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As I get older I can see beauty in every age. Attractiveness not so much 
I think between 25 and 55 is optimum attractiveness for most. A beautiful person (physically) is usually beautiful all their adult life. |
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"Tough one, women are good at any age i think, but older mature is nice, guys probably 40 to mid 50s where i am, so many variables its hard to pin point, find too young can be immature. "
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It changes with age I reckon, I remember thinking people in their 40's looked ancient in my early 20's. And who I thought were attractive in my early 20's I'd find too child like now.
I think some people have an age that suits them most and they then shine at that time. And I think that is attractive in itself
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I think some people have an age that suits them most and they then shine at that time. And I think that is attractive in itself
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I love this Frida.
I don't think there's a simple way of saying it like oh men at this age etc, it's such a fluid thing. So varied. But people peak at different stages in their life, grow confident and beautiful with who they are. Whatever age that is, that's their most beautiful. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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Surely it's never going to be as simple as that. Considering there are people that look much older or younger than they are.
Hell, more often than not personalities will be tied to certain ages and their view of things. This can make or break attractiveness just as much as appearance can.
I can be and have been attracted to mid 20 year old just as much as I have been to a 60 year old, some reasons the same, some reasons completely different.
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"I think some people have an age that suits them most and they then shine at that time. And I think that is attractive in itself
I love this Frida.
I don't think there's a simple way of saying it like oh men at this age etc, it's such a fluid thing. So varied. But people peak at different stages in their life, grow confident and beautiful with who they are. Whatever age that is, that's their most beautiful."
Gosh damn it Meli, yes it's exactly what you've written |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
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It's not that simple for me but I'm guessing most men will choose low age for women, unless they're looking for a milf to fuck.
That's sexual attractiveness because they want better sex from an older woman who knows what she wants.
Women are more complex than that. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
I find men attractive who are not conventionally physically attractive.
For sex, I choose men who are physically superior to me, because two fat, stiff people aren't going to get much done in bed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"49 years 4 months
Fake news. Give it a few weeks and they would have changed their mind to 49 years 5 months. Attraction is fickle like that"
49 years 4 months and a few weeks.
Nailing versatility today. |
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I don’t think attractiveness has anything to do with age. I’ve seen young people of both sexes really unattractive, and by that I mean often because of their attitude, and older people with beautiful approach to life, young heart and soul. |
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I find intelligence very attractive these days. I also believe age and wisdom goes hand in hand. Admittedly older people can still be ignorant and idiotic but in general I think we are at our best from late 40’s to early 60’s. Sadly like my Mother certain illnesses can overcome you later on in life.
So for both men and women I’d say 47 - 62  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"At what age would you say men or woman were at there most attractive "
Depends on the an or woman.
I've met people who look their age, those that look older/younger and those that I honestly couldn't even guess how old they were.
Some get better looking with age, some don't.
It's an impossible question to answer.
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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Really want to answer without coming across all PC, but no Idea honestly we've found some people a decade older more attractive than others in their 20's.
Also some we've met in their 20's far more interesting and fun than some our own age, therefore attractive.
Met those we didn't find appealing via their profile at club's and it was a total yes!
Horses for course heh!? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Really want to answer without coming across all PC, but no Idea honestly we've found some people a decade older more attractive than others in their 20's.
Also some we've met in their 20's far more interesting and fun than some our own age, therefore attractive.
Met those we didn't find appealing via their profile at club's and it was a total yes!
Horses for course heh!?"
Never understand why coming across as PC is a bad thing.
PC to me means being considerate and respectful of others. Is that such a bad thing in 2023? |
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For me, it depends on the person but anywhere between 30 and mid-50s is the hotspot. Of course, there are many exceptions to this.
Personally, I think I was more attractive in my mid-20s. Toned body, unsatiable sexual appetite and the stamina of an Olympic rower.
I sometimes get told by people I knew in my twenties that I've aged well and I'm more attractive now. I don't feel it though. Being more Dad-bod than God-bod, the odd grey hair and having wrinkles around the eyes don't do much to make me feel very attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As I get older I can see beauty in every age. Attractiveness not so much
I think between 25 and 55 is optimum attractiveness for most. A beautiful person (physically) is usually beautiful all their adult life. "
I agree with you wholeheartedly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fabs on the whole seems to be about physical attributes. And I read how people are sharing their thoughts on attraction based on body shape and looks.
For me, I’m drawn by the person. Their personality. Their life experiences, personal values. We are all shaped by the experiences we have from the people we meet.
Age is a number and is no indication on beauty or attractiveness for me. |
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For me personally the age I'm attracted to changes with my ago. When I was 20 I didn't find 45-year-olds attractive but I did like 20-year-olds. Now I'm nearly 50 the attraction is the other way round. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally have always liked older men regardless of what age I have been. Between 5 and 10 years older. Or more.
However I think men are most attractive in their 40's and 50's.
Women are different and can be attractive at any age.
I just struggle to find younger than me in either sex attractive for various reasons. Dare I say it but I find younger sometimes too confident or arrogant and that's not attractive for me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Men 25-45
Women 25-55.
That’s my general opinion. Obviously there’s always going to be people that fall outside those brackets for me"
I'm in my prime!!  |
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Biologically wise I would probably say we look our best between 21-26 before aging processes start to engage and lifestyle damage kicks in to play .
Real world is harder as people can often look better when older due to numerous life choices. Could have a very overweight or underweight person in their 20s. Get ripped into shape / perfect a look that suits later in life and look incredible.
Equally goes the over way , I think as well as we age our perceptions on what see as value in beauty change with our age brackets on when we look at people.
Most men will always have some attraction to young women physically wise as it’s hardwired into men to be visually aroused stimulated more so than women as people age .
I tend to find women are cute and pretty in their twenties but in 30+ they become far more alluring / attractive as some marks of life become visible overall in how they carry / talk / vibe give off from a lived experience.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ever since my 20s I've always gravitated towards men 40-45. That bracket has stayed the same even as I've slowly edged towards it myself. I don't know what I'll do when I hit the upper limit, as I can't bring myself to sleep with people younger than me! I'll either have to start considering men older than that or suck up my age hang ups and embrace becoming a cougar  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"35 plus "
Ah I noticed some went into explanation mode.
It's rare I have mutual vibing energy with people under that age, sorry millennial crowd Sex wise it can be great, but the mentality and way of approaching things can be distinctly different. Hard to describe, just a feeling. Only decade it seems but noticeable to my soul radar.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmm, I'm not sure on a number but I usually find women who are a little older more attractive. I think it’s because most women that age are confident, and more aware of what they want and who they are. I dunno, I see lots of pretty people around especially young women but the ones most attractive to me and stand out are definitely 30 upwards.
I like older men, so 35 to 55ish I suppose.
It's difficult to answer. |
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I think women are in their sexual prime from their 40s onwards. I think around that age people start to stop worrying what others think of them and they start to focus on what they want - they have the experience to know what is good sex and bad sex and start to look for what they want rather than what they think everyone else is doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men 25-45
Women 25-55.
That’s my general opinion. Obviously there’s always going to be people that fall outside those brackets for me"
So you think a woman is at her best looking at 55 ..where a guy isn't? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think women are in their sexual prime from their 40s onwards(...) and start to look for what they want rather than what they think everyone else is doing."
The last bit. Nodding eagerly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it all depends on the people involved,if a guy or girl love each other age doesn't matter... wherever it is found it doesn't matter , true love is priceless and age never comes into it, l find different attractiveness in all ages that lm interested in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think women are in their sexual prime from their 40s onwards. I think around that age people start to stop worrying what others think of them and they start to focus on what they want - they have the experience to know what is good sex and bad sex and start to look for what they want rather than what they think everyone else is doing."
Slightly biased but |
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"I think women are in their sexual prime from their 40s onwards. I think around that age people start to stop worrying what others think of them and they start to focus on what they want - they have the experience to know what is good sex and bad sex and start to look for what they want rather than what they think everyone else is doing."
I agree. I’m the best I’ve ever been in a billion ways. |
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I dunno,
…..,when they look amazing! 
