There’s been lots of dating threads popping up and I have been thinking more that I might want to actually put myself out there a bit and even go on a date….maybe!
But what would be your ideal idea of a date be? Obviously it depends on the person you’re on the date with and that kind of vibe you have with each other but this thread is all about you 
Do you tend to go with the more traditional dinner and drinks or do an activity of some sort? Set the scene for me as I’m in a romancey mood  |
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My old go to when I was in London was the Tate Modern, do an exhibition and have a chat in the members bar after. Always thought it was a good place to out uninteresting people. Didn’t like the art, no problem but why didn’t you like it? Got an interesting answer, on to a winner.
Cheeky detail is that it closes pretty early, so if the dates a dud, you’ve got an early morning. Date goes well, let’s get some late dinner.  |
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I've had some charming dates alongside rivers, in Botanic Gardens, on riverside walks, in pubs, restaurants, museums...I think, as with gifts, the most important thing is not the place itself as much as the idea that it is personally-chosen to suit the person you are with. |
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"My old go to when I was in London was the Tate Modern, do an exhibition and have a chat in the members bar after. Always thought it was a good place to out uninteresting people. Didn’t like the art, no problem but why didn’t you like it? Got an interesting answer, on to a winner.
Cheeky detail is that it closes pretty early, so if the dates a dud, you’ve got an early morning. Date goes well, let’s get some late dinner. "
Oooo I like this idea! I would be so keen for that actually! I would be the silly one though making up my own interpretations of the art as I’m not very good at being cultured but I guess that’s part of the fun of this date! Plus always got talking points if the other person isn’t very chatty |
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Not long ago had the most perfect dates. One in a very cozy pub with a fireplace and fairylights and another one in a natural history museum. There's no one size fit all, but knowing the person you're taking on that date and their likes, it's usually a good indicator. |
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I would probbaly enjoy a walk somewhere, not uphill unlesss you dont mind carrying me when I start wheezing and my knees creak. Take in a pub on the way or a little tea shop. |
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Oooo I like this idea! I would be so keen for that actually! I would be the silly one though making up my own interpretations of the art as I’m not very good at being cultured but I guess that’s part of the fun of this date! Plus always got talking points if the other person isn’t very chatty "
Oh yeah, silliness just adds to the fun. If arts an interpretation of life, there is definitely some room for a few giggles.
Silliness is equal to or greater than actual art critique  |
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"activity
bowling, climbing, crazy golf and gigs 
Oooo I think I’m secretly quite competitive so a ln activity like those would definitely make me wanna beat them "
2 out of 3? |
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"I've had some charming dates alongside rivers, in Botanic Gardens, on riverside walks, in pubs, restaurants, museums...I think, as with gifts, the most important thing is not the place itself as much as the idea that it is personally-chosen to suit the person you are with. "
Aww a botanic gardens sounds lovely! To be honest the times that I’ve actually tried new things where I love have been on dates, normally I’m so bad at actually exploring and appreciating what is around me!
But yes it does depend on the person |
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"Ikea genuinely!
A Chase and Status gig
Crazy golf
The Crime Museum
I’ll stop there. I like an unusual date "
IKEA! Never ever thought about it before but now yi have I love it more and more! You could even have a wee cuddle in the demo bed….maybe not super romantic/appropriate in public but oooo then have meatballs too!
The crime museum would be so fascinating! |
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"I've had some charming dates alongside rivers, in Botanic Gardens, on riverside walks, in pubs, restaurants, museums...I think, as with gifts, the most important thing is not the place itself as much as the idea that it is personally-chosen to suit the person you are with. "
Or sometimes just by accident & chance. That’s a good date! |
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"I've had some charming dates alongside rivers, in Botanic Gardens, on riverside walks, in pubs, restaurants, museums...I think, as with gifts, the most important thing is not the place itself as much as the idea that it is personally-chosen to suit the person you are with.
Or sometimes just by accident & chance. That’s a good date!"
That is beautiful, yes, when you that kind of serendipity. Or, if it were me, more likely just accidentally screwing up by walking in the wrong direction. I am quite capable of ending up in entirely the wrong place. I like to think I'm also capable of making the most of wherever I am. |
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"Ikea genuinely!
A Chase and Status gig
Crazy golf
The Crime Museum
I’ll stop there. I like an unusual date
IKEA! Never ever thought about it before but now yi have I love it more and more! You could even have a wee cuddle in the demo bed….maybe not super romantic/appropriate in public but oooo then have meatballs too!
The crime museum would be so fascinating! "
Oh cuddles and meatballs sounds great…. Let’s do that  |
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"Ikea genuinely!
A Chase and Status gig
Crazy golf
The Crime Museum
I’ll stop there. I like an unusual date
IKEA! Never ever thought about it before but now yi have I love it more and more! You could even have a wee cuddle in the demo bed….maybe not super romantic/appropriate in public but oooo then have meatballs too!
The crime museum would be so fascinating!
Oh cuddles and meatballs sounds great…. Let’s do that "
I need some cushion pads  |
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"I've had some charming dates alongside rivers, in Botanic Gardens, on riverside walks, in pubs, restaurants, museums...I think, as with gifts, the most important thing is not the place itself as much as the idea that it is personally-chosen to suit the person you are with.
Or sometimes just by accident & chance. That’s a good date!
That is beautiful, yes, when you that kind of serendipity. Or, if it were me, more likely just accidentally screwing up by walking in the wrong direction. I am quite capable of ending up in entirely the wrong place. I like to think I'm also capable of making the most of wherever I am."
One of my best dates was just that….
Hilariously - I would never have known had he not told me because I’m thick.
But if someone tries to take you somewhere they genuinely think you’ll enjoy, or should see…. Perfection |
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One of my best dates was just that….
Hilariously - I would never have known had he not told me because I’m thick.
But if someone tries to take you somewhere they genuinely think you’ll enjoy, or should see…. Perfection "
It is…unless you think it’s a date and turns out it wasn’t |
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One of my best dates was just that….
Hilariously - I would never have known had he not told me because I’m thick.
But if someone tries to take you somewhere they genuinely think you’ll enjoy, or should see…. Perfection
It is…unless you think it’s a date and turns out it wasn’t "
Oh yeah. I’ve done that too. Slightly embarrassing, but you just have to style it out… |
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Well I love quaint country pubs, so my ideal date would be chatting over a few drinks,getting to know one another,then a quiet stroll ,then take it from there |
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