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If you make a genuine effort and it’s rebuffed, then stop there. If you’re not convinced you have done yourself justice, then maybe several weeks later try once more… maybe…
The best advice I guess is to put in a good effort each time, and just try the once. A no is a no, and that’s ok!! |
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If they don't reply then only 1 message, but then I get confused by the people on friends list that never speak to you but still like your pics even though they never replied. |
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"Unless you’re trying to break into show business, once.
No means no. Whatever the question. Whatever the audience. Wherever the forum.
No reply also means no (which still means no)."
And that's the last time I'm sharing my traffic cone with you  |
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"Unless you’re trying to break into show business, once.
No means no. Whatever the question. Whatever the audience. Wherever the forum.
No reply also means no (which still means no).
And that's the last time I'm sharing my traffic cone with you "
It’s your turn to reply  |
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"Unless you’re trying to break into show business, once.
No means no. Whatever the question. Whatever the audience. Wherever the forum.
No reply also means no (which still means no).
And that's the last time I'm sharing my traffic cone with you
It’s your turn to reply "
I do it in silence... apparently it's a mean and moody thing |
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"Once is the correct answer when it comes to a particular person rejecting you."
This.
If they then later change their mind, I’m happy enough to chat and see if there’s any connection there to meet and play, but they would have to contact me.
It’s not rocket science, and too many people on here get hung up about the fact that not everybody likes everybody else enough to want to get naked. |
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But apparently some people get too many messages to notice them all. Why not one more polite message a few weeks later?
Or they might have been too busy to respond the first time, and the next time you could get lucky, catch them in the right mood.
I’m also part of a couple’s profile. We don’t mind another message. Normally ignore them, but not always. I bet the occasional second attempt works, and what’s the harm in trying?
But always be polite, and charming if possible.
The worst, though, is a second message within a few hours: “not interested?” “No?” They won’t get a reply, or maybe some sarcastic advice if I’m feeling generous. |
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"More than 3 times and it's harassment. You might want to remember that.
In law? Is that what it says in the Equality Act? Not that I would. "
That's what the police told me. Not sure what the equality act has to do with it? |
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"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always
No, means no under all circumstances and situations
Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’ "
Are you joking me  |
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"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always
No, means no under all circumstances and situations
Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’
Are you joking me "
Go on. Pull it?  |
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"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always
No, means no under all circumstances and situations
Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’
Are you joking me
Go on. Pull it? "
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"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always
No, means no under all circumstances and situations
Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’
Are you joking me
Go on. Pull it?
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This doesn’t work by text does it? |
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I generally try to understand what stories people's profiles tell before even attempting.
For example, the demographic of verified meets compared to the actual age range preference. And, the sexes of meets compared to actual sexual preferences on the profile. The profile text also goes a long way in helping my decisions.
If my analysis of their profile doesn't show favourable signs I don't bother myself at all. If it does, once and call it quits.
You can't convince anyone into forming an attraction to you.
Tip: avoid rude sounding profiles and those that compel you to convince them - it's not an audition. |
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"If they said no once, you should respect that.. Always
No, means no under all circumstances and situations
Even when someone says ‘pull my finger?’
Are you joking me
Go on. Pull it? "
As I read this I parped!! Spooky…. |
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"Ive not failed, just found 1000 ways that didn't work
No such thing as failure, just a lesson learned "
Lessons to be carried forwaed for optimum outcome lol |
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