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"Unnecessary swearing or crudeness. I'm not a prude, honest! " Well fuck, that's me out. | |||
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"think guys try to impress and by doing so often slip up ... id hate to be a guy on here i really would " Try being a man in real life. And a white one as well. We have it the worst! | |||
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"Most people do something if I'm 100% being honest! " Try being 67% honest and see if your answer changes!?!? | |||
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"Unnecessary swearing or crudeness. I'm not a prude, honest! Well fuck, that's me out. " Lol, see funny is okay. It's a fine line really. | |||
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"think guys try to impress and by doing so often slip up ... id hate to be a guy on here i really would Try being a man in real life. And a white one as well. We have it the worst! " | |||
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"think guys try to impress and by doing so often slip up ... id hate to be a guy on here i really would Try being a man in real life. And a white one as well. We have it the worst! " (I was being sarcastic) | |||
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"Most people do something if I'm 100% being honest! Try being 67% honest and see if your answer changes!?!? " No, if this is the male half you still talk too quiet! Ha ha | |||
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"Rex Holes. If I need to get myself together then I bring up profile up." I like your pierced nip | |||
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"Rex Holes. If I need to get myself together then I bring up profile up. I like your pierced nip " A great couple of additions huh? | |||
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"When they tell me to be honest and are a lying deceitful sack of shit themselves is usually a good one! " Yes!!! Absolutely. | |||
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"When they tell me to be honest and are a lying deceitful sack of shit themselves is usually a good one! Yes!!! Absolutely. " Sounds eerily familiar | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ?" Similar but I've started to hear guys call it a muffin a lot recently and that is on my mind even worse because it's an icky word but also sounds completely pathetic | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ?" Are you sure he wasn't American? | |||
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"think guys try to impress and by doing so often slip up ... id hate to be a guy on here i really would Try being a man in real life. And a white one as well. We have it the worst! " * checks notes * yeah, you mustn’t have got the memo about your white privilege. | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ?" Harsh. Could you not just tell him that you don't like that word? | |||
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"Use of any of the below words/phrases. Heehee Tits/titties Mmmmmm Baby Bae I bet you taste gorgeous Pussy Just any sex talk really. " The knitting circle is that way... | |||
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"Use of any of the below words/phrases. Heehee Tits/titties Mmmmmm Baby Bae I bet you taste gorgeous Pussy Just any sex talk really. The knitting circle is that way... " The sexiest men are the ones that don't bang on about sex. | |||
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"think guys try to impress and by doing so often slip up ... id hate to be a guy on here i really would Try being a man in real life. And a white one as well. We have it the worst! * checks notes * yeah, you mustn’t have got the memo about your white privilege. " Yeah my secretary is useless at sending my memos too. | |||
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"Women or couples saying, " single men between 33-49 only".Fact - most men you go with on here will be married, and trust me you may say you can tell but you can't! Also, specifying such age ranges makes no sense. I've met women in their 30's who are 'older in body and mind" than women I've met in their 50's ... So people generalising is a big turnoff!" Weird fact that. I'm 35 and single. | |||
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"Use of any of the below words/phrases. Heehee Tits/titties Mmmmmm Baby Bae I bet you taste gorgeous Pussy Just any sex talk really. The knitting circle is that way... The sexiest men are the ones that don't bang on about sex." I get that, but to condemn someone for using a common term that you happen to not like, harsh I say.... | |||
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"Single word or sentence replies. " That gets you ignored/deleted/blocked apparently. Fuck it......not worth the effort... | |||
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"Arrogance. " Your hair looks different from before | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ?" My instant put off..in a good way ... is not receiving a reply from a read message , they obviously have no interest so everything ends there and then, as l said it's in a good way and that's the way the cookie crumbles . | |||
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"And a new one - people who argue with you about your preferences " So yep | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ?" being clingy having a tantrum name calling if you wont meet | |||
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"Use of any of the below words/phrases. Heehee Tits/titties Mmmmmm Baby Bae I bet you taste gorgeous Pussy Just any sex talk really. " Im not into HEHEHE either! Fucking ridiculous blokes sounding like little girls | |||
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"Pushy people" This, biggest turn off ever!! Shitty follow up messages do us a favour actually, then we know they don't have the patience or respect needed. X | |||
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"And a new one - people who argue with you about your preferences " This!!! The entitlement is real! | |||
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"Use of any of the below words/phrases. Heehee Tits/titties Mmmmmm Baby Bae I bet you taste gorgeous Pussy Just any sex talk really. " All of the above and squirting | |||
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"And a new one - people who argue with you about your preferences " I have this problem with bald men... | |||
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"And a new one - people who argue with you about your preferences I have this problem with bald men... " "Just close your eyes" | |||
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"think guys try to impress and by doing so often slip up ... id hate to be a guy on here i really would Try being a man in real life. And a white one as well. We have it the worst! * checks notes * yeah, you mustn’t have got the memo about your white privilege. " What notes are they? | |||
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"Use of any of the below words/phrases. Heehee Tits/titties Mmmmmm Baby Bae I bet you taste gorgeous Pussy Just any sex talk really. Im not into HEHEHE either! Fucking ridiculous blokes sounding like little girls" I just tend to say it Michael Jackson style in my head, kinda ruins the moment. | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ? My instant put off..in a good way ... is not receiving a reply from a read message , they obviously have no interest so everything ends there and then, as l said it's in a good way and that's the way the cookie crumbles ." What? | |||
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"And a new one - people who argue with you about your preferences " That's brilliant, who knows better what you like? You, or some random internet stranger?! | |||
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"And a new one - people who argue with you about your preferences I have this problem with bald men... "Just close your eyes" " Give me your hand, darling, do you feel your heart beating , do you understand. | |||
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"Rudeness Entitlement Arrogance I like kind and funny (in any order) " Oh and did I mention opinionated | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ? My instant put off..in a good way ... is not receiving a reply from a read message , they obviously have no interest so everything ends there and then, as l said it's in a good way and that's the way the cookie crumbles . What? " He’s put off someone by not getting a response from them, but he sees it as a positive. | |||
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"And a new one - people who argue with you about your preferences I have this problem with bald men... "Just close your eyes" Give me your hand, darling, do you feel your heart beating , do you understand." Epic tune | |||
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"People messaging me who don't meet my meet interests criteria. Ie over 65s. I have no interest in them infact it repulses me. " Calm down lad! | |||
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"I got a message off a man saying how he needed to tell someone his secret that his auntie used go in his room n abuse him as a kid!!! Wtf !!" As the buddha once said What The Actual Fuck. | |||
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"And a new one - people who argue with you about your preferences I have this problem with bald men... "Just close your eyes" Give me your hand, darling, do you feel your heart beating , do you understand." Just Pete will be so proud of you | |||
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"And a new one - people who argue with you about your preferences I have this problem with bald men... "Just close your eyes" Give me your hand, darling, do you feel your heart beating , do you understand. Just Pete will be so proud of you " I'm slightly worried for me. | |||
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"I got a message off a man saying how he needed to tell someone his secret that his auntie used go in his room n abuse him as a kid!!! Wtf !!" Oh my god I got a message like this last year sometimes and he said he had to tell someone something and he felt like he could trust me!! | |||
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"I got a message off a man saying how he needed to tell someone his secret that his auntie used go in his room n abuse him as a kid!!! Wtf !! Oh my god I got a message like this last year sometimes and he said he had to tell someone something and he felt like he could trust me!! " This makes me really sad | |||
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"I got a message off a man saying how he needed to tell someone his secret that his auntie used go in his room n abuse him as a kid!!! Wtf !! Oh my god I got a message like this last year sometimes and he said he had to tell someone something and he felt like he could trust me!! It’s very sad if it’s true. If not, and just attention seeking, it’s horrible. I can’t remember exactly what happened in the end, but he definitely disappeared This makes me really sad " | |||
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"If anything shows the power women have on a site like this , this post does. A guy types 1 word that doesn't suit and.....bang. blocked. I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just the way it is. If a woman has a choice of a hundred men, the slightest thing will push her choice one way or the other. In real life we come across people every day that do / say things we don't like/ agree with. but unlike on here we cant dismis them." I think it's more likely that some women just don't have the time or desire to give folk the benefit of the doubt or try to decipher meaning in messages when their inboxes are bursting. | |||
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"Vulgarity. And Tories obviously " I can't stand lefties and cyclists. Wonder why. Tories are the lesser of two evils. Cyclists are just self entitled pricks. | |||
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"If anything shows the power women have on a site like this , this post does. A guy types 1 word that doesn't suit and.....bang. blocked. I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just the way it is. If a woman has a choice of a hundred men, the slightest thing will push her choice one way or the other. In real life we come across people every day that do / say things we don't like/ agree with. but unlike on here we cant dismis them." But they make it hard for themselves (excuse the pun) Maybe if they were a little more thoughtful and polite, and used less crass terminology, they'd get a bit further? I will quite happily dismiss people in real life if they say and do things I find repulsive. | |||
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"Vulgarity. And Tories obviously I can't stand lefties and cyclists. Wonder why. Tories are the lesser of two evils. Cyclists are just self entitled pricks. " I cycle a lot, but i have to agree, a lot of cyclists are horrendous and you only realise it when you get back behind the wheel of a car. As for the first bit, i feel sorry for anyone who shows disdain for someone purely because of their political persuasion | |||
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"If anything shows the power women have on a site like this , this post does. A guy types 1 word that doesn't suit and.....bang. blocked. I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just the way it is. If a woman has a choice of a hundred men, the slightest thing will push her choice one way or the other. In real life we come across people every day that do / say things we don't like/ agree with. but unlike on here we cant dismis them." Yes but in real life they are also unlikely to fuck people who say things they dislike. | |||
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"People messaging me who don't meet my meet interests criteria. Ie over 65s. I have no interest in them infact it repulses me. " Do you not have people over that aged blocked from contacting you? | |||
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"Vulgarity. And Tories obviously " My bra is Tory blue | |||
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"think guys try to impress and by doing so often slip up ... id hate to be a guy on here i really would " That’s why I’m going to be a woman starting next week. | |||
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"Oh! "Mmmmmmmmmmmmm" That's an instant ick." | |||
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"think guys try to impress and by doing so often slip up ... id hate to be a guy on here i really would That’s why I’m going to be a woman starting next week. " You poor fellas you really do have to jump through hoops , glad I’m a woman | |||
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"Oh! "Mmmmmmmmmmmmm" That's an instant ick." That’s a delete and block so instantaneous I’ve almost blocked them before they’ve sent the message. It’s beyond ick. | |||
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"think guys try to impress and by doing so often slip up ... id hate to be a guy on here i really would That’s why I’m going to be a woman starting next week. You poor fellas you really do have to jump through hoops , glad I’m a woman " But we don’t have to. Profiles ask, but we don’t HAVE to. | |||
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"think guys try to impress and by doing so often slip up ... id hate to be a guy on here i really would That’s why I’m going to be a woman starting next week. You poor fellas you really do have to jump through hoops , glad I’m a woman But we don’t have to. Profiles ask, but we don’t HAVE to. " Very true | |||
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"If anything shows the power women have on a site like this , this post does. A guy types 1 word that doesn't suit and.....bang. blocked. I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just the way it is. If a woman has a choice of a hundred men, the slightest thing will push her choice one way or the other. In real life we come across people every day that do / say things we don't like/ agree with. but unlike on here we cant dismis them. But they make it hard for themselves (excuse the pun) Maybe if they were a little more thoughtful and polite, and used less crass terminology, they'd get a bit further? I will quite happily dismiss people in real life if they say and do things I find repulsive." I dare say he was using 'fanny' as an attempt at using less crass terminology than he usually uses! | |||
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"Sex talk Dick pics in message Txt spk Bad grammar /spelling Breathing Being straight Being too gay Hpw Mentioning cross dressing interests Shorter than me Use wrong brand washing up liquid Calling people shy while they can’t even show their face on here (tip just fuck off) Treating people like a utility (free now? I’m horny) Gender politics Lists Using etc end of sentences Etc " This explains why it always starts going south when I mention fairy liquid | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ? Harsh. Could you not just tell him that you don't like that word?" I did abd he continued to use it. I told him I wasn't kidding but he thought it was funny. | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ?" So calling it a sugar puff out then | |||
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""Don't be shy", makes me drier than the Sahara " That's so cringe... | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ? Harsh. Could you not just tell him that you don't like that word? I did abd he continued to use it. I told him I wasn't kidding but he thought it was funny. " Maybe his 'u' was broke if he thought it was funny. | |||
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"If anything shows the power women have on a site like this , this post does. A guy types 1 word that doesn't suit and.....bang. blocked. I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just the way it is. If a woman has a choice of a hundred men, the slightest thing will push her choice one way or the other. In real life we come across people every day that do / say things we don't like/ agree with. but unlike on here we cant dismis them." I didn't say I blocked him. I actually messages him and said I don't like that word and found it was a turn off for me. He massaged back to ask if my fanny was wet? I told him I wasn't kidding and again he used the word so I did eventually block him | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ? Harsh. Could you not just tell him that you don't like that word? I did abd he continued to use it. I told him I wasn't kidding but he thought it was funny. Maybe his 'u' was broke if he thought it was funny. " Maybe he was just a cant. | |||
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"Any form of closet racism that gets exposed after chatting with someone. Totally kills it for me.." You have a very pretty penis | |||
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"People messaging me who don't meet my meet interests criteria. Ie over 65s. I have no interest in them infact it repulses me. Do you not have people over that aged blocked from contacting you? " yep but they still get through the filters for some reason. I have it set to over 50s. | |||
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"Vulgarity. And Tories obviously I can't stand lefties and cyclists. Wonder why. Tories are the lesser of two evils. Cyclists are just self entitled pricks. I cycle a lot, but i have to agree, a lot of cyclists are horrendous and you only realise it when you get back behind the wheel of a car. As for the first bit, i feel sorry for anyone who shows disdain for someone purely because of their political persuasion" Well since the original comment felt the need to mention Tories for absolutely no reason, I thought I'd put in my two cents. | |||
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"If anything shows the power women have on a site like this , this post does. A guy types 1 word that doesn't suit and.....bang. blocked. I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just the way it is. If a woman has a choice of a hundred men, the slightest thing will push her choice one way or the other. In real life we come across people every day that do / say things we don't like/ agree with. but unlike on here we cant dismis them. I didn't say I blocked him. I actually messages him and said I don't like that word and found it was a turn off for me. He massaged back to ask if my fanny was wet? I told him I wasn't kidding and again he used the word so I did eventually block him " ,, the guy was a total clown,, | |||
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"If anything shows the power women have on a site like this , this post does. A guy types 1 word that doesn't suit and.....bang. blocked. I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just the way it is. If a woman has a choice of a hundred men, the slightest thing will push her choice one way or the other. In real life we come across people every day that do / say things we don't like/ agree with. but unlike on here we cant dismis them. I didn't say I blocked him. I actually messages him and said I don't like that word and found it was a turn off for me. He massaged back to ask if my fanny was wet? I told him I wasn't kidding and again he used the word so I did eventually block him " Imagine being that stupid. Given how many men complain that they can't even get a woman to reply. This guy has a conversation going and shoots himself in the nuts J | |||
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"People messaging me who don't meet my meet interests criteria. Ie over 65s. I have no interest in them infact it repulses me. Do you not have people over that aged blocked from contacting you? yep but they still get through the filters for some reason. I have it set to over 50s. " That shouldnt be happening, unless youve already been messaging them or winked at them in the past. Id contact admin if i were you | |||
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"People messaging me who don't meet my meet interests criteria. Ie over 65s. I have no interest in them infact it repulses me. Do you not have people over that aged blocked from contacting you? yep but they still get through the filters for some reason. I have it set to over 50s. That shouldnt be happening, unless youve already been messaging them or winked at them in the past. Id contact admin if i were you" Can't, too old. | |||
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"People messaging me who don't meet my meet interests criteria. Ie over 65s. I have no interest in them infact it repulses me. Do you not have people over that aged blocked from contacting you? yep but they still get through the filters for some reason. I have it set to over 50s. That shouldnt be happening, unless youve already been messaging them or winked at them in the past. Id contact admin if i were you Can't, too old. " I'm joking!! | |||
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"People messaging me who don't meet my meet interests criteria. Ie over 65s. I have no interest in them infact it repulses me. Do you not have people over that aged blocked from contacting you? yep but they still get through the filters for some reason. I have it set to over 50s. That shouldnt be happening, unless youve already been messaging them or winked at them in the past. Id contact admin if i were you Can't, too old. I'm joking!!" ,,, very sensitive us oldies | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ?" “I don’t have Yorkshire Tea bags I’m afraid” is a killer for me | |||
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"Was catting to this guy earlier. Liked the profile and liked his pics. Conversation was going well but then he went and done it. That one thing that instantly puts me off (surprisingly not a cock pic) he used the word fanny. I almost threw up in my mouth. What's your instant put off when messaging someone ? So calling it a sugar puff out then " Nope that's what my daughters nickname is | |||
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"If you put lol at the end of any sentence it's conversation over with" Thank you. Can’t stand this either, thought it was just me. | |||
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"If anything shows the power women have on a site like this , this post does. A guy types 1 word that doesn't suit and.....bang. blocked. I'm not saying it's wrong. It's just the way it is. If a woman has a choice of a hundred men, the slightest thing will push her choice one way or the other. In real life we come across people every day that do / say things we don't like/ agree with. but unlike on here we cant dismis them. I didn't say I blocked him. I actually messages him and said I don't like that word and found it was a turn off for me. He massaged back to ask if my fanny was wet? I told him I wasn't kidding and again he used the word so I did eventually block him " Now , if you'd explained that from the start......totally different situation. He was a ass. | |||
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"The word "play" " I agree. It's awful. | |||
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"Unsolicited humour. Think about it. If your very first interaction with someone is them attempting to be funny, then it demonstrates that they value making you laugh more important than they value just talking and listening to you. You have to ask yourself why this person has taken this initial approach? You wouldn't got up to a never-met-before canine and immediately start tickling its belly would you ? It might not like it for a start. Present the hand, let it sniff you, allow it to decide if you are friend, foe or a tasty snack. Tummy rubs might be allowed to emerge later, but going straight in with comedy is insincere and, well, cringe-worthy. (I hated using a canine analogy for various reasons, but fundamentally we're just animals ourselves and I think we forget that quite a lot of the time. But that's a topic for another thread, I feel). " This is where it’s hard as we are all different. I love a bit of humour on first approach. In fact our profile invites it. | |||
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"Unsolicited humour. Think about it. If your very first interaction with someone is them attempting to be funny, then it demonstrates that they value making you laugh more important than they value just talking and listening to you. You have to ask yourself why this person has taken this initial approach? You wouldn't got up to a never-met-before canine and immediately start tickling its belly would you ? It might not like it for a start. Present the hand, let it sniff you, allow it to decide if you are friend, foe or a tasty snack. Tummy rubs might be allowed to emerge later, but going straight in with comedy is insincere and, well, cringe-worthy. (I hated using a canine analogy for various reasons, but fundamentally we're just animals ourselves and I think we forget that quite a lot of the time. But that's a topic for another thread, I feel). " I enjoy humour in a message. Laughter is one of life's best tonics so if someone can make me laugh in a message then I think that's a good thing. | |||
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"Too many veris Sex chat Sex pics" Rudeness xx | |||
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"Women or couples saying, " single men between 33-49 only".Fact - most men you go with on here will be married, and trust me you may say you can tell but you can't! Also, specifying such age ranges makes no sense. I've met women in their 30's who are 'older in body and mind" than women I've met in their 50's ... So people generalising is a big turnoff!" | |||
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"Unsolicited humour. Think about it. If your very first interaction with someone is them attempting to be funny, then it demonstrates that they value making you laugh more important than they value just talking and listening to you. You have to ask yourself why this person has taken this initial approach? You wouldn't got up to a never-met-before canine and immediately start tickling its belly would you ? It might not like it for a start. Present the hand, let it sniff you, allow it to decide if you are friend, foe or a tasty snack. Tummy rubs might be allowed to emerge later, but going straight in with comedy is insincere and, well, cringe-worthy. (I hated using a canine analogy for various reasons, but fundamentally we're just animals ourselves and I think we forget that quite a lot of the time. But that's a topic for another thread, I feel). " If first invited to sniff someone's arsehole?.. I'll take dad jokes every day of the week instead | |||
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"Ugly feet " I have fugly teeth & toes!... Fortunately I also have fanny so that makes me Fab gold! *Copywrite* | |||
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"Unsolicited humour. Think about it. If your very first interaction with someone is them attempting to be funny, then it demonstrates that they value making you laugh more important than they value just talking and listening to you. You have to ask yourself why this person has taken this initial approach? You wouldn't got up to a never-met-before canine and immediately start tickling its belly would you ? It might not like it for a start. Present the hand, let it sniff you, allow it to decide if you are friend, foe or a tasty snack. Tummy rubs might be allowed to emerge later, but going straight in with comedy is insincere and, well, cringe-worthy. (I hated using a canine analogy for various reasons, but fundamentally we're just animals ourselves and I think we forget that quite a lot of the time. But that's a topic for another thread, I feel). " That's me fucked. | |||
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" When they tell you that they want to "eat you out" of house and home " ... times are tough | |||
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