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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But if you hadn’t tried, you always would have wondered, right?
You did a good thing for you, and it didn’t work out. You dodged that bullet. I know it doesn’t feel like it right now. And forget that saying, you had no way of predicting the future.
Have a pamper day, take some new pics  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Delete, block and move on! You got this x"
Last night, my parting shot was ‘ I ain’t wasting a single second more on you’ deleted conversation, and blocked the heartless twat x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But if you hadn’t tried, you always would have wondered, right?
You did a good thing for you, and it didn’t work out. You dodged that bullet. I know it doesn’t feel like it right now. And forget that saying, you had no way of predicting the future.
Have a pamper day, take some new pics "
Ooh yeah good plan, new pics x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
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They didn't want to be alone for Xmas. Is a shit thing to do whatever it was.
Last dumped you in November, so it was less than a 2 month detour on your path. And the best thing I can see you can take from it, is that now you need to replace those deleted photos with even hotter ones.
Every cloud. Hope your okay! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Judge people on how they treat you rather than the words they tell you "
Very much this. Words are wonderful, I adore them. But their actions when dating you speak for greater than empty promises, wishes and spoonfed hopes. Dating can be difficult, try and pay more attention to what they do.
I hope you feel better soon. Have a pamper day, take some new photos and make peace with the fact it didn't work out. Don't let anger eat you up, it doesn't help you move on. x |
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"But if you hadn’t tried, you always would have wondered, right?
You did a good thing for you, and it didn’t work out. You dodged that bullet. I know it doesn’t feel like it right now. And forget that saying, you had no way of predicting the future.
Have a pamper day, take some new pics "
Totally this … better another 3 month oops than a lifetime of what if
Chin up, tits out and onwards pretty lady  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
They didn't want to be alone for Xmas. Is a shit thing to do whatever it was.
Last dumped you in November, so it was less than a 2 month detour on your path. And the best thing I can see you can take from it, is that now you need to replace those deleted photos with even hotter ones.
Every cloud. Hope your okay! "
I’ll be fine babe thank you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But if you hadn’t tried, you always would have wondered, right?
You did a good thing for you, and it didn’t work out. You dodged that bullet. I know it doesn’t feel like it right now. And forget that saying, you had no way of predicting the future.
Have a pamper day, take some new pics
Totally this … better another 3 month oops than a lifetime of what if
Chin up, tits out and onwards pretty lady "
Thank you x |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
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. Sorry to read that you have been tricked Some of us men are arseholes.Please don’t fall for it for a 3rd time. |
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I made the same mistake, moved all the way from Wales back to Eastbourne for her and then after a few days she said it wasn't working, even though we'd been having a great time together.
Unfortunately she's never had her head screwed on properly but I believed her when she said she knew she wanted to be with me.
Single life is much more straightforward |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
. Sorry to read that you have been tricked Some of us men are arseholes.Please don’t fall for it for a 3rd time."
He ain’t getting a hat trick out of me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
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Sending hugs. Similar thing done to me except i let him fool me over and over. It hurts like hell but keep your chin up, you deserve so much more. Have to feel sorry for them being so pathetic really xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Maybe he genuinely thought it could work, as you must have done ? Not always a right or wrong in relationships, it obviously wasn't meant to be.  "
You would think wouldn’t you ?
Last night I got a few bullshit excuses ranging from ‘ I don’t text well , we should have talked on the phone more ‘ WELL PICK THE PHONE UP THEN AND COMMUNICATE
he didn’t give it a chance basically , I’ve just had covid too so I couldn’t really go anywhere |
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
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I feel your pain, had a similar thing in the not so distant past. I fell for the sorry sob story and got shafted. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
I feel your pain, had a similar thing in the not so distant past. I fell for the sorry sob story and got shafted. "
Shit ain’t it
Sorry it happened to you too x |
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
They didn't want to be alone for Xmas. Is a shit thing to do whatever it was.
Last dumped you in November, so it was less than a 2 month detour on your path. And the best thing I can see you can take from it, is that now you need to replace those deleted photos with even hotter ones.
Every cloud. Hope your okay! "
This yes sounds like the idiot didn’t want to be lonely at Xmas pretty much or was hedging bets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Jesus, sorry to hear that.
I live my life by this Maya Angelou quote. I think it might prove useful for you too.
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
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You're obviously a way more decent person than him- decent people tend to expect others to be decent too. It's his fault for being an arsehole. Hopefully you'll find a decent man who is worthy if you.
Hugs x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
They didn't want to be alone for Xmas. Is a shit thing to do whatever it was.
Last dumped you in November, so it was less than a 2 month detour on your path. And the best thing I can see you can take from it, is that now you need to replace those deleted photos with even hotter ones.
Every cloud. Hope your okay!
This yes sounds like the idiot didn’t want to be lonely at Xmas pretty much or was hedging bets "
Hedging his bets I think x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jesus, sorry to hear that.
I live my life by this Maya Angelou quote. I think it might prove useful for you too.
"When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time." "
Oh wow , this really helps thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
You're obviously a way more decent person than him- decent people tend to expect others to be decent too. It's his fault for being an arsehole. Hopefully you'll find a decent man who is worthy if you.
Hugs x"
Thanks , I’m just getting over covid too ( that was another excuse that we haven’t seen much if each other , well excuse me for having covid ffs)
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
You're obviously a way more decent person than him- decent people tend to expect others to be decent too. It's his fault for being an arsehole. Hopefully you'll find a decent man who is worthy if you.
Hugs x"
Tbf, he's not the one slagging her off in public |
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By *bw44DDWoman
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
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Hope you’re ok x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
You're obviously a way more decent person than him- decent people tend to expect others to be decent too. It's his fault for being an arsehole. Hopefully you'll find a decent man who is worthy if you.
Hugs x
Tbf, he's not the one slagging her off in public "
Hardly naming names am I? Who knows what he’s doing?
I’m venting
If you don’t like it then move on to another thread |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You gave it another go, it didn't work.
Well done for trusting and trying.
He was a dick.
You're now free to spend some time alone, with friends or having a shag-fest.
Every cloud!
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Thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
Hope you’re ok x"
Thank you xx |
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As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just been dumped by the same guy who dumped me in November!!
Asked for another chance, fed me full of bullshit lines, I fell for it , then I get told ‘ I don’t think we are meant to be together ‘
I even deleted my pics on here and I don’t even have them saved
Some men should just stay on their own and not fuck with other peoples feelings , not once but twice.
What’s that saying? Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me
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Aww hun that’s awful…..his loss i say you definitely deserve better x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But if you hadn’t tried, you always would have wondered, right?
You did a good thing for you, and it didn’t work out. You dodged that bullet. I know it doesn’t feel like it right now. And forget that saying, you had no way of predicting the future.
Have a pamper day, take some new pics "
Very much this. It’s shit what has happened to you, but you were brave enough to give it a try and that doesn’t make you a fool.
Now you know he’s not for you and you can move on whenever you’re ready.
Be kind to yourself x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts. "
Damn if only I cared about your option enough I’d share screenshots with you to prove what I’m saying
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts. "
What's wrong with showing some empathy and compassion to another human being, when shit happens. We all need to be carried at times in our lives. You can come back with 'White Knight' if you choose too I won't be offended |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts.
What's wrong with showing some empathy and compassion to another human being, when shit happens. We all need to be carried at times in our lives. You can come back with 'White Knight' if you choose too I won't be offended "
She’s not going to shag you you know
The classic line
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts.
What's wrong with showing some empathy and compassion to another human being, when shit happens. We all need to be carried at times in our lives. You can come back with 'White Knight' if you choose too I won't be offended
She’s not going to shag you you know
The classic line
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She doesn't have to shag me, for me to be a semi decent human being...and call out bullshit I'd do it if we're you or a man,
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts. "
Yeah it's weird people having hearts and caring |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts.
What's wrong with showing some empathy and compassion to another human being, when shit happens. We all need to be carried at times in our lives. You can come back with 'White Knight' if you choose too I won't be offended
She’s not going to shag you you know
The classic line
She doesn't have to shag me, for me to be a semi decent human being...and call out bullshit I'd do it if we're you or a man,
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Maybe I should have made the sarcasm cleared |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts.
What's wrong with showing some empathy and compassion to another human being, when shit happens. We all need to be carried at times in our lives. You can come back with 'White Knight' if you choose too I won't be offended
She’s not going to shag you you know
The classic line
She doesn't have to shag me, for me to be a semi decent human being...and call out bullshit I'd do it if we're you or a man,
Maybe I should have made the sarcasm cleared "
It's my bad I reacted and didn't give myself time to re-read and pick it up....after re-reading I got it second time around....but totally..
Not your sarcasim at fault lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts.
What's wrong with showing some empathy and compassion to another human being, when shit happens. We all need to be carried at times in our lives. You can come back with 'White Knight' if you choose too I won't be offended
She’s not going to shag you you know
The classic line
She doesn't have to shag me, for me to be a semi decent human being...and call out bullshit I'd do it if we're you or a man,
Maybe I should have made the sarcasm cleared
It's my bad I reacted and didn't give myself time to re-read and pick it up....after re-reading I got it second time around....but totally..
Not your sarcasim at fault lol "
Consider yourself forgiven my little friend x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts.
What's wrong with showing some empathy and compassion to another human being, when shit happens. We all need to be carried at times in our lives. You can come back with 'White Knight' if you choose too I won't be offended
She’s not going to shag you you know
The classic line
She doesn't have to shag me, for me to be a semi decent human being...and call out bullshit I'd do it if we're you or a man,
Maybe I should have made the sarcasm cleared
It's my bad I reacted and didn't give myself time to re-read and pick it up....after re-reading I got it second time around....but totally..
Not your sarcasim at fault lol
Consider yourself forgiven my little friend x"
Very magnamous of you x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I took the same guy back 3 times OP,same old bull that was six months ago I blocked all contact with him,and he had the nerve to ask my son if I was seeing anyone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts. "
Ughhhhhhhhhh |
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"As with all these things, i take the OP with a grain of salt.
Usually 3 sides to everything; her story, his story (which we'll never hear), and the truth.
Always makes me laugh seeing the white knights and 'hugs hun' brigade rushing to the womans aid in these posts. "
Obviously you haven't seen a post from a male forum user about his struggles post break up then? Almost entirely supportive comments from everyone (gender irrelevant). The only slightly less than supportive comment was by another man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Chin up willow
Mr right may be around the corner 
Had enough of men but thank you "
Easy to say, I know but not everyone, man or woman is an arsehole.
Good things come to good people, keep going and when the time is right something amazing will happen x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I made the same mistake, moved all the way from Wales back to Eastbourne for her and then after a few days she said it wasn't working, even though we'd been having a great time together.
Unfortunately she's never had her head screwed on properly but I believed her when she said she knew she wanted to be with me.
Single life is much more straightforward "
Feel your paid about moving miles away my friend. Hope things are working out OK now...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dating nowadays is difficult. I assume they always have about another dozen options on the go. women do fer sure  "
Especially when they are in twitter/Facebook/instagram/bumble/tinder etc….. |
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"Dating nowadays is difficult. I assume they always have about another dozen options on the go. women do fer sure
Especially when they are in twitter/Facebook/instagram/bumble/tinder etc….. "
well yes i guess..... They get enough interest here and all the other sites same difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dating nowadays is difficult. I assume they always have about another dozen options on the go. "
I’m the opposite, I tend to give one person my full attention at one time, then I’m disappointed to find out I’m option 5 or whatever
Wonder when I’ll learn |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dating nowadays is difficult. I assume they always have about another dozen options on the go.
I’m the opposite, I tend to give one person my full attention at one time, then I’m disappointed to find out I’m option 5 or whatever
Wonder when I’ll learn "
That’s good old fashioned me. If I wanted a date and not just have a bit of fun, I’m just paying my attention to her. And yes, very disappointing when you find out they don’t. |
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Take some hot new pics op, there are plenty of men out there who are decent, I've been single a while and it's going to take a lot of convincing to change my mind. For now enjoy feeling sexy and enjoy getting into mischief with all the gorgeous men out there! Get a disorderly queue going and get a pile of action pics as well! |
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I don't believe in second chances. He is gone now, get your anger out and afterwards you can build yourself stronger and self protective
What a wishy washy crap - we don't "meant to" to be together. Heh. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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Sending hugs x.
Also think of it as a lesson. What do you need to change in yourself so that you don’t make the same mistake?
Maybe you need clearer boundaries, perhaps it’s emotional healing work, maybe you need to stop acting like a victim. There’s endless possibilities, but each negative experience teaches us an important lesson if we are willing to face our demons. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sending hugs x.
Also think of it as a lesson. What do you need to change in yourself so that you don’t make the same mistake?
Maybe you need clearer boundaries, perhaps it’s emotional healing work, maybe you need to stop acting like a victim. There’s endless possibilities, but each negative experience teaches us an important lesson if we are willing to face our demons."
Hmmm interesting points
I need to have a think about that
I just don’t get how someone can say ‘ come with me to meet my brother ‘ ‘ is your daughter coming with us ?’ ( thank god i said no )
Why do that? Show commitment and then just pull the rug ( literally a few days later)  |
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People are twats . They can be cruel and I think some people just like to see if they can get you back without really wanting it.
It is their ego talking. |
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OP please don’t worry about it. You’ll get over feeling that you’ve been daft giving them a second chance. They on the other hand will have to live with being a dick
Karma has this way of sorting stuff out like that out. Don’t sweat it |
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"OP please don’t worry about it. You’ll get over feeling that you’ve been daft giving them a second chance. They on the other hand will have to live with being a dick
Karma has this way of sorting stuff out like that out. Don’t sweat it "
Just get sweaty |
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I like to take a positive view away from everything - personally I'd be happy I wasn't alone over Christmas as that's the shittest time of year to be alone and content that I had put the effort in and proven to myself that I'd given it a chance.
I wouldn't over analyse it but there's warning signs you'll be more aware of now than you were before.
Importantly only you can make every experience you have make you a better person - it's very easy to allow it to alter you negatively. |
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"OP please don’t worry about it. You’ll get over feeling that you’ve been daft giving them a second chance. They on the other hand will have to live with being a dick
Karma has this way of sorting stuff out like that out. Don’t sweat it
Just get sweaty "
^^ true story |
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"Sending hugs x.
Also think of it as a lesson. What do you need to change in yourself so that you don’t make the same mistake?
Maybe you need clearer boundaries, perhaps it’s emotional healing work, maybe you need to stop acting like a victim. There’s endless possibilities, but each negative experience teaches us an important lesson if we are willing to face our demons.
Hmmm interesting points
I need to have a think about that
I just don’t get how someone can say ‘ come with me to meet my brother ‘ ‘ is your daughter coming with us ?’ ( thank god i said no )
Why do that? Show commitment and then just pull the rug ( literally a few days later) "
I had that. Introduced me to his child, then dumped me a few weeks later. To Me that meant something. I wouldn't do that on a whim. To him- not so much! |
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I’ve been in this situation OP, it’s never great, and so I empathise. As many have said, you are the one that gives you value, no one else. It’s hard to accept being “alone” at certain times of the year and I do understand the need to “belong”.
Take some time, keep an open heart, value yourself, don’t ever be someone’s “reserve”, good relationships are based on equality.
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