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At what age where you when you questioned your sexuality.
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As strange as it might seem, I don't think I ever have questioned my sexuality. Probably because I don't question myself about anything. I just wasn't brought up that way.
Sure, there was a first time with a girl of legal age and I had an experience. There was a first time with a boy of legal age and I had an experience. I've never "compared" them to each other nor considered the biological differences. Just made the most of what was available at the time.
I didn't think (and still don't think), “I did this, so I must be that”.
I thought then (and think now), "I did this, and it was nice."
I guess, from reading forums and other folk's own personal experiences, I have been very very lucky indeed and I do count my blessings and feel very sad for others because of their difficulties with self-identification.
It's one of the reasons I support any individual wishing to change their gender, or express themselves in any way that makes them happy.
I can think of nothing more soul-destroying than not being happy in your own skin. Let alone how others might make that feeling even worse for the individual.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always thought some of my female friends were very pretty from a young age.
It was only as I got onto my teenage years that I realised not everyone felt that way and it was something that you kept quiet about because it wasn’t considered “normal”
I never questioned it. |
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I never questioned it. Always was attracted to women but not men. But also knew I liked the idea of playing with another guys cock. I've pretty much always thought I'll try most things and only say I don't like them after I've tried a few times  |
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over a year ago
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36, when I realised not straight as I'd liked to have believed - thanks to a chance meeting with a Brazilian Goddess at a New Year's Eve party; (some have said I was unlucky, but I believe was blessed to have met such a wonderful human being that led to a steady 6# months relationship).  |
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I thought about it a little around 14 and again about 37.
Alice had an experience with a girl at 14, then a 4some that involved play with another woman at 30. But she didnt really consider herself bisexual until 43. |
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"I thought about it a little around 14 and again about 37.
Alice had an experience with a girl at 14, then a 4some that involved play with another woman at 30. But she didnt really consider herself bisexual until 43. "
Still evolving and only just getting comfortable with that at 37. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I didn't so much question my sexuality ... Rather, It questioned me.
Can't remember what age all this 'questioning started' .... Only wish I hadn't erroneously seen it as a problem for so many years.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never did, it just was never an issue or an internal conflict.
My first kiss and sexual experiences were with a girl before any notion of right/wrong was even on my horizon. We were young and curious etc.
Maybe because I crossed that line early and naturally there was no 'should I/would I' internal debate.
Guys have always been my primary romantic attraction but there are certain types of female body or personality/energy that just make me go Oooooft  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight
Not so much for whether more like when you started to feel something else as in sexual attraction
Something else like what "
Curious |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight
Not so much for whether more like when you started to feel something else as in sexual attraction
Something else like what
Curious "
About what |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight
Not so much for whether more like when you started to feel something else as in sexual attraction
Something else like what
Curious
About what "
You'll figure it out |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"Is this about questioning whether your gay bi or straight
Not so much for whether more like when you started to feel something else as in sexual attraction
Something else like what
Curious
About what
You'll figure it out "
Weird why you can't say it.. you mean you was curious about trying a cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a man could suck his own cock do you reckon he's now bi or gay even though he doesn't have any attraction to men "
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I never really questioned it. I was at the age that you didn't talk about sex I thought everyone was the same as me. It wasn't until I was quite a bit older that I realised not everyone was bisexuality. I didn't even know what bi sexual was as I'd never heard the word |
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By (user no longer on site) 37 weeks ago
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"As strange as it might seem, I don't think I ever have questioned my sexuality. Probably because I don't question myself about anything. I just wasn't brought up that way.
Sure, there was a first time with a girl of legal age and I had an experience. There was a first time with a boy of legal age and I had an experience. I've never "compared" them to each other nor considered the biological differences. Just made the most of what was available at the time.
I didn't think (and still don't think), “I did this, so I must be that”.
I thought then (and think now), "I did this, and it was nice."
I guess, from reading forums and other folk's own personal experiences, I have been very very lucky indeed and I do count my blessings and feel very sad for others because of their difficulties with self-identification.
It's one of the reasons I support any individual wishing to change their gender, or express themselves in any way that makes them happy.
I can think of nothing more soul-destroying than not being happy in your own skin. Let alone how others might make that feeling even worse for the individual.
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This. Exactly. |
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Around 14-15 I think. When my mates where having all those conversations - like who is 'fit' and I could answer that but it became more 'would you fuck her?' and I was like: how am I supposed to know that?
Later that became are you gay or something? I guessed it must be the something after exploring the possibility of the gay.
Later that synthesised socially to my mates saying. Ee ar darling bit much for me, talk to Hans he likes gobby lessers.
Most of them still talk like that and drink in the same pub 30 years later. |
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By *oxy jWoman 33 weeks ago
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i never question mine i knew i liked women and men it felt good and thats that really
hubs said he was the same when younger boys will be boys and then later women he knew he liked both too
so both of us have been fully bi right from the begining of our sexual lives ... |
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