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Have you ever been kissed without them asking?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You know the look…. You just feel the energy in the air, that moment of lustful craving to kiss them and then it happens…it’s not scripted it’s that unexpected moment of “attraction”. Your energy could not resist being closer to their energy that made you need to move in.
Has this happened to you or do you ALWAYS ask or expect to be asked for a smooch first?
*Disclosure. I straight up grabbed a girl and snogged her on my last social. Was I wrong to do so? (She kissed me back) |
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I am a polite guy and would ask to sit at the side of someone or interrupt at a bar but would never ask to kiss somebody, that’s so awkward. If the person does not like the approach of a looming kiss they will avoid it anyway  |
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Frankly, no. I’ve never been asked. Not in actual words, anyway.
Despite a fear of clichés, #WhenYouKnowYouKnow
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(Disclaimer: for some of our neurodivergent friends, this kind of thing is a nightmare. If you struggle to read people, then you can struggle with consent. In which case, just ask. In most cases it’ll come across as sweet.) |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No. Oh actually, I did have a woman ask if I was comfortable with her kissing me which was quite cute to be honest. I kissed her as a reply. But generally, no. Not been asked. Or asked come to think of it.
Hugging someone I have. |
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"Actually I have both been kissed and hugged when I wasn’t giving out signals that I wanted those things to happen.
Maybe that’s why I have an “issue” with consent?!"
Yeah, just assuming is super gross |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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I have been asked and it is kind of sweet (provided it doesn't stay sweet and innocent  ). I've never asked - just pounced. When you know, you know. Although some guys have completely misread me being pleasant and friendly for me giving them the come on and I have had to make my lack of desire very clear. |
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I have been asked, and found it quite endearing. I've also been grabbed and kissed when I was not at all open to it, which pissed me off no end.
For the most part though it's easy enough to read body language to know whether someone is open to a kiss at the end of a date. If someone misreads the situation and moves in for a kiss when I'm not feeling it then it's usually easy enough to make sure it lands on my cheek and not on my mouth. |
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Actually, this is one of the questions that opens up a bit the more I think about it.
I’ve certainly had girls *tell* me to kiss them. But that’s more an instruction than a request. “Kiss me. Now.” - that sort of thing. But not “ Is it okay if I …” |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
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Consent, certainly in the context of a kiss, is not just verbal.
As many others have said, it's rarely hard to read the signs.
Assuming this is linked to the other thread, maybe a more pertinent question is have you ever kissed someone when you were unsure that they consented? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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(Disclaimer: for some of our neurodivergent friends, this kind of thing is a nightmare. If you struggle to read people, then you can struggle with consent. In which case, just ask. In most cases it’ll come across as sweet.)"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know your waiting for the women to answer woody so i won't intrude much...... No i haven't  "
Actually, Im old school, and making the move is normally what I’d EXPECT a guy to do. (Forgive me). So this question is open for everyone. I’m interested to see how much times have changed for me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Actually I have both been kissed and hugged when I wasn’t giving out signals that I wanted those things to happen.
Maybe that’s why I have an “issue” with consent?!"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've asked a few people and been asked, sometimes it can be kinda sexy if the mood is right.
But for the most part I'm planting smooches if you look like you want one "
Haha. I always try to look like I need one   |
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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago
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In the heat of the moment it can feel like asking for consent is a mood breaker, and in some ways it can be.
However at the end of the day, I'd rather ask for consent than get it so wrong and make somebody uncomfortable. it doesn't need to be official "do you consent to this?" can word it so it's keeping with the mood more.
Sometimes signals can be hard to read, sometimes we just get them wrong. |
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If I let myself be close enough for them to kiss me, there is a high likelihood I want to be kissed. I have been asked, usually when we are only a couple of inches apart, and that is really cute too!
I don't think I have actually asked if I could kiss someone, but I have told people i fancy that I'm not always great at reading the signs so please come and get one if they fancy a snog.
The night I announced that in a room full of stunners at a house party was a lot of fun
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"In the heat of the moment it can feel like asking for consent is a mood breaker, and in some ways it can be.
However at the end of the day, I'd rather ask for consent than get it so wrong and make somebody uncomfortable. it doesn't need to be official "do you consent to this?" can word it so it's keeping with the mood more.
Sometimes signals can be hard to read, sometimes we just get them wrong."
I think if I felt I had to ask, I wouldn’t.  |
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By *ilBWoman
over a year ago
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"If I let myself be close enough for them to kiss me, there is a high likelihood I want to be kissed. I have been asked, usually when we are only a couple of inches apart, and that is really cute too!
I don't think I have actually asked if I could kiss someone, but I have told people i fancy that I'm not always great at reading the signs so please come and get one if they fancy a snog.
The night I announced that in a room full of stunners at a house party was a lot of fun
K x "
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By *ilBWoman
over a year ago
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"I've asked a few people and been asked, sometimes it can be kinda sexy if the mood is right.
But for the most part I'm planting smooches if you look like you want one
Haha. I always try to look like I need one "
Don't we all. Love a smoochin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think I rely on the look, and the getting closer bit. If Im not sure I may whisper 'can we kiss' but not sure if I ever have had to ask. I havnt kissed anyone in a bloody age though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to read body language and not leap on women without warning. I may have expressed the desire on occasion. there's a lot of difference between 'I'd like to kiss you now' and 'I'm going to kiss you now'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know the look…. You just feel the energy in the air, that moment of lustful craving to kiss them and then it happens…it’s not scripted it’s that unexpected moment of “attraction”. Your energy could not resist being closer to their energy that made you need to move in.
Has this happened to you or do you ALWAYS ask or expect to be asked for a smooch first?
*Disclosure. I straight up grabbed a girl and snogged her on my last social. Was I wrong to do so? (She kissed me back) "
In the infamous words of F&B, pucker up dude!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. At my first work Christmas do. One of the shop floor girls grabbed me and stuck her tongue half way down my throat. Apparently it was her way of greeting new starters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they ask I decline 
Is that because you didn’t want to be asked or you didn’t want to kiss?"
If they ask 'can i kiss you' I'll always say maybe, but more likely no (and my maybe really means no, i just don't want to be rude)
If discussed as part of boundaries its usually a yes.. I don't know how to explain |
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"If they ask I decline
Is that because you didn’t want to be asked or you didn’t want to kiss?
If they ask 'can i kiss you' I'll always say maybe, but more likely no (and my maybe really means no, i just don't want to be rude)
If discussed as part of boundaries its usually a yes.. I don't know how to explain "
so you don't kiss?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they ask I decline
Is that because you didn’t want to be asked or you didn’t want to kiss?
If they ask 'can i kiss you' I'll always say maybe, but more likely no (and my maybe really means no, i just don't want to be rude)
If discussed as part of boundaries its usually a yes.. I don't know how to explain "
Well you should never do something that makes you uncomfortable but should it ever come to it we can have solicitors draw up strict terms and conditions, and all activities arbitrated by an independent pervert.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they ask I decline
Is that because you didn’t want to be asked or you didn’t want to kiss?
If they ask 'can i kiss you' I'll always say maybe, but more likely no (and my maybe really means no, i just don't want to be rude)
If discussed as part of boundaries its usually a yes.. I don't know how to explain so you don't kiss? "
I absolutely kiss .. My favourite thing is snogging someone's face off.. Obvs with consent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they ask I decline
Is that because you didn’t want to be asked or you didn’t want to kiss?
If they ask 'can i kiss you' I'll always say maybe, but more likely no (and my maybe really means no, i just don't want to be rude)
If discussed as part of boundaries its usually a yes.. I don't know how to explain
Well you should never do something that makes you uncomfortable but should it ever come to it we can have solicitors draw up strict terms and conditions, and all activities arbitrated by an independent pervert.... "
Omg i love a good contract.. It definitely makes me wet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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(Disclaimer: for some of our neurodivergent friends, this kind of thing is a nightmare. If you struggle to read people, then you can struggle with consent. In which case, just ask. In most cases it’ll come across as sweet.)
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This, not everyone can read people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea  |
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Yes. Met Mr years ago on a chatroom site. Invited him over. The front door was barely closed when he pressed me against the wall in my hallway and his lips were on mine. After all the build up leading to that meeting it was definitely wanted and probably the most passionate kiss I'd ever had. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea "
That last paragraph is exactly why spontaneity and me don't mix. I'll overthink and if you're not interested when I thought you were, it would probably... No, definitely haunt my dreams |
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I remember being in a club with C and a hot woman was talking to us and telling us a story.
Halfway through the story she just leant over and kissed C and they kissed and kissed.
In the end I had to stop them to hear the rest of the story…I waited for half an hour though…
K
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea "
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they ask I decline
Is that because you didn’t want to be asked or you didn’t want to kiss?
If they ask 'can i kiss you' I'll always say maybe, but more likely no (and my maybe really means no, i just don't want to be rude)
If discussed as part of boundaries its usually a yes.. I don't know how to explain
Well you should never do something that makes you uncomfortable but should it ever come to it we can have solicitors draw up strict terms and conditions, and all activities arbitrated by an independent pervert....
Omg i love a good contract.. It definitely makes me wet "
You wait until you see the small print clauses about the party of the first part and party of the second part.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they ask I decline
Is that because you didn’t want to be asked or you didn’t want to kiss?
If they ask 'can i kiss you' I'll always say maybe, but more likely no (and my maybe really means no, i just don't want to be rude)
If discussed as part of boundaries its usually a yes.. I don't know how to explain so you don't kiss?
I absolutely kiss .. My favourite thing is snogging someone's face off.. Obvs with consent "
Is that you Hannibal?.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they ask I decline
Is that because you didn’t want to be asked or you didn’t want to kiss?
If they ask 'can i kiss you' I'll always say maybe, but more likely no (and my maybe really means no, i just don't want to be rude)
If discussed as part of boundaries its usually a yes.. I don't know how to explain
Well you should never do something that makes you uncomfortable but should it ever come to it we can have solicitors draw up strict terms and conditions, and all activities arbitrated by an independent pervert....
Omg i love a good contract.. It definitely makes me wet
You wait until you see the small print clauses about the party of the first part and party of the second part.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If they ask I decline
Is that because you didn’t want to be asked or you didn’t want to kiss?
If they ask 'can i kiss you' I'll always say maybe, but more likely no (and my maybe really means no, i just don't want to be rude)
If discussed as part of boundaries its usually a yes.. I don't know how to explain so you don't kiss?
I absolutely kiss .. My favourite thing is snogging someone's face off.. Obvs with consent
Is that you Hannibal?.... "
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime "
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price! |
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price! "
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on "
*woody packs up his kisses for 1£ booth |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on "
See the problem with me is I don't read things properly! I was reading... OK OK fantasising.... about you and Joe Beans getting it on. But, hey, you and Red works too. Particularly if we are doing a 3 way kiss |
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on
*woody packs up his kisses for 1£ booth "
Me and Red will have the booth if you don't need it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on
*woody packs up his kisses for 1£ booth
Me and Red will have the booth if you don't need it "
*throes keys. Hose it down and lock up when you’ve finished. |
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on
See the problem with me is I don't read things properly! I was reading... OK OK fantasising.... about you and Joe Beans getting it on. But, hey, you and Red works too. Particularly if we are doing a 3 way kiss "
Yeah people would have to pay a lot for me to kiss a guy, no offence Joe
A 3 way with you and Red works for me |
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on
*woody packs up his kisses for 1£ booth
Me and Red will have the booth if you don't need it
*throes keys. Hose it down and lock up when you’ve finished. "
I would have thought you'd rather we left her sweaty bum patch on the seat |
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on
See the problem with me is I don't read things properly! I was reading... OK OK fantasising.... about you and Joe Beans getting it on. But, hey, you and Red works too. Particularly if we are doing a 3 way kiss
Yeah people would have to pay a lot for me to kiss a guy, no offence Joe
A 3 way with you and Red works for me "
S'fine... |
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on
See the problem with me is I don't read things properly! I was reading... OK OK fantasising.... about you and Joe Beans getting it on. But, hey, you and Red works too. Particularly if we are doing a 3 way kiss "
See what happens when you let your horn get in the way of clear thinking! |
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on
See the problem with me is I don't read things properly! I was reading... OK OK fantasising.... about you and Joe Beans getting it on. But, hey, you and Red works too. Particularly if we are doing a 3 way kiss
Yeah people would have to pay a lot for me to kiss a guy, no offence Joe
A 3 way with you and Red works for me
S'fine..."
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on
See the problem with me is I don't read things properly! I was reading... OK OK fantasising.... about you and Joe Beans getting it on. But, hey, you and Red works too. Particularly if we are doing a 3 way kiss
See what happens when you let your horn get in the way of clear thinking! "
Oh there was perfect clarity in my thinking believe me!! |
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on
See the problem with me is I don't read things properly! I was reading... OK OK fantasising.... about you and Joe Beans getting it on. But, hey, you and Red works too. Particularly if we are doing a 3 way kiss
Yeah people would have to pay a lot for me to kiss a guy, no offence Joe
A 3 way with you and Red works for me
S'fine...
I'll take one for the team Beanie boi "
How charitable of you. I think a lot of others would reject me too if you want to make up for them too |
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"I’ve been asked, which I loved - I tend to go for people with natural charm who can carry off a moment like that without it being awkward.
I always ask to kiss or touch someone, unless I think it’s blatantly obvious the other person fancies me (so we’ve discussed meeting again, or actually said - I find you attractive).
I have definitely had people try to touch/kiss without asking, when it wasn’t wanted, also. My naturally flirty nature can sometimes result in people getting entirely the wrong idea
I'd like to make it clear you can kiss me anytime
Lads - when this happens can I please be there? In any capacity whatever. Name your price!
I didn't know anyone would pay me and Red to kiss, I feel a business venture coming on
See the problem with me is I don't read things properly! I was reading... OK OK fantasising.... about you and Joe Beans getting it on. But, hey, you and Red works too. Particularly if we are doing a 3 way kiss
See what happens when you let your horn get in the way of clear thinking!
Oh there was perfect clarity in my thinking believe me!! "
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Yeah people would have to pay a lot for me to kiss a guy, no offence Joe
A 3 way with you and Red works for me
S'fine...
I'll take one for the team Beanie boi
How charitable of you. I think a lot of others would reject me too if you want to make up for them too "
Go on then, while I'm feeling generous! |
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I don’t think anyone has ever asked if they can kiss me. I think I’d find it a little odd to be honest. I think you can usually tell a kiss is wanted. Certainly can tell when someone is moving in for a snog. Generally it is quite easy to swerve an unwanted smooch (accompanied by a “whooaaa whatcha doing their fella”).
I’ve definitely never been rebuffed when I’ve launched at someone |
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Yeah people would have to pay a lot for me to kiss a guy, no offence Joe
A 3 way with you and Red works for me
S'fine...
I'll take one for the team Beanie boi
How charitable of you. I think a lot of others would reject me too if you want to make up for them too
Go on then, while I'm feeling generous!"
Thank you, you're definitely doing them a favour |
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I've never been asked by a guy, or asked myself. I think the vibes are usually pretty clear if it's going to be welcomed.
I did have a woman ask me once if I wanted to kiss her. We were in a public bar though, and it's not often you see same sex PDA in that setting. (Yes, we did)
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Ive only ever been asked once but it was so different and refreshing that it made me like him more
Ive had a few try to kiss me over the years and had to pull away though and that is so horribly awkward |
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