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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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chemistry.
How accurate are your thoughts/predictions about chemistry?
Have you ever been pleasantly surprised? I'm stepping away from the negative currently so not interested in tales of things being flat. Sorry! 
Are there certain things that make you think, yep... we'll definitely have chemistry when we meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the ease of the conversation, and how free you both are to laugh are key indicators of chemistry; however, I do think these things can come over time and that chemistry is that is not always immediately.
Also, would just like to Melli, you're questions are always so interesting and thought provoking. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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I usually judge pretty well. Sometimes even before there's been any 1-2-1 contact either via message or phone.
Depends entirely on the person but for example there have been many occasions when I've seen good profiles on Fab and having observed forum interactions, status updates, profile rewrites and even just from images - I've known the chemistry will be good.
Very rarely has it been a case of false advertising.
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"It's difficult to say, you just know when that spark is there "
But you can get that spark wrong no? You might think it's there, you might not think it is and then... bam. Topsy-turvy world. |
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"It's difficult to say, you just know when that spark is there
But you can get that spark wrong no? You might think it's there, you might not think it is and then... bam. Topsy-turvy world."
Yes...it can go tits up... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know what! I thought I was really good at this and I believe I was but one time it didn't go the way we/I expected it to go, the male half was a completely different personality on message as he was in person, he literally didn't speak and we tried so hard to engage him and it was quite awkward.
Mind blowing that someone can be that different in person. Nothing against him at all, just sharing our experience on it is all.
Miss S x |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I usually know going into it whether its a fuck yes or just a fuck it why not.
I was very pleasantly surprised by an old flame last year, I assumed things wouldn't be so intense so fast."
Fuck it why not. You have a charming turn of phrase, genuinely. Very direct.
Yes, intensity can be very surprising can't it? Sometimes things are undeniably there and it builds very quickly. And pleasurably. |
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"I usually know going into it whether its a fuck yes or just a fuck it why not.
I was very pleasantly surprised by an old flame last year, I assumed things wouldn't be so intense so fast.
Fuck it why not. You have a charming turn of phrase, genuinely. Very direct.
Yes, intensity can be very surprising can't it? Sometimes things are undeniably there and it builds very quickly. And pleasurably."
I'm often told my word vomit is almost poetic. Though usually by people who are trying to get in my pants.
I've never been wrong about a fuck yes. I have been happily impressed by the occasional fuck it why not, but those ones are far from guaranteed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There’s no specific thing, so you can get that feeling in different ways with different people. I think if it’s there in messages, then at least there’s a chance of there still being chemistry in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's quite difficult via the medium of text especially staccato text in messages or forums.
Eye contact and how they hold and break it is a big teller for me. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I think the ease of the conversation, and how free you both are to laugh are key indicators of chemistry; however, I do think these things can come over time and that chemistry is that is not always immediately.
Also, would just like to Melli, you're questions are always so interesting and thought provoking. "
It would be really mean to ignore this post albeit responding late!
Thank you. They tend to be a reflection of conversation with friends, situational. It's fairly easy to read my thoughts, mood etc and I'm very lucky that some people don't read them. I'd cringe quite hard.
Yes, I think you can sometimes find that chemistry isn't immediate. There's this slight shift, maybe you notice someone in a different light. Maybe you're more open to it. However chemistry is discovered, it's wonderful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I just knew something was there, from that first message. It was an instant spark, which ignited a special connection. I could feel her vibe and energy, there was that chemistry straight away. It felt like we had known each other for ages 
Then when we met in person it just confirmed everything we thought and felt. I do believe if it’s meant to happen it will at the right time and place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every chance of chemistry being successful if we all exhibited judicial temperament: open-mindedness, courtesy, tact, courage, patience, punctuality, firmness, understanding, compassion, humility & common sense. These qualities demonstrated consistently would lead us to harmonious relationship.  |
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