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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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If it's on your profile you'll be lucky to get a positive response I think ..tho a lot of woman on tinder and POF as well as fab I have found , tho their dating profile is almost always ...looking to vanilla date .. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Be open with the fact you'd be comfortable with it. You know when you start talking to someone, about dating history or things you're interested in... you'll find a way to say you're looking for non-monogamy. Best of luck with it OP.  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"If it's on your profile you'll be lucky to get a positive response I think ..tho a lot of woman on tinder and POF as well as fab I have found , tho their dating profile is almost always ...looking to vanilla date .."
I don't know. I think that people are more open to/curious about non-monogamy. My erm oldmanfriend makes it very clear he's poly in his profile. It really doesn't put women off at all, quite a few forum women are still interested in talking to him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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would probably bring it up on the first date
Yes normally sex talk on a first date wouldn’t be a good topic
But I also feel if that’s what your harts set on that kind off relationship there isn’t any point in wasting each others time
And bring it up 3-4 months down the line as if it’s not for them
They have just wasted 3-4 months when they could have found the right person for them
Just be a adult about it and have a non sexual conversation about it
Also be passific about what kind
Open both ways ie both can have sex with who ever they like without the other approval
Semi open both ways ie both can have sex with others but only at the other hafes approval
Closed one way open one way same as above but only one person can
Closed one way semi open the other same as above
Open one way semi closed the other ie one can have sex with who ever they like when ever they like the other must seek approval
Wouldn’t be crass about it or childish or dirty
Would probably say something along the lines off
Was just wondering how you felt about open relationships as that’s technically what I looking for
I no it’s not something that would normally be brought up on a first date
But I thought I would as I respect you to much to waste your time and bring it up 3-4 months down the line
At least this way we can see we are compatible if not we still finish dinner and drinks or what ever the date is and go or separate ways ither at the end off the evening or the next morning |
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"If it's on your profile you'll be lucky to get a positive response I think ..tho a lot of woman on tinder and POF as well as fab I have found , tho their dating profile is almost always ...looking to vanilla date .."
Yes, the Fab and POF profiles can really contradict, though it can be that a faker is using the same pics on both sites |
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Ill be honest… I am a woman in one of those relationships but if he had gone with the advice on this thread to put it on his profile or bring it up in a first chat or first date then there wouldn’t have been a second date
I agree that it needs to be discussed fairly early on but there will cone a time that the topic of conversation lends itself naturally to that disclosure
When i am in the beginnings of getting to know someone i want to know in what ways we will be compatible together, not already be chatting about how much we will be allowed to do apart |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's on your profile you'll be lucky to get a positive response I think ..tho a lot of woman on tinder and POF as well as fab I have found , tho their dating profile is almost always ...looking to vanilla date ..
Yes, the Fab and POF profiles can really contradict, though it can be that a faker is using the same pics on both sites"
Different places looking for different things
Some people aren’t swingers at all on here and that’s fine
They looking for a life partner and it’s understandable
But we also have needs
So fab for the needs till we find that life partner ither here or there
Cuts down on the bs
Find on date sites guys bam up to the high heavens just to get they end away then ghost
And find guys on fab are straight to the point in fact maybe a bit to much to the point but at least I know whare I stand
Plus with fab with the number being like 4-1 you can have your pick off the liter so to speak
So have one site for date and one site for sex while looking for that date means they can cut down on the bs
Also means that when I go on a date I am looking at life partner stuff and not just thinking I not had sex in 4-5-6 months they not for me but bang any way just because
I can date and take it as it comes because I am getting sex else whare all ready |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If it's on your profile you'll be lucky to get a positive response I think ..tho a lot of woman on tinder and POF as well as fab I have found , tho their dating profile is almost always ...looking to vanilla date ..
Yes, the Fab and POF profiles can really contradict, though it can be that a faker is using the same pics on both sites"
A lot of people use this site for hookups and sexual oriented relationships/friendships and dating apps for actual dating though with a view to a relationship. Even on here not everyone is here for swinging or multiple partners etc Im only here to meet single men and one at a time. |
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