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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Sane answers only ....

Person A has a birthday coming up.

Person A says to person B 'I'll have x for my birthday please'

Person B buys the gift and keeps it waiting for the birthday.

Person A sends a text ( about a week later ) saying, I bought the thing I wanted.

Over to you.

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey

See if x is refundable ?

If not enjoy x and leave a snotty note in person b's bday card for the

Sheer inconvenience !

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By *igger101ukMan  over a year ago

Carlisle

Person A - keep the receipt.

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By *ellhungvweMan  over a year ago

Cheltenham

Can Person B take it back to shop and get refund?

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

Person B wraps gift and gives it to Person A because after all, they asked for it

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By *igger101ukMan  over a year ago

Carlisle


"Person A - keep the receipt."

I mean B. Person B keep the receipt.

Get a grip Rigger

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'd return it, and buy them a something else and maybe something that speaks about the type of relationship....after the rounds of fucks n C#@ts I've spouted out

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Give it to them anyway, that’ll learn em

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol

huh that's annoying.

You could return the item and get them something new.

You could give it to them and then they'd have two.

You could keep the item and get them something new.

You could return the item and not get them anything.

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By *izredCouple  over a year ago

mid cornwall

Person B tells person A that they have bought it and they then have a discussion about how to resolve the situation.

Boring answer I know, but clear communication is one of the few things that is guaranteed to make like a bit less stressful.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"See if x is refundable ?

If not enjoy x and leave a snotty note in person b's bday card for the

Sheer inconvenience ! "

Hmmmmmm promising...... 7 out of 10. Thanks Dixie

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I mean .... I have no idea who these alphabet people are !!!!

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Person A - keep the receipt."

Person A didn't buy it.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Can Person B take it back to shop and get refund?"

Yeah but person B..... whoever they are....... cba ( so she says )

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By *atricia ParnelWoman  over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Person B gets a refund and buys them some choccies instead

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Person B wraps gift and gives it to Person A because after all, they asked for it"

Decisive , adult , fair ....... I like it

8/10 Thankyou half of Nicecouple

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Person A - keep the receipt.

I mean B. Person B keep the receipt.

Get a grip Rigger"

Yeah ..... get a grip!

Okay she will keep the receipt. I'll let her know what you said.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"I'd return it, and buy them a something else and maybe something that speaks about the type of relationship....after the rounds of fucks n C#@ts I've spouted out "

omg ....... omg ! 11/10

Can it be a joke turd in a box.

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By *ackbydemandMan  over a year ago

Leicester

Depends what it is, if it's something nice that I actually want myself I might keep it.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Give it to them anyway, that’ll learn em "

Yeah ..... yeah....... 6/10

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"huh that's annoying.

You could return the item and get them something new.

You could give it to them and then they'd have two.

You could keep the item and get them something new.

You could return the item and not get them anything."

Who is this 'you' you speak of

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By *oo..Woman  over a year ago

Boo's World

Be slightly annoyed.

Think if it's a gift I could possibly keep for someone else's birthday in the future if appropriate.

Take it back for a refund if not.

Buy them something else , maybe not as good for the hassle! Ha

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Person B tells person A that they have bought it and they then have a discussion about how to resolve the situation.

Boring answer I know, but clear communication is one of the few things that is guaranteed to make like a bit less stressful."

Not boring at all.

Person A thinks all is okay.

Person B thinks a shit thing has happened

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Person B gets a refund and buys them some choccies instead"

Person B thinks go swivel on that

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Person B gets a refund and buys them some choccies instead

Person B thinks go swivel on that"

Person B thinks they've done what they were asked and cba spending more time on it .....

Person B thinks you are too kind

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Should be easy to get a refund, it is only a week after the purchase.

However, Person B might get more satisfaction by smacking Person A over the head with the gift that they had bought (ideally it is something that will make a resounding 'thonk')

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I'd return it, and buy them a something else and maybe something that speaks about the type of relationship....after the rounds of fucks n C#@ts I've spouted out

omg ....... omg ! 11/10

Can it be a joke turd in a box."

Cat turd in a Box extra pungent

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Depends what it is, if it's something nice that I actually want myself I might keep it. "

Oh ....person B is keeping it. Person B can't understand why someone would do that.... twonk

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By *red333Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Sane answers only ....

Person A has a birthday coming up.

Person A says to person B 'I'll have x for my birthday please'

Person B buys the gift and keeps it waiting for the birthday.

Person A sends a text ( about a week later ) saying, I bought the thing I wanted.

Over to you."

answer A, you throw your dummy out the pram and scream the place down.

Answer B, you say oh well happy birthday and give her the present you bought

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Depends what it is, if it's something nice that I actually want myself I might keep it. "

It's more practical than nice..... and I really do want it...... Person B wants it that is

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Sane answers only ....

Person A has a birthday coming up.

Person A says to person B 'I'll have x for my birthday please'

Person B buys the gift and keeps it waiting for the birthday.

Person A sends a text ( about a week later ) saying, I bought the thing I wanted.

Over to you.answer A, you throw your dummy out the pram and scream the place down.

Answer B, you say oh well happy birthday and give her the present you bought "

Person B is doint their version of Answer A now.

Person B WOULDNT give the gift now if her arse went on fire.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Should be easy to get a refund, it is only a week after the purchase.

However, Person B might get more satisfaction by smacking Person A over the head with the gift that they had bought (ideally it is something that will make a resounding 'thonk')"

If I was violent that would help.

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

Does it matter if the thing they bought has already been purchased?

What if it's a bottle of JD, a cake, a pair of socks or a woolly hat?

Sure....if it's a shiny new Xbox then they don't need two and it may as well be returned.

But there's not enough info to make a judgement I'm afraid.

Besides.......how are we supposed to know how reliable person B is? Maybe person A told them something similar last year and instead of buying them a giant strap-on they bought them a garden vacuum.........

A

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"huh that's annoying.

You could return the item and get them something new.

You could give it to them and then they'd have two.

You could keep the item and get them something new.

You could return the item and not get them anything.

Who is this 'you' you speak of"

You.

You knew that though

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Does it matter if the thing they bought has already been purchased?

What if it's a bottle of JD, a cake, a pair of socks or a woolly hat?

Sure....if it's a shiny new Xbox then they don't need two and it may as well be returned.

But there's not enough info to make a judgement I'm afraid.

Besides.......how are we supposed to know how reliable person B is? Maybe person A told them something similar last year and instead of buying them a giant strap-on they bought them a garden vacuum.........

A"

I was about to say oh ... good point makes sense ... BUT ..... despite having two cars in the garage being a good thing..... I think Person B is miffed because they hunted the thing down ( obvs it's not exclusive ) then person A goes and spoils all the fun , takes the wind from the proverbials, rains on a parade ......

Person B is beginning to think that they haven't put childish things away yet and still gets pleasure from giving.....

Person A ..... is a pooper.

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean

P.S. It wasn't a car

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean

And person B is more fucking reliable than Big Ben

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Give it to them anyway, that’ll learn em "

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North

Bum person B very very hard

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By *red333Man  over a year ago

Dorchester


"Sane answers only ....

Person A has a birthday coming up.

Person A says to person B 'I'll have x for my birthday please'

Person B buys the gift and keeps it waiting for the birthday.

Person A sends a text ( about a week later ) saying, I bought the thing I wanted.

Over to you.answer A, you throw your dummy out the pram and scream the place down.

Answer B, you say oh well happy birthday and give her the present you bought

Person B is doint their version of Answer A now.

Person B WOULDNT give the gift now if her arse went on fire. "

lol........ Like surprise internal combustion

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Bum person B very very hard "

How does that help ?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman  over a year ago

Reading

Can person a return it?

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By *ex HolesMan  over a year ago

Up North


"Bum person B very very hard

How does that help ?"

Both have a happy ending

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By *bi HaiveMan  over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Bum person B very very hard

How does that help ?"

They probably won't do it again next year.

See it as a deterrent.

A

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By *ellinever70Woman  over a year ago

Ayrshire

Person B tells Person A that actually, they're no longer buying birthday gifts

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Learn to choose your own gifts to others, it’s your gift not theirs!

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Person B tells Person A that actually, they're no longer buying birthday gifts "

Person B has calmed down a bit.....

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By *ranny-Crumpet OP   Woman  over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"Learn to choose your own gifts to others, it’s your gift not theirs! "

Person B knows this but Person A ASKED and person hotnotts would know that if they read the O.P.

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