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Bizarre seeing profiles with infos I can't work out. So if you can help explain or add to it, Knock yourself out.
Examples:
Cannot Accommodate and Cannot Travel!
Or profiles with no pics or verifications asking for photos with 1St message!
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"Not meeting, only meeting locally, here to cam, only meeting in clubs or dogging.
Anyone can ask for anything they want. Whether you think it's worth giving to them is another matter."
Exactly this.
If someone says they can’t accommodate or travel there are many reasons behind it.
Travel can typically be taken to mean a car journey, but they could use buses/trains/walking/short taxi journeys.
It could mean they’re only here to meet in clubs, chat in the forums or on cam, not meeting anyone new, dogging etc etc.
Not displaying pictures and information on their profile is their prerogative. They are equally entitled to ask for all that on a first message.
Whether you want to engage with that person is entirely up to you. If you aren’t interested, scroll past! |
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Fab should ideally have more chpices for meeting options. Clubs, hotels, etc.
I avoid those who say they don't travel. They may have meant not long distances but I'm looking for people who leave their place.
Expanding Fab choices and letting users search on everything that is input, would make things much better |
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Well we don't travel but will accomodate once we know people but as already posted the ones demanding face pics ?? yet....and even funnier are the ones demanding/asking for cock pics ?? when 90% of updates all feature a cock ( in our area) ??xxx  |
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Not really any different to me saying I can travel and accommodate except travelling means a max of an hour and accommodating will always been in an hotel.
However no-one really needs that additional info if we haven't already met for a social and may be discussing taking it further. Up to that point it's irrelevant. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Bizarre seeing profiles with infos I can't work out. So if you can help explain or add to it, Knock yourself out.
Examples:
Cannot Accommodate and Cannot Travel!
Or profiles with no pics or verifications asking for photos with 1St message!
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No answer to the question....
But a question for you OP. Would you really bother spending more than 2 seconds looking at a profile with no photos and no veris, let alone consider messaging one? 
Really? With no idea what they look like, no idea if the actually exist and the worry of where any potential meet could actually take place?
Or....and bear with me on this wild and crazy idea!! Would you just move on to a profile with pretty pics that could either travel or accom, thus reducing any dilemma as to that question?
A |
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over a year ago
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It’s the profiles with very revealing photos where they state ‘if you send dick pics, I will block!’ … well, you’ve shown me yours so in theory, I’m obliged to show you mine!!  
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Or profiles with no pics or verifications asking for photos with 1St message!
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I don’t understand people who moan about this. You’re under no obligation to contact anyone. If you don’t like what they’re asking for, don’t contact them?
I don’t have any face pics public on mine, I won’t respond to messages without face pics but i will respond with mine if I’m chatting with someone who’s sent one. I’m not insisting that anyone else has public face pics, there’s a huge difference between displaying them publicly and sending them privately. If you don’t like what someone asks for, just leave them alone and find someone you do like |
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"The one I find most confusing is:
Looking for: Couples, Females
Go to message them from our couples profile
"Sorry, the user has blocked everyone of your sex"
Pardon? :-S "
I'm looking to meet men, couples, and women, as a general rule.
However, as I pretty much don't meet at the moment, I don't want the Fabmin of a normal single female inbox. (Most of the time it's a pain in the arse, it's worse when it's a guaranteed to be fruitless pain in the arse)
So I block them from messaging me, and, where appropriate, message them myself. |
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"The one I find most confusing is:
Looking for: Couples, Females
Go to message them from our couples profile
"Sorry, the user has blocked everyone of your sex"
Pardon? :-S
I'm looking to meet men, couples, and women, as a general rule.
However, as I pretty much don't meet at the moment, I don't want the Fabmin of a normal single female inbox. (Most of the time it's a pain in the arse, it's worse when it's a guaranteed to be fruitless pain in the arse)
So I block them from messaging me, and, where appropriate, message them myself."
That all makes logical sense, I'm just more confused with how it works from a site point of view. From memory when I delved into the settings I don't recall a way to actually block an entire class of people other than by removing them from what is being looked for.
Clearly it must exist, but I didn't find it :-S |
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over a year ago
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"The one I find most confusing is:
Looking for: Couples, Females
Go to message them from our couples profile
"Sorry, the user has blocked everyone of your sex"
Pardon? :-S
I'm looking to meet men, couples, and women, as a general rule.
However, as I pretty much don't meet at the moment, I don't want the Fabmin of a normal single female inbox. (Most of the time it's a pain in the arse, it's worse when it's a guaranteed to be fruitless pain in the arse)
So I block them from messaging me, and, where appropriate, message them myself.
That all makes logical sense, I'm just more confused with how it works from a site point of view. From memory when I delved into the settings I don't recall a way to actually block an entire class of people other than by removing them from what is being looked for.
Clearly it must exist, but I didn't find it :-S "
Use the mail filters. You can turn them off for each type |
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"Bizarre seeing profiles with infos I can't work out. So if you can help explain or add to it, Knock yourself out.
Examples:
Cannot Accommodate and Cannot Travel!
Or profiles with no pics or verifications asking for photos with 1St message!
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The first one is clear as a bell. Doesn't meet in their home. Doesn't travel further than they want to.
That still leave tons of options for meeting and for sex but im not about to spell them out.
Second one is clear as a bell also. The profile does not have a public pic BUT they want to see your pic privately before they meet or before they decide to reply.
If you don't want to organise things that way then that's fine. Do what you want ..... just as they are.
Spend your time doing things your way and not thinking about why others don't do it your way. |
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"The one I find most confusing is:
Looking for: Couples, Females
Go to message them from our couples profile
"Sorry, the user has blocked everyone of your sex"
Pardon? :-S
I'm looking to meet men, couples, and women, as a general rule.
However, as I pretty much don't meet at the moment, I don't want the Fabmin of a normal single female inbox. (Most of the time it's a pain in the arse, it's worse when it's a guaranteed to be fruitless pain in the arse)
So I block them from messaging me, and, where appropriate, message them myself.
That all makes logical sense, I'm just more confused with how it works from a site point of view. From memory when I delved into the settings I don't recall a way to actually block an entire class of people other than by removing them from what is being looked for.
Clearly it must exist, but I didn't find it :-S
Use the mail filters. You can turn them off for each type "
Yes. I've turned them off for everyone. I call it my "fuck off" setting |
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"Bizarre seeing profiles with infos I can't work out. So if you can help explain or add to it, Knock yourself out.
Examples:
Cannot Accommodate and Cannot Travel!
Or profiles with no pics or verifications asking for photos with 1St message!
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I love these people. Gives me a fighting chance of making contact. |
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