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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know people hide their profiles, I've done it when I needed a break, I never send any messages, I'm getting messages from people that have their's hidden, is it rude not to answer them, as I like to see who I'm talking to,  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No not rude at all, reply to who you want to. Or perhaps reply to their message with something along the lines of ‘your profile is hidden so would want to know a bit more before engaging in chat’ "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know people hide their profiles, I've done it when I needed a break, I never send any messages, I'm getting messages from people that have their's hidden, is it rude not to answer them, as I like to see who I'm talking to, "
Yes. Guessing you didn’t see the new Fab Feb 2023 rule ?
‘Every single female HAS to reply to EVERY message received else membership will be revoked’. |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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Totally not rude!! We've got a few things going on atm that has made us make the choice not to meet and/or waste others time.. Have sent no messages since doing so. Unfair to expect any response from you, having zero idea of whether you'd find them attractive!! None of us are here for penpals..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know people hide their profiles, I've done it when I needed a break, I never send any messages, I'm getting messages from people that have their's hidden, is it rude not to answer them, as I like to see who I'm talking to,
Yes. Guessing you didn’t see the new Fab Feb 2023 rule ?
‘Every single female HAS to reply to EVERY message received else membership will be revoked’. "
I better reply then, even if its just too tell them they're blocked  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Totally not rude!! We've got a few things going on atm that has made us make the choice not to meet and/or waste others time.. Have sent no messages since doing so. Unfair to expect any response from you, having zero idea of whether you'd find them attractive!! None of us are here for penpals.. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Totally not rude!! We've got a few things going on atm that has made us make the choice not to meet and/or waste others time.. Have sent no messages since doing so. Unfair to expect any response from you, having zero idea of whether you'd find them attractive!! None of us are here for penpals.. "
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I understand the need to hide now and again but why then continue to message etc?
It's a little like wearing camouflage and a hi vis jacket at the same time. You either want to be seen or you don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally not rude!! We've got a few things going on atm that has made us make the choice not to meet and/or waste others time.. Have sent no messages since doing so. Unfair to expect any response from you, having zero idea of whether you'd find them attractive!! None of us are here for penpals.. "
Erm, I like penpals. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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I'm in hiding now because I'm going away with family at the end of this week and don't want to be doing Fadmin. I wouldn't expect a reply unless someone is already familiar with my profile and we have exchanged messages previously |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"Totally not rude!! We've got a few things going on atm that has made us make the choice not to meet and/or waste others time.. Have sent no messages since doing so. Unfair to expect any response from you, having zero idea of whether you'd find them attractive!! None of us are here for penpals..
Erm, I like penpals. "
But you said you don't reply to anyone..??  x
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
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Maybe like the who's near feature is not available when you are hidden then the sending of messages etc could be disabled, if you are already talking g to someone then that could overwite it  |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm in hiding now because I'm going away with family at the end of this week and don't want to be doing Fadmin. I wouldn't expect a reply unless someone is already familiar with my profile and we have exchanged messages previously"
A just reason! Especially for a single lady.. It can get overwhelming for a mere couple!  |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm in hiding now because I'm going away with family at the end of this week and don't want to be doing Fadmin. I wouldn't expect a reply unless someone is already familiar with my profile and we have exchanged messages previously
A just reason! Especially for a single lady.. It can get overwhelming for a mere couple! "
Well if that profile pic is anything to go by I am not sure 'mere couple' are words that immediately spring to mind! |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"I'm in hiding now because I'm going away with family at the end of this week and don't want to be doing Fadmin. I wouldn't expect a reply unless someone is already familiar with my profile and we have exchanged messages previously
A just reason! Especially for a single lady.. It can get overwhelming for a mere couple!
Well if that profile pic is anything to go by I am not sure 'mere couple' are words that immediately spring to mind! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know people hide their profiles, I've done it when I needed a break, I never send any messages, I'm getting messages from people that have their's hidden, is it rude not to answer them, as I like to see who I'm talking to, "
I have started to BLOCK hidden profiles , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not rude
I ignore anything from a hidden profile ,the worst are when they send a friend's invite and you can't even see anything on theirs."
Cheeky gets they are
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