When someone can't take a hint do you have to be cruel for them to understand. What does everybody else do in this situation especially when they obsess like a teenage girl over a boy band and create different accounts on media to message you |
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"Pull their bra strap or give them a wedgie?"
Trust me I'd never go near her.
I don't go younger nor does she understand my mind.
Her words: why don't you go for someone that's bubbly that wants to settle, sex is not that important and also said what's your fascination of other girls having sex or even kissing  |
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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Pull their bra strap or give them a wedgie?
Trust me I'd never go near her.
I don't go younger nor does she understand my mind.
Her words: why don't you go for someone that's bubbly that wants to settle, sex is not that important and also said what's your fascination of other girls having sex or even kissing "
Your profile stated you want to meet 18 years old + so?? |
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"Pull their bra strap or give them a wedgie?
Trust me I'd never go near her.
I don't go younger nor does she understand my mind.
Her words: why don't you go for someone that's bubbly that wants to settle, sex is not that important and also said what's your fascination of other girls having sex or even kissing
Your profile stated you want to meet 18 years old + so??"
I didn't even realise  so that needs changing thank you for pointing that out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint "
Don't engage in any contact then.
Zero. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint "
You clearly have magic sex powers that most mere mortal men can only wistfully dream of |
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"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint
You clearly have magic sex powers that most mere mortal men can only wistfully dream of"
I fucking wish I can barely pull a muscle these days let alone women  |
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"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint
Don't engage in any contact then.
Zero."
Very good point
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint
You clearly have magic sex powers that most mere mortal men can only wistfully dream of
I fucking wish I can barely pull a muscle these days let alone women "
Oh right. Your secret is safe with me.
Have you tried the block button? I find that quite effective |
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"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint
You clearly have magic sex powers that most mere mortal men can only wistfully dream of
I fucking wish I can barely pull a muscle these days let alone women
Oh right. Your secret is safe with me.
Have you tried the block button? I find that quite effective"
Ohhh it's definitely not a secret haha
And yeah this one seems to be a bit crazy and keeps creating new accounts it's kind of stalkerish |
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"Block her? 
I do that again just creates a new account on everything just to message me 
Just keep blocking, have you met her? "
Met her once but I never agreed to meet up with her it was an invitation before she started stalking me at a wedding as I was running the bar |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When you say media, do you mean here or Bookface?
Instagram, Snapchat, twatbook, email, all sorts "
Just stay safe in here then!
Your mail box will remain blissfully clear until its time for your site-supporter pass to be renewed! |
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"When you say media, do you mean here or Bookface?
Instagram, Snapchat, twatbook, email, all sorts
Just stay safe in here then!
Your mail box will remain blissfully clear until its time for your site-supporter pass to be renewed!"
Ohh I know I'm safe in here haha she's not on this site but I never get messages here either so I'm very lucky |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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It goes beyond simply taking the hint if they are exhibiting stalker like behaviour.
It then requires a blunt and direct response. If that fails then it is reportable behaviour, even to the police. |
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By *dalisqueWoman
over a year ago
land of make believe |
"Block her?
I do that again just creates a new account on everything just to message me "
I had this issue and I deactivated all my social media accounts for about a year,you could just stop anyone new from messaging you or requesting friendships.
I eventually had to call the police, they will just go and talk to her and explain how serious it is without her actually getting 'in trouble' if that was a concern.
She needs to know how serious it is.
Please whatever you do from now just do not engage at all because any response from you She may see as a positive.
Hope you sort it soon.xx |
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"It goes beyond simply taking the hint if they are exhibiting stalker like behaviour.
It then requires a blunt and direct response. If that fails then it is reportable behaviour, even to the police."
I can understand that and is a valid point |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you have told her you want nothing to do with her and she messages, that's harassment. If she's going to the trouble of creating multiple accounts and involving other people to get messages to you, that's stalking and is very risky. It needs reporting to the police. |
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"Block her?
I do that again just creates a new account on everything just to message me
I had this issue and I deactivated all my social media accounts for about a year,you could just stop anyone new from messaging you or requesting friendships.
I eventually had to call the police, they will just go and talk to her and explain how serious it is without her actually getting 'in trouble' if that was a concern.
She needs to know how serious it is.
Please whatever you do from now just do not engage at all because any response from you She may see as a positive.
Hope you sort it soon.xx"
Thank you so much xxx
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"I've been telling her since last summer I'm not interested and I definitely do not sugar coat stuff cause of my adhd I always say it how it is but she still won't take a hint
You clearly have magic sex powers that most mere mortal men can only wistfully dream of"
This |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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theres laws about stalking its for all sexes not just us women .... seek advice from a solicitor and have a letter sent if she takes no hint then report her to the police ... if you dont do something it will only get worse ... ive had 2 stalkers in 30 years on this scene one got so bad that he resorted to damaging my car and garden walls lucky for us we had cctv installed (because of him) the other one was just plain stupid but still a pain
both were reported to the police who sorted everything out ..stalkers tend to grow with some kind of weird confidence and then become a total pain or worse dangerous |
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