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Question time for the ladies
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lady part of a couple. Our profile before this we got probably 30+ a day 
Now we know about the messaging filters from the get go we get about 2 or 3 a day. Much more meaningful conversations too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have my filters whacked up tighter than shields on the starship Enterprise in hyperspace & under fire from laser doodads 
Have I suitably mangled that reference?
Well between that & setting my profile to private I now can enjoy pottering about on here and only get texts from people I was already chatting to 
Maybe 1-5 / day.
Always depends on how much I am posting on the forums, if I'm playing a forum game, if I decide to drop a new pic  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not a clue, never counted. It’s a pretty ridiculous amount though."
Well if you will go around being all sexy, how are mere mortal men supposed to control themselves?  |
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It really depends, I'm never inundated though. Never been in the 100s like some of the ladies. When it's busy... Maybe 50? On an average day, maybe 15 or so, I don't ever keep count. 95% get deleted as they haven't even read the profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Couldn’t say as I bulk delete regularly currently have 78 unread, I do try and read them and reply to whom I want but it can be too much and I loose touch with some "
That explains why you didn’t reply  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"50 odd messages a day on average
225 unread
Wow that is crazy ! - dose that put you off the site ? "
it depends i try clear them and reply to a few but its hard as im clear about what i want and most dont read profile
ive found what im looking for so all good hence the not meeting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In average 60 a day but gets higher, if my status goes up..
How do you figure out which ones to read? "
Sometimes sheer luck. Sometimes it's just the profile picture that strikes up my interest or the first lines of the message. I try to open up most of them and reply but once I get caught up in a conversation , I don't bother open up the rest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"O to a few per day. But I rarely look at messages there's just over 200 unread. With threads I reply on the thread not by messages."
I feel lucky I don’t get lots of messages. I can’t stand it when I have unread emails or apps with notifications unread. Not sure I could cope with a sea of yellow on fab. (And I’d have to read them) |
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"I feel lucky I don’t get lots of messages. I can’t stand it when I have unread emails or apps with notifications unread. Not sure I could cope with a sea of yellow on fab. (And I’d have to read them)"
I find it really stressful. And with strict filters we only get a few each week. And then there's the etiquette of do we leave them on read for ages until the other half can see and we can discuss, do we read then mark unread (yellow stress again)...Aargh
Yes I'm overthinking it, I overthink everything
J |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I feel lucky I don’t get lots of messages. I can’t stand it when I have unread emails or apps with notifications unread. Not sure I could cope with a sea of yellow on fab. (And I’d have to read them)
I find it really stressful. And with strict filters we only get a few each week. And then there's the etiquette of do we leave them on read for ages until the other half can see and we can discuss, do we read then mark unread (yellow stress again)...Aargh
Yes I'm overthinking it, I overthink everything
J"
I’ve had a reply before that said “thank you, will get back to you when we’ve both read” and they put it back to unread.
I would think that would take time you might not have though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From existing pals... probably 5 or 6 different contacts a day.
New approaches, a handful... generally a handful of idiots who can't read. "
Do you sometimes wonder if they can write too? |
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"From existing pals... probably 5 or 6 different contacts a day.
New approaches, a handful... generally a handful of idiots who can't read.
Do you sometimes wonder if they can write too?"
It astounds me how they get through life sometimes! I mean, surely at some point they have to do more than just look at pictures right? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From existing pals... probably 5 or 6 different contacts a day.
New approaches, a handful... generally a handful of idiots who can't read.
Do you sometimes wonder if they can write too?
It astounds me how they get through life sometimes! I mean, surely at some point they have to do more than just look at pictures right?"
I think you’d be surprised  |
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If I open my inbox and put up a photo or status it can be between 20 and 100. If its past 9pm on a Friday or Saturday and I'm online it's the higher numbers. Cant get filters to work properly so I rarely have my inbox open. Prefer to message first when I like someone  |
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