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How do you choose which pictures you display?
Are they governed by the amount of fabs they receive?
If they appear to not be pleasing to others, do you remove them?
Or, do show what you like about yourself?
You don't care what others think? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How do you choose which pictures you display?
Are they governed by the amount of fabs they receive?
If they appear to not be pleasing to others, do you remove them?
Or, do show what you like about yourself?
You don't care what others think?"
I just put up what I want to put up, i think it's my profile, if others dont like it's there perogative to not like...its nothing personal. But my profile is personal to me, its that simple for me.  |
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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago
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I just put mine up and leave them up, I'll only remove older pics if I'm putting a new pic up I don't want more than one page of pics. How many fabs they get or don't get doesen't bother me tbh, I only put pics up I'm happy with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It’s a bit of both. If something is fabbed then I’ll leave it up, otherwise it’s what I don’t mind seeing of myself.
It's nice to get a fab.
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Yes it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I post pictures I like. Some get more fabs than others, but it doesn't bother me and wouldn't make me want to remove the photo. I'll sometimes remove them if they are a bit repetitive, or if I suddenly look at them and realise I don't like it anymore.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Normally the latest one or if I want to, it's determined by the day. Torso Tuesday, Wiggle Wednesday etc. But other times it's just what I fancy at the time or something I think I s a particularly good photo  |
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I just upload pictures of me that I dont absolutely hate.
I spent far too long not existing and thinking myself hideous. The fabs are a nice confidence boost, but just being able to post them at all is a big step for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just upload pictures of me that I dont absolutely hate.
I spent far too long not existing and thinking myself hideous. The fabs are a nice confidence boost, but just being able to post them at all is a big step for me."
That’s awesome. Love it x |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"I just upload pictures of me that I dont absolutely hate.
I spent far too long not existing and thinking myself hideous. The fabs are a nice confidence boost, but just being able to post them at all is a big step for me."
why do you think that hideous,, |
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"I just upload pictures of me that I dont absolutely hate.
I spent far too long not existing and thinking myself hideous. The fabs are a nice confidence boost, but just being able to post them at all is a big step for me."
You’re gorgeous, glad you found the courage to share |
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"I don’t allow my pics to be fabbed, I just post ones that I think best reflect me.
Although I have just experimented with glitter cock so I may see if that gets fabbed…"
That might make a great pic  |
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"I just upload pictures of me that I dont absolutely hate.
I spent far too long not existing and thinking myself hideous. The fabs are a nice confidence boost, but just being able to post them at all is a big step for me."
I am glad you are no longer in that mind frame. Believe me when I say ...you have great pics x |
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" why do you think that hideous,,"
I don't any more. I just let the wrong asshole get under my skin and fuck me over for far too long. But everyone makes mistakes. And I think I'm doing okay at pulling all the shards back together enough to resemble something whole.
I know I'm okay. I'm lucky to have the body I do with my personality haha. |
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I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
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Honestly, good on you! It's so easy to let others get in your head about what a good picture is that we end up doing it to please others rather than ourselves. Keep doing you because the people who are attracted by your pics are the ones you want to be with anyway |
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
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Bravo, my friend. That’s an excellent perspective to have. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi
I care for what others think . And I don’t like give wrong impression …
And I care for the next ones comfort .
I don’t show much , am I boring ?
Maybe I should share more my erotic show .
But then I’m just another dickhead …
Is a dilema …
I don’t know … I’m very naughty . But I don’t wanna be rude …
I hope meet someone who likes me for how I look and who I am … sooooo I show my face
Cause that who I am …
Then later if they like my hard , is a result
If I just put my dick photos I get jealous
Cause ducking thing takes the ladies whole attention giving no attention to me … I’m just there . Watching it … attached to it … not fair 
Poor me
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
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"I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself."
I could not agree more with this!
I have viewed your gallery before and I think you have some really great pics. |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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" why do you think that hideous,,
I don't any more. I just let the wrong asshole get under my skin and fuck me over for far too long. But everyone makes mistakes. And I think I'm doing okay at pulling all the shards back together enough to resemble something whole.
I know I'm okay. I'm lucky to have the body I do with my personality haha."
.. well your not hideous you look great. and i know what you mean being fucked over,, |
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
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Your pictures and your self are both beautiful.
Don't ever worry about failing to attract people who wouldn't want all of you. |
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
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I think it's fabulous that you show the world who you are. Don't stop, the world is a better place for it x  |
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I am fairly early in my fab journey so trying to be a bit creative and have fun with some as a creative outlet cos let's face it we all love to see an attractive or sexy photo can change our mood quick...if someone fabs thats a nice ego boost but I get a lot of guys fabbing me?? ...they must think I'm a bear ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Admittedly all of my pics. are terrible, have never liked looking at myself in any of the pics. on or off fabs and over time have added/deleted sooo many pics.
Still, it's always nice to see the likes from admirers who seem to differ from my opinion and more importantly has led to meetings to have nsa discreet fun (is all about real time fun).
Not really bothered about pics. but do appreciate it's better to have than not.
btw, OP your pics. are pretty spectacular (very sexy looking lady) indeed.
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
Honestly, good on you! It's so easy to let others get in your head about what a good picture is that we end up doing it to please others rather than ourselves. Keep doing you because the people who are attracted by your pics are the ones you want to be with anyway "
Exactly that, I've tried doing what I think others will like and it just feels awkward. Much easier just being yourself |
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
"I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself."
I could not agree more with this!
I have viewed your gallery before and I think you have some really great pics."
Thank you |
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
Your pictures and your self are both beautiful.
Don't ever worry about failing to attract people who wouldn't want all of you. "
Exactly, I may attract a much smaller demographic of people, but they will be more special for it.
And thank you very much |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
Honestly, good on you! It's so easy to let others get in your head about what a good picture is that we end up doing it to please others rather than ourselves. Keep doing you because the people who are attracted by your pics are the ones you want to be with anyway
Exactly that, I've tried doing what I think others will like and it just feels awkward. Much easier just being yourself "
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
Honestly, good on you! It's so easy to let others get in your head about what a good picture is that we end up doing it to please others rather than ourselves. Keep doing you because the people who are attracted by your pics are the ones you want to be with anyway
Exactly that, I've tried doing what I think others will like and it just feels awkward. Much easier just being yourself
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,, you look great lana,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have lots of old favourites... I tend to rotate them.. I do like them to have a little variation and cohesiveness... But often its snap after snap of my arse  |
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
Honestly, good on you! It's so easy to let others get in your head about what a good picture is that we end up doing it to please others rather than ourselves. Keep doing you because the people who are attracted by your pics are the ones you want to be with anyway
Exactly that, I've tried doing what I think others will like and it just feels awkward. Much easier just being yourself
,, you look great lana,,"
Thank u Sir, is very kind of u2 say (much appreciated). However, I do believe "ThePumpkinJuggler" summed it up best.
...& looks can be deceiving, knowing full well it's not what makes us a good person. There is a lot more to a person than just their external appearances. If only we had divine eyes to see the souls of peeps. |
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
Honestly, good on you! It's so easy to let others get in your head about what a good picture is that we end up doing it to please others rather than ourselves. Keep doing you because the people who are attracted by your pics are the ones you want to be with anyway
Exactly that, I've tried doing what I think others will like and it just feels awkward. Much easier just being yourself
,, you look great lana,,
Thank u Sir, is very kind of u2 say (much appreciated). However, I do believe "ThePumpkinJuggler" summed it up best.
...& looks can be deceiving, knowing full well it's not what makes us a good person. There is a lot more to a person than just their external appearances. If only we had divine eyes to see the souls of peeps. "
Thats deep and true...that would be something. From what I do see you are beautiful xx |
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
Honestly, good on you! It's so easy to let others get in your head about what a good picture is that we end up doing it to please others rather than ourselves. Keep doing you because the people who are attracted by your pics are the ones you want to be with anyway
Exactly that, I've tried doing what I think others will like and it just feels awkward. Much easier just being yourself
,, you look great lana,,
Thank u Sir, is very kind of u2 say (much appreciated). However, I do believe "ThePumpkinJuggler" summed it up best.
...& looks can be deceiving, knowing full well it's not what makes us a good person. There is a lot more to a person than just their external appearances. If only we had divine eyes to see the souls of peeps. "
Kind of like Jack Black in Shallow Hal.
And Lana you know I think you look gorgeous |
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
"I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself."
I could not agree more with this!
I have viewed your gallery before and I think you have some really great pics."
Agreed, on the viewpoint and on his gallery!
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
Honestly, good on you! It's so easy to let others get in your head about what a good picture is that we end up doing it to please others rather than ourselves. Keep doing you because the people who are attracted by your pics are the ones you want to be with anyway
Exactly that, I've tried doing what I think others will like and it just feels awkward. Much easier just being yourself
,, you look great lana,,
Thank u Sir, is very kind of u2 say (much appreciated). However, I do believe "ThePumpkinJuggler" summed it up best.
...& looks can be deceiving, knowing full well it's not what makes us a good person. There is a lot more to a person than just their external appearances. If only we had divine eyes to see the souls of peeps.
Kind of like Jack Black in Shallow Hal.
And Lana you know I think you look gorgeous "
Brilliant film and thank u. You know how I feel about u2. I kinda feel a lil embarrassed letting all know in public forum. Nevertheless, hoping our paths will cross someday. |
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I post the pics I like on my profile. Couldn’t give a monkeys whether they get fabs or not or if anyone else likes them. They’re only there to show off who I am. And I’m not going to be for everyone but that’s all good by me  |
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"I do at times have my reservations about posting pics of me in lingerie and other femme clothing.
I also have my reservations about posting pics with my cock and or asshole on display.
The only reason why I feel this way is because it's likely to harm my chances of attracting women (at least that's my impression)
But I do post anyway because I like these pics and they make me happy. The person in the pics is who I am and what I like so that's what I want people to see, and you should always be true to yourself.
Honestly, good on you! It's so easy to let others get in your head about what a good picture is that we end up doing it to please others rather than ourselves. Keep doing you because the people who are attracted by your pics are the ones you want to be with anyway
Exactly that, I've tried doing what I think others will like and it just feels awkward. Much easier just being yourself
,, you look great lana,,
Thank u Sir, is very kind of u2 say (much appreciated). However, I do believe "ThePumpkinJuggler" summed it up best.
...& looks can be deceiving, knowing full well it's not what makes us a good person. There is a lot more to a person than just their external appearances. If only we had divine eyes to see the souls of peeps.
Thats deep and true...that would be something. From what I do see you are beautiful xx"
Thank u & without wishing to embarrass, you're not only blessed with sexy looks but more importantly a kind soul from the talks we had. Rare combo to be found in single individual these days. |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
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I have thousands of pictures to choose from so I'll pick the best recent ones, & then when I have time go through the archives to see one I perhaps didn’t use before or one that could look better with an effect or a filter |
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Oh, I have endless low-level anxiety about my pictures. The lacks of fabs bothers me, but then I'm bothered by how bothered I am about that, because it speaks to a pathetic neediness that I despise in myself.
And then again, everyone 'hates cock pics', except those get by far the most fabs (by which I mean, about as many in 4 months as Lemonbuttercream or RedForDanger get in 5 minutes, but still)... |
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"How do you choose which pictures you display?
Are they governed by the amount of fabs they receive?
If they appear to not be pleasing to others, do you remove them?
Gorgeous pics x
Or, do show what you like about yourself?
You don't care what others think?"
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"How do you choose which pictures you display?
Are they governed by the amount of fabs they receive?
If they appear to not be pleasing to others, do you remove them?
Or, do show what you like about yourself?
You don't care what others think?"
I like my pics to be fabbed but i dont really care too much which ones i display  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't give a shit if some people don't like our pictures.
I expect some are way to graphic for many and for others probably too tame. You can't please everyone and generally we have very positive comments.
We do enjoy giving pleasure to others.
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I've never posted pics here based on what others like or just for fabs.
If I did I would have given up long ago because only a handful of my pics have ever hit double figure fabs initially. Some have built up a few over a long period of time.
I take pics spontaneously when the notion takes me and have never spent more than 5 mins on any pic.
They are there because I like them and if others appreciate them that's always a bonus.
I'll scroll through them every few months and take down those I no longer like. |
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I like to leave something to the imagination...or until at least we've messaged...
It seems to stop the mundane messages of "nice tits" etc..most of the time...though not always..
I want a connection based on my personality rather than my pictures...
Though still get the dick pics sent, which automatically get blocked & deleted...
If I want to see I will ask.. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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We post what we want, when we want and rarely delete any.
We also have zero 'friends only' pics. Its the easiest way to avoid endless random friends requests as there's no bonus content to see, so no point adding us unless you actually know us. You won't get to see anything extra or face pics by doing so as they're in the 'private' folder.
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