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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Messaged a woman earlier about her status, light hearted bit of humour.....those who know me know I take the piss 99% of the time (Drama Freee!)
Anyway, exchanged a few trivial messages back and forth, to which she then said;
'You look like you would actually talk to me if we met'
She said you would be surprised how many don't, I was blown away. For someone, male or female to feel that way is horrendous. I didn't know what to say!!
Everyone is worth something to someone, just because some space cadet on here sends a shit message etc, doesn't mean anything in the 'real world'
Fat, skinny, black, white or green. Makes no odds. Be happy, be humble. Life is farrrr too short!! ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Messaged a woman earlier about her status, light hearted bit of humour.....those who know me know I take the piss 99% of the time (Drama Freee!)
Anyway, exchanged a few trivial messages back and forth, to which she then said;
'You look like you would actually talk to me if we met'
She said you would be surprised how many don't, I was blown away. For someone, male or female to feel that way is horrendous. I didn't know what to say!!
Everyone is worth something to someone, just because some space cadet on here sends a shit message etc, doesn't mean anything in the 'real world'
Fat, skinny, black, white or green. Makes no odds. Be happy, be humble. Life is farrrr too short!! "
I agree with everything, except the green part.
If its green go to the doctors already! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I don't understand.
Why would this woman meet people who don't talk to her? Or is she saying random people don't?
But you get forum women complaining about men trying to find ins for sending similar messages. Like how dare they have the audacity to message them when they hate all mankind bar when they're validating their fragile egos.
So what do poor menfolk do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't understand.
Why would this woman meet people who don't talk to her? Or is she saying random people don't?
But you get forum women complaining about men trying to find ins for sending similar messages. Like how dare they have the audacity to message them when they hate all mankind bar when they're validating their fragile egos.
So what do poor menfolk do? "
Agreed. And the poor menfolk get told to suck it up...
Nice sentiment though and in an ideal world |
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I’m confused. ( I know doesn’t take much ) so she plans meets off here and the bloke just turns up and sits there saying nothing ?
I can imagine that being very awkward to two people looking at each doing that side smile thing you do when you make eye contact with a randomer. ( or is that also just me ? )
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"I’m confused. ( I know doesn’t take much ) so she plans meets off here and the bloke just turns up and sits there saying nothing ?
I can imagine that being very awkward to two people looking at each doing that side smile thing you do when you make eye contact with a randomer. ( or is that also just me ? )
The mr "
I know. And where does the shit message come into it?
Who feels bad, and doesn't know their worth? The person who can't speak?! So confused. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m confused. ( I know doesn’t take much ) so she plans meets off here and the bloke just turns up and sits there saying nothing ?
I can imagine that being very awkward to two people looking at each doing that side smile thing you do when you make eye contact with a randomer. ( or is that also just me ? )
The mr
I know. And where does the shit message come into it?
Who feels bad, and doesn't know their worth? The person who can't speak?! So confused. "
I also thought all the above.
Maybe she's meeting mutes? Or maybe she's in a silent movie from 1950? |
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"I’m confused. ( I know doesn’t take much ) so she plans meets off here and the bloke just turns up and sits there saying nothing ?
I can imagine that being very awkward to two people looking at each doing that side smile thing you do when you make eye contact with a randomer. ( or is that also just me ? )
The mr
I know. And where does the shit message come into it?
Who feels bad, and doesn't know their worth? The person who can't speak?! So confused.
I also thought all the above.
Maybe she's meeting mutes? Or maybe she's in a silent movie from 1950?"
She needs to stop going to meet dates in Paris. |
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I'm struggling to understand the link between a space cadet sending a crap message and those who don't talk when they actually meet?
I'm also struggling to understand how any of that manifests in knowing your own worth?
If two people meet and one isn't very communicative how does that reflect on the other person's worth?
A proper conversation involves both parties and if one expects the other to carry the load they can't really complain if they stumble under the weight. |
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"I'm struggling to understand the link between a space cadet sending a crap message and those who don't talk when they actually meet?
I'm also struggling to understand how any of that manifests in knowing your own worth?
If two people meet and one isn't very communicative how does that reflect on the other person's worth?
A proper conversation involves both parties and if one expects the other to carry the load they can't really complain if they stumble under the weight. "
All I know is the women lapped it up and I should make another love everyone thread soon... ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Messaged a woman earlier about her status, light hearted bit of humour.....those who know me know I take the piss 99% of the time (Drama Freee!)
Anyway, exchanged a few trivial messages back and forth, to which she then said;
'You look like you would actually talk to me if we met'
She said you would be surprised how many don't, I was blown away. For someone, male or female to feel that way is horrendous. I didn't know what to say!!
Everyone is worth something to someone, just because some space cadet on here sends a shit message etc, doesn't mean anything in the 'real world'
Fat, skinny, black, white or green. Makes no odds. Be happy, be humble. Life is farrrr too short!! "
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"I'm struggling to understand the link between a space cadet sending a crap message and those who don't talk when they actually meet?
I'm also struggling to understand how any of that manifests in knowing your own worth?
If two people meet and one isn't very communicative how does that reflect on the other person's worth?
A proper conversation involves both parties and if one expects the other to carry the load they can't really complain if they stumble under the weight.
All I know is the women lapped it up and I should make another love everyone thread soon... "
Can we check in with each other beforehand so yours and mine doesn't clash? |
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