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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just had a first message that had a "X" has the subject line, then all the message consisted of was yet another "X". Honestly how do u even dignify that with a response when they obviously can't be arsed! |
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How many messages have you sent people? Do men tend to send the first message? I always seem to send the first message and it is more imaginative than X but it's really difficult. Maybe he was just seeing if you had any interest before writing to you properly. It's not a great way of doing things granted but I have to say it is incredibly difficult thinking of something to say in a first message xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"2 kisses ! You women can be so ungrateful sometimes 
I think at least 4. And a smiley face. Anything less gets delete and block!! Lol x "
You do realise you just set yourself up for a deluge of those now in your inbox LOL  |
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"2 kisses ! You women can be so ungrateful sometimes
I think at least 4. And a smiley face. Anything less gets delete and block!! Lol x
You do realise you just set yourself up for a deluge of those now in your inbox LOL "
Oh arse I didn't think of that! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2 kisses ! You women can be so ungrateful sometimes
I think at least 4. And a smiley face. Anything less gets delete and block!! Lol x
You do realise you just set yourself up for a deluge of those now in your inbox LOL
Sorry, couldn't help myself
Oh arse I didn't think of that! X "
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"2 kisses ! You women can be so ungrateful sometimes
I think at least 4. And a smiley face. Anything less gets delete and block!! Lol x
You do realise you just set yourself up for a deluge of those now in your inbox LOL
Sorry, couldn't help myself
Oh arse I didn't think of that! X "
I'm gonna send you 3. Do your worst Miss Hottie  |
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"Just had a first message that had a "X" has the subject line, then all the message consisted of was yet another "X". Honestly how do u even dignify that with a response when they obviously can't be arsed! "
X lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"How many messages have you sent people? Do men tend to send the first message? I always seem to send the first message and it is more imaginative than X but it's really difficult. Maybe he was just seeing if you had any interest before writing to you properly. It's not a great way of doing things granted but I have to say it is incredibly difficult thinking of something to say in a first message xx"
So starting a message with hi, I'm X name, age, came across your profile and wondered if you care to chat.
Messages that are lazy and just type x get deleted by me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously can't be bothered to waste his time writing a message. Lets face it 99.9% of them are ignored . "
I answer every message that's made an effort, I won't answer those that don't though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Obviously can't be bothered to waste his time writing a message. Lets face it 99.9% of them are ignored .
I answer every message that's made an effort, I won't answer those that don't though"
 absolutely agree its obvious who has read your profile n taken time to try n cater to wot u want n they at least deserve a response. The fancy a fuck chancers n guys that can't be arsed to think of anything to really say get deleted simple |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"How many messages have you sent people? Do men tend to send the first message? I always seem to send the first message and it is more imaginative than X but it's really difficult. Maybe he was just seeing if you had any interest before writing to you properly. It's not a great way of doing things granted but I have to say it is incredibly difficult thinking of something to say in a first message xx"
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I'm confident enough to send a first message to potential meets but I take the time to cater the message to suit their needs and giv compliments on photos etc if they choose to delete or say no thanks that's their choice it's still a no either way u just need to move into the next |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I rarely get short messages,by the time you have moaned on here about the ones that you don't want , you could have messaged the ones you do want. Most guys on here are great. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"we all get mesages we dont want.
sometimes its fun to just go with it and discover the person behind it.
they maybe very nervous? who knows."
If they are so nervous they can only type x they are bound sure to cum in their pants on the meet |
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"I rarely get short messages,by the time you have moaned on here about the ones that you don't want , you could have messaged the ones you do want. Most guys on here are great. "
Bravo best message I've seen in ages. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all get mesages we dont want.
sometimes its fun to just go with it and discover the person behind it.
they maybe very nervous? who knows.
If they are so nervous they can only type x they are bound sure to cum in their pants on the meet "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all get mesages we dont want.
sometimes its fun to just go with it and discover the person behind it.
they maybe very nervous? who knows.
If they are so nervous they can only type x they are bound sure to cum in their pants on the meet "
Maybe it's the only key not permanently stuck down on the keyboard!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a first message that had a "X" has the subject line, then all the message consisted of was yet another "X". Honestly how do u even dignify that with a response when they obviously can't be arsed! "
Actually most of the messages I've had from women have an 'x' as the title and I'm absolutely fine with it and just happy that someone has been interested enough in my profile to message me - He's just trying to get your attention - you know? like winking? How do you get someone's attention in a club or bar ...you usually smile at them, not hand them a list of dos and don't.
God I'm sick of women moaning on here - it's a swinging site with a vast amount of horny men in it - get over yourselves and have fun.
stop moaning and be flattered or don't answer - simple. God, women, always moaning lol
That's presuming it was from a women haha
Rant over with... |
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"Obviously can't be bothered to waste his time writing a message. Lets face it 99.9% of them are ignored .
I answer every message that's made an effort, I won't answer those that don't though"
ditto..
plucking a percentage figure out of the air to give 'gravitas' to your view is just cobblers with no factal evidence to support it.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just had a first message that had a "X" has the subject line, then all the message consisted of was yet another "X". Honestly how do u even dignify that with a response when they obviously can't be arsed!
Actually most of the messages I've had from women have an 'x' as the title and I'm absolutely fine with it and just happy that someone has been interested enough in my profile to message me - He's just trying to get your attention - you know? like winking? How do you get someone's attention in a club or bar ...you usually smile at them, not hand them a list of dos and don't.
God I'm sick of women moaning on here - it's a swinging site with a vast amount of horny men in it - get over yourselves and have fun.
stop moaning and be flattered or don't answer - simple. God, women, always moaning lol
That's presuming it was from a women haha
Rant over with..."
Not up myself Hun just giving my OP same as u given yours n I'm having plenty of fun just with people I consider to be worth my time n effort that's the point I was trying to make |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just had a first message that had a "X" has the subject line, then all the message consisted of was yet another "X". Honestly how do u even dignify that with a response when they obviously can't be arsed! "
Maybe some put the amount of effort in according to the attraction, likelihood of and outcome and estimated chance of response. It could well be the fact that upon reading your profile the person in question didn't feel there was much of a chance of a response and may have only been marginally attracted so put only a small amount of effort in. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just had a first message that had a "X" has the subject line, then all the message consisted of was yet another "X". Honestly how do u even dignify that with a response when they obviously can't be arsed!
Maybe some put the amount of effort in according to the attraction, likelihood of and outcome and estimated chance of response. It could well be the fact that upon reading your profile the person in question didn't feel there was much of a chance of a response and may have only been marginally attracted so put only a small amount of effort in. "
Fair point but if that's the case why bother in the first place as I would have thought that it was obvious there wouldn't be a reply! |
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