It's a thing, I've only had It in a club, where she stormed off because he could cum from my bj but not hers 
I am now very selective when thinking about letting a partner watch, because you do never know what will trigger them |
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I get a kind of fear of missing out jealousy when my partners are doing something fun and I'm not. But I wouldn't say I get traditional jealousy, I love seeing and knowing they're having a good time. |
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This is a strange one for me tbh as I am not okay with sharing in the main. I put a super high value on intimacy and really love to cherish a person and our unique connection.
I don't ever think I can own or control someone. I adore someone gifting me their loyalty and fidelity though. Huge privilege. Massive difference. Anything cajoled or coerced holds no value to me.
Without ignoring or harming my own needs, my guys satisfaction in life would be my priority towards them in all senses.
So I would encourage and support them to meet the needs they can't live contentedly without. I would want to be the one to do that but sometimes it might require me arranging a scenario that involves another. Very difficult and a sacrifice/compromise for sure. But if they matter to me I get to decide if it would be acceptable or manageable on my side of it all.
Not every horny wish is a need so it can be that they or I happily decide to keep it as a fantasy.
Sometimes it would require a compromise on both sides to navigate hard limits respectfully.
Sometimes it means you just aren't compatible. 
You have to be 100% open and honest. Burying your thoughts on sharing or anything just makes things fester and explode in a messy fallout like posters above described of partners storming off. |
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"This is a strange one for me tbh as I am not okay with sharing in the main. I put a super high value on intimacy and really love to cherish a person and our unique connection.
I don't ever think I can own or control someone. I adore someone gifting me their loyalty and fidelity though. Huge privilege. Massive difference. Anything cajoled or coerced holds no value to me.
Without ignoring or harming my own needs, my guys satisfaction in life would be my priority towards them in all senses.
So I would encourage and support them to meet the needs they can't live contentedly without. I would want to be the one to do that but sometimes it might require me arranging a scenario that involves another. Very difficult and a sacrifice/compromise for sure. But if they matter to me I get to decide if it would be acceptable or manageable on my side of it all.
Not every horny wish is a need so it can be that they or I happily decide to keep it as a fantasy.
Sometimes it would require a compromise on both sides to navigate hard limits respectfully.
Sometimes it means you just aren't compatible.
You have to be 100% open and honest. Burying your thoughts on sharing or anything just makes things fester and explode in a messy fallout like posters above described of partners storming off."
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"This is a strange one for me tbh as I am not okay with sharing in the main. I put a super high value on intimacy and really love to cherish a person and our unique connection.
I don't ever think I can own or control someone. I adore someone gifting me their loyalty and fidelity though. Huge privilege. Massive difference. Anything cajoled or coerced holds no value to me.
Without ignoring or harming my own needs, my guys satisfaction in life would be my priority towards them in all senses.
So I would encourage and support them to meet the needs they can't live contentedly without. I would want to be the one to do that but sometimes it might require me arranging a scenario that involves another. Very difficult and a sacrifice/compromise for sure. But if they matter to me I get to decide if it would be acceptable or manageable on my side of it all.
Not every horny wish is a need so it can be that they or I happily decide to keep it as a fantasy.
Sometimes it would require a compromise on both sides to navigate hard limits respectfully.
Sometimes it means you just aren't compatible.
You have to be 100% open and honest. Burying your thoughts on sharing or anything just makes things fester and explode in a messy fallout like posters above described of partners storming off.
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Must admit that me too |
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"Question to swinging couples
Have you ever felt jealous of the attention your partner is giving to the third party? "
My ex used to when we would go to clubs she would watch almost every woman to see who was looking at me. She even once sent me on a stroll to the bar to see who looked at me. She was a very jealous woman |
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