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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m getting a bit tired of this place. A nice normal chat with a mutual friend would be good. It may well lead to something more but can’t we just start normally?
Or am I simply getting old?
Clas x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m getting a bit tired of this place. A nice normal chat with a mutual friend would be good. It may well lead to something more but can’t we just start normally?
Or am I simply getting old?
Clas x"
I know what you mean. Personally I find the messaging system on Fab a bit clunky- it would be great if there was a more instant messaging service. We are quite lazy about logging into fab for messages and chat. Much easier to chat with folk on WhatsApp etc. We prefer to chat with people for a bit to see how we get on and like you we find that lots of folk aren't up for that
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m getting a bit tired of this place. A nice normal chat with a mutual friend would be good. It may well lead to something more but can’t we just start normally?
Or am I simply getting old?
Clas x
I know what you mean. Personally I find the messaging system on Fab a bit clunky- it would be great if there was a more instant messaging service. We are quite lazy about logging into fab for messages and chat. Much easier to chat with folk on WhatsApp etc. We prefer to chat with people for a bit to see how we get on and like you we find that lots of folk aren't up for that
Mrs"
Thanks x, I agree, it’s just odd so many just want to chuck rude comments about and expect a response, rather than engaging x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m getting a bit tired of this place. A nice normal chat with a mutual friend would be good. It may well lead to something more but can’t we just start normally?
Or am I simply getting old?
Clas x
I know what you mean. Personally I find the messaging system on Fab a bit clunky- it would be great if there was a more instant messaging service. We are quite lazy about logging into fab for messages and chat. Much easier to chat with folk on WhatsApp etc. We prefer to chat with people for a bit to see how we get on and like you we find that lots of folk aren't up for that
Mrs
Thanks x, I agree, it’s just odd so many just want to chuck rude comments about and expect a response, rather than engaging x"
Yup I know. We might occasionally post about a random meet but generally we are looking to actually get to know people that we could have something regular with. These people seem very few and far between
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m getting a bit tired of this place. A nice normal chat with a mutual friend would be good. It may well lead to something more but can’t we just start normally?
Or am I simply getting old?
Clas x
I know what you mean. Personally I find the messaging system on Fab a bit clunky- it would be great if there was a more instant messaging service. We are quite lazy about logging into fab for messages and chat. Much easier to chat with folk on WhatsApp etc. We prefer to chat with people for a bit to see how we get on and like you we find that lots of folk aren't up for that
Mrs
Thanks x, I agree, it’s just odd so many just want to chuck rude comments about and expect a response, rather than engaging x
Yup I know. We might occasionally post about a random meet but generally we are looking to actually get to know people that we could have something regular with. These people seem very few and far between
Mrs "
I appreciate your replies (very much)
I’d love to chat more but I see I’m not really what you’re seeking. However please do message if a chat appeals x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What you’re looking for is quite rare, so the usual % of compatible people will dwindle down to a small handful. Unfortunately, you just gotta be patient and hope come across the right people. But, you’ll probably have to wade through a whole raft of incompatible ones first. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What you’re looking for is quite rare, so the usual % of compatible people will dwindle down to a small handful. Unfortunately, you just gotta be patient and hope come across the right people. But, you’ll probably have to wade through a whole raft of incompatible ones first. "
Thank god I can remove the incompatible ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m getting a bit tired of this place. A nice normal chat with a mutual friend would be good. It may well lead to something more but can’t we just start normally?
Or am I simply getting old?
Clas x
I know what you mean. Personally I find the messaging system on Fab a bit clunky- it would be great if there was a more instant messaging service. We are quite lazy about logging into fab for messages and chat. Much easier to chat with folk on WhatsApp etc. We prefer to chat with people for a bit to see how we get on and like you we find that lots of folk aren't up for that
Mrs
Thanks x, I agree, it’s just odd so many just want to chuck rude comments about and expect a response, rather than engaging x
Yup I know. We might occasionally post about a random meet but generally we are looking to actually get to know people that we could have something regular with. These people seem very few and far between
Mrs
I appreciate your replies (very much)
I’d love to chat more but I see I’m not really what you’re seeking. However please do message if a chat appeals x"
We would love to get to know single guys, but we had to block them from messaging because the number of crude and disrespectful messages weren't really our thing, which is a shame because it spoils it for the genuine guys like you. Will definitely keep you in mind
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m getting a bit tired of this place. A nice normal chat with a mutual friend would be good. It may well lead to something more but can’t we just start normally?
Or am I simply getting old?
Clas x
I know what you mean. Personally I find the messaging system on Fab a bit clunky- it would be great if there was a more instant messaging service. We are quite lazy about logging into fab for messages and chat. Much easier to chat with folk on WhatsApp etc. We prefer to chat with people for a bit to see how we get on and like you we find that lots of folk aren't up for that
Mrs
Thanks x, I agree, it’s just odd so many just want to chuck rude comments about and expect a response, rather than engaging x
Yup I know. We might occasionally post about a random meet but generally we are looking to actually get to know people that we could have something regular with. These people seem very few and far between
Mrs
I appreciate your replies (very much)
I’d love to chat more but I see I’m not really what you’re seeking. However please do message if a chat appeals x
We would love to get to know single guys, but we had to block them from messaging because the number of crude and disrespectful messages weren't really our thing, which is a shame because it spoils it for the genuine guys like you. Will definitely keep you in mind
Mrs"
Thanks feel free to drop me a message so we can keep in touch , right now your filters stop me sending you one xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is how all my encounters start off... I don't entertain people who can't just have a normal chat about every day stuff. If that's what you mean?"
Yes, pretty much that’s what I mean. I’m bored of the lewd and abusive nonsense , at least until we know we want to be lewd together! (and never want to be abusive of course) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found this site frustrating at times.
Like people have said, the messaging is clunky and a lot of people don't want to give their WhatsApp etc. Which I totally understand because if some people on here, who just abuse someone if they don't hear what they want.
Makes it even harder for people who just want a normal chat and hoping it leads to something more. |
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What about the private messaging while in chat?
You could leave cams off and chat that way.
There are other ways too without giving too much away - with a little added tech I mean.
Nothing is a problem if you put your mind to it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear of guys sending cock pics and demanding immediate meets etc
No wonder many are put off, I would be too "
If a man says he wants a chat it usually means wank chat. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What about the private messaging while in chat?
You could leave cams off and chat that way.
There are other ways too without giving too much away - with a little added tech I mean.
Nothing is a problem if you put your mind to it "
Totally agree that this is a good option, it’s more the content of the chat than the format tbh. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear of guys sending cock pics and demanding immediate meets etc
No wonder many are put off, I would be too
If a man says he wants a chat it usually means wank chat. "
That’s the problem, im all for swank chat but only after I know it’s something we are both smiling about doing… so many people seem to start there! X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I hear of guys sending cock pics and demanding immediate meets etc
No wonder many are put off, I would be too
If a man says he wants a chat it usually means wank chat.
That’s the problem, im all for swank chat but only after I know it’s something we are both smiling about doing… so many people seem to start there! X"
*wank |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear of guys sending cock pics and demanding immediate meets etc
No wonder many are put off, I would be too
If a man says he wants a chat it usually means wank chat.
That’s the problem, im all for swank chat but only after I know it’s something we are both smiling about doing… so many people seem to start there! X"
Agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hear of guys sending cock pics and demanding immediate meets etc
No wonder many are put off, I would be too
If a man says he wants a chat it usually means wank chat.
That’s the problem, im all for swank chat but only after I know it’s something we are both smiling about doing… so many people seem to start there! X
*wank"
Maybe I'm too vanilla I would never "get off" on a chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will often chat with people if they've sent a message that they had put some effort in to, but 9 times out of 10 they try to turn the conversation sexual. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Anyone I've met off here has been through just chatting normally I don't do sex chat on here because so many do just look for wank material and nothing else. So if someone is constantly pushing for sex talk I just stop chatting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the replies,it seems there are some here who prefer a normal chat… I’m encouraged.. still love it WHEN it leads to more, but I just hate starting there x |
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Id guess that 90% of the chats that start with show us yer tits or heres my knob - what you think? Dont end as theyd expected.
I find if you treat here like you would a pub meeting- chatting like 2 normal people would - you either engage with each other or you don’t and it may or May not evolve into meeting in Person and you see if there’s a spark.
Messaging sex straight away seems a bit like desperation to me. |
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"I’m getting a bit tired of this place. A nice normal chat with a mutual friend would be good. It may well lead to something more but can’t we just start normally?
Or am I simply getting old?
Clas x" whats normal? |
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