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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Need to get a life methinks....celebrating..or beginning to New Year, and some saddo from 15 years ago, who I regularly block his changed number has text again 
Regular thing, each year, gives me hassle....
Police won't do anything, and after this amount of time, I think I've had enough 
Any suggestions welcome...
The history being he was also a manager where I worked, and married, I didn't know and within a month finished it, no intimate relations....etc he left the company...and won't sod off since  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Get an injunction order against him.
Or arrange a meet with me, then invite him around!!! And I will get rid of him for good for you!! Lol
Everyone's a winner x"
I have tried to get an injunction, gone to the Police with messages, voicemails etc and they have done nothing.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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these kinda people only understand one thing,a ride up onto the moors with mr baseballbat and mr shovel,and dont get your hands dirty ,make him do the digging |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ? "
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it. |
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"Get an injunction order against him.
Or arrange a meet with me, then invite him around!!! And I will get rid of him for good for you!! Lol
Everyone's a winner x
I have tried to get an injunction, gone to the Police with messages, voicemails etc and they have done nothing.... "
Ok when shall I come round  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe a little visit to his wife may be in order..or at least let him think you may pay her a visit  "
His wife when she found out many, many years ago went for me when he told her my address...didn't get the better...as the Police dealt with that,
However I don't want a/ want to involve her and b/ wouldn't know how to contact her now.
I just want the idiot to go away and get over it! |
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it."
No you shouldn't have to change your number for anyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Need to get a life methinks....celebrating..or beginning to New Year, and some saddo from 15 years ago, who I regularly block his changed number has text again
Regular thing, each year, gives me hassle....
Police won't do anything, and after this amount of time, I think I've had enough
Any suggestions welcome...
The history being he was also a manager where I worked, and married, I didn't know and within a month finished it, no intimate relations....etc he left the company...and won't sod off since "
Are the messages threatening?
Is it just a certain time of year?
If its just texts, emails and phone calls can't you just block his number and email address? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its misuse of the wireless telegraphy act 2006
and is an offence of witch the police have to act as a point of law go back to the police and when you get fobed off by the desk jocky as to speek to some one higher up than him
our son went through this from his ex shes now doing a strech inside for it as she wouldnt stop ether |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Need to get a life methinks....celebrating..or beginning to New Year, and some saddo from 15 years ago, who I regularly block his changed number has text again
Regular thing, each year, gives me hassle....
Police won't do anything, and after this amount of time, I think I've had enough
Any suggestions welcome...
The history being he was also a manager where I worked, and married, I didn't know and within a month finished it, no intimate relations....etc he left the company...and won't sod off since
Are the messages threatening?
Is it just a certain time of year?
If its just texts, emails and phone calls can't you just block his number and email address? "
They start nice, I ignore, the get threatening, I still ignore...it is various times of the year, no pattern, sometimes more than others.
Just on New Year's Eve I felt compelled to post as 15 odd years, and I've had it now...
No email, he doesn't know it...
I block every single no he texts from through my provider and he just gets another
I have taken texts, voicemails etc to the Police over the years to no avail |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"its misuse of the wireless telegraphy act 2006
and is an offence of witch the police have to act as a point of law go back to the police and when you get fobed off by the desk jocky as to speek to some one higher up than him
our son went through this from his ex shes now doing a strech inside for it as she wouldnt stop ether"
Thank you I will try, I want to turn my phone off, but also need to speak to my Mum at midnight!!! |
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By * n zCouple
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
No you shouldn't have to change your number for anyone"
No of course you shouldn't, but if someone was pissing me off that much I'd do it ......end of problem, but I understand its difficult for the OP due to her business.
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"I have tried to get an injunction, gone to the Police with messages, voicemails etc and they have done nothing.... "
You need to see a criminal lawyer, only a criminal lawyer can obtain an injunction on your behalf.
Many years ago, we suffered from homophobia, the police failed to help, it was a criminal lawyer to acted for us, obtaining an injunction on the day of our appointment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I have tried to get an injunction, gone to the Police with messages, voicemails etc and they have done nothing....
You need to see a criminal lawyer, only a criminal lawyer can obtain an injunction on your behalf.
Many years ago, we suffered from homophobia, the police failed to help, it was a criminal lawyer to acted for us, obtaining an injunction on the day of our appointment. "
Thank you, this is a field I am familiar with, and yet to still nail him
Heavies it is then lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it."
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can you block his number tonight so at least you can get some peace? There's an app for blocking numbers. Don't know what it's called sorry.
I feel for you. I'd say ignore him but I know it's not that easy. I get abusive texts from my ex most nights. I have my phone on silent so it doesn't disturb me but it still gets me down sometimes.
Have a brilliant night and good luck with the lawyers. X |
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number! "
OP did say that changing her number would be pointless anyway as he would be able to get it thru her business/work. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number! "
I am not expecting sympathy, just advice, I won't change my number because I am forced to, my number also as said is readily available to anyone, and that would be regardless of what number I had, that is something I can't change. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can you block his number tonight so at least you can get some peace? There's an app for blocking numbers. Don't know what it's called sorry.
I feel for you. I'd say ignore him but I know it's not that easy. I get abusive texts from my ex most nights. I have my phone on silent so it doesn't disturb me but it still gets me down sometimes.
Have a brilliant night and good luck with the lawyers. X"
Thank you, yes I block straight away, but he just changes his no.
I have my phone on silent as well, I am sorry to hear also of the hassle you are getting xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number!
I am not expecting sympathy, just advice, I won't change my number because I am forced to, my number also as said is readily available to anyone, and that would be regardless of what number I had, that is something I can't change."
The police will have advised you to change your number and your reluctance to do so will have told them exactly what they needed to know. You have a simple answer at hand, you refuse to do so. It makes it incredibly hard to believe you have had enough when the answer to your problem is so simple. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number!
I am not expecting sympathy, just advice, I won't change my number because I am forced to, my number also as said is readily available to anyone, and that would be regardless of what number I had, that is something I can't change.
The police will have advised you to change your number and your reluctance to do so will have told them exactly what they needed to know. You have a simple answer at hand, you refuse to do so. It makes it incredibly hard to believe you have had enough when the answer to your problem is so simple. "
I am not going to argue, as pointless, no I have not been advised to change my number, as I will reiterate, any new number could be found at great ease.
That is as simple as that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number!
I am not expecting sympathy, just advice, I won't change my number because I am forced to, my number also as said is readily available to anyone, and that would be regardless of what number I had, that is something I can't change.
The police will have advised you to change your number and your reluctance to do so will have told them exactly what they needed to know. You have a simple answer at hand, you refuse to do so. It makes it incredibly hard to believe you have had enough when the answer to your problem is so simple. "
Did you not read what she said? He can easily get her new number so there is no point in changing it. 
OP, maybe turn your phone off tonight and let your Mum know via M's phone instead? Get a few hours peace. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I won't change my number because I am forced to
We sold our property, and relocated, were we forced to? Maybe, but we done it for our own sanity. "
I did move last January...which relieved the immediate issue of not being in the same county, and finding me...not easily done, so you have my sympathies. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number!
I am not expecting sympathy, just advice, I won't change my number because I am forced to, my number also as said is readily available to anyone, and that would be regardless of what number I had, that is something I can't change.
The police will have advised you to change your number and your reluctance to do so will have told them exactly what they needed to know. You have a simple answer at hand, you refuse to do so. It makes it incredibly hard to believe you have had enough when the answer to your problem is so simple.
Did you not read what she said? He can easily get her new number so there is no point in changing it.
OP, maybe turn your phone off tonight and let your Mum know via M's phone instead? Get a few hours peace."
Thank you for your understanding, and yes, we have decided that is the best way forward for tonight. |
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"Need to get a life methinks....celebrating..or beginning to New Year, and some saddo from 15 years ago, who I regularly block his changed number has text again
Regular thing, each year, gives me hassle....
Police won't do anything, and after this amount of time, I think I've had enough
Any suggestions welcome...
The history being he was also a manager where I worked, and married, I didn't know and within a month finished it, no intimate relations....etc he left the company...and won't sod off since "
Locate his wife on face book... or better locate him on face book leave a message saying BOG OFF 15 years is long enough to bother me.
Or send a message back saying he must have a wrong number you only just got this one.! |
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number!
I am not expecting sympathy, just advice, I won't change my number because I am forced to, my number also as said is readily available to anyone, and that would be regardless of what number I had, that is something I can't change.
The police will have advised you to change your number and your reluctance to do so will have told them exactly what they needed to know. You have a simple answer at hand, you refuse to do so. It makes it incredibly hard to believe you have had enough when the answer to your problem is so simple. "
Am I the only person that can see the part where OP says if she changed her number that he would still be able to just get her new number or are you just choosing to ignore that??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number!
I am not expecting sympathy, just advice, I won't change my number because I am forced to, my number also as said is readily available to anyone, and that would be regardless of what number I had, that is something I can't change."
The simple answer is to change your number and I can't really understand after 15 years why you haven't done so. You don't have to be a brain box to get it done your network provider will sort it all out for you and you simply text your new number to all the contacts you want to have it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let me pass you a tin of my finest spinach x that should sort him out.
Dont let him get to you. Just keep your chin up. Us forum buddies stick together. Your beautiful (i can tell from your legs lol). Hes just a prick who needs to get a life.
Or you can just let me know..i can represent you in court and sort him out for good.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number!
I am not expecting sympathy, just advice, I won't change my number because I am forced to, my number also as said is readily available to anyone, and that would be regardless of what number I had, that is something I can't change.
The simple answer is to change your number and I can't really understand after 15 years why you haven't done so. You don't have to be a brain box to get it done your network provider will sort it all out for you and you simply text your new number to all the contacts you want to have it. "
No Raymond as you may read, I could but it would whatever number I have be found, sorry if is not that simple.
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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Sorry, but I am in agreement, if you wont change your number, you really don't have much to complain about!
And as for work, surely your work provides you with a phone and therefore a different number to your own personal one?
If was getting a lot of unwanted grief from someone, the first thing I would would do is change my number and it's been mine for over 10 years! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number!
I am not expecting sympathy, just advice, I won't change my number because I am forced to, my number also as said is readily available to anyone, and that would be regardless of what number I had, that is something I can't change.
The police will have advised you to change your number and your reluctance to do so will have told them exactly what they needed to know. You have a simple answer at hand, you refuse to do so. It makes it incredibly hard to believe you have had enough when the answer to your problem is so simple.
Did you not read what she said? He can easily get her new number so there is no point in changing it.
OP, maybe turn your phone off tonight and let your Mum know via M's phone instead? Get a few hours peace."
Thats absolute rubbish if you have an unlisted phone number you use it for people you trust not to pass it on. The number of people who have play phones just to avoid this is huge. It just takes a modicum of intelligence whom you pass the number on to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you not changed your number if he keeps texting you ?
No, I don't want to, my number has been since I first had my phone, and I have talked about changing it, but why should I let him get the better of me.
Plus my no is also available, through business, so that would not prevent it.
I had a some sympathy till you said you hadn't changed your number. I really can't believe the whole tail after reading this as anyone who had gone to lengths to contact the police yet hadn't just changed your mobile number which would take less than 48 hours if you contacted your network supplier and explained the situation.
If it really bothers you that much the answer is simple. Change your number!
I am not expecting sympathy, just advice, I won't change my number because I am forced to, my number also as said is readily available to anyone, and that would be regardless of what number I had, that is something I can't change.
The simple answer is to change your number and I can't really understand after 15 years why you haven't done so. You don't have to be a brain box to get it done your network provider will sort it all out for you and you simply text your new number to all the contacts you want to have it.
No Raymond as you may read, I could but it would whatever number I have be found, sorry if is not that simple.
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That's simply not true but if you think it is why not post mine on the forums if you think its so easy to gain them. 
A smart woman might just change the old no to PAYG and gain a new number and ignore the old one. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Am I the only person that can see the part where OP says if she changed her number that he would still be able to just get her new number or are you just choosing to ignore that???"
No, not choosing to ignore it, but work phones and personal phones are totally different! Plus I am sure the work would understand if was getting unwanted calls! You don't have to explain who from, just unwarranted messages from a souce unknown, it's not not rocket science |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry, but I am in agreement, if you wont change your number, you really don't have much to complain about!
And as for work, surely your work provides you with a phone and therefore a different number to your own personal one?
If was getting a lot of unwanted grief from someone, the first thing I would would do is change my number and it's been mine for over 10 years!"
why should OP change her number! she is not at fault here, why should she have to pay the penalty! |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"I give up!!
Sorry Julie I know what your saying, apparently it's a little confusing for others xxx "
Blimey, I get what you're saying Julie - my home number and mobile number are available for potential customers to get hold of me - if someone knows my name and the franchise I run they can easily get my phone number and if it's locals, then they see my name and numbers on the newspaper advertising and posters we do - this actually gave me a potential problem when I worked in our local prison and I advertised under a different name for a while so I didn't end up with calls off the cons |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"I give up!!
Sorry Julie I know what your saying, apparently it's a little confusing for others xxx "
Sorry but hardly! Maybe it needs explaining then!
No one can get my number unless I or someone who know's it give's it out, as far as I am aware, it's not listed in any phone book! And never will be, so no I don't think I am being thick! |
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My best friend has a work phone but part of her job is that she has to be reachable every day if they need to contact her as she travels a lot. So even if she had a private phone as well the work one would be switched on and close to hand as well. Which means having separate numbers wouldn't necessarily resolve the issue at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry, but I am in agreement, if you wont change your number, you really don't have much to complain about!
And as for work, surely your work provides you with a phone and therefore a different number to your own personal one?
If was getting a lot of unwanted grief from someone, the first thing I would would do is change my number and it's been mine for over 10 years!
why should OP change her number! she is not at fault here, why should she have to pay the penalty!"
Because its the simple intelligent thing to do. The police don't have grounds by the looks of it to take it further so if it bothers you you change it. If someone twats you in the face do you stand there because its your space or do you move position to avoid a another face full of fist?  |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Sorry, but I am in agreement, if you wont change your number, you really don't have much to complain about!
And as for work, surely your work provides you with a phone and therefore a different number to your own personal one?
If was getting a lot of unwanted grief from someone, the first thing I would would do is change my number and it's been mine for over 10 years!
why should OP change her number! she is not at fault here, why should she have to pay the penalty!"
She shouldn't! But then she should bloody complain about it either! |
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"I give up!!
Sorry Julie I know what your saying, apparently it's a little confusing for others xxx
Sorry but hardly! Maybe it needs explaining then!
No one can get my number unless I or someone who know's it give's it out, as far as I am aware, it's not listed in any phone book! And never will be, so no I don't think I am being thick! "
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"its misuse of the wireless telegraphy act 2006
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and just *where* on a smartfone do you plug a feckin morse code key in?
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and is an offence of witch the police have to act as a point of law go back to the police and when you get fobed off by the desk jocky as to speek to some one higher up than him
our son went through this from his ex shes now doing a strech inside for it as she wouldnt stop ether"
under the WT it's an offence to knowingly be the sender or receiver of pornographic or offensive materials, but hey.. fab works a treat on my android phone -.-  
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Oh my god...
I use my number and have done for some time for business use, it's all over the Internet as I have a couple of web sites!! Would I change my number? No I wouldn't as it would cost me quite a bit of money.... And I would potentially lose customers!!
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"I give up!!
Sorry Julie I know what your saying, apparently it's a little confusing for others xxx
Sorry but hardly! Maybe it needs explaining then!
No one can get my number unless I or someone who know's it give's it out, as far as I am aware, it's not listed in any phone book! And never will be, so no I don't think I am being thick!
Yes your private number, OP is talking about her work phone number, which is given out to anyone that needs to contact her and therefore he could get it quite easily again if she were to change it. "
Well that makes things far simpler as you go to your employer and explain the situation. Whoever is passing the number on as aiding and abetting harassment and the company would not want this one bit. However it doesn't ring true with other information given by the op as she would not have the choice of changing numbers or not as the phone is not her property. You can also turn a works phone off when you sleep are not on duty and ignore all messages if you have your own personal messages. The facts in this tail just dont ring true to me for what its worth.
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"I give up!!
Sorry Julie I know what your saying, apparently it's a little confusing for others xxx
Sorry but hardly! Maybe it needs explaining then!
No one can get my number unless I or someone who know's it give's it out, as far as I am aware, it's not listed in any phone book! And never will be, so no I don't think I am being thick!
Yes your private number, OP is talking about her work phone number, which is given out to anyone that needs to contact her and therefore he could get it quite easily again if she were to change it.
Well that makes things far simpler as you go to your employer and explain the situation. Whoever is passing the number on as aiding and abetting harassment and the company would not want this one bit. However it doesn't ring true with other information given by the op as she would not have the choice of changing numbers or not as the phone is not her property. You can also turn a works phone off when you sleep are not on duty and ignore all messages if you have your own personal messages. The facts in this tail just dont ring true to me for what its worth.
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What if the OP is a driving instructor freelance and her number is written on her indtructors car? Or she might be a solicitor where her number is printed on business cards and letterheads and potential clients need to be able to contact her?
I don't know what the OP does but there is no real reason to believe that she was putting up with this hassle as there is no real way around it that would be a permanent solution . |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"Could always make up a couple of profiles on some gay/ bdsm websites and post his number there . "
That's the best idea yet Cinn - pure genius!
Julie - here's your solution everytime he texts you!!!!! |
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"I give up!!
Sorry Julie I know what your saying, apparently it's a little confusing for others xxx
Sorry but hardly! Maybe it needs explaining then!
No one can get my number unless I or someone who know's it give's it out, as far as I am aware, it's not listed in any phone book! And never will be, so no I don't think I am being thick!
Yes your private number, OP is talking about her work phone number, which is given out to anyone that needs to contact her and therefore he could get it quite easily again if she were to change it.
Well that makes things far simpler as you go to your employer and explain the situation. Whoever is passing the number on as aiding and abetting harassment and the company would not want this one bit. However it doesn't ring true with other information given by the op as she would not have the choice of changing numbers or not as the phone is not her property. You can also turn a works phone off when you sleep are not on duty and ignore all messages if you have your own personal messages. The facts in this tail just dont ring true to me for what its worth.
What if the OP is a driving instructor freelance and her number is written on her indtructors car? Or she might be a solicitor where her number is printed on business cards and letterheads and potential clients need to be able to contact her?
I don't know what the OP does but there is no real reason to believe that she was putting up with this hassle as there is no real way around it that would be a permanent solution . "
But that's not the case that's a wild claim. There are plenty of driving instructors who swing, they have one phone for meets and another for family which is a pretty dam simple solution for most people. How many people are trying to book driving lessons at past 7pm on new years eve? Maybe the OP works for MI5 and needs the number on all the time just on the off chance M or Q have to contact her?
When there is a very simple solution to a problem and someone has previously dismissed this option then sympathy wanes. |
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"I give up!!
Sorry Julie I know what your saying, apparently it's a little confusing for others xxx
Sorry but hardly! Maybe it needs explaining then!
No one can get my number unless I or someone who know's it give's it out, as far as I am aware, it's not listed in any phone book! And never will be, so no I don't think I am being thick!
Yes your private number, OP is talking about her work phone number, which is given out to anyone that needs to contact her and therefore he could get it quite easily again if she were to change it.
Well that makes things far simpler as you go to your employer and explain the situation. Whoever is passing the number on as aiding and abetting harassment and the company would not want this one bit. However it doesn't ring true with other information given by the op as she would not have the choice of changing numbers or not as the phone is not her property. You can also turn a works phone off when you sleep are not on duty and ignore all messages if you have your own personal messages. The facts in this tail just dont ring true to me for what its worth.
What if the OP is a driving instructor freelance and her number is written on her indtructors car? Or she might be a solicitor where her number is printed on business cards and letterheads and potential clients need to be able to contact her?
I don't know what the OP does but there is no real reason to believe that she was putting up with this hassle as there is no real way around it that would be a permanent solution . "
I am not about to divulge any further info, I'd get shot by the mafia my dear & you would too
But suffice to say, I think I have covered the point, and sod cards printed, I am alllllll over the internet
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"I give up!!
Sorry Julie I know what your saying, apparently it's a little confusing for others xxx
Sorry but hardly! Maybe it needs explaining then!
No one can get my number unless I or someone who know's it give's it out, as far as I am aware, it's not listed in any phone book! And never will be, so no I don't think I am being thick!
Yes your private number, OP is talking about her work phone number, which is given out to anyone that needs to contact her and therefore he could get it quite easily again if she were to change it.
Well that makes things far simpler as you go to your employer and explain the situation. Whoever is passing the number on as aiding and abetting harassment and the company would not want this one bit. However it doesn't ring true with other information given by the op as she would not have the choice of changing numbers or not as the phone is not her property. You can also turn a works phone off when you sleep are not on duty and ignore all messages if you have your own personal messages. The facts in this tail just dont ring true to me for what its worth.
What if the OP is a driving instructor freelance and her number is written on her indtructors car? Or she might be a solicitor where her number is printed on business cards and letterheads and potential clients need to be able to contact her?
I don't know what the OP does but there is no real reason to believe that she was putting up with this hassle as there is no real way around it that would be a permanent solution .
But that's not the case that's a wild claim. There are plenty of driving instructors who swing, they have one phone for meets and another for family which is a pretty dam simple solution for most people. How many people are trying to book driving lessons at past 7pm on new years eve? Maybe the OP works for MI5 and needs the number on all the time just on the off chance M or Q have to contact her?
When there is a very simple solution to a problem and someone has previously dismissed this option then sympathy wanes. "
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I thought most people used 2 phones or at least the bright ones did to avoid this situation. Then you can avoid one and use the other for family and friends. I find when advice is given and ignored you think why the fuck did they ask in the first place. |
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"And Julie someone called you a story teller...ner ner ner ner ner "
Once upon a time...there was a girl called...Two and then she met Plus
The fireworks went off
The bodies were under their patio
BUT
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over a year ago
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By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
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Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you. |
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you. "
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing? |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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But suffice to say, I think I have covered the point, and sod cards printed, I am alllllll over the internet
Look in the Sun tomorrow "
Dear Deirdre, er I mean Julie
For gods sake just tell em what you do for a living so we can put this matter to bed |
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you.
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing? "
I don't need to I didn't list every person or situation that should be allocated to each phone! Use a bit of common sense why don't ya a new phone number could be used for family and friends etc you won't have problems with. Read the full thread if you are going to comment and see why the phone couldn't be turned off. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you.
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing?
I don't need to I didn't list every person or situation that should be allocated to each phone! Use a bit of common sense why don't ya a new phone number could be used for family and friends etc you won't have problems with. Read the full thread if you are going to comment and see why the phone couldn't be turned off. "
The way I read this (and did from the first)
*this person knows Julie's real name from when they worked together 15 years ago
*whichever phone number she has is available online/directory for her work, if she were to change it, it would be changed online/directory
*this person would be able to access it and contact her regardless of how many times she changed the number.
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over a year ago
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you.
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing?
I don't need to I didn't list every person or situation that should be allocated to each phone! Use a bit of common sense why don't ya a new phone number could be used for family and friends etc you won't have problems with. Read the full thread if you are going to comment and see why the phone couldn't be turned off.
The way I read this (and did from the first)
*this person knows Julie's real name from when they worked together 15 years ago
*whichever phone number she has is available online/directory for her work, if she were to change it, it would be changed online/directory
*this person would be able to access it and contact her regardless of how many times she changed the number.
I don't think it's very nice to insult the OP either "
Good explanation Caz
Next time do it 50 posts sooner |
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over a year ago
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The way I read this (and did from the first)
*this person knows Julie's real name from when they worked together 15 years ago
*whichever phone number she has is available online/directory for her work, if she were to change it, it would be changed online/directory
*this person would be able to access it and contact her regardless of how many times she changed the number.
I don't think it's very nice to insult the OP either "
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I would just like to take this opportinity to not only wish you all a Happy New year, but to all the lurkers, and a big thanks for your messages of support and help tonight. (Lurkers and posters)
It it rare I post about my personal life or issues, but still it takes me aback, people are here on the forum or who take the courage, as it is not easy, to message me as a lurker and give good vibes.
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A lot of folk here not reading the posts above before they post it seems
My mobile number is easily available by calling my office with a half decent excuse... changing it wouldn't help me in this type of circumstance - the same seems true for the OP.
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you.
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing?
I don't need to I didn't list every person or situation that should be allocated to each phone! Use a bit of common sense why don't ya a new phone number could be used for family and friends etc you won't have problems with. Read the full thread if you are going to comment and see why the phone couldn't be turned off.
The way I read this (and did from the first)
*this person knows Julie's real name from when they worked together 15 years ago
*whichever phone number she has is available online/directory for her work, if she were to change it, it would be changed online/directory
*this person would be able to access it and contact her regardless of how many times she changed the number.
I don't think it's very nice to insult the OP either "
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"A lot of folk here not reading the posts above before they post it seems
My mobile number is easily available by calling my office with a half decent excuse... changing it wouldn't help me in this type of circumstance - the same seems true for the OP.
Remember who the bad guy is here "
Boo!!! Lol
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"I would just like to take this opportinity to not only wish you all a Happy New year, but to all the lurkers, and a big thanks for your messages of support and help tonight. (Lurkers and posters)
It it rare I post about my personal life or issues, but still it takes me aback, people are here on the forum or who take the courage, as it is not easy, to message me as a lurker and give good vibes.
To any haters, I still love you and a Happy New Year to you to "
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"A lot of folk here not reading the posts above before they post it seems
My mobile number is easily available by calling my office with a half decent excuse... changing it wouldn't help me in this type of circumstance - the same seems true for the OP.
Remember who the bad guy is here "
My office wouldn't give out my personal number as they don't have it, they may have my works mobile which I switch off out of hours (and if I was getting harassed on a works number the company solicitor would peruse this invasion through the courts) and I think that's what people are suggesting, read the posts before commenting, there's a good lad. |
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you.
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing?
I don't need to I didn't list every person or situation that should be allocated to each phone! Use a bit of common sense why don't ya a new phone number could be used for family and friends etc you won't have problems with. Read the full thread if you are going to comment and see why the phone couldn't be turned off.
The way I read this (and did from the first)
*this person knows Julie's real name from when they worked together 15 years ago
*whichever phone number she has is available online/directory for her work, if she were to change it, it would be changed online/directory
*this person would be able to access it and contact her regardless of how many times she changed the number.
I don't think it's very nice to insult the OP either "
Well I read it differently to you as others seem to. It seems to be a common occurrence when only half a tale is initially posted and then other points come to light later although how this stops someone having a second phone for family and friends only isn't clear. The facts are if it is a company mobile as you are suggesting then the company should be sorting issues out if one of their staff is getting harassed.
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you.
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing?
I don't need to I didn't list every person or situation that should be allocated to each phone! Use a bit of common sense why don't ya a new phone number could be used for family and friends etc you won't have problems with. Read the full thread if you are going to comment and see why the phone couldn't be turned off.
The way I read this (and did from the first)
*this person knows Julie's real name from when they worked together 15 years ago
*whichever phone number she has is available online/directory for her work, if she were to change it, it would be changed online/directory
*this person would be able to access it and contact her regardless of how many times she changed the number.
I don't think it's very nice to insult the OP either
Well I read it differently to you as others seem to. It seems to be a common occurrence when only half a tale is initially posted and then other points come to light later although how this stops someone having a second phone for family and friends only isn't clear. The facts are if it is a company mobile as you are suggesting then the company should be sorting issues out if one of their staff is getting harassed.
On all forums interpretation is in the eye of the reader."
Stop right there:
No one said a company mobile, you are now making up facts.
WE have a swinging mobile, we have been swinging since June....following me I hope.
I have a number of business interests, still following me?
Which my number is open even to the Prime Minister ...
Right so to say one last time, my number, mine, mine as in I depend on it for work/salary/career wise is searchable to anyone.
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"A lot of folk here not reading the posts above before they post it seems
My mobile number is easily available by calling my office with a half decent excuse... changing it wouldn't help me in this type of circumstance - the same seems true for the OP.
Remember who the bad guy is here
My office wouldn't give out my personal number as they don't have it, they may have my works mobile which I switch off out of hours (and if I was getting harassed on a works number the company solicitor would peruse this invasion through the courts) and I think that's what people are suggesting, read the posts before commenting, there's a good lad. "
I will incase you haven't followed, have my own number, not a company one....and I can easily deal with the law behind it, and you can I assure you follow me about and interpret what you like, my own troll.
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over a year ago
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Well I read it differently to you as others seem to. It seems to be a common occurrence when only half a tale is initially posted and then other points come to light later although how this stops someone having a second phone for family and friends only isn't clear. The facts are if it is a company mobile as you are suggesting then the company should be sorting issues out if one of their staff is getting harassed.
On all forums interpretation is in the eye of the reader."
I didn't suggest it was a COMPANY phone, only a phone that was used for Julie's work (I am self-employed as well as salaried and use my mobile for work and play and it is available on the net as I have previously said). It doesn't alter the fact that if one has a mobile and one's name and number is out on t'interweb for business reasons anyone can get said number and hassle a person regardless of whether they are a swinger or not. Happy New Year |
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you.
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing?
I don't need to I didn't list every person or situation that should be allocated to each phone! Use a bit of common sense why don't ya a new phone number could be used for family and friends etc you won't have problems with. Read the full thread if you are going to comment and see why the phone couldn't be turned off.
The way I read this (and did from the first)
*this person knows Julie's real name from when they worked together 15 years ago
*whichever phone number she has is available online/directory for her work, if she were to change it, it would be changed online/directory
*this person would be able to access it and contact her regardless of how many times she changed the number.
I don't think it's very nice to insult the OP either
Well I read it differently to you as others seem to. It seems to be a common occurrence when only half a tale is initially posted and then other points come to light later although how this stops someone having a second phone for family and friends only isn't clear. The facts are if it is a company mobile as you are suggesting then the company should be sorting issues out if one of their staff is getting harassed.
On all forums interpretation is in the eye of the reader.
Stop right there:
No one said a company mobile, you are now making up facts.
WE have a swinging mobile, we have been swinging since June....following me I hope.
I have a number of business interests, still following me?
Which my number is open even to the Prime Minister ...
Right so to say one last time, my number, mine, mine as in I depend on it for work/salary/career wise is searchable to anyone.
End of story."
And as people have suggested you could have one for family which is separate so you can switch your works one off. I do that my phone is very much work based and surprisingly it works well for me and many others. You have to accept you may not like all resonances to a thread but if you ask for advice you may not like all of it so there is no reason to be pedantic with replies. I would suggest spending time getting legal council and take a private injunction against the offender, its not that expensive if you really want a result and as you have said the police do not see it as a criminal offence then that's the way to go. Now if you like you could class that as end of story. |
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you.
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing?
I don't need to I didn't list every person or situation that should be allocated to each phone! Use a bit of common sense why don't ya a new phone number could be used for family and friends etc you won't have problems with. Read the full thread if you are going to comment and see why the phone couldn't be turned off.
The way I read this (and did from the first)
*this person knows Julie's real name from when they worked together 15 years ago
*whichever phone number she has is available online/directory for her work, if she were to change it, it would be changed online/directory
*this person would be able to access it and contact her regardless of how many times she changed the number.
I don't think it's very nice to insult the OP either
Good explanation Caz
Next time do it 50 posts sooner "
Nice one Caz.
I understood it from the start, I think some people are just deliberately being obtuse. |
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Well I read it differently to you as others seem to. It seems to be a common occurrence when only half a tale is initially posted and then other points come to light later although how this stops someone having a second phone for family and friends only isn't clear. The facts are if it is a company mobile as you are suggesting then the company should be sorting issues out if one of their staff is getting harassed.
On all forums interpretation is in the eye of the reader.
I didn't suggest it was a COMPANY phone, only a phone that was used for Julie's work (I am self-employed as well as salaried and use my mobile for work and play and it is available on the net as I have previously said). It doesn't alter the fact that if one has a mobile and one's name and number is out on t'interweb for business reasons anyone can get said number and hassle a person regardless of whether they are a swinger or not. Happy New Year"
There is no need to capitalise a word I an fully capable of understanding without it being done. I am also aware people have a phone for personal private and play reasons and may have one or many to satisfy this need. However if people are looking for solutions you look for that not look at the barriers preventing this. There are simple ways of solving problems that most intelligent people are able to put into practice. You choose to take advice or not but there are very few people who would not have something sorted in 15 years that's what is frustrating people reading. |
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you.
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing?
I don't need to I didn't list every person or situation that should be allocated to each phone! Use a bit of common sense why don't ya a new phone number could be used for family and friends etc you won't have problems with. Read the full thread if you are going to comment and see why the phone couldn't be turned off.
The way I read this (and did from the first)
*this person knows Julie's real name from when they worked together 15 years ago
*whichever phone number she has is available online/directory for her work, if she were to change it, it would be changed online/directory
*this person would be able to access it and contact her regardless of how many times she changed the number.
I don't think it's very nice to insult the OP either
Good explanation Caz
Next time do it 50 posts sooner
Nice one Caz.
I understood it from the start, I think some people are just deliberately being obtuse. "
Isn't this the knitting forum?
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"By the way not sure who said but we only started swinging in June 2012, so nothing to do with that, at all, and only 2 people off this site have my real number
Then you already have the answer to your problem dont you. Your NEW phone number should have been given to family and friends and your old one for playing or switching off. You're not the sharpest knife in the box are you.
Read the opening message again!!
Where does it say the word playing?
I don't need to I didn't list every person or situation that should be allocated to each phone! Use a bit of common sense why don't ya a new phone number could be used for family and friends etc you won't have problems with. Read the full thread if you are going to comment and see why the phone couldn't be turned off.
The way I read this (and did from the first)
*this person knows Julie's real name from when they worked together 15 years ago
*whichever phone number she has is available online/directory for her work, if she were to change it, it would be changed online/directory
*this person would be able to access it and contact her regardless of how many times she changed the number.
I don't think it's very nice to insult the OP either
Good explanation Caz
Next time do it 50 posts sooner
Nice one Caz.
I understood it from the start, I think some people are just deliberately being obtuse. "
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over a year ago
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Well I read it differently to you as others seem to. It seems to be a common occurrence when only half a tale is initially posted and then other points come to light later although how this stops someone having a second phone for family and friends only isn't clear. The facts are if it is a company mobile as you are suggesting then the company should be sorting issues out if one of their staff is getting harassed.
On all forums interpretation is in the eye of the reader.
I didn't suggest it was a COMPANY phone, only a phone that was used for Julie's work (I am self-employed as well as salaried and use my mobile for work and play and it is available on the net as I have previously said). It doesn't alter the fact that if one has a mobile and one's name and number is out on t'interweb for business reasons anyone can get said number and hassle a person regardless of whether they are a swinger or not. Happy New Year
There is no need to capitalise a word I an fully capable of understanding without it being done. I am also aware people have a phone for personal private and play reasons and may have one or many to satisfy this need. However if people are looking for solutions you look for that not look at the barriers preventing this. There are simple ways of solving problems that most intelligent people are able to put into practice. You choose to take advice or not but there are very few people who would not have something sorted in 15 years that's what is frustrating people reading. "
I chose to capitalise company as you were putting words in my mouth (so to speak). It just seems that some folk choose to deliberately be argumentative after much explanation - if I was unlucky enough to have a similar problem, changing my mobile number just wouldn't alter the fact that someone who knows me can still get the number and turning a work phone off doesn't stop texts coming through, only postpones having to read them |
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Well I read it differently to you as others seem to. It seems to be a common occurrence when only half a tale is initially posted and then other points come to light later although how this stops someone having a second phone for family and friends only isn't clear. The facts are if it is a company mobile as you are suggesting then the company should be sorting issues out if one of their staff is getting harassed.
On all forums interpretation is in the eye of the reader.
I didn't suggest it was a COMPANY phone, only a phone that was used for Julie's work (I am self-employed as well as salaried and use my mobile for work and play and it is available on the net as I have previously said). It doesn't alter the fact that if one has a mobile and one's name and number is out on t'interweb for business reasons anyone can get said number and hassle a person regardless of whether they are a swinger or not. Happy New Year
There is no need to capitalise a word I an fully capable of understanding without it being done. I am also aware people have a phone for personal private and play reasons and may have one or many to satisfy this need. However if people are looking for solutions you look for that not look at the barriers preventing this. There are simple ways of solving problems that most intelligent people are able to put into practice. You choose to take advice or not but there are very few people who would not have something sorted in 15 years that's what is frustrating people reading.
I chose to capitalise company as you were putting words in my mouth (so to speak). It just seems that some folk choose to deliberately be argumentative after much explanation - if I was unlucky enough to have a similar problem, changing my mobile number just wouldn't alter the fact that someone who knows me can still get the number and turning a work phone off doesn't stop texts coming through, only postpones having to read them"
I was condoning a private prosecution if you care to read a few posts up against the individual its tax deductible if its through the company, most reputable companies would do it, if you are self employed then you chose cost over harassment and make your choice. As for texts received, well no you don't have to read them you can delete without reading, block incoming texts from a number after first message along with any phone calls so the postponing statement is not factually accurate. Debating an issue and being deliberately argumentative are how you _iew them and you can't dictate positive only replies to an issue although on many forums some think they can for some reason. |
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Well I read it differently to you as others seem to. It seems to be a common occurrence when only half a tale is initially posted and then other points come to light later although how this stops someone having a second phone for family and friends only isn't clear. The facts are if it is a company mobile as you are suggesting then the company should be sorting issues out if one of their staff is getting harassed.
On all forums interpretation is in the eye of the reader.
I didn't suggest it was a COMPANY phone, only a phone that was used for Julie's work (I am self-employed as well as salaried and use my mobile for work and play and it is available on the net as I have previously said). It doesn't alter the fact that if one has a mobile and one's name and number is out on t'interweb for business reasons anyone can get said number and hassle a person regardless of whether they are a swinger or not. Happy New Year
There is no need to capitalise a word I an fully capable of understanding without it being done. I am also aware people have a phone for personal private and play reasons and may have one or many to satisfy this need. However if people are looking for solutions you look for that not look at the barriers preventing this. There are simple ways of solving problems that most intelligent people are able to put into practice. You choose to take advice or not but there are very few people who would not have something sorted in 15 years that's what is frustrating people reading.
I chose to capitalise company as you were putting words in my mouth (so to speak). It just seems that some folk choose to deliberately be argumentative after much explanation - if I was unlucky enough to have a similar problem, changing my mobile number just wouldn't alter the fact that someone who knows me can still get the number and turning a work phone off doesn't stop texts coming through, only postpones having to read them
I was condoning a private prosecution if you care to read a few posts up against the individual its tax deductible if its through the company, most reputable companies would do it, if you are self employed then you chose cost over harassment and make your choice. As for texts received, well no you don't have to read them you can delete without reading, block incoming texts from a number after first message along with any phone calls so the postponing statement is not factually accurate. Debating an issue and being deliberately argumentative are how you _iew them and you can't dictate positive only replies to an issue although on many forums some think they can for some reason. "
No what you mean is :
You have no clue on what I do, or how I may not choose to run my day to day life or phone number/s.
The point you are trying to argue was lost up there ^^^
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Well I read it differently to you as others seem to. It seems to be a common occurrence when only half a tale is initially posted and then other points come to light later although how this stops someone having a second phone for family and friends only isn't clear. The facts are if it is a company mobile as you are suggesting then the company should be sorting issues out if one of their staff is getting harassed.
On all forums interpretation is in the eye of the reader.
I didn't suggest it was a COMPANY phone, only a phone that was used for Julie's work (I am self-employed as well as salaried and use my mobile for work and play and it is available on the net as I have previously said). It doesn't alter the fact that if one has a mobile and one's name and number is out on t'interweb for business reasons anyone can get said number and hassle a person regardless of whether they are a swinger or not. Happy New Year
There is no need to capitalise a word I an fully capable of understanding without it being done. I am also aware people have a phone for personal private and play reasons and may have one or many to satisfy this need. However if people are looking for solutions you look for that not look at the barriers preventing this. There are simple ways of solving problems that most intelligent people are able to put into practice. You choose to take advice or not but there are very few people who would not have something sorted in 15 years that's what is frustrating people reading.
I chose to capitalise company as you were putting words in my mouth (so to speak). It just seems that some folk choose to deliberately be argumentative after much explanation - if I was unlucky enough to have a similar problem, changing my mobile number just wouldn't alter the fact that someone who knows me can still get the number and turning a work phone off doesn't stop texts coming through, only postpones having to read them
I was condoning a private prosecution if you care to read a few posts up against the individual its tax deductible if its through the company, most reputable companies would do it, if you are self employed then you chose cost over harassment and make your choice. As for texts received, well no you don't have to read them you can delete without reading, block incoming texts from a number after first message along with any phone calls so the postponing statement is not factually accurate. Debating an issue and being deliberately argumentative are how you _iew them and you can't dictate positive only replies to an issue although on many forums some think they can for some reason. "
Of which I may remind you...
I am being harassed and I am not changing my number...nothing to do with anything you are bringing into the thread.
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"Julie- may I suggest a sex change and total change of career, to be honest after 15 years of putting up with it your an idiot for not doing this earlier.
Or move. To mars. Problem solved xxx "
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"Julie- may I suggest a sex change and total change of career, to be honest after 15 years of putting up with it your an idiot for not doing this earlier.
Or move. To mars. Problem solved xxx
Well ffs I am already a fake woman, god caught again "
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