profile, and could tell they weren't my type/what I'm looking for/lived too far away... I'd rather they just didn't say anything. There's thousands of women with hot pics they can Fab and pay compliments to. |
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"Lol... Yet another thread on this. It very obviously happens constantly to us guys. Follow all the advice on here from the ladies and get blocked straight off... It's really quite demoralising isn't it (qué the white knight brigade appearing to offer further advice!) ..
Wouldn't waste so much of your time creating literary nirvana for your readers OP, short and sweet and introduce yourself is the best ... Leave it at that. The genuine nice attractive ladies do reply in fact .. so shows it can be done."
Ohhhh, so it’s only non genuine, unpleasant, unattractive ladies that don’t reply/block? Got it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All part and parcel of playing on Fabs. The benefits far outweigh the negatives. Opportunity to meet and connect with like minded peeps to have an abundance (NSA discreet) fun of getting down and sticky, makes it all worthwhile. A good few blocks, who cares. The peeps we connect with and meet is what really matters. |
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Sometimes what people (mainly men) think is a compliment, very much isn’t. You may not like this, you may weep and wail about how women can’t take a joke or are ‘up themselves’ but you don’t get to decide what other people think.
Move on and realise they just aren’t a good fit for you. |
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