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Hey,
Just entering whether anyone could recommend a club or bar for folk like myself to meet women?
Have a friend whose had some really bad luck with girls and wanted to do him a solid by heading somewhere he'll have the opportunity to talk and hopefully meet someone. Been a few places recently but as we're both 30+, have felt old and out of touch with the music.
So, any recommendations would be welcomed. I know it's a long shot but if you don't knock on the door, nobody will answer
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"Hey,
Just entering whether anyone could recommend a club or bar for folk like myself to meet women?
Have a friend whose had some really bad luck with girls and wanted to do him a solid by heading somewhere he'll have the opportunity to talk and hopefully meet someone. Been a few places recently but as we're both 30+, have felt old and out of touch with the music.
So, any recommendations would be welcomed. I know it's a long shot but if you don't knock on the door, nobody will answer
Thanks "
What do u mean folk like u |
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"You say your friend has had really bad luck with girls. Has your luck been better or worse than his ?"
Better, much better in fact. I'm no stud but I have always done well enough to stay confident and not doubt myself.
It was a long term relationship he was in and she just up and left, no explanation or anything. Worry it has massively knocked his confidence and it was a fair amount of time back now |
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"Hey,
Just entering whether anyone could recommend a club or bar for folk like myself to meet women?
Have a friend whose had some really bad luck with girls and wanted to do him a solid by heading somewhere he'll have the opportunity to talk and hopefully meet someone. Been a few places recently but as we're both 30+, have felt old and out of touch with the music.
So, any recommendations would be welcomed. I know it's a long shot but if you don't knock on the door, nobody will answer
Thanks
What do u mean folk like u "
Our age I guess. I would also like advice for folk not like me.... |
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"You say your friend has had really bad luck with girls. Has your luck been better or worse than his ?
Better, much better in fact. I'm no stud but I have always done well enough to stay confident and not doubt myself.
It was a long term relationship he was in and she just up and left, no explanation or anything. Worry it has massively knocked his confidence and it was a fair amount of time back now"
The best thing a friend can do is often to talk. He had a terrible experience and may need more than being given a positive break with women.
For things to do, consider getting into activities you'll both enjoy and where you could engage with other similar people.
Volunteering is great for the soul and you meet people who are positively giving to others. I've met all kinds of wonderful people this way, including some who became more than friends. Lots of volunteering opportunities in the black country :  |
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"You say your friend has had really bad luck with girls. Has your luck been better or worse than his ?
Better, much better in fact. I'm no stud but I have always done well enough to stay confident and not doubt myself.
It was a long term relationship he was in and she just up and left, no explanation or anything. Worry it has massively knocked his confidence and it was a fair amount of time back now
The best thing a friend can do is often to talk. He had a terrible experience and may need more than being given a positive break with women.
For things to do, consider getting into activities you'll both enjoy and where you could engage with other similar people.
Volunteering is great for the soul and you meet people who are positively giving to others. I've met all kinds of wonderful people this way, including some who became more than friends. Lots of volunteering opportunities in the black country : "
Yeah we've talked a lot about it and he has stated he wants to go out so figured a place where there are women would benefit him, even if nothing comes of it.
Don't think he's really the volunteering type buy it's something I might look into.
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