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Good or bad, does it matter?
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Yes it matters.
I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral. "
This.
It's probably more frustrating having a bad blowie than none at all.
You can't be disappointed about something you never had.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes it matters.
I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral.
So what makes it bad?
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When they blow instead of suck.
Too much teeth scratching.
Too much stubble rub.
Trying to wrestle the life out of it while using hands.
Many more besides but that springs to mind immediately. |
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The issue is the giver doesn't know what you enjoy unless you tell them.
I have been told many times my oral technique is amazing and on almost all occasions the men ask for more but one guy said it wasn't working for him. He wouldn't tell my why or what I needed to change to make it better.
Oral is not a one size fits all thing, what works for one might not work for another. Sometimes we need a few hints as to what works for you.
Just saying it was a bad bj without saying why doesn't help either party. Communication is key! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes it matters.
I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral.
So what makes it bad?
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Trying to wrestle the life out of it while using hands. …"
This reminds me, I need a clutch fixing.  |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes it matters.
I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral.
So what makes it bad?
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Trying to wrestle the life out of it while using hands. …
This reminds me, I need a clutch fixing. "
I laughed way too hard then. |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
"Yes it matters.
I’d rather not have any, than suffer bad oral.
So what makes it bad?
When they blow instead of suck.
Too much teeth scratching.
Too much stubble rub.
Trying to wrestle the life out of it while using hands.
Many more besides but that springs to mind immediately."
Let me add : so much saliva it feels like you've stuck your dick inside of a Hotpoint Whirlpool halfway through a wool wash cycle  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?
After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it? "
It matters. Have had it so bad I struggled to walk for days after but am too british/polite to complain! |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?
After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it?
It matters. Have had it so bad I struggled to walk for days after but am too british/polite to complain! "
Sorry what now??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?
After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it?
It matters. Have had it so bad I struggled to walk for days after but am too british/polite to complain!
Sorry what now?? "
Twice girls have used a lot of teeth and almost grated it! |
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"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?
After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it? "
Sadly, I think it depends on your situation.
For me, I've only had two ladies do it for me - both were okay, albeit a bit ‘teethy’, but I've not quite been ‘blown away’, if you pardon the pun! I think this is mostly down to me having a very limited sample set of women I've received oral sex from, and not discovering what I enjoy. More suggestions and attempts would be welcome!
From an oral-giver's perspective, I've given oral sex to a fair number of females. Whether I've been good or bad, I'm not quite sure, although I did have a few occasions where they seemed to enjoy it, with some ladies wanting repeat sessions. I'm on the fence on whether to say I'm good or bad, though.
Overall, like the OP, I'm just grateful for the attention, as it can be seriously lacking sometimes, plus you never know what you might discover liking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If someone is crap at oral, does it matter?
After all my cock is at least getting some kind of attention isn’t it?
It matters. Have had it so bad I struggled to walk for days after but am too british/polite to complain!
Sorry what now??
Twice girls have used a lot of teeth and almost grated it! "
Who uses teeth? I thought it was always a threat.  |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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"I don’t particularly find oral sex on me that enjoyable so if they were shit at it I’d be happy to not go down that road.
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I am similar. If they’re a great fuck it doesn’t necessarily matter  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes it does. I'm another who isn't the biggest fan of oral sex, I can count on one hand the partners I've enjoyed receiving it from.
So I'd much rather focus on doing things we both enjoy. I can quite happily go without receiving, it's not that important to me.
I will say, sometimes at first it's not that good but over time a person learns to read my body, listen to the sounds I make more and what you might think isn't good can become very very good. |
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"If someone is bad at oral it suggests they’ll also be bad at other core life skills like getaway driving, or sorting skittles by colour. "
Skittle sorting is so underrated darling.... as is this comment of yours...
wasted dear, you are wasted ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm guessing everyone here is an expert at it and highly skilled
Fab is the place for experts & professionals "
I hope so. My lasts Tinder date told me she’s a throat goat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If someone is bad at oral it suggests they’ll also be bad at other core life skills like getaway driving, or sorting skittles by colour.
Skittle sorting is so underrated darling.... as is this comment of yours...
wasted dear, you are wasted !"
Nonsense dahlink I’ve hardly drank today |
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