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By *hloe sussex OP TV/TS over a year ago

Larne

Straight guys , I am constantly being bombarded by so called straight guys msging me and wanting to meet , now in my profile they clearly never read it says in capitals I will not meet straight guys , but still they come and excuses I get is ohh I really am bi , but I’m married or ppl here might know me , so you don’t mind being a straight guy on a sex swingers site but heaven forbid they find out you bi sexual ! Guys pays to be honest here or at least read ppls profiles, whinge over

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By *avexxMan over a year ago

cheshire

ive chatted to many TVs on here but never asked them for meet,,, but your right they should be honest,,

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have no problem meeting bisexual men I just hate it when they lie about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I thought it was important to let people decide how/when to come out their own selves?

Not everyone is in the closet to deceive. Most would love to be in a situation where they could live openly.

Can't have it both ways and then demand they advertise it or get lost.

So long as a potential meet is open when chatting 1-1 so that I can make an informed choice is my only preference.

I don't police anyone's profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought it was important to let people decide how/when to come out their own selves?

Not everyone is in the closet to deceive. Most would love to be in a situation where they could live openly.

Can't have it both ways and then demand they advertise it or get lost.

So long as a potential meet is open when chatting 1-1 so that I can make an informed choice is my only preference.

I don't police anyone's profile.

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By *hloe sussex OP TV/TS over a year ago

Larne

"I thought it was important to let people decide how/when to come out their own selves?

Not everyone is in the closet to deceive. Most would love to be in a situation where they could live openly.

Can't have it both ways and then demand they advertise it or get lost.

So long as a potential meet is open when chatting 1-1 so that I can make an informed choice is my only preference.

I don't police I’m anyone's profile.

I’m not policing it maybe if they just read it and don’t you really think I would want to be with someone that is to ashamed to admit it ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I thought it was important to let people decide how/when to come out their own selves?

Not everyone is in the closet to deceive. Most would love to be in a situation where they could live openly.

Can't have it both ways and then demand they advertise it or get lost.

So long as a potential meet is open when chatting 1-1 so that I can make an informed choice is my only preference.

I don't police I’m anyone's profile.

I’m not policing it maybe if they just read it and don’t you really think I would want to be with someone that is to ashamed to admit it ?

Aren't you jumping to conclusions to see it as shame?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I get more messages from "straight" men that want to be fucked or suck me off than...Well I pretty much only get messages from straight (as a 9 Bob note) men.

May have to reevaluate the decision not to entertain them otherwise it'll be a dry time on here

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Unfortunately it's quite common on here to be fab straight, which doesn't help you pick through the guys you actually want to meet. Lots of sifting is required

Good luck with it OP

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By *hloe sussex OP TV/TS over a year ago

Larne

"Unfortunately it's quite common on here to be fab straight, which doesn't help you pick through the guys you actually want to meet. Lots of sifting is required

Good luck with it OP

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By *hrista BellendWoman over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

"I thought it was important to let people decide how/when to come out their own selves?

Not everyone is in the closet to deceive. Most would love to be in a situation where they could live openly.

Can't have it both ways and then demand they advertise it or get lost.

So long as a potential meet is open when chatting 1-1 so that I can make an informed choice is my only preference.

I don't police I’m anyone's profile.

I’m not policing it maybe if they just read it and don’t you really think I would want to be with someone that is to ashamed to admit it ?

Exactly...You don't need to be anyone's "Dirty Little Secret" if you don't want to be

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I'm not looking to meet men well not unless they're in women's clothes.

So I just blocked all messages from males..

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think it happens less than men being fab straight,but I've seen a few women who are fab straight too.Ie they write straight but then have pics of them playing with women or veries from them.

Since bi women are so sought after ,I found that a bit strange.

In an ideal world people would be upfront ,but they will lie about age ,marital status ,smoking etc for sex.

Bi men do get turned down by some couples and single women ,so they hide it to increase the chance of a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Straight guys , I am constantly being bombarded by so called straight guys msging me and wanting to meet , now in my profile they clearly never read it says in capitals I will not meet straight guys , but still they come and excuses I get is ohh I really am bi , but I’m married or ppl here might know me , so you don’t mind being a straight guy on a sex swingers site but heaven forbid they find out you bi sexual ! Guys pays to be honest here or at least read ppls profiles, whinge over

Could be the straight guys who dont like men apart from cocks which they declare to relish. Some could just be curious...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think the sexuality tick box should be removed from profiles.

The 'Looking for' tick box covers it.

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By *hloe sussex OP TV/TS over a year ago

Larne

Could be the straight guys who dont like men apart from cocks which they declare to relish. Some could just be curious..."

Then put it in your profiles that’s why they are there , by putting straight surly there alienating half there target audience right?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

That’s because they are straight when they’re with their friends. Can’t let the lads know you like a bit of cock. You know all that macho bullshit

The mr

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By *ibi_curiousCouple over a year ago

Shepperton

As a couple with a profile that clearly states that we are looking for a bi/gay male. Guys if your bi or bi curious put it on your profile we are sick of guys who get the hump when we bring this to there attention only to be told they are bi but don't want to let anyone know about it. If they can lie by saying they are straight, then when they say I chat they are really bi, then that could be a lie to.

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By *hloe sussex OP TV/TS over a year ago

Larne

"As a couple with a profile that clearly states that we are looking for a bi/gay male. Guys if your bi or bi curious put it on your profile we are sick of guys who get the hump when we bring this to there attention only to be told they are bi but don't want to let anyone know about it. If they can lie by saying they are straight, then when they say I chat they are really bi, then that could be a lie to."

I feel your pain

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By *unx2019Couple over a year ago

Moray

We have opposite problem, we looking for bi guys and state that in profile. The amount of messages get from “real” straight guys is a joke.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could be the straight guys who dont like men apart from cocks which they declare to relish. Some could just be curious...

Then put it in your profiles that’s why they are there , by putting straight surly there alienating half there target audience right? "

I agree- it would get them far more views and potential to satisfy their curiousity.

On the flip side, they may not do it as some women dont want bi men so that could be another reason why they dont list themselves as bi or bi curious?

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By *ablo minibar123Woman over a year ago

Could be the straight guys who dont like men apart from cocks which they declare to relish. Some could just be curious...

Then put it in your profiles that’s why they are there , by putting straight surly there alienating half there target audience right? "

They put straight as they don't fancy guys but just like performing sexual acts with them, so in their minds they are completely straight. Just like the vegetarians that eat meat but don't like the taste

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could be the straight guys who dont like men apart from cocks which they declare to relish. Some could just be curious...

Then put it in your profiles that’s why they are there , by putting straight surly there alienating half there target audience right? "

It says in my profile that I've resorted to blocking straight guys. Don't think it made any difference when I added that in December.

To be honest, its not a big deal. If I want to engage I can, if not its only a click to block and never hear from again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have opposite problem, we looking for bi guys and state that in profile. The amount of messages get from “real” straight guys is a joke.

How you doing lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could be the straight guys who dont like men apart from cocks which they declare to relish. Some could just be curious...

Then put it in your profiles that’s why they are there , by putting straight surly there alienating half there target audience right?

I'm not attracted to men myself.

Anyway is no big deal, straight gay they're coming my way!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could be the straight guys who dont like men apart from cocks which they declare to relish. Some could just be curious..."

I'm only stopping myself from having more sex aren't I. I need to reconsider my choices.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS over a year ago

Birmingham

OP, I get the same. However I will chat with guys who's profile says straight but also that they are looking to meet with a TV/TS. You do see quite a few profiles like this.

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By *itonthesideWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"I thought it was important to let people decide how/when to come out their own selves?

Not everyone is in the closet to deceive. Most would love to be in a situation where they could live openly.

Can't have it both ways and then demand they advertise it or get lost.

So long as a potential meet is open when chatting 1-1 so that I can make an informed choice is my only preference.

I don't police anyone's profile.

I would maybe agree if it was a facebook profile or their linkd in. But if the profile shows an unidentified picture if a cock then lets be honest, its not about when its right to come out the closet, its about appealing to the maximum number of meets on here

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By *itonthesideWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Could be the straight guys who dont like men apart from cocks which they declare to relish. Some could just be curious...

Then put it in your profiles that’s why they are there , by putting straight surly there alienating half there target audience right?

It says in my profile that I've resorted to blocking straight guys. Don't think it made any difference when I added that in December.

To be honest, its not a big deal. If I want to engage I can, if not its only a click to block and never hear from again. "

You know you can just apply a filter that no men can message you right?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Could be the straight guys who dont like men apart from cocks which they declare to relish. Some could just be curious...

Then put it in your profiles that’s why they are there , by putting straight surly there alienating half there target audience right?

It says in my profile that I've resorted to blocking straight guys. Don't think it made any difference when I added that in December.

To be honest, its not a big deal. If I want to engage I can, if not its only a click to block and never hear from again.

You know you can just apply a filter that no men can message you right? "

But that would include bi and gay men wouldn't it?

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By *itonthesideWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

Sorry I misunderstood that you didn’t want any messaging

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By *ananaman41Man over a year ago

Dublin

Could be the straight guys who dont like men apart from cocks which they declare to relish. Some could just be curious...

Then put it in your profiles that’s why they are there , by putting straight surly there alienating half there target audience right?

It says in my profile that I've resorted to blocking straight guys. Don't think it made any difference when I added that in December.

To be honest, its not a big deal. If I want to engage I can, if not its only a click to block and never hear from again. "

You cant block on sexual preference i think, so putting that in your profile meant nothing. It cant technically be done

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