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I discovered I'm not the stupid, disgusting piece of crap my ex spent 16 years telling me that I was.
I discovered I'm a intelligent, independent woman who is capable of balancing a hugely stressful job and being a single parent and doing a bloody good job of it.
I also discovered that ok I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I can be a gorgeous sexy woman in some people's eyes!!
2012 was a pretty good year for me  |
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over a year ago
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2012 been worst year ever for me absolutely vile!couldnt and wouldn't put my self back through a year like it so 2013 is my yr and I'm going to make sure of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I discovered I'm not the stupid, disgusting piece of crap my ex spent 16 years telling me that I was.
I discovered I'm a intelligent, independent woman who is capable of balancing a hugely stressful job and being a single parent and doing a bloody good job of it.
I also discovered that ok I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I can be a gorgeous sexy woman in some people's eyes!!
2012 was a pretty good year for me "
to quote the Spice Girls - GIRL POWER!
My mission for 2013 is to battle some of my demons, gain some of my spark that makes me tick.. then take over the world and sprinkle magic fairy dust on everyone lol |
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"I discovered I'm not the stupid, disgusting piece of crap my ex spent 16 years telling me that I was.
I discovered I'm a intelligent, independent woman who is capable of balancing a hugely stressful job and being a single parent and doing a bloody good job of it.
I also discovered that ok I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I can be a gorgeous sexy woman in some people's eyes!!
2012 was a pretty good year for me
to quote the Spice Girls - GIRL POWER!
My mission for 2013 is to battle some of my demons, gain some of my spark that makes me tick.. then take over the world and sprinkle magic fairy dust on everyone lol "
Can you sprinkle some of that fairy dust my way then pleas cos I can talk the talk but in reality the demons are still winning the battle  |
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In the last few weeks ive learnt that your life can change in an instant. That i will no longer get into pettiness and things that dont matter.
Ive learnt that the best thing ive done in recent years was build bridges with my father that had been somewhat of a tubulant relationship and that this last year had been our best year ever.
Ive also realized that im the one that can hold things together and shock brings out the calm sensible side of me.
Ive also realized that i will never give up hope.
Ive learnt what humilty really is and we can find comfort amongst strangers in unusual settings and there is far more kindness in the world |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That I like being cold hearted because letting someone in gives them the opportunity to hurt me.
Oh I so hear you "
I have learnt the error of my ways. |
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By *aturasqCouple
over a year ago
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"I discovered I'm not the stupid, disgusting piece of crap my ex spent 16 years telling me that I was.
I discovered I'm a intelligent, independent woman who is capable of balancing a hugely stressful job and being a single parent and doing a bloody good job of it.
I also discovered that ok I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I can be a gorgeous sexy woman in some people's eyes!!
2012 was a pretty good year for me "
To be fair though sounds like you ex must be pretty thick to lose someone like you
Anyone who has your love is a very luck person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve discoverd the utter joy of immediately switching off the telly every time yet anothe cookery programme pops up on screen….!.
So I no longer display tolerant apathy towards this ever increasing volume of utterly mind-numbing crap which seems solely devised to systematically rot peoples brains away……so there,,, nur-nur……   
Oo'or I feel better now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i discovered the person i loved was cheating behind my back.
she even had the nerve to tell me to my face she was as in her eyes it was ok.
i got up and walked away.
knew it was over.
sometimes you have to just walk away no matter how much it hurts.
so i learnt ever to trust again. and always doubt someones words until they prove themselves.
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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago
South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo |
That some men just go through life hurting others, they say they love you but they're just dangling you and carrying on with their own comfy little lives.
I'm hoping that 2013 will prove to me that there are other men out there who are the total opposite of my 2012 experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That some men just go through life hurting others, they say they love you but they're just dangling you and carrying on with their own comfy little lives.
I'm hoping that 2013 will prove to me that there are other men out there who are the total opposite of my 2012 experience."
happens to guys also.
the world is full of pain and we all sometimes have our share of it x |
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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago
South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo |
"That some men just go through life hurting others, they say they love you but they're just dangling you and carrying on with their own comfy little lives.
I'm hoping that 2013 will prove to me that there are other men out there who are the total opposite of my 2012 experience.
happens to guys also.
the world is full of pain and we all sometimes have our share of it x"
Just that my share is right this minute, I've just this morning plucked up the courage to dump by cheating sob bf, even if it is his estranged wife that he's cheating with |
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By *ussypussWoman
over a year ago
South Birmingham waiting for the bf to come back after crimbo |
"My mission for 2013 is to battle some of my demons, gain some of my spark that makes me tick.. then take over the world and sprinkle magic fairy dust on everyone lol "
Joining the queue for fairy dust, desperately needs some of that right now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To never trust anyone, ever.
After 10 months of effort i found my dom to have been lying to me about really important stuff, as well as taking a nasty fat slag as a sub.
All faith and trust is gone, not to return.
2013 will be much better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve discoverd the utter joy of immediately switching off the telly every time yet anothe cookery programme pops up on screen….!.
So I no longer display tolerant apathy towards this ever increasing volume of utterly mind-numbing crap which seems solely devised to systematically rot peoples brains away……so there,,, nur-nur……
Oo'or I feel better now!"
Awwww... Never mind Soxy.... There's always
Eastenders, Corrie and a smattering of "Reality" shows in the effi.... Errr... Offing.... |
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"I discovered I'm not the stupid, disgusting piece of crap my ex spent 16 years telling me that I was.
I discovered I'm a intelligent, independent woman who is capable of balancing a hugely stressful job and being a single parent and doing a bloody good job of it.
I also discovered that ok I'm not everyone's cup of tea but I can be a gorgeous sexy woman in some people's eyes!!
2012 was a pretty good year for me
To be fair though sounds like you ex must be pretty thick to lose someone like you
Anyone who has your love is a very luck person "
Thank you for saying that as its been a tough road to get to me realising I'm actually a good person!! Hopefully someone deserving of my love will turn up in 2013 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In the last few weeks ive learnt that your life can change in an instant. That i will no longer get into pettiness and things that dont matter.
Ive learnt that the best thing ive done in recent years was build bridges with my father that had been somewhat of a tubulant relationship and that this last year had been our best year ever.
Ive also realized that im the one that can hold things together and shock brings out the calm sensible side of me.
Ive also realized that i will never give up hope.
Ive learnt what humilty really is and we can find comfort amongst strangers in unusual settings and there is far more kindness in the world"
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I truely know that I am one hot sexy chick.. who does attract men... keeping them is a different story.. Oh and that I am valued in my profession so much so I was head hunted for a role (which was pulled)... I hope that 2013 is a good one I hope that I can still carry on doing the job I love and there is funding avaliable for it..
I have learned to be me and I think after 32 years I finally am getting to know me... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"2012 been worst year ever for me absolutely vile!couldnt and wouldn't put my self back through a year like it so 2013 is my yr and I'm going to make sure of it "
Same here . Fresh start morrow |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
That I'm happy with who I am, happy with being on my own and I accept myself warts and all (well obviously not genital warts, that wasn't what I meant, it's just a figure of speech, honest *rings clap clinic just in case*, bugger unlikely to get another meet ever now - me and my big gob) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That I'm happy with who I am, happy with being on my own and I accept myself warts and all (well obviously not genital warts, that wasn't what I meant, it's just a figure of speech, honest *rings clap clinic just in case*, bugger unlikely to get another meet ever now - me and my big gob) "
well so far caz ive enjoyed talking to you and find some of the things you say funny.
hope it continues x |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
"That I'm happy with who I am, happy with being on my own and I accept myself warts and all (well obviously not genital warts, that wasn't what I meant, it's just a figure of speech, honest *rings clap clinic just in case*, bugger unlikely to get another meet ever now - me and my big gob)
well so far caz ive enjoyed talking to you and find some of the things you say funny.
hope it continues x"
Only some of the things...I'm hurt - you should be laughing like a loon at every utterance I make Happy New Year Patrick x |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"....in 2012?
For me, that I'm a stronger person than I thought "
this is where I have been...
I am not such a "bad person"..
I have found a place where I am comfortable, and things "whether good or bad" happen for a reason, and I have the best angels looking over me, from both above and here making sure that I don't screw up......
other than that... flippant things...
seen my bank manager smile at me!!! and that I am cool for talking about darts.... and talking about made in chelsea with my 5yr old niece.....
onwards and upwards...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have learned
how to cook eggs without a stove.
That 'recently separated' means 'but not for long' 
That after showering, ignoring a small puddle on the kitchen worktop for a year = flooded kitchen
I don't like memory foam matresses so won't be buying one.
Fluffy wuffy kitty cats have sharp claws 
It's best not to leave dishes for more than 3days or the kitchen starts to smell 
Crying down the phone to service providers does sometimes work! - who'd 'ave thought it?!
.... and I'm probably going tomiss the train .... again  |
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"....in 2012?
For me, that I'm a stronger person than I thought "
Discovered my paranoid ex was only paranoid because he had been cheating on me for 5 years...and more importantly I could survive finding out..
And discovering that I have some of the dearest most caring friends in the world....without whom I would not have made it......
I hope I have them because I am worthy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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......that I have an emotional side after all!!
And that it's not just other folk that have 'feelings'!
And that it's not just women who can have their feelings and emotions bruised!
So.....what does this mean for 2013? Haven't a clue really! |
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