Having had to make the decision to turn his machines of today as there was no brain activity. He has just passed away peacefully. Thankyou all for all your thoughts well wishes, friendship and kindness over the last 10 days |
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Please accept our condolences Karen at what must be a difficult time for you yet you still came online and let us know of your loss. With release comes peace and he will forever live inside your heart and memories.
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Karen, I am sorry you had to make the decision but know it is the right one. Letting him linger on with no brain activity would have been a torment for all of you.
Allow yourself time to grieve.
My condolences and thoughts are with you xxx |
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Love to you and your family Karen, hard decision but the right one. Hope you can get the comfort and peace you deserve from doing the best you could all his life. Remember the good times you had and let those thoughts keep you warm.
You are loved here by complete strangers as well as friends
You are in my thoughts and prayers xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Karen you have been amazing, an amazing daughter and you always will be, every memory will be treasured and your father is at peace now, sorely missed, gone but never forgotten.
You are all in our thoughts, our sincere condolences to you and your family.
After the arrangements are made and one more hurdle to face, give yourself time and you will heal.
Such a raw time for you emotionally right now, I feel your pain.
But we are all here and M and I wish you well in such a sad time.
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So sorry for your loss Karen. I can only imagine what you must be going through. Be there for your family and they will be there for you.
We will all be here to support you and do what we all can when you come back on. |
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Oh Karen, im so sorry to hear this very sad news. Our deepest sympathy goes to you and your family.
We will be thinking of you.
Take care, and god bless you.
Here if you want to chat xxx
Love julie and dave x |
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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago
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So sorry to hear this sad news.
As others have already said, you made the right decision, wouldn't have been right for your dad, you or the rest of the family to let him linger. Don't ever berate yourselves for making this decision.
Take care of yourselves, we are all here to offer words of support should you need us.
Huge hugs for you and all your family xxx |
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"Thankyou all, i havent slept but i have a spotlessly clean house lol. Its still far to early to ring people, i have a calm peacefulness about me, which to me seems strange"
Just remember to look after yourself...Thoughts are with you... xx |
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I'm so sorry honey. My love,and condolences to you and all tour family.
It's a hard and horrible time and you know where we all are if you need to vent or rant (don't feel you have to save it for a Thursday) or if you just need some silliness.
You are in my thoughts.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry for your loss. I've been through similar and its not very nice to experience but its also not a good place for them either. Celebrate his life and remember the good times. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi Karen
We haven't really spoken on here, but I thought it would be good to offer sympathy from a lurker/sometimes poster on here.
If it's any help when my father died a few years ago, I found the pain of his passing was eased somewhat by trying not to dwell in the period of his illness, but focusing on some of the good times he and I spent together. It helped me. x |
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"Thankyou all, i havent slept but i have a spotlessly clean house lol. Its still far to early to ring people, i have a calm peacefulness about me, which to me seems strange"
Your body and mind will be on auto pilot , just be careful to not overdo it. Xx |
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so sorry for you and your family karen,may your dad be at peace now,and i think i can safely speak for all your fellow forumites and say if you ever need to talk or get things off your chest were all here for you ,look after yourself hunny xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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sorry to hear about your dad karen.
i know how it feels. my friend died just before christmas and although she was a good age, 91, it was a sad time especialy for her family. |
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So sorry to hear the news Karen, but I am sure your Dad would have told you did both the right thing and the best you could for him, under the circumstances.
Our thoughts are with you and your family.
S and L xxxx |
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"Thankyou all, i havent slept but i have a spotlessly clean house lol. Its still far to early to ring people, i have a calm peacefulness about me, which to me seems strange
Your body and mind will be on auto pilot , just be careful to not overdo it. Xx"
Karen, my deepest sympathy and condolences to you and your family. I concur with Julie as well.
We are all here for you. |
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"Having had to make the decision to turn his machines of today as there was no brain activity. He has just passed away peacefully. Thankyou all for all your thoughts well wishes, friendship and kindness over the last 10 days"
Well best wishes at this time and hope you find solace and a release. |
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