As I'm sure most ladies would agree, we men can always use some guidance on how to pleasure a lady orally.
Personally, I would love to have a FWB who would be willing to teach me how to give her an amazing oral orgasm or 3 
Which has me wondering: How many ladies out there would be happy to do this for a local guy? |
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Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.
I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.
The ones that do  amazing! |
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"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.
I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.
The ones that do amazing! "
But my approach still makes you weak at the knees doesn’t it?  |
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"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.
I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.
The ones that do amazing! "
Women are not all the same..  |
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"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.
I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.
The ones that do amazing! "
A very valid point!
But in the case of a brand new partner (1 night stand or otherwise) surely there are some techniques that are 'universally' enjoyed by ladies? |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.
I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.
The ones that do amazing! "
It always comes down to this. There may be a couple of generic things that work for the majority but specifics and finer details about it all, the things that make it memorable are very much individual basis. Things that may make it for one, and be a total breaker for the other. |
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OH MY GOD.....
GREGGS PASTY?????
BULLDOG EATING BEETROOT??????
Now why am I surprised that your wives don't have sex with you????
It's an art, it's not about munching away at your favorite meal or snack.
Ladies enjoy being flattered,explored,gently aroused. You have to spend time.
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By *amantMan
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"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.
I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.
The ones that do amazing! "
Sounds remarkably like 'effort required'. Will never catch on among the general public. |
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It's not that complicated.
Locate clitoris and other bits of the anatomy of interest.
Explore with lips and tongue. Gently at first, then gradually try more pressure or intensity.
For feedback, listen to changes in breathing, noises, or anything she says.
(Different women like different things, some find it easier or more difficult, but this is a fail-safe exploration guide unless specifically told otherwise)
You're welcome. |
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"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.
I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.
The ones that do amazing!
A very valid point!
But in the case of a brand new partner (1 night stand or otherwise) surely there are some techniques that are 'universally' enjoyed by ladies? "
No. |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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"OH MY GOD.....
GREGGS PASTY?????
BULLDOG EATING BEETROOT??????
Now why am I surprised that your wives don't have sex with you????
It's an art, it's not about munching away at your favorite meal or snack.
Ladies enjoy being flattered,explored,gently aroused. You have to spend time.
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Except that for some (maybe a minority of a minority) that would enjoy those exact thing. Which is sort of the point, there is no definitive correct way that can be applied universal. Not all ladies (majority or not) want what you described either.
Its not something that can be taught, only advised on the basics, one those are done everything else is "like a box of chocolates" |
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"OH MY GOD.....
GREGGS PASTY?????
BULLDOG EATING BEETROOT??????
Now why am I surprised that your wives don't have sex with you????
It's an art, it's not about munching away at your favorite meal or snack.
Ladies enjoy being flattered,explored,gently aroused. You have to spend time.
Except that for some (maybe a minority of a minority) that would enjoy those exact thing. Which is sort of the point, there is no definitive correct way that can be applied universal. Not all ladies (majority or not) want what you described either.
Its not something that can be taught, only advised on the basics, one those are done everything else is "like a box of chocolates" "
Yeah. I think my guide is universal, but it's a universal "this is how you figure it out for each individual", not "put tongue on X spot, guaranteed orgasm" |
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"It's not that complicated.
Locate clitoris and other bits of the anatomy of interest.
Explore with lips and tongue. Gently at first, then gradually try more pressure or intensity.
For feedback, listen to changes in breathing, noises, or anything she says.
(Different women like different things, some find it easier or more difficult, but this is a fail-safe exploration guide unless specifically told otherwise)
You're welcome."
You’re saying i wont need my drill??? |
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"It's not that complicated.
Locate clitoris and other bits of the anatomy of interest.
Explore with lips and tongue. Gently at first, then gradually try more pressure or intensity.
For feedback, listen to changes in breathing, noises, or anything she says.
(Different women like different things, some find it easier or more difficult, but this is a fail-safe exploration guide unless specifically told otherwise)
You're welcome.
You’re saying i wont need my drill??? "
Wtf do you get up to  |
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I’m addition we don’t like the same thing every time either how boring is that? Yet I know plenty of guys who fuck by numbers  ex was one of them
Step 1 tweak nipples for 30 secs
Step 2 squeeze boobs a bit
Etc etc ??yawn! |
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No expert by any stretch of the imagination, i have however found that paying attention to what you do and paying attention to how the lady in question responds is critical, particularly how the lady responds. |
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"Pointless thinking that what you were taught would work for every woman though.
I think what men really need to learn is how to listen and observe their sexual partners better. That’s a real skill few have and use.
The ones that do amazing!
A very valid point!
But in the case of a brand new partner (1 night stand or otherwise) surely there are some techniques that are 'universally' enjoyed by ladies? "
Unlikely, from what I've read in the forums. Some don't even like oral. |
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