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By *ewguy Paul OP Man over a year ago

Herts

I'm one of them. Thoughts please

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Not for me thanks.

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By *erandHerManCouple over a year ago

Swindon

No thankyou x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can't give my thought or the popo will get me

but no I am not a fan

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cheating isn't swinging in my opinion, sorry

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Do you cheat at everything?

Keep an eye open while playing hide and seek?

Rob the bank as the banker when playing Monopoly?

Take a sneaky look at the centre cards when playing cluedo?

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By *oofy321Man over a year ago

moon base zero

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

Im sure its your wife's fault your on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do what you want.

But certainly not for us, we find it so disrespectful.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm wondering what are you hoping to gain from this thread?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ve been on the other side of it and it’s devastating. I don’t think I could help someone break someone’s heart like that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this a guilt thing, self flagelation?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t like it. Don’t agree with it.

Doesn’t matter your wife or girlfriend gave you “pass” to sleep around it still isn’t excuse in my eyes.

Either you walk away from relationship if you’re not happy or don’t do it at all. There’s no middle way in this.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here’s some ointment OP.

For the new arse hole that you’ll have torn for you here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright."

Women don’t tend to come in the forums and shout it from the rafters like a majority of guys do. Hence the do it under the radar.

I’ll grant you. There is some double standards involved too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright."

no its wrong either way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright."

Not at all, not in our case anyway.

We will not meet anybody doing it regardless of the sex of the person.

We have turned down a few women before who have it openly in their profile they're cheating.

Miss S x

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By *endydick.CumbersnatchMan over a year ago

"Do you cheat at everything?

Keep an eye open while playing hide and seek?

Rob the bank as the banker when playing Monopoly?

Take a sneaky look at the centre cards when playing cluedo?

Would you download a car?

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By *ustamanMan over a year ago

weymouth

"I'm wondering what are you hoping to gain from this thread? "

Perhaps some masochistic pain from the collective whipping by the FAB massive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright.

Not at all, not in our case anyway.

We will not meet anybody doing it regardless of the sex of the person.

We have turned down a few women before who have it openly in their profile they're cheating.

Miss S x"

I totally agree with you both x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is seen differently by people when a woman does it. Men get shot down for it on here.

I recently saw a woman post about being disappointed that a man had a small cock. Now if a man said he was disappointed that a woman had a slack pussy he would get hate messages, but the women didn't even get a single thing said about it.

Im not in a relationship myself.. I'm just saying it how it is.

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By *.L.0460.Woman over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

It's a big fat no from me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

It's a big fat no from me. "

Who you calling fat!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

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By *weet and SpiceCouple over a year ago

Around the Midlands

*grabs popcorn*

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By *.L.0460.Woman over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

It's a big fat no from me.

Who you calling fat!!"

Someone my size would be pretty hypocritical calling someone else fat!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

hence i refrained woody

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

It's a big fat no from me.

Who you calling fat!!

Someone my size would be pretty hypocritical calling someone else fat!

I prefer the term curvy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright."

No it’s not. You’re trying to justify your post with this week ass argument. ?!?!

Go and speak you your wife/partner and come back and post the results.

If you have any integrity at all or any of your morals that you promised her you have, you would talk to her. Be that man she hopes you are.

Ffs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure what the op hoped to gain from

1. Starting this thread

1. Buggering off and not replying

Some people

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing."

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

I'll get the savlon.

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By *entBarryUKMan over a year ago

Ashford

Why cheat? It benefits nobody.

Open relationships are great for all!

Especially my wife! Lucky minx.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

Its your choice.

Same as its everyone's choose if they meet you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing."

It's a very ironic statement from him for sure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner. "

Haha glad you realized it wasn't him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner. "

Just talking reality. The double standards on here can be annoying to see, so I decided to let my tounge go too.

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By *lirty_dirtyCouple over a year ago

Lingfield

Your situation and reasons are totally unknown to us and that applies to anyone else 'playing away'

We do meet married people and have no issues with that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner. "

Almost like it’s the same person …..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A big no. Cheating in a relationship is wrong in my opinion. What's the whole point of being with someone who you declare love ?

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By *icolerobbieCouple over a year ago

walsall

I prefer to not judge.

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By *ustincider888Man over a year ago

Preston Ish

Do as you please OP, it's up to you.

All you have to do is "own it" if the shit goes south.

Some will be against it - fuck em

Some won't be mithered - fuck em.

(See what I did there?)

Peace out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hope your wife finds someone who will respect her OP, as you clearly don't, or you wouldn't be on here.

Cheating isn't swinging

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By *.L.0460.Woman over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner.

Just talking reality. The double standards on here can be annoying to see, so I decided to let my tounge go too. "

There are double standards- a majority of men on here are indiscriminate if they're offered the chance to get their dick wet...I'll bet they wouldn't want their wives on here though...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm wondering what are you hoping to gain from this thread?

Perhaps some masochistic pain from the collective whipping by the FAB massive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cheating" fullstop; isn't a good thing under any circumstances. However, not here to judge since everyone has their own story to tell.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd say that you need to ask yourself if you are at peace with it. Others will have their opinion.

Most may not condone it but some will accept that they don't walk in your shoes.

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple over a year ago

Preston

"It is seen differently by people when a woman does it. Men get shot down for it on here.

Im not in a relationship myself.. I'm just saying it how it is."

Only difference is the audience. 5k M profiles all thinking they'll get laid if they empathise with the cheating F.

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple over a year ago

Preston

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

You know exactly what you are, enjoy the feedback.

And since you specifically requested thoughts, I think whatever excuse you post for cheating is weak and pathetic.

You're welcome.

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By *p4fun60Couple over a year ago

Hampshire

I've got to admit every time I visit a club, especially during the day I often wonder how many of the so called single guys are often married & cheating

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By *urvySub87Woman over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

Each to their own I guess but I personally find it a bit grim to be so proud of it that you put it on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing."

You’re giving real incel vibes with this shit… woman, man or non-binary person if you tell someone you’re monogamous and you’re out fucking other people it’s wrong. Lies are wrong, if you struggle with that then there’s nursery’s up and down the country to help you.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Not for me, dishonesty isn't hot, breaking a family isn't fun, hurting someone isn't my cuppa tea.

Mrs

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright."

Do you see women posting threads like this. Cheating is wrong

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By *oreAgainForeverCouple over a year ago

doncaster

What’s worse than cheating is putting a post up owning what you are doing…each to their own but certainly not for us

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner.

Just talking reality. The double standards on here can be annoying to see, so I decided to let my tounge go too. "

you can justify it however you want in your mind. But have a man or woman try it in front of strong minded individuals who know how feelings, trust and respect work and how partners and loved ones should be treated. I’ll spell it out to you and whoever reads this. HONESTY, that’s what the op should try and stop waiting for someone to tell him it’s okay to fuck his wife over behind her back.

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By *ustincider888Man over a year ago

Preston Ish

I love these threads.

Proper drama

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"What’s worse than cheating is putting a post up owning what you are doing…each to their own but certainly not for us "

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By *gent CoulsonMan over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I have been cheated on and found out, it hurts like fuck

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By *amierebelMan over a year ago

My own little world

Where did the op go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where did the op go

to lick his wounds

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where did the op go

To start a new profile where he says “I’m single”

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By *irkby coupleCouple over a year ago

Kirkby

Good for you!

It’s not really any of our business and what ever happens won’t effect us so we are not going to judge you, loads already have though.

I one way I think good on you, your not getting what you want at home so why not get it elsewhere. On the other hand I think your poor wife.

Either way, I don’t know your situation so I can’t judge you.

Your a braver man then me, 1 women burns my head out, never mind trying to find an extra side chick!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where did the op go

The wife came home.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Your a braver man then me, 1 women burns my head out, never mind trying to find an extra side chick!"

You've got a pair on you yourself. I'm guessing it'll be the guest room for you tonight.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

Your poor wife

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"1 women burns my head out, never mind trying to find an extra side chick!"

I could never be a Mormon and the idea of being a muslim and getting 72 virgins in paradise would fill me with dread (probably all nuns who died at a ripe old age)

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By *ab FunstersCouple over a year ago

Midlands

This makes it easy forming a blocked list...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You sound proud of the fact !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

How do you expect people to trust you to join them, if your cheating on your wife?

Not for us thanks

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By *akingMemoriesMan over a year ago

Toronto

I respect your boldness OP. That said, people who like cheating husbands probably won’t admit to it on a forum.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

"Cheating isn't swinging in my opinion, sorry "

This

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright.

Women don’t tend to come in the forums and shout it from the rafters like a majority of guys do. Hence the do it under the radar.

I’ll grant you. There is some double standards involved too. "

Plus many men won't care if she's married as long as they get sex or they see it as getting one up on her hubby and it turns them on.

I wouldn't knowingly meet a cheat .

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By *ulieAndBeefCouple over a year ago

Manchester-ish

I hope karma tears you a new one. Those are my thoughts.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

Here are my general thoughts. Don’t bother asking on a sex site what people think of you because then they get to have an opinion and most of them you won’t want to hear. We are all holier than thou on these forums. We are positively polishing our halo as we judge others. So I would say, I have no thoughts on you cheating, it’s your business not mine and it’s nothing to do with anyone else unless you make it so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner.

Just talking reality. The double standards on here can be annoying to see, so I decided to let my tounge go too.

I didn't say I was trying to justify it.

It looks like a couple of other users have mistaken me for the OP too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner.

Just talking reality. The double standards on here can be annoying to see, so I decided to let my tounge go too.

I didn't say I was trying to justify it.

It looks like a couple of other users have mistaken me for the OP too.

You have the same picture on

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By *oofy321Man over a year ago

moon base zero

Think the op did this just to cause a commotion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner.

Just talking reality. The double standards on here can be annoying to see, so I decided to let my tounge go too.

I didn't say I was trying to justify it.

It looks like a couple of other users have mistaken me for the OP too.

You have the same picture on

Yes I still haven't got round to that. Need to take some pictures soon.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner.

Just talking reality. The double standards on here can be annoying to see, so I decided to let my tounge go too.

I didn't say I was trying to justify it.

It looks like a couple of other users have mistaken me for the OP too.

You have the same picture on

Yes I still haven't got round to that. Need to take some pictures soon. "

Pop round I’ll take some for you

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By *andC1000Couple over a year ago

Ashford

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner.

Just talking reality. The double standards on here can be annoying to see, so I decided to let my tounge go too.

I didn't say I was trying to justify it.

It looks like a couple of other users have mistaken me for the OP too.

You have the same picture on

Yes I still haven't got round to that. Need to take some pictures soon.

Pop round I’ll take some for you

You are much better with a camera than me, I'll give you that.

I'll sort it out soon.

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By *ustus555Couple over a year ago

Cheating is cheating. Swinging is consensual sex between partners. Just my opinion.

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating. Swinging is consensual sex between partners. Just my opinion.

However some swingers do cheat.

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By *andC1000Couple over a year ago

Ashford

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright.

No it’s not. You’re trying to justify your post with this week ass argument. ?!?!

Go and speak you your wife/partner and come back and post the results.

If you have any integrity at all or any of your morals that you promised her you have, you would talk to her. Be that man she hopes you are.

Ffs. "

exactly this. If half the men actually spoke to their wives and gave them some attention rather than expecting it on tap all the time without any thought or effort they might actually get a nice surprise!

Not only do they lack any morals they have no respect or care for the health implications that may be involved especially those who are exploring their bicurious side

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By *sBlueWoman over a year ago

Up North

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner.

Just talking reality. The double standards on here can be annoying to see, so I decided to let my tounge go too. "

I don’t see any double standards. Show me where?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please

You’re an a grade asshole x2

One for doing it. And 1 for posting this. Well done.

*mods. He asked my opinion, but I’ll take the timeout.

That's a bit cheeky to say don't you think. I bet you wouldn't say that if a woman had posted the same thing.

I’ve held my tongue for too long. You’re getting the blunt of it.

Cheeky? You posted the question, not me.

Sorry. I thought this was the op. ..,

But I’m confused why you would pop into his corner.

Just talking reality. The double standards on here can be annoying to see, so I decided to let my tounge go too.

I don’t see any double standards. Show me where? "

It's fab in general

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By *onnie 90Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

Nope.

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think as long as you're honest about it and you're not bad mouthing your wife when she's not able to defend herself then it doesn't particularly bother me. It's not always as black and white as some people make out. And there are so many on here who pretend to be saints disgusted by this sort of thing, but would jump at the chance to wank off a beautiful man they fancy even if he's got a ring on his finger. I'm just saying.

I definitely don't seek out married men, but if I find a spark with someone and he's married it wouldn't stop me.

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By *heGateKeeperMan over a year ago

Stratford

Honesty is the best policy and the one I apply on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just be honest with the ones that interest you and let them decide.

It's no one else's business how you use your fab account.

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

Its very black and white. Some people have morals. Some don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where did the op go

I think he's one of those who treats forum threads like fireworks.

You know, light the fuse then leggit

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By *heGateKeeperMan over a year ago

Stratford

"Its very black and white. Some people have morals. Some don't."

You’re allowed to have black and white lines in your own judgement of whether you would get involved but i don’t think it’s simply black and white IMO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You do you OP, some will meet you some won't.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I heard it put as 'it's cheating if it leaves one party of the relationship feeling betrayed'. Which makes sense as we all know it takes lots of forms.... emotional, physical, etc. so it's not as simple as Penis/VaginaMakingMischief or similar.

But the principle is the same.

So whilst swinging lacks monogamy, if it's done as it's intended with no shady nonsense, then it shouldn't lead to cheating. But it can do as it's often used as a sticking plaster on a bad relationship and can be like Pandoras Box

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

"Its very black and white. Some people have morals. Some don't.

You’re allowed to have black and white lines in your own judgement of whether you would get involved but i don’t think it’s simply black and white IMO"

Its as clear as crystal to me. No grey area. You're a cheat or you're not. And knowingly getting involved with someone who's cheating is just as bad.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been cheated on, then I became been the cheat. I have been with those cheating, I have been with those cheated on who were also cheats, I have lectured cheats cheating with cheats. It is all a pile of shite at the end of the day. As long as I have full knowledge of a situation, it is on me to decide if I can accept it or not or say no thankyou. Ideally no-one would ever cheat, everyone would talk it out, but well, humans love misery.

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By *ustus555Couple over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating. Swinging is consensual sex between partners. Just my opinion.

However some swingers do cheat. "

True. Such is life.

Let's just say we stick to cpls. That way at least we know is totally consensual. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its very black and white. Some people have morals. Some don't.

You’re allowed to have black and white lines in your own judgement of whether you would get involved but i don’t think it’s simply black and white IMO

Its as clear as crystal to me. No grey area. You're a cheat or you're not. And knowingly getting involved with someone who's cheating is just as bad."

I think we can all agree that a cheat is a cheat, there's no black or white when it comes to that. But you've got to pretty naive to think every situation is the same when it comes to cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating. Swinging is consensual sex between partners. Just my opinion.

However some swingers do cheat.

True. Such is life.

Let's just say we stick to cpls. That way at least we know is totally consensual. X"

Unless your couple is made of two people not marrried and cheating

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

"Its very black and white. Some people have morals. Some don't.

You’re allowed to have black and white lines in your own judgement of whether you would get involved but i don’t think it’s simply black and white IMO

Its as clear as crystal to me. No grey area. You're a cheat or you're not. And knowingly getting involved with someone who's cheating is just as bad.

I think we can all agree that a cheat is a cheat, there's no black or white when it comes to that. But you've got to pretty naive to think every situation is the same when it comes to cheating."

I don't think every situation is the same. Nor am i naive...far from it. What i do think is if your partner is unaware...you are cheating...that simple. If you knowingly get involved with a cheat, you are just as bad...that simple

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By *ustus555Couple over a year ago

"I heard it put as 'it's cheating if it leaves one party of the relationship feeling betrayed'. Which makes sense as we all know it takes lots of forms.... emotional, physical, etc. so it's not as simple as Penis/VaginaMakingMischief or similar.

But the principle is the same.

Very true.

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By *ustus555Couple over a year ago

"Cheating is cheating. Swinging is consensual sex between partners. Just my opinion.

However some swingers do cheat.

True. Such is life.

Let's just say we stick to cpls. That way at least we know is totally consensual. X

Unless your couple is made of two people not marrried and cheating

Wich they are. Always.

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By *ustus555Couple over a year ago

Married that is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Married that is"

(just not always to each other)

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By *ustus555Couple over a year ago

Why do ppl find it necessary to pm you in this thread?? It's an opinion. You might not like it, but it's ours. If some narcissist wants to post it then they should expect an eclectic response. Done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

Nothing to be proud of

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By *inger_SnapWoman over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Wrong on every level. Regardless of if it's a man or woman.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wrong on every level. Regardless of if it's a man or woman."

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By *arialoueWoman over a year ago

bradford

I'm not interested in cheaters

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wrong and goes against all my morals.

If you’re not happy, either work through it together, or leave. Why would you cheat? The devastation it causes is nothing short of life changing and altering for those being cheated on.

Mrs

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By *eard and BoobsCouple over a year ago

Portstewart

Definitely not for us as we wouldn’t do it to each other and also we would not fancy getting caught up in any fall out of the cheater was found out. No matter the reason unless we can speak to the wife and know she has given permission would we invite or join a married man. We may have a bit of banter but we always make it clear that’s all it is.

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By *ab FunstersCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright."

No it's not a decent thing to do to another human being from a male or female.No excuses for either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not for me. Just a shame you can't work things out with your wife OP, instead you feel the need to cheat on her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright.

No it's not a decent thing to do to another human being from a male or female.No excuses for either."

Yeah but it isn't seen that way on fab. That's what I meant.

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By *host63Man over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

"It's seen yo be terrible when men do it, but when a woman does it, its alright."

Yep a double standard

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman over a year ago

Basingstoke

I dont care if someone is cheating - whatever is going on (or isn't happening) within that relationship is none of my business.

However I tend to steer clear because I want 100% of someone's attention when I'm with them. I want flexibility with the time we have together without worrying if the other person is going to get a phone call and have to leave.

But mostly I don't want to be named in a divorce petition, and I don't want to get emotionally attached to someone who is emotionally unavailable - it's about me putting myself first.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

It's only seen as double standards because a lot of men get off on fucking another man's wife especially when the husband doesn't know, going by a lot of the messages I've received over the years as they don't want to know when I say my husband is fully aware I'm on here or they have the audacity to say I'm a hypocrite because I won't meet someone who is cheating, it not as common the other way around

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's only seen as double standards because a lot of men get off on fucking another man's wife especially when the husband doesn't know, going by a lot of the messages I've received over the years as they don't want to know when I say my husband is fully aware I'm on here or they have the audacity to say I'm a hypocrite because I won't meet someone who is cheating, it not as common the other way around "

I also love the thought of sleeping with a married women who's husband doesn't know

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Cheating on someone by either sex is not acceptable in my book. Fuck the potential drama that comes with being caught out...no thanks x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Absolutely fucking hilarious. I love threads like these. Entertainment value is priceless.

I just love to see all the high horses and moral brigade coming out to play

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Absolutely fucking hilarious. I love threads like these. Entertainment value is priceless.

I just love to see all the high horses and moral brigade coming out to play

Nothing wrong with having morals and standards.

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By *nkednkinkyMan over a year ago

Fraserburgh

Anyone who is cheating be it male or female are cunts in my book.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely fucking hilarious. I love threads like these. Entertainment value is priceless.

I just love to see all the high horses and moral brigade coming out to play

Nothing wrong with having morals and standards."

You are quite right, nothing wrong with it at all. But everyone has a different view on morals and standards. They pick and choose which ones suit them.

What always makes me giggle is when they try to inflict theirs on to others.

I mean, a vast majority of the population would have the opinion that this site is immoral and anyone on here would have low standards and low or non existent morals.

This is why I judge no one!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm up late and here's my take...

I know for a fact some women on here seem they aren't doing anything wrong here when they have since admitted to me they are cheating.

They don't bring it up, guys don't ask. Cheating is obviously wrong but it's also so much more complicated than people make out. Especially those that say they are both swingers so why not everyone else...not everyone wants to be a swinger!

I'm from a broken family due to cheating so trust me, I know it ain't good! But as I've aged I've also realized we have 1 life, and would you really go about having shite sex with someone if you loved them and had a unit together if you had that kinky urge?

Just my thoughts!

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm up late and here's my take...

I know for a fact some women on here seem they aren't doing anything wrong here when they have since admitted to me they are cheating.

Just my thoughts!

Personally my take is if you "loved" them why would you risk blowing their world apart if they discovered they were being chested on...you don't do that to someone you supposed love.

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By *ewguy Paul OP Man over a year ago

Herts

I'm glad you are all enjoying the thread. It's been a good debate

.I can only feel sorry for your keyboards as you angrily replied. Still life goes on. Have a nice day all and happy swinging

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By *ob and DeeWoman over a year ago

crook

both mine cheated on me one with women and one with men. both got kicked out and am long time divorced (twice now)

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By *weetiepie99Woman over a year ago

cardiff

"Absolutely fucking hilarious. I love threads like these. Entertainment value is priceless.

I just love to see all the high horses and moral brigade coming out to play

Yea, crying with laughter. Funniest thread i've read all week.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Pint

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

We prefer honest people

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By *ustincider888Man over a year ago

Preston Ish

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By *ustincider888Man over a year ago

Preston Ish

"Pint

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cheating wives ??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *illingdon_ladMan over a year ago

Bicester

Very annoying when the ones like me who have permission get started with the same brush.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman over a year ago

ashford

Each to their own but wouldn't meet one ! Shame sometimes get talking and get on well then they ask if it's OK their married x

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By *ack 500Man over a year ago

stafford

Let’s be honest his wife is probably cheating on him

Too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s a hard no for me but I don’t judge. Cheating on a relationship is like handing over your life savings for a 30 minute ride on the rollercoaster. If someone is ok to pay that price go ahead. Just not listening when the broke and lonely whining starts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Very annoying when the ones like me who have permission get started with the same brush. "

Maybe they just don't want to fuck someone who will then be chatting about the meet with their partner later. Some people prefer privacy.

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By *ischiefManaged69Couple over a year ago

Preston

"Absolutely fucking hilarious. I love threads like these. Entertainment value is priceless.

I just love to see all the high horses and moral brigade coming out to play

Nothing wrong with having morals and standards.

You are quite right, nothing wrong with it at all. But everyone has a different view on morals and standards. They pick and choose which ones suit them.

What always makes me giggle is when they try to inflict theirs on to others.

I mean, a vast majority of the population would have the opinion that this site is immoral and anyone on here would have low standards and low or non existent morals.

This is why I judge no one!! "

Not sure about others, but it's not about cheating being immoral, it's about the lack of respect and honesty. You're right that lots of people wouldn't approve of swinging. We want people we play with to be respectful and honest so that we can enjoy ourselves without drama. Anyone who can treat the person they love like this, can't be either of those can they?

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By *aribbean King 1985Man 45 weeks ago

South West London

Hate to say this but through the years I've noticed that most women tend to be happier with men who cheat on them then the men who are safe. Some people may disagree which is understandable but if they really think about it if you pay attention to what a woman says to what she does then you know Im telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

Black men don’t cheat.

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

Women cheat on here, it's full of them, but it's OK for them. But guys that do it.... Well that's it, world war 3, block him call him.

I've had sex with married women on previous profiles and I actually enjoy doing it knowing she belongs to someone one!

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By *illy IdolMan 45 weeks ago

Midlands

"Black men don’t cheat. "

Tell that to Thierry Henry

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple 45 weeks ago

Neath valley.

"I'm one of them. Thoughts please"

Not for us sorry

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By *aribbean King 1985Man 45 weeks ago

South West London

"Black men don’t cheat. "
If they're honest that they like having sex with other women while in a long term relationship then guess its not cheating

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By *icecouple561Couple 45 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Hate to say this but through the years I've noticed that most women tend to be happier with men who cheat on them then the men who are safe. Some people may disagree which is understandable but if they really think about it if you pay attention to what a woman says to what she does then you know Im telling the truth"

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

"Black men don’t cheat.

Tell that to Thierry Henry"

Black men don’t cheat bro. Don’t know what to tell you. Look it up

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

"Black men don’t cheat. If they're honest that they like having sex with other women while in a long term relationship then guess its not cheating

Black men don’t cheat

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By *stellaWoman 45 weeks ago

London

"Black men don’t cheat.

Tell that to Thierry Henry

Black men don’t cheat bro. Don’t know what to tell you. Look it up

Hmmmmmm (whoa whoa)

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple 45 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Same would go if a lady wanted to meet us and she was playing away without permission. It's not just me who cheat on here

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By *aribbean King 1985Man 45 weeks ago

South West London

I don't doubt your experience but mine is very different. The women I know whose partners have serially cheated on them are desperately unhappy in word and deed. If they stay with them it's because they have concerns about how they'd cope alone or the guy promises he'll never do it again blah de blah. The vast majority of my friends and acquaintances it's happened to take decisive action and walk. "
Well thats your opinion but I also notice that most women dont respect men that are too loyal to them. Again people can disagree but how many times do people hear stories when a guy is faithful and does everything for her to then get dumped or done dirty by that same woman?

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By *icecouple561Couple 45 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

I don't doubt your experience but mine is very different. The women I know whose partners have serially cheated on them are desperately unhappy in word and deed. If they stay with them it's because they have concerns about how they'd cope alone or the guy promises he'll never do it again blah de blah. The vast majority of my friends and acquaintances it's happened to take decisive action and walk. Well thats your opinion but I also notice that most women dont respect men that are too loyal to them. Again people can disagree but how many times do people hear stories when a guy is faithful and does everything for her to then get dumped or done dirty by that same woman? "

All the time but people being unfaithful to loyal partners isn't evidence that women are happier with men who cheat.

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

"Women are happier with men who cheat on them" what a fucking outrageous statement.

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By *icecouple561Couple 45 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Women are happier with men who cheat on them" what a fucking outrageous statement.

I guess women with cripplingly low self esteem think it's all they deserve

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By *aria_dreamgirlTV/TS 45 weeks ago

stockport

I prefer divorced or single guys as married ones only want a daytime meet usually and won't shell out for a room .

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By *aughtycouple1008Couple 45 weeks ago

west london

Can I have your wife's number...I'd take her out...see how you like it...

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

"Women are happier with men who cheat on them" what a fucking outrageous statement.

I guess women with cripplingly low self esteem think it's all they deserve "

I had to figure out how to read that

As I have low self-esteem!

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman 45 weeks ago

Worcester

"Women are happier with men who cheat on them" what a fucking outrageous statement.

The misogyny is absolutely rife on these forums.

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

"Women cheat on here, it's full of them, but it's OK for them. But guys that do it.... Well that's it, world war 3, block him call him.

I've had sex with married women on previous profiles and I actually enjoy doing it knowing she belongs to someone one!

I like married men for the same reason. I also find they are more attentive less likely to be in dating sites shagging around and more discreet xx

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By *icecouple561Couple 45 weeks ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

"Women are happier with men who cheat on them" what a fucking outrageous statement.

I guess women with cripplingly low self esteem think it's all they deserve

I had to figure out how to read that

As I have low self-esteem! "

It's not a criticism and it doesn't mean all women who experience low self esteem.

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

Why bring this thread back when it's very damaging?

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

Just did a search and there are less posts on cheating wives

But cheating is just wrong in my opinion

But then I'm old fashioned

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

"Women are happier with men who cheat on them" what a fucking outrageous statement.

I guess women with cripplingly low self esteem think it's all they deserve

I had to figure out how to read that

As I have low self-esteem!

It's not a criticism and it doesn't mean all women who experience low self esteem. "

Oh yes, I know. I just had to read it twice to make sure!

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

"Why bring this thread back when it's very damaging?"

So he could make a comment about women being happier with cheating men?

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By *aribbean King 1985Man 45 weeks ago

South West London

If people actually read what I said I said most women not all as I know some women are different. Second what's misogynistic about my comments? It's nothing hateful towards women about my comments otherwise I would of been kicked out already. 3 if there's no truth to what I'm saying then as an example look at all the celebrities you know that cheated on their spouse and are still with them? I can list all the celebrities by name if you want and I can be here all year listing them if you want

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman 45 weeks ago

Worcester

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By *ymAndIcedCoffeeWoman 45 weeks ago

Worcester

"If people actually read what I said I said most women not all as I know some women are different. Second what's misogynistic about my comments? It's nothing hateful towards women about my comments otherwise I would of been kicked out already. 3 if there's no truth to what I'm saying then as an example look at all the celebrities you know that cheated on their spouse and are still with them? I can list all the celebrities by name if you want and I can be here all year listing them if you want"

So because some women are trapped in abusive relationships, and because some women choose to get therapy with their partner and work through the cheating, women don’t like men who don’t cheat on them?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple 45 weeks ago

in Lancashire

I think your talking nonsense, it's more like attention seeking than anything with any credibility whatsoever..

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By (user no longer on site) 45 weeks ago

You're hilarious that you think misogyny will get someone kicked off Fab. You can call all women bitches. You can't call me one.

And your "proof" of your assertion has no substance. Suggesting that most women would prefer a man to lie and cheat on them is showing a decided dislike of women as a sex.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple 45 weeks ago

in Lancashire

It's an opinion, but that doesn't make it a fact..

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