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over a year ago
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Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? |
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over a year ago
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "
Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it? |
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?
Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it? "
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?
Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it?
I've never needed it "
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?
Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it?
I've never needed it
Okay...asking for a friend? "
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I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes) 
I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.
I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it. |
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?
Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it?
I've never needed it "
Give it another 30 years - you might be lucky... |
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"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)
I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.
I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it. "
12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring |
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"I'd probably take it as an insult to my physical attractiveness.
But I'm a prickly bitch so."
Might view it as less of an insult than a floppy dick tho?
Age and various illnesses can make getting hard difficult, or impossible. Viagra "CAN" help. Sadly doesn't always.
An understanding and helpful sex partner is much more important. |
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"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)
I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.
I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.
12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring"
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There's a lot of misconceptions about Viagra. It's just increasing blood flow.
If you're not turned on, your blood doesn't go to your penis, so even if he has taken something it's not an affront to your sexuality as a woman. |
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I've no problem with a guy using viagra if he needs it.
We met a guy who took it despite not needing it. I would have found it considerate of him to have asked if I wanted repeat sex because I could have told him I don't and he could have cancelled or not taken the tablet. |
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"There's a lot of misconceptions about Viagra. It's just increasing blood flow.
If you're not turned on, your blood doesn't go to your penis, so even if he has taken something it's not an affront to your sexuality as a woman. "
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"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)
I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.
I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it. "
This should be the next 'Getting your moneies worth' McDonald's advert. |
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"I've no problem with a guy using viagra if he needs it.
We met a guy who took it despite not needing it. I would have found it considerate of him to have asked if I wanted repeat sex because I could have told him I don't and he could have cancelled or not taken the tablet. "
 yep there is a common misconception that women want to go “all night” … in reality ive found that to be a very very rare occasion that would be driven by total lust in the moment , rather than pre planned chemicals |
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "
Regardless of viagra it's not ethical to destroy a woman's vagina  |
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"I've no problem with a guy using viagra if he needs it.
We met a guy who took it despite not needing it. I would have found it considerate of him to have asked if I wanted repeat sex because I could have told him I don't and he could have cancelled or not taken the tablet.
yep there is a common misconception that women want to go “all night” … in reality ive found that to be a very very rare occasion that would be driven by total lust in the moment , rather than pre planned chemicals "
With me it might be an age thing. I'd much rather a flirty drink or meal followed by an erotic encounter. That's not to say that lengthy, repeat sessions don't have their place, they're just not for me |
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?
Regardless of viagra it's not ethical to destroy a woman's vagina "
I'm a lover not a destroyer. |
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"Might view it as less of an insult than a floppy dick tho?
Age and various illnesses can make getting hard difficult, or impossible. Viagra "CAN" help. Sadly doesn't always.
An understanding and helpful sex partner is much more important."
I have people who got the nerves and had issues getting or maintaining. There's plenty of fun can be had in other ways and that generally leads to the original issue being resolved.
I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard. |
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"I've no problem with a guy using viagra if he needs it.
We met a guy who took it despite not needing it. I would have found it considerate of him to have asked if I wanted repeat sex because I could have told him I don't and he could have cancelled or not taken the tablet.
yep there is a common misconception that women want to go “all night” … in reality ive found that to be a very very rare occasion that would be driven by total lust in the moment , rather than pre planned chemicals
With me it might be an age thing. I'd much rather a flirty drink or meal followed by an erotic encounter. That's not to say that lengthy, repeat sessions don't have their place, they're just not for me "
I don’t think it is age … at almost half your age i completely agree … its just more fun right! |
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I'd want to know as I don't like lengthy sessions, I much prefer repeaters over the space of our time together. But if we are wanting to bump uglies we would already be friends and happy to discuss these matters |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"There's a lot of misconceptions about Viagra. It's just increasing blood flow.
If you're not turned on, your blood doesn't go to your penis, so even if he has taken something it's not an affront to your sexuality as a woman. "
That's not strictly true, when I'm sitting down on the loo, for a number two, getting a semi there and then is a sign that the tablet's working, as those local muscles are busy. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "
I'd think a blue pill just gives you a cock on, it doesn't give you stamina. So you might be ready but not able as you're all seized up, cramped and huffed out. That, and a they might have an early start so could kick you out as soon as you've popped.
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By (user no longer on site)
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If the person taking it doesn't have an erectile disfunction problem, they're using it for recreational drug purposes, so I'd like to know, yes, because I wouldn't want to meet anyone that uses recreational drugs. |
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"Might view it as less of an insult than a floppy dick tho?
Age and various illnesses can make getting hard difficult, or impossible. Viagra "CAN" help. Sadly doesn't always.
An understanding and helpful sex partner is much more important.
I have people who got the nerves and had issues getting or maintaining. There's plenty of fun can be had in other ways and that generally leads to the original issue being resolved.
I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard."
As an earlier poster mentioned, viagra WILL NOT make you hard if you are not otherwise "turned on". It just allows some of us physical expression of that arousal that otherwise might have been impossible.
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"There's a lot of misconceptions about Viagra. It's just increasing blood flow.
If you're not turned on, your blood doesn't go to your penis, so even if he has taken something it's not an affront to your sexuality as a woman.
That's not strictly true, when I'm sitting down on the loo, for a number two, getting a semi there and then is a sign that the tablet's working, as those local muscles are busy."
The anal stimuli must be getting your cogs turning. One of the police psyche test questions was do you get turned on having a poo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's a lot of misconceptions about Viagra. It's just increasing blood flow.
If you're not turned on, your blood doesn't go to your penis, so even if he has taken something it's not an affront to your sexuality as a woman.
That's not strictly true, when I'm sitting down on the loo, for a number two, getting a semi there and then is a sign that the tablet's working, as those local muscles are busy.
The anal stimuli must be getting your cogs turning. One of the police psyche test questions was do you get turned on having a poo. "
"Do you get a boner when taking a shit"
Was also a question in Marilyn mansons biography |
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"As an earlier poster mentioned, viagra WILL NOT make you hard if you are not otherwise "turned on". It just allows some of us physical expression of that arousal that otherwise might have been impossible.
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I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?
Regardless of viagra it's not ethical to destroy a woman's vagina "
It's only an expression...nothing more to it |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "
If you take it before meet and walk in with a hardon then yes she may get a shock |
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"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)
I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.
I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.
12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring"
I was thinking much the same. I’d need about 4 T breaks, several sports drinks, Uber eats delivery and probably a defibrillator on stand by!! |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"As an earlier poster mentioned, viagra WILL NOT make you hard if you are not otherwise "turned on". It just allows some of us physical expression of that arousal that otherwise might have been impossible.
I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard."
That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.
We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.
Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)
I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.
I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.
12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring
I was thinking much the same. I’d need about 4 T breaks, several sports drinks, Uber eats delivery and probably a defibrillator on stand by!!"
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"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.
We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.
Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.
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That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.
One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.
The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing. |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.
We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.
Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.
That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.
One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.
The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing."
That's awful. |
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"As an earlier poster mentioned, viagra WILL NOT make you hard if you are not otherwise "turned on". It just allows some of us physical expression of that arousal that otherwise might have been impossible.
I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard."
Still missing the point |
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"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.
We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.
Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.
That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.
One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.
The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing."
Many people need chemicals to live, never mind get a stiffie.
Diabetes, heart disease etc etc. It's no different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "
Should a person have to also reveal if they’re taking anti depressants ? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.
We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.
Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.
That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.
One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.
The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing."
I've never understood why anyone would want to 'destroy a vagina'? 
I've never heard any woman say 'ooh - I really want to rub a dick til the friction causes it to whittle down to nothing and burst into flames'.......
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"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)
I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.
I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.
12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring
I was thinking much the same. I’d need about 4 T breaks, several sports drinks, Uber eats delivery and probably a defibrillator on stand by!!"
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?
Should a person have to also reveal if they’re taking anti depressants ? "
You dont have to reveal anything
But if the chances are it could impede or enhance your ability to perform on what has been planned as a sexual meet … surely it feels like something you would want to |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?
Should a person have to also reveal if they’re taking anti depressants ? "
Yes, for two reasons. ADs can cause impotence, even years afterwards. This removes the "is it him or me?" cycling thinking of self-doubt for her afterwards.
There is far too much stigma floating around, talking kills shame. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?
Should a person have to also reveal if they’re taking anti depressants ?
You dont have to reveal anything
But if the chances are it could impede or enhance your ability to perform on what has been planned as a sexual meet … surely it feels like something you would want to "
Never going to mention that I used to have 12 hr sessions as that would definitely impede future meets by the sounds of it. () |
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"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.
We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.
Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.
That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.
One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.
The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing."
What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"That's good to hear, but some of us blokes want to climax and can only do that with an erection.
We sometimes need chemical help with erections: just as much as you need lube from a bottle, when you are dry down there, from the hot tub, or menstrual cycle.
Imagine if I typed, "I'd rather an honest dry vagina over a bottle lubricated vagina" I'd get trolled for that.
That's fine. But I have my preferences and I can like what I like.
One of my partners requires certain chemicals to function as a human. I usually avoid that in any sense, but he's important enough to me for that part not to matter. It's not a hard and fast rule, but it is a preference.
The question posed was regarding taking the blue pills on the sly in order to 'destroy' a vagina. I can't think of anything less appealing.
What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people. "
A GMC questionnaire is given out pre meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There seem to be a few strange ideas knocking around this thread.
Viagra helps with erection problems - it doesn’t make you into an uncontrollable machine, and it certainly doesn’t override respect (or even plain decency) and make you “destroy” anything. I know it’s a turn of phrase and probably nothing is meant by it, but it’s still not nice and it clouds what could have been a good discussion about ED.
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"There seem to be a few strange ideas knocking around this thread.
Viagra helps with erection problems - it doesn’t make you into an uncontrollable machine, and it certainly doesn’t override respect (or even plain decency) and make you “destroy” anything. I know it’s a turn of phrase and probably nothing is meant by it, but it’s still not nice and it clouds what could have been a good discussion about ED.
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Was harbouring on saying something about how internet phrasing can be taken out of context but couldn't be arsed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There seem to be a few strange ideas knocking around this thread.
Viagra helps with erection problems - it doesn’t make you into an uncontrollable machine, and it certainly doesn’t override respect (or even plain decency) and make you “destroy” anything. I know it’s a turn of phrase and probably nothing is meant by it, but it’s still not nice and it clouds what could have been a good discussion about ED.
Was harbouring on saying something about how internet phrasing can be taken out of context but couldn't be arsed. "
I acknowledged that it was a turn of phrase, albeit an unpleasant one. Not sure how I ever took it out of context? We’re both talking about sex, right? |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "
I wouldn’t meet anyone using it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If a guy plans on destroying my vagina I'd want to know so I could cancel. Jeez!"
And using that word implies that he's confident and experienced and in need of viagra.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd probably take it as an insult to my physical attractiveness.
But I'm a prickly bitch so."
That is one way of seeing it.
However, he might be a little nervous fucking someone he's not met before and doesn't want to let them down.
So it can be seen as a compliment. |
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"What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people. "
I prefer to know. As I said, one of my partners requires them himself. I have too many recovering addicts in my life to be comfortable with anyone being under the influence of any chemicals in my space without complete openness and honesty, and even then it can fuck with my head badly.
I'm aware how much this cuts down my pool of potential suitors, and that it's unfair, and that it obviously doesn't stand up to the force of an amazing person like the partner mentioned above. |
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"What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people.
I prefer to know. As I said, one of my partners requires them himself. I have too many recovering addicts in my life to be comfortable with anyone being under the influence of any chemicals in my space without complete openness and honesty, and even then it can fuck with my head badly.
I'm aware how much this cuts down my pool of potential suitors, and that it's unfair, and that it obviously doesn't stand up to the force of an amazing person like the partner mentioned above."
Should I put a disclaimer on my profile that I require hormones to manage an autoimmune disorder?
I also do better with dihydrogen monoxide in large quantities. Objectively a chemical. |
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"What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people.
I prefer to know. As I said, one of my partners requires them himself. I have too many recovering addicts in my life to be comfortable with anyone being under the influence of any chemicals in my space without complete openness and honesty, and even then it can fuck with my head badly.
I'm aware how much this cuts down my pool of potential suitors, and that it's unfair, and that it obviously doesn't stand up to the force of an amazing person like the partner mentioned above.
Should I put a disclaimer on my profile that I require hormones to manage an autoimmune disorder?
I also do better with dihydrogen monoxide in large quantities. Objectively a chemical."
Off to the suggestions forum to denand a full medical declaration added to every profile. |
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"As an earlier poster mentioned, viagra WILL NOT make you hard if you are not otherwise "turned on". It just allows some of us physical expression of that arousal that otherwise might have been impossible.
I'd rather an honest floppy over chemical induced hard."
in a meet its about two people not just one though .. I take some viagra/cialis as I am on oestrogen for years so it affects my testosterone aka erections. .. I want to have fun in meets not push around a floppy cock all the time ... I can do that on my own at home easy enough so wouldn't want to waste my time meeting if I cant enjoy myself fully either ...
It's not like blue pills give people instant erections and rampaging hard ons 24/7. .. the only way to guarantee that is to inject caverject or trimix about 15min and then you are rock hard for 2-4 hours regardless of anything .. |
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right?
Viagra just cause your penis to become erect for longer. It's not going to grow teeth...is this your first time using it? "
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M8 I won't be telling anyone if I have to lube up okay ..... there's no need to say you took viagra unless it was pre agreed that floppy dick was de rigour .. and a quick cum was required.
No woman worth her salt is going to let you piston pump regardless. |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "
I guess it might make things more comfortable to let the lady know- from what I understand, it has to be taken in advance, so he's gonna turn up with a stalk on before anythings happened... |
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I don’t see any burning need to mention it, although in my experience my sexual partners *have* told me because we had that kind of connection, and I didn’t think any differently of them because of it. In fact, I liked that they felt comfortable enough to say. |
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "
I think letting a girl know I’m going to destroy her vagina is simply the gentleman thing to do…  |
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "
"Destroy their vagina"
You clearly know nothing about pussy |
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"What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people.
I prefer to know. As I said, one of my partners requires them himself. I have too many recovering addicts in my life to be comfortable with anyone being under the influence of any chemicals in my space without complete openness and honesty, and even then it can fuck with my head badly.
I'm aware how much this cuts down my pool of potential suitors, and that it's unfair, and that it obviously doesn't stand up to the force of an amazing person like the partner mentioned above.
Should I put a disclaimer on my profile that I require hormones to manage an autoimmune disorder?
I also do better with dihydrogen monoxide in large quantities. Objectively a chemical."
That's different though isn't it? Your drugs are prescribed by a physician I'm guessing. How many people take viagra without Dr's advice? I would want to know just in case of a medical emergency |
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"What, any chemicals? I require chemicals (aka medically prescribed drugs) to function every single day, as do millions of people.
I prefer to know. As I said, one of my partners requires them himself. I have too many recovering addicts in my life to be comfortable with anyone being under the influence of any chemicals in my space without complete openness and honesty, and even then it can fuck with my head badly.
I'm aware how much this cuts down my pool of potential suitors, and that it's unfair, and that it obviously doesn't stand up to the force of an amazing person like the partner mentioned above.
Should I put a disclaimer on my profile that I require hormones to manage an autoimmune disorder?
I also do better with dihydrogen monoxide in large quantities. Objectively a chemical.
That's different though isn't it? Your drugs are prescribed by a physician I'm guessing. How many people take viagra without Dr's advice? I would want to know just in case of a medical emergency "
Especially if in a rural environment
Wait ages for an ambulance |
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? "
Destroy their vagina....that's a bad start to begin with.
In answer to your question I'd say no...you don't have to say.
Although....if you have a y concerns like getting hard then you can always talk about them. |
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"Should a man let their meet know if they'll be using a viagra for the meet?
It's only fair to give heads up if you plan to destroy their vagina, right? If you take it before meet and walk in with a hardon then yes she may get a shock "
Handy if you're not very tall and can't reach the door knocker though...
*Editors note - vaginas are not to be destroyed.
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"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)
I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.
I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.
12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring"
Very boring indeed. I’d have gone to have food and watch Netflix and long long long time before that haha |
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Leaving aside the vaginal destruction, I've had one partner who took viagra regularly.
He told me about it not because he was some sort of walking priapism but because it gave some side effects he wanted me to be aware of.
I didn't view it as any sort of judgement on my attractiveness and we had a fantastic sex life for the years we were together.
If it was my first time with someone and they announced it then maybe I'd be dubious (why do I need to know? What is their expectation of the night? Are they looking to destroy my vagina?) but thankfully I've not been in that situation to have to deal with it. |
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Comings back to this thread after a week has tickled me. The amount of drugs I've ingested since my last contribution - jeez. I should have a H&S warning attached
Please can I have two copies of the medical questionnaire? One side of A4 won't be enough |
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"Comings back to this thread after a week has tickled me. The amount of drugs I've ingested since my last contribution - jeez. I should have a H&S warning attached
Please can I have two copies of the medical questionnaire? One side of A4 won't be enough "
Of course |
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Yes I think it’s right that a meet should be told of viagra is going to be used.
Taking viagra gives the impression (along with the words ‘destroy your vagina’ that you intend it be a lengthy rough session, which the other participant may not want or like. Always be honest beforehand about what you’re looking for to ensure compatibility. |
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"Yes I think it’s right that a meet should be told of viagra is going to be used.
Taking viagra gives the impression (along with the words ‘destroy your vagina’ that you intend it be a lengthy rough session, which the other participant may not want or like. Always be honest beforehand about what you’re looking for to ensure compatibility."
Surely it is equally fair to advise a meet that without viagra the possibility of penetration might not be guaranteed? |
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"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)
I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.
I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it.
12 hours. Twelve hours! God I'd need food, drink and rest not to mention an ice pack. How unutterrably boring"
I'd worry about blisters |
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By *ddylixMan
over a year ago
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"I spoke to lady on here once who told me she met a guy who was in her words ‘a machine’. She said he was hard all the time and they shagged their way through 3 boxes of condoms for almost 12hours (yes 3 boxes)
I explained that it’s not physically or humanly possible for a guy of his age to do it without some chemical assistance for that long. She became very upset and offended about me even considering this. She thought that a bloke in his late 40’s could sustain an erection for 12hrs easily. We both agreed to disagree.
I think the bloke should’ve told her that he’d popped a few pills by the sound of it. "
Tbf my ex was like this (no chemicals). Though he was in his early 20s so maybe it was viagra in her case? |
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