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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Standard. Coffee or a drink in a pub.
Whilst the idea of something 'out of the box' may seem a good idea it's probably best left for a follow up meet as there's little point going to any great expense or planning a complicated set of arrangements while there's the risk that you may think the other party is a total fruitloop or asshat after 10 minutes in their company.
Easy to get up and leave a Costa/Starbucks or bar/pub. Slightly harder if you're halfway up a rollercoaster, in a row boat in the middle of a lake or trapped in an escape room.
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
It will depend on my mood.
I've had a social in B&Q and then a cup of tea in a nearby cafe.
I have enjoyed sitting with men in a pub or bar in London too.
I prefer going into London as the pubs in my area are filled with ne'er-do-wells, and the carpets are sticky.
I'd love a social by the sea. |
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"Do you prefer a standard social of a coffee or an alcoholic drink in a pub setting?
Or a random …. Out the ‘ordinary’ type of social? "
Neither it's dry january and the sports therapist told me not to have more than one caffeine drink a day. 
Coke Zero and Pepsi Max social.  |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
I always suggest a coffee shop or a pub, but I quickly lose interest when he tries to change it to 'going for a drive' or finding somewhere discreet' instead; In other words, let's go somewhere so I can get noshed off 
Never gonna happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's got to be a classic cheese board on a see saw
I’ll bring homemade chutney 
I'll meet you by the nearest see saw
With banana bread "
So much YES!! I’m far too excited now… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always suggest a coffee shop or a pub, but I quickly lose interest when he tries to change it to 'going for a drive' or finding somewhere discreet' instead; In other words, let's go somewhere so I can get noshed off
Never gonna happen"
What about if I were to just ask outright if we could go somewhere for me to be noshed off?
I don’t beat about the bush. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf  "
Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf
Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too. "
Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf
Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.
Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social! "
Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always suggest a coffee shop or a pub, but I quickly lose interest when he tries to change it to 'going for a drive' or finding somewhere discreet' instead; In other words, let's go somewhere so I can get noshed off
Never gonna happen"
Yeah I just bin them when they start suggesting that |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf
Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.
Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!
Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves. "
"When the gentleman inserts his testicles into his lover's vagina, or anus" Too much for a first social?!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf
Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.
Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!
Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves.
"When the gentleman inserts his testicles into his lover's vagina, or anus" Too much for a first social?!
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After axe throwing its expected |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf
Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.
Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!
Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves.
"When the gentleman inserts his testicles into his lover's vagina, or anus" Too much for a first social?!
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Do you fancy a coffee at the local mini golf course?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Standard. Coffee or a drink in a pub.
Whilst the idea of something 'out of the box' may seem a good idea it's probably best left for a follow up meet as there's little point going to any great expense or planning a complicated set of arrangements while there's the risk that you may think the other party is a total fruitloop or asshat after 10 minutes in their company.
Easy to get up and leave a Costa/Starbucks or bar/pub. Slightly harder if you're halfway up a rollercoaster, in a row boat in the middle of a lake or trapped in an escape room.
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"I always suggest a coffee shop or a pub, but I quickly lose interest when he tries to change it to 'going for a drive' or finding somewhere discreet' instead; In other words, let's go somewhere so I can get noshed off
Never gonna happen"
And that's why I no longer let anyone pick me up for a social.
Always a quick coffee, and a walk if the weather permits. |
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"It will depend on my mood.
I've had a social in B&Q and then a cup of tea in a nearby cafe.
I have enjoyed sitting with men in a pub or bar in London too.
I prefer going into London as the pubs in my area are filled with ne'er-do-wells, and the carpets are sticky.
I'd love a social by the sea."
Come down to the coast, I'll buy you coffee on the beach |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"I always suggest a coffee shop or a pub, but I quickly lose interest when he tries to change it to 'going for a drive' or finding somewhere discreet' instead; In other words, let's go somewhere so I can get noshed off
Never gonna happen
What about if I were to just ask outright if we could go somewhere for me to be noshed off?
I don’t beat about the bush. "
You'd be back in you car, alone driving back from whence you came |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
Bognor Regis |
"I always suggest a coffee shop or a pub, but I quickly lose interest when he tries to change it to 'going for a drive' or finding somewhere discreet' instead; In other words, let's go somewhere so I can get noshed off
Never gonna happen
And that's why I no longer let anyone pick me up for a social.
Always a quick coffee, and a walk if the weather permits. "
I've only ever tried to arrange to meet someone at the pub etc. It's probably a good thing that they drop in these little suggestions beforehand, so I can cancel without wasting any more time |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf
Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.
Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!
Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves.
"When the gentleman inserts his testicles into his lover's vagina, or anus" Too much for a first social?!
After axe throwing its expected "
Fine - but if I win I get to do the bean bunging with my dildo and disco balls? |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf
Crazy golf is putting balls in holes. I do that too.
Crazy golf followed by bean bunging? The perfect social!
Bean bungin’ you might need to tell me what that involves.
"When the gentleman inserts his testicles into his lover's vagina, or anus" Too much for a first social?!
Do you fancy a coffee at the local mini golf course? "
I'll meet you at the 19th hole |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"Drink please. But I like throwing things so offers of darts or axe throwing also good. As is crazy golf
I'll see your darts, and raise you ping pong. See you at Bounce, Friday at 7?"
It's a date. Those ping pong balls may not be the only things bouncing tho |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I quite like coffee/drink socials. Or bookshops. Or going for walks, one of the best socials I had was following a canal and meandering chatting nonsense during the summer, really enjoyed that.
I don't want too adventurous, I want to get to know someone a bit. But something that's a bit different is good for me.
Not an escape room though. Or anything involving games. Far too competitive and I'll destroy anyone's libido with a glimpse of that. |
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I think it depends on the initial connection. Normally I'd say a quick drink is fine to see if things will progress. But if there's a good connection and I'm confident we'll get on well then there's nothing wrong with a nice dinner and a chat |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are putty for a good ballet or a night at the opera "
I have always wanted to go to an opera…. Just a reason to get ‘properly’ suited black tie style |
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