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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
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What is it about bad that is so good?
Like against your better judgment you think you can reign them in or just the fact they challenge you
Why do they get into your head in a way good doesn’t get you ? |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Hey you.
So, I don't know what a duffer is.
But whatever that is, I'm sorry you picked one.
Sometimes we like that challenge. Keeps us on our toes. It's thrilling because they're very much not a good idea.
Hope you're a bit better when you read this.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What is it about bad that is so good?
Like against your better judgment you think you can reign them in or just the fact they challenge you
Why do they get into your head in a way good doesn’t get you ?"
I can't be dealing with bad ones, I prefer a stress free life  |
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They are fun, they push those buttons that no one else can. You don't want to tame them, just ride the wave of madness till you have to get off for some grounding.
They're very hard work, but fuck me what a rush  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is it about bad that is so good?
Like against your better judgment you think you can reign them in or just the fact they challenge you
Why do they get into your head in a way good doesn’t get you ?
I can't be dealing with bad ones, I prefer a stress free life "
Don't we all....  |
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I think for me, when I was younger, the bad ones were like a partner in crime. It meant that I didn't have to reign myself in as much, they could deal with my chaos without getting all emotional about it. They were volatile, exciting dalliances....the good ones always seemed a bit boring in comparison. |
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"I think for me, when I was younger, the bad ones were like a partner in crime. It meant that I didn't have to reign myself in as much, they could deal with my chaos without getting all emotional about it. They were volatile, exciting dalliances....the good ones always seemed a bit boring in comparison. "
Has that changed then since you were younger and if so, how may I ask ?
I understand the partner in crime thing in a past tense and to be fair maybe a little dangerous liaison in the future just to reminder of yesteryear but as age increases we feel we should at least try and conform to the sensibilities of today(or maybe not) ?
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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It can be exciting, thrilling, a challenge, a way to live your life through them.
However, some bad behaviour is toxic, and its important to be able to recognise and escape that before it consumes you as well as them!  |
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"I think for me, when I was younger, the bad ones were like a partner in crime. It meant that I didn't have to reign myself in as much, they could deal with my chaos without getting all emotional about it. They were volatile, exciting dalliances....the good ones always seemed a bit boring in comparison.
Has that changed then since you were younger and if so, how may I ask ?
I understand the partner in crime thing in a past tense and to be fair maybe a little dangerous liaison in the future just to reminder of yesteryear but as age increases we feel we should at least try and conform to the sensibilities of today(or maybe not) ?
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I've just mellowed in general as I've aged.
Oh goodness no, I don't feel the need to conform to any societal ideals that others try to impose on me. It's more the fact that I've been there, done that, got the t-shirt....that lifestyle doesn't interest me any more, other things bring me happiness and contentment these days. |
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"I think for me, when I was younger, the bad ones were like a partner in crime. It meant that I didn't have to reign myself in as much, they could deal with my chaos without getting all emotional about it. They were volatile, exciting dalliances....the good ones always seemed a bit boring in comparison.
Has that changed then since you were younger and if so, how may I ask ?
I understand the partner in crime thing in a past tense and to be fair maybe a little dangerous liaison in the future just to reminder of yesteryear but as age increases we feel we should at least try and conform to the sensibilities of today(or maybe not) ?
I've just mellowed in general as I've aged.
Oh goodness no, I don't feel the need to conform to any societal ideals that others try to impose on me. It's more the fact that I've been there, done that, got the t-shirt....that lifestyle doesn't interest me any more, other things bring me happiness and contentment these days. "
Fair enough and understand now but forgive my questioning but very glad other things have brought you the happiness and contentment you seeked.
I absolutely won’t and can’t conform to all the beliefs and ideals and don’t accept what other people feel and tell me as that’s the individuals opinion which we all have but just wish more had that philosophy.
Glad the mellowness has kicked in and wish you and all well for the future.
Sorry Op but good question to be fair |
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
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"Hey you.
So, I don't know what a duffer is.
But whatever that is, I'm sorry you picked one.
Sometimes we like that challenge. Keeps us on our toes. It's thrilling because they're very much not a good idea.
Hope you're a bit better when you read this.
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A duffer is a firework that fizzles and then goes out and you should never never attempt to reA-light it - it was when I was a kid anyway!
I’m fine , just needed a few days to be sad. I let her get under my skin. But am back now. What was her name again?
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By *rHotNotts OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think for me, when I was younger, the bad ones were like a partner in crime. It meant that I didn't have to reign myself in as much, they could deal with my chaos without getting all emotional about it. They were volatile, exciting dalliances....the good ones always seemed a bit boring in comparison.
Has that changed then since you were younger and if so, how may I ask ?
I understand the partner in crime thing in a past tense and to be fair maybe a little dangerous liaison in the future just to reminder of yesteryear but as age increases we feel we should at least try and conform to the sensibilities of today(or maybe not) ?
I've just mellowed in general as I've aged.
Oh goodness no, I don't feel the need to conform to any societal ideals that others try to impose on me. It's more the fact that I've been there, done that, got the t-shirt....that lifestyle doesn't interest me any more, other things bring me happiness and contentment these days.
Fair enough and understand now but forgive my questioning but very glad other things have brought you the happiness and contentment you seeked.
I absolutely won’t and can’t conform to all the beliefs and ideals and don’t accept what other people feel and tell me as that’s the individuals opinion which we all have but just wish more had that philosophy.
Glad the mellowness has kicked in and wish you and all well for the future.
Sorry Op but good question to be fair "
No worries, interesting. I still break all the rules and am often attracted to people more if people warn me off them.
I do think different people bring out different things in each other , no one is all bad or all good. And my experience of someone is unique to me.if you want a full and rich life you have to go where it’s dangerous sometimes.
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