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I want my girlfriend to cheat???
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does anyone know why I’m having thoughts about wanting my girlfriend to sleep with other people and cheat on me? I’m a little confused why I would want this but recently it’s all I can think about. I want her to do it so badly. Any advice on why I would be thinking this way? |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Because you are looking to cheat on her and so this then makes it right?
Or you want to break up with her, but don’t want to be seen to be the bad guy?
Or you just want to involve her in your kinks with out her knowing? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No I don’t want to cheat on her at all, I want to remain loyal, but I want her to be in loyal to me so badly. Feel like she deserves to cheat on me and have as much fun as she wants |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you cheating possible guilty conscience, does she know you in here juat throwing it out there....easing your own conscience "
I’m not cheating no, I woundnt ever think about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tell her your trying to cheat on her as well and hopefully she'll do the same!"
I don’t want to cheat. I want her to be in loyal though, it turns me on thinking about it but I don’t know why |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just to clear anything up. I don’t have a guilty conscience. I just can’t get it out of my head that I want her to cheat on me. It turns me on massively. But I’m not sure why it’s the only thing I can think about |
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Power. You want her to have power of you and dominate your masculinity. The most humiliating way your consciousness thinks it can achieve that is by you watching or wanting her to get piped by someone else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hmmm. On here as a single bi guy, with a girlfriend. Have you been open with her about your fab life of 5 weeks (on this profile)? If not, I'd consider that to be cheating, dishonest at the least. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score "
She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums |
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"Are you cheating possible guilty conscience, does she know you in here juat throwing it out there....easing your own conscience
I’m not cheating no, I woundnt ever think about it "
But your profile says...
I’m a submissive man looking for a dominant woman or couple to own me and for me to serve them. Would like to experiment with humiliation tasks also.
Does that not class as "thinking about cheating" ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Are you cheating possible guilty conscience, does she know you in here juat throwing it out there....easing your own conscience
I’m not cheating no, I woundnt ever think about it
But your profile says...
I’m a submissive man looking for a dominant woman or couple to own me and for me to serve them. Would like to experiment with humiliation tasks also.
Does that not class as "thinking about cheating" ?"
No because she knows about this |
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"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score
She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums "
You’ve posted on literally 3 threads dude  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score
She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums
You’ve posted on literally 3 threads dude "
What’s wrong with that? |
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"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score
She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums "
So you can obviously communicate with her well then so have you told her how you'd like her to cheat on you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score
She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums
You’ve posted on literally 3 threads dude "
Oh the power of that little green arrow 
Miss S x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No because she knows about this "
What, exactly, does she know?
You are a Fab member?
You are bi?
You are actively seeking a couple and to be their sub?
Have you been completely and utterly honest with her? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You're cheating by being on here if she doesn't know, I'm guessing you want her to even the score
She does know that I’m on here. I mainly use it for forums
So you can obviously communicate with her well then so have you told her how you'd like her to cheat on you?"
I’m not sure how to bring it up. Like people say she might think I’m using it as an excuse to cheat on her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I don’t want to cheat on her at all, I want to remain loyal, but I want her to be in loyal to me so badly. Feel like she deserves to cheat on me and have as much fun as she wants "
You don't want to cheat...but your profile, it's worded that you are looking to cheat? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No I don’t want to cheat on her at all, I want to remain loyal, but I want her to be in loyal to me so badly. Feel like she deserves to cheat on me and have as much fun as she wants
You don't want to cheat...but your profile, it's worded that you are looking to cheat? "
She’s quite ok with me being a sub to some couple |
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"Does anyone know why I’m having thoughts about wanting my girlfriend to sleep with other people and cheat on me? I’m a little confused why I would want this but recently it’s all I can think about. I want her to do it so badly. Any advice on why I would be thinking this way?"
sometimes trying to understand why we want something is not possible. You just want that type of relationship (or you think you'd like to try it). Could you have a a chat with her and maybe she could help you understand or even introduce a bit of roleplay to see how you feel? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does anyone know why I’m having thoughts about wanting my girlfriend to sleep with other people and cheat on me? I’m a little confused why I would want this but recently it’s all I can think about. I want her to do it so badly. Any advice on why I would be thinking this way?
sometimes trying to understand why we want something is not possible. You just want that type of relationship (or you think you'd like to try it). Could you have a a chat with her and maybe she could help you understand or even introduce a bit of roleplay to see how you feel? "
Potentially yes. I just have to have the conversation with her x |
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"Does anyone know why I’m having thoughts about wanting my girlfriend to sleep with other people and cheat on me? I’m a little confused why I would want this but recently it’s all I can think about. I want her to do it so badly. Any advice on why I would be thinking this way?
sometimes trying to understand why we want something is not possible. You just want that type of relationship (or you think you'd like to try it). Could you have a a chat with her and maybe she could help you understand or even introduce a bit of roleplay to see how you feel?
Potentially yes. I just have to have the conversation with her x"
I hope it goes well and the two of you can enjoy your kink together. How will you feel if she doesn't like the idea at all? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don't want to cheat on her OP ....why are you on here? Are you not planning on meeting anyone? x"
I read the forums mainly, but she’s been ok with the idea of me being a sub for a couple |
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"If you don't want to cheat on her OP ....why are you on here? Are you not planning on meeting anyone? x
I read the forums mainly, but she’s been ok with the idea of me being a sub for a couple "
Easiest answer: sit her down and voice your thoughts.
She will either love the idea or hate it....only she can give you the answer you are looking for more than a bunch of random strangers who don't really know your setup x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you don't want to cheat on her OP ....why are you on here? Are you not planning on meeting anyone? x
I read the forums mainly, but she’s been ok with the idea of me being a sub for a couple
Easiest answer: sit her down and voice your thoughts.
She will either love the idea or hate it....only she can give you the answer you are looking for more than a bunch of random strangers who don't really know your setup x"
Yeah I guess you’re right |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're on here without her knowledge, you are cheating. Maybe it's guilt which is making you obsess over it.
Does it turn you on to think of her not cheating but fucking another guy with you knowing and giving the green light? Or could it be the thought of being humiliated that does it for you? Maybe you enjoy feeling like shit and like she can do better?
My partner encourages me to be with other men, but would be distraught if I broke his trust. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you're on here without her knowledge, you are cheating. Maybe it's guilt which is making you obsess over it.
Does it turn you on to think of her not cheating but fucking another guy with you knowing and giving the green light? Or could it be the thought of being humiliated that does it for you? Maybe you enjoy feeling like shit and like she can do better?
My partner encourages me to be with other men, but would be distraught if I broke his trust."
I want her to have more fun with a bigger and better cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're on here without her knowledge, you are cheating. Maybe it's guilt which is making you obsess over it.
Does it turn you on to think of her not cheating but fucking another guy with you knowing and giving the green light? Or could it be the thought of being humiliated that does it for you? Maybe you enjoy feeling like shit and like she can do better?
My partner encourages me to be with other men, but would be distraught if I broke his trust.
I want her to have more fun with a bigger and better cock "
Sounds like cuckold to me. Maybe look into that dynamic. There's also stag and vixen too, but I don't think that's for you. |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"If you don't want to cheat on her OP ....why are you on here? Are you not planning on meeting anyone? x
I read the forums mainly, but she’s been ok with the idea of me being a sub for a couple "
Or female? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm thinking (maybe I'm wrong) that the op dosent actually have a girlfriend and has posted this for attention
If however I am wrong then I would suggest that you either let the girl know your thoughts and be fully open with her in addition to showing her your profile on here
Then let her decide what she wants to do
However as I said, I think this is fantasy |
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