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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Who knows their there's from their they'res from their theirs?

In todays world, does spelling and grammar even matter?

Ps... I got a D in GCSE English so I'm under no illusion that I'm the bestest spellerer and grammarist

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do, and my effect and affect. Practice and practise.

Always struggle with stationary and stationery though, I can never remember which is which

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Grammar is getting worser nowadays

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man  over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"I do, and my effect and affect. Practice and practise.

Always struggle with stationary and stationery though, I can never remember which is which"

Stationery has an ‘e’, for ‘envelope’ .

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By *ennylewis2016Couple  over a year ago

Birmingham

People only say grammar and spelling don’t matter as an excuse because they can’t spell or use grammar correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Actually I think a lot of this is caused by the English accent because I've found a lot of English people pronounce them so they sound the same. I am from South Wales valleys and we pronounce them quite differently so it's easy to know which word you need to use. THERE is pronounced "Th.. Hair". THEY'RE is pronounced " they rrr". And THIER is pronounced " they uh". Hard to spell them out to be honest. But theres a definate and easily heared sound difference to each of these words. Consequently I've personally never mixed them up.

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By *icecock9999Man  over a year ago

Oxford

Speak proper like wot I does , init

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"People only say grammar and spelling don’t matter as an excuse because they can’t spell or use grammar correctly. "

Precisely!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do, and my effect and affect. Practice and practise.

Always struggle with stationary and stationery though, I can never remember which is which

Stationery has an ‘e’, for ‘envelope’ . "

How have I never heard that before? I’ll never forget again

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By *ristinapinkWoman  over a year ago

Staines-upon-Thames

I would add your and you’re

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I take your D and raid you an F. *true story

I’m still learning but some words don’t sink in. English is difficult for me. Good job I can talk and not take my spelling go to account when I speak face to face.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who knows their there's from their they'res from their theirs?

In todays world, does spelling and grammar even matter?

Ps... I got a D in GCSE English so I'm under no illusion that I'm the bestest spellerer and grammarist "

No excuse for bad spelling or grammar in my book. How on earth you don't know where to put a full stop is beyound me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I would add your and you’re "

Oooo that one really gets me, along with its and it's

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By *adMerWoman  over a year ago

Sandwich

The decline in grammatical abilities is partially responsible for some of the misunderstandings that occur online imho.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who knows their there's from their they'res from their theirs?

In todays world, does spelling and grammar even matter?

Ps... I got a D in GCSE English so I'm under no illusion that I'm the bestest spellerer and grammarist "

I dont, can u learn me

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By *weetkitten65Woman  over a year ago

Halifax

Lose & loose always annoy me when used in the wrong context

Changes a whole sentence.

Though we do have to appreciate some people are dyslexic which makes it harder...

Plus why is dyslexia so hard to spell?

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I know mine well, occasionally I get it wrong texting fast.

It shouldn’t matter but unfortunately it does - many people make sweeping judgments about a person based on the type of education / upbringing they had.

If you want to fuck or get recruited by one of those types , better comply to ‘there’ standards

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By *weetkitten65Woman  over a year ago

Halifax


"People only say grammar and spelling don’t matter as an excuse because they can’t spell or use grammar correctly. "

What about people who are dyslexic?

Don't think they would say it's an excuse

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By *icecock9999Man  over a year ago

Oxford

Some of the nicest people I have ever met have not had the blessing of a meaningful education for reasons they should not be judged by.

Don’t judge a book by its cover, or by its grammar ??

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man  over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"I know mine well, occasionally I get it wrong texting fast.

It shouldn’t matter but unfortunately it does - many people make sweeping judgments about a person based on the type of education / upbringing they had.

If you want to fuck or get recruited by one of those types , better comply to ‘there’ standards

"

I see what you did their

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

I'm struggling with a lot of spelling nowadays.

I used to do really well in my spelling tests at school too

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Bob spells and speaks very well due to his education, my spelling is ok. What vexes me is people who hate text speak and use it as a filter for not meeting people. I mean do people really think about the standard of a persons English when they are getting their back door smashed in they have swallowed the 7th load in the last hour??

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By *izzy RascallMan  over a year ago

Cardiff

I've recently started using they're for the first timein 47 years and it feels great. Still hasn't hot me a meet on here but I feel more mature and professional.

I reckon I'm using them correctly 80% of the time

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"Grammar is getting worser nowadays "

1984

Newspeak init ...

Words being manipulated to have different meanings

Just the word gay for example . Used to mean happy ..now it means homo

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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If I can understand the general meaning of what someone is trying to say, I'm not going to get to hung up on what they could of said. It doesn't really effect me - its fairly simple to understand intention and what their trying to say.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If I can understand the general meaning of what someone is trying to say, I'm not going to get to hung up on what they could of said. It doesn't really effect me - its fairly simple to understand intention and what their trying to say. "

Subtle

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By *usty kayWoman  over a year ago

Burnham

Are instead of our is the one that really grates me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Are instead of our is the one that really grates me.

"

100% agree

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"If I can understand the general meaning of what someone is trying to say, I'm not going to get to hung up on what they could of said. It doesn't really effect me - its fairly simple to understand intention and what their trying to say. "

They're *

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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"If I can understand the general meaning of what someone is trying to say, I'm not going to get to hung up on what they could of said. It doesn't really effect me - its fairly simple to understand intention and what their trying to say.

Subtle "

Grazie.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’m dyslexic and still manage to get it right most of the time. It doesn’t really matter though.

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"I know mine well, occasionally I get it wrong texting fast.

It shouldn’t matter but unfortunately it does - many people make sweeping judgments about a person based on the type of education / upbringing they had.

If you want to fuck or get recruited by one of those types , better comply to ‘there’ standards

I see what you did their "

I think I saw what you did two

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

This drives me mad when people don’t know the difference! Don’t know why it bothers me tbh as it’s such a small thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes it annoys me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I got CSE and GCSE grade 1 in English (exam result which probably mean nothing now as they don't ever come up when filling online forms in) and I'm a writer, and I still get thier, they're, your and you're wrong. MS Word does prompt you to correct them, but other writing tools (like online script sofrware) don't.

In my world that's what beta readers and editors are for.

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By *aomilatteCouple  over a year ago

Midlands


"People only say grammar and spelling don’t matter as an excuse because they can’t spell or use grammar correctly.

What about people who are dyslexic?

Don't think they would say it's an excuse "

Also for many on here English isn't their first language.

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By *tourgentMan  over a year ago

Stourbridge

My spelling or grammar aren't the best at times, but I do make a big effort.

It can be frustrating when you seam to spend your hole weak checking for mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I do, and my effect and affect. Practice and practise.

Always struggle with stationary and stationery though, I can never remember which is which

Stationery has an ‘e’, for ‘envelope’ . "

Brilliant

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By *ichaelangelaCouple  over a year ago

notts

Wish some would learn the difference between OF and HAVE.

it’s not “should of “. It’s “should have “

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Have seen on a restaurant chalkboard, all deserts £6

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The decline in grammatical abilities is partially responsible for some of the misunderstandings that occur online imho.

"

Good point

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By *tourgentMan  over a year ago

Stourbridge


"Have seen on a restaurant chalkboard, all deserts £6 "

Bargain!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have seen on a restaurant chalkboard, all deserts £6 "
it’s because the land isn’t very good for arable farming or livestock. Still seems like a bargain though

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

As long as the meaning is clear it doesn't matter.

Problems occur when text is either ambiguous or completely incomprehensible.

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man  over a year ago

BRIDPORT


"As long as the meaning is clear it doesn't matter.

Problems occur when text is either ambiguous or completely incomprehensible. "

Surely, the different spelling of words is precisely to make it clear.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I guess it depends how pedantic you want to be, and if you want to judge people on there spelling and grammar. And potentially missing some beautiful interactions with people who could turn out to wonderful people

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple  over a year ago

West Bromwich


"I would add your and you’re

Oooo that one really gets me, along with its and it's "

'It's is' short for 'it is'

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"As long as the meaning is clear it doesn't matter.

Problems occur when text is either ambiguous or completely incomprehensible.

Surely, the different spelling of words is precisely to make it clear. "

It is but I can usually work out that people mean 'too much' if they write 'to much' and ' I didn't go there' when they write ' I didn't go their'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes, it is important if you want to be understood properly.

Standards have certainly slipped.

But these are basics we're taught in primary school.

I see so many mixing 'his' and 'he's' around.

People using 'are' when actually they mean 'our'

The latest one is people dropping the 'h' from 'has'

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I believe I do, but I just know as sure as eggs are eggs, that when I enter a grammar police thread, that auto correct will stitch me up before I notice what I've sent!

Belittling people in conversations is a little unkind if you've understood the context of their input, but obviously, it's vital to get it right in documentation and publications.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yes, it is important if you want to be understood properly.

Standards have certainly slipped.

But these are basics we're taught in primary school.

I see so many mixing 'his' and 'he's' around.

People using 'are' when actually they mean 'our'

The latest one is people dropping the 'h' from 'has'

"

So implicit meaning can't be gleaned from the content without basic correct grammar, I don't agree, if somebody mixes their words up, I still get the implict or explicit meaning to what there trying to convey to me.

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

To and too I find annoying and people often mix them up.

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Covent Garden

I always get confused between my grammar and grandma, and my parents and parenthesis.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple  over a year ago

Leeds

I’m thick as fuck. But it’s easy enough to know the difference.

There - place

Their - person

They’re - multiple people

The mr

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

It's a pity that school standards have slipped and autocorrect inserts errors that it's too easy to miss.

Could have and could of etc, are simple mistakes that many fall with.

I'm not troubled by them as we've all had different backgrounds and they're easy mistakes to make

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I try but sometimes I get lazy with it

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By *enrietteandSamCouple  over a year ago

Staffordshire

I am angry.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example."

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London

I'm not that bothered about spelling. Call me bruv though

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help. "

I started reading A Pilgrim's Progress in its original text and gave up. It's hard work.

If I want some Shakespeare I watch a Kenneth Brannagh film.

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By *anno17Man  over a year ago

London


"If I can understand the general meaning of what someone is trying to say, I'm not going to get to hung up on what they could of said. It doesn't really effect me - its fairly simple to understand intention and what their trying to say. "

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It takes mental work for me to read grammatically incorrect English. It's tiring after awhile. Will I do it? Yes (I tutor ESL sometimes. That's a lot more mentally taxing in terms of reconstructing meaning)

But in my leisure time, the more reconstruction I have to do, the less I'm inclined to do it.

I got a band E4 in English E2 for my HSC. No, I'm not going to bother to translate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'm not that bothered about spelling. Call me bruv though "

What about fam, bruv

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By *un-n-frolicsMan  over a year ago

London


"I would add your and you’re

Oooo that one really gets me, along with its and it's "

But it’s auto-spell doing it, honest!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help. "

We all need help with those earlier texts, but that’s my point - whether it’s using a modern text for comparison, or just mentally correcting someone’s grammar so that it makes sense, we need to measure against agreed rules.

If we just threw away rules, as I’ve heard some people propose, sooner or later we wo be able to work out what people mean.

I’m encountering this also from the perspective of someone who’s learning a foreign language- when I find a rule, and through practise I understand that rule, I hold it dearly to my heart as a treasured guide through a maze.

Rules seem less important when you already know a language, but I think that’s because we are more skilled in seeing where people break the rules.

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"I'm not that bothered about spelling. Call me bruv though

What about fam, bruv "

Did someone say something??

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"I would add your and you’re

Oooo that one really gets me, along with its and it's

But it’s auto-spell doing it, honest! "

My auto-spell changes my to mu

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help.

We all need help with those earlier texts, but that’s my point - whether it’s using a modern text for comparison, or just mentally correcting someone’s grammar so that it makes sense, we need to measure against agreed rules.

If we just threw away rules, as I’ve heard some people propose, sooner or later we wo be able to work out what people mean.

I’m encountering this also from the perspective of someone who’s learning a foreign language- when I find a rule, and through practise I understand that rule, I hold it dearly to my heart as a treasured guide through a maze.

Rules seem less important when you already know a language, but I think that’s because we are more skilled in seeing where people break the rules."

I view language as less a set of laws, and more a tree or a forest. Rules describe the forest, they don't shape it. Which explains all the rules that make no apparent sense when you learn a language, and all the exceptions that might drive one potty.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I try not to judge people for it. I think sometimes, accent has a lot to do with the spelling and mix up of words.

What is pretty simple for you to understand, might not be for others. My brother was constantly ripped apart for his grammar, he was labelled all sorts of nasty things. Yet nobody knew he had dyslexia and had no access to education when he was growing up.

As long as the person isn't just doing it to be lazy and I can understand them, it's not much of an issue. I do try to be clear and proper in what I say, but it's not easy for me to know what is grammatically correct as I didn't have much of an education and had no help or support throughout my younger years. And as an adult, I don't see the need to make it a priority because I'm happy enough with how I communicate.

If someone wants to judge me, or judge others, that's not a problem. But I think it says a lot about your character. I completely understand why in professional settings it is important, but people who pick apart others over grammar are not people I have any interest in.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help.

I started reading A Pilgrim's Progress in its original text and gave up. It's hard work.

If I want some Shakespeare I watch a Kenneth Brannagh film."

I'm reading a biography of Elizabeth the first published in the mid 1950s, even the way that's written is less easy for me to understand than more modern ones I've read.

My opinion is that language changes and as it's main purpose is to make ourselves understood by other people we need to change with it. Rules are necessary but being too pedantic about their application means we might miss out on some interesting communication.

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By *XXDREAMMan  over a year ago

sudbury


"Who knows their there's from their they'res from their theirs?

In todays world, does spelling and grammar even matter?

Ps... I got a D in GCSE English so I'm under no illusion that I'm the bestest spellerer and grammarist

No excuse for bad spelling or grammar in my book. How on earth you don't know where to put a full stop is beyound me. "

Beyound hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Actually I think a lot of this is caused by the English accent because I've found a lot of English people pronounce them so they sound the same. I am from South Wales valleys and we pronounce them quite differently so it's easy to know which word you need to use. THERE is pronounced "Th.. Hair". THEY'RE is pronounced " they rrr". And THIER is pronounced " they uh". Hard to spell them out to be honest. But theres a definate and easily heared sound difference to each of these words. Consequently I've personally never mixed them up. "

Yeah, spoken language may have definitely contributed to it. Like people typing should of, could of, would of etc.

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North


"Who knows their there's from their they'res from their theirs?

In todays world, does spelling and grammar even matter?

Ps... I got a D in GCSE English so I'm under no illusion that I'm the bestest spellerer and grammarist "

Hear hear

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do think there can be a lack of correct grammar but who cares on here. It doesn't have any effect on my judgement on who I chat to or meet.

I do have a pet hate though for text speak such as "wuu2', that to me is laziness. Bad grammar and spelling could be down to many a different reason,some beyond the person's control.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple  over a year ago

Staffordshire


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Yeah, spoken language may have definitely contributed to it. Like people typing should have, could have, would have etc."

… are the last words of a fool.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help.

I started reading A Pilgrim's Progress in its original text and gave up. It's hard work.

If I want some Shakespeare I watch a Kenneth Brannagh film.

I'm reading a biography of Elizabeth the first published in the mid 1950s, even the way that's written is less easy for me to understand than more modern ones I've read.

My opinion is that language changes and as it's main purpose is to make ourselves understood by other people we need to change with it. Rules are necessary but being too pedantic about their application means we might miss out on some interesting communication."

I completely agree that pedantry should be avoided. Also, as some have stated on here, that it’s not something to be judgemental about - hey, a serial killer could write the most immaculate English

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By *altyMouthsCouple  over a year ago

Aberdeen

English is not Mrs Salty's first language, so I would have hoped to become more tolerant of others' poor grammar and language. Instead I'm even more judgemental, as her level is better than a lot of people educated here.

I'm willing to excuse those with dyslexia but I think claiming dyslexia has become a shorthand for many; figuratively and literally.

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By *elvet RopeMan  over a year ago

by the big field


"Grammar is getting worser nowadays "

Must be her age

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help.

I started reading A Pilgrim's Progress in its original text and gave up. It's hard work.

If I want some Shakespeare I watch a Kenneth Brannagh film.

I'm reading a biography of Elizabeth the first published in the mid 1950s, even the way that's written is less easy for me to understand than more modern ones I've read.

My opinion is that language changes and as it's main purpose is to make ourselves understood by other people we need to change with it. Rules are necessary but being too pedantic about their application means we might miss out on some interesting communication."

Sadly, we're often judged, erroneously, on our written word.

I left school before I took any exams; which makes me uneducated to some people.

I have neither an "O" nor an "A" Level to my name

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By *ad NannaWoman  over a year ago

East London


"English is not Mrs Salty's first language, so I would have hoped to become more tolerant of others' poor grammar and language. Instead I'm even more judgemental, as her level is better than a lot of people educated here.

I'm willing to excuse those with dyslexia but I think claiming dyslexia has become a shorthand for many; figuratively and literally. "

Some people struggle with syntax; grammar and clauses.

Some know a dangling modifier when they see one.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I do, and my effect and affect. Practice and practise.

Always struggle with stationary and stationery though, I can never remember which is which"

Stationery = contains 'e' for envelope. Ergo it's the sort of thing you buy in WH Smith.

Stationary = not moving

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I do, and my effect and affect. Practice and practise.

Always struggle with stationary and stationery though, I can never remember which is which

Stationery = contains 'e' for envelope. Ergo it's the sort of thing you buy in WH Smith.

Stationary = not moving "

An envelope is stationery (e) and a parked car is stationary (a)

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple  over a year ago

Debauchery


"Who knows their there's from their they'res from their theirs?

In todays world, does spelling and grammar even matter?

Ps... I got a D in GCSE English so I'm under no illusion that I'm the bestest spellerer and grammarist "

It’s a huge turn off for me when they don’t know the difference and can’t use the correct word in messages. Intelligence is instinctively attractive to me.

Hades

x

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By *ust RachelTV/TS  over a year ago

Horsham

Why do we need to spell and understand grammer, when most peope use txt spk shorthand

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By *avexxMan  over a year ago

cheshire

back to school for me,,,

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By *hristopherd999Man  over a year ago

Brentwood

desert and dessert

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By *elvet RopeMan  over a year ago

by the big field


"I do, and my effect and affect. Practice and practise.

Always struggle with stationary and stationery though, I can never remember which is which

Stationery = contains 'e' for envelope. Ergo it's the sort of thing you buy in WH Smith.

Stationary = not moving

An envelope is stationery (e) and a parked car is stationary (a)"

Should be easy to remember for us Black Country types, as a parked car Ay gooin nowhere

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West

I'll confess to getting very irritated by the modern habit of writing "should/could of" instead of "should/could have". It's nothing to do with dyslexia and everything to do with transcribing poor pronunciation. What is said verbally, often, is "should've/could've" which are just contractions of "should have/could have".

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By *ixieAndHerKingCouple  over a year ago

Debauchery


"I'll confess to getting very irritated by the modern habit of writing "should/could of" instead of "should/could have". It's nothing to do with dyslexia and everything to do with transcribing poor pronunciation. What is said verbally, often, is "should've/could've" which are just contractions of "should have/could have". "

Absolutely this… me too!

Hades

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'll confess to getting very irritated by the modern habit of writing "should/could of" instead of "should/could have". It's nothing to do with dyslexia and everything to do with transcribing poor pronunciation. What is said verbally, often, is "should've/could've" which are just contractions of "should have/could have". "

Yeah, that gets me too.

I sort of have a threshold, after which I can't be bothered anymore.

That threshold is higher a) when it's my job, b) with a known case of dyslexia, c) when I'm volunteering, or d) where I know English is not this person's first language.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Who knows their there's from their they'res from their theirs?

In todays world, does spelling and grammar even matter?

Ps... I got a D in GCSE English so I'm under no illusion that I'm the bestest spellerer and grammarist "

I do and I have to correct the person when they don’t

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help.

I started reading A Pilgrim's Progress in its original text and gave up. It's hard work.

If I want some Shakespeare I watch a Kenneth Brannagh film.

I'm reading a biography of Elizabeth the first published in the mid 1950s, even the way that's written is less easy for me to understand than more modern ones I've read.

My opinion is that language changes and as it's main purpose is to make ourselves understood by other people we need to change with it. Rules are necessary but being too pedantic about their application means we might miss out on some interesting communication.

Sadly, we're often judged, erroneously, on our written word.

I left school before I took any exams; which makes me uneducated to some people.

I have neither an "O" nor an "A" Level to my name

"

One response to a question that I think says a lot about people is "they didn't teach me that at school". As if knowledge can't be acquired anywhere else

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I'll confess to getting very irritated by the modern habit of writing "should/could of" instead of "should/could have". It's nothing to do with dyslexia and everything to do with transcribing poor pronunciation. What is said verbally, often, is "should've/could've" which are just contractions of "should have/could have".

Yeah, that gets me too.

I sort of have a threshold, after which I can't be bothered anymore.

That threshold is higher a) when it's my job, b) with a known case of dyslexia, c) when I'm volunteering, or d) where I know English is not this person's first language."

I've never once seen our international students write "could of". Not even those with the weakest English.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help.

I started reading A Pilgrim's Progress in its original text and gave up. It's hard work.

If I want some Shakespeare I watch a Kenneth Brannagh film.

I'm reading a biography of Elizabeth the first published in the mid 1950s, even the way that's written is less easy for me to understand than more modern ones I've read.

My opinion is that language changes and as it's main purpose is to make ourselves understood by other people we need to change with it. Rules are necessary but being too pedantic about their application means we might miss out on some interesting communication.

Sadly, we're often judged, erroneously, on our written word.

I left school before I took any exams; which makes me uneducated to some people.

I have neither an "O" nor an "A" Level to my name

One response to a question that I think says a lot about people is "they didn't teach me that at school". As if knowledge can't be acquired anywhere else

"

Since the Gove reforms of about 6-7yrs ago, they've taught incredibly complex grammar in primary schools, to the point where it sucks out any enjoyment from studying English. Why is it that this country has to go from the sublime to the ridiculous?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help.

I started reading A Pilgrim's Progress in its original text and gave up. It's hard work.

If I want some Shakespeare I watch a Kenneth Brannagh film.

I'm reading a biography of Elizabeth the first published in the mid 1950s, even the way that's written is less easy for me to understand than more modern ones I've read.

My opinion is that language changes and as it's main purpose is to make ourselves understood by other people we need to change with it. Rules are necessary but being too pedantic about their application means we might miss out on some interesting communication.

Sadly, we're often judged, erroneously, on our written word.

I left school before I took any exams; which makes me uneducated to some people.

I have neither an "O" nor an "A" Level to my name

One response to a question that I think says a lot about people is "they didn't teach me that at school". As if knowledge can't be acquired anywhere else

Since the Gove reforms of about 6-7yrs ago, they've taught incredibly complex grammar in primary schools, to the point where it sucks out any enjoyment from studying English. Why is it that this country has to go from the sublime to the ridiculous?"

Because of threads like this

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By *inky_couple2020Couple  over a year ago

North West


"I think it’s very important to get this sort of thing correct.

Language is a sort of game where we know the rules and interpret what we see by applying those rules. Yes, we can usually see what people mean, even when they write the wrong thing, but that’s only because we measure it against the rule we know them to be breaking.

Slightly arguing against myself though, it’s interesting that so much of our language was built up before the rules of grammar and spelling were codified - Shakespeare and the King James Bible for example.

I need a guide to read Chaucer. I had to have the text of Canterbury Tales in modern English to read alongside the original. I also need help with Shakespeare and the King James Bible. I can in all but the most extreme cases work out what all but the worst modern examples of bad grammar and spelling mean without help.

I started reading A Pilgrim's Progress in its original text and gave up. It's hard work.

If I want some Shakespeare I watch a Kenneth Brannagh film.

I'm reading a biography of Elizabeth the first published in the mid 1950s, even the way that's written is less easy for me to understand than more modern ones I've read.

My opinion is that language changes and as it's main purpose is to make ourselves understood by other people we need to change with it. Rules are necessary but being too pedantic about their application means we might miss out on some interesting communication.

Sadly, we're often judged, erroneously, on our written word.

I left school before I took any exams; which makes me uneducated to some people.

I have neither an "O" nor an "A" Level to my name

One response to a question that I think says a lot about people is "they didn't teach me that at school". As if knowledge can't be acquired anywhere else

Since the Gove reforms of about 6-7yrs ago, they've taught incredibly complex grammar in primary schools, to the point where it sucks out any enjoyment from studying English. Why is it that this country has to go from the sublime to the ridiculous?

Because of threads like this "

Is Gove reading this?!

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I'll confess to getting very irritated by the modern habit of writing "should/could of" instead of "should/could have". It's nothing to do with dyslexia and everything to do with transcribing poor pronunciation. What is said verbally, often, is "should've/could've" which are just contractions of "should have/could have".

Yeah, that gets me too.

I sort of have a threshold, after which I can't be bothered anymore.

That threshold is higher a) when it's my job, b) with a known case of dyslexia, c) when I'm volunteering, or d) where I know English is not this person's first language.

I've never once seen our international students write "could of". Not even those with the weakest English. "

Yeah, that's definitely true. They know better. Carelessness from native speakers bothers me more.

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By *riskynriskyCouple  over a year ago

Essex.


"People only say grammar and spelling don’t matter as an excuse because they can’t spell or use grammar correctly.

What about people who are dyslexic?

Don't think they would say it's an excuse "

As a dyslexic person, I always do my upper most to have correct grammar and spelling.

Spellchecker is very useful.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I would add your and you’re

Oooo that one really gets me, along with its and it's "

It's and its is deffo one I struggle with

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By *erces LetiferMan  over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

There, they're and their I'm fine with.

Same with to, too and two.

What I always seem to struggle with is effect and affect. No matter how many times I look up the rules...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Who knows their there's from their they'res from their theirs?

In todays world, does spelling and grammar even matter?

Ps... I got a D in GCSE English so I'm under no illusion that I'm the bestest spellerer and grammarist "

So I'll give my opinion...

I think it does matter. I do my best, but I know my best may be worse or better than someone else's best!

One of the worst places I find bad spelling and grammar is Facebook classic car forums. I have to read some of the comments a couple times over to understand what the hell they're on about.

But... some of these dudes rebuild engines and restore cars from a pile of parts. I certainly can't do that. For me, that's a different kind of intelligence. We're all good at different things and should try to respect that

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By *eroLondonMan  over a year ago

Covent Garden


"...Since the Gove reforms of about 6-7yrs ago, they've taught incredibly complex grammar in primary schools...

Is Gove reading this?! "

No, he's currently busy with the 'other' thread - Hat, Scarf & Gove Fab Photo Challenge.

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By *itonthesideWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"People only say grammar and spelling don’t matter as an excuse because they can’t spell or use grammar correctly. "

I disagree , just mentioned this on one of the other threads. I genuinely believe its because we have evolved into a much more visual and verbal word than looking at things written down.

When speaking it doesn’t matter which version of their they’re or there you used - the context around the words are how you determine meaning. As we use more verbal communication and less written communication… people have switched to those skills of more often looking at the context to understand the meaning and therefore what is written is less important than if the correct meaning can be deciphered from it

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By *itonthesideWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"As long as the meaning is clear it doesn't matter.

Problems occur when text is either ambiguous or completely incomprehensible.

Surely, the different spelling of words is precisely to make it clear. "

Nope if that was the case we wouldn’t have examples like read being used for both past and present tense.

The reality is different spellings exist for no other reason than someone set it up that way forever ago and thats what we continue to teach going forward.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As long as the meaning is clear it doesn't matter.

Problems occur when text is either ambiguous or completely incomprehensible.

Surely, the different spelling of words is precisely to make it clear.

Nope if that was the case we wouldn’t have examples like read being used for both past and present tense.

The reality is different spellings exist for no other reason than someone set it up that way forever ago and thats what we continue to teach going forward. "

There's a word in ancient Greek with four very distinct forms (like unless you know it, you'd have no idea it was the same damn word). They seem to have come from different cultural traditions.

Another example of this is, pick any language - the verb "to be" probably doesn't follow verb rules of the rest of that language (even if the verb rules have multiple complex and contradictory forms - looking at you, ancient Greek)

I think of grammatical rules as the coincidences which stuck.

You do still need to know them, give or take, but it's entirely arbitrary.

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By *itonthesideWoman  over a year ago

Glasgow


"As long as the meaning is clear it doesn't matter.

Problems occur when text is either ambiguous or completely incomprehensible.

Surely, the different spelling of words is precisely to make it clear.

Nope if that was the case we wouldn’t have examples like read being used for both past and present tense.

The reality is different spellings exist for no other reason than someone set it up that way forever ago and thats what we continue to teach going forward.

There's a word in ancient Greek with four very distinct forms (like unless you know it, you'd have no idea it was the same damn word). They seem to have come from different cultural traditions.

Another example of this is, pick any language - the verb "to be" probably doesn't follow verb rules of the rest of that language (even if the verb rules have multiple complex and contradictory forms - looking at you, ancient Greek)

I think of grammatical rules as the coincidences which stuck.

You do still need to know them, give or take, but it's entirely arbitrary. "

Have a look for stage door johnny on either the clock or the instant weight apps

He makes great comedy out of the english language and all of its inconsistencies

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"As long as the meaning is clear it doesn't matter.

Problems occur when text is either ambiguous or completely incomprehensible.

Surely, the different spelling of words is precisely to make it clear.

Nope if that was the case we wouldn’t have examples like read being used for both past and present tense.

The reality is different spellings exist for no other reason than someone set it up that way forever ago and thats what we continue to teach going forward.

There's a word in ancient Greek with four very distinct forms (like unless you know it, you'd have no idea it was the same damn word). They seem to have come from different cultural traditions.

Another example of this is, pick any language - the verb "to be" probably doesn't follow verb rules of the rest of that language (even if the verb rules have multiple complex and contradictory forms - looking at you, ancient Greek)

I think of grammatical rules as the coincidences which stuck.

You do still need to know them, give or take, but it's entirely arbitrary.

Have a look for stage door johnny on either the clock or the instant weight apps

He makes great comedy out of the english language and all of its inconsistencies "

My ESL students ask me why (inconsistent rule) exists.

I tell them it's because English is a terrible language.

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