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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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How happy are you with your life right? It could be anything - the state of your hair, finances, home life. Your fab experience. Relationships, friendships. Is there anything you're hoping to change this coming year? |
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over a year ago
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Content n happy, nothing to complain about, apart pissing 5 times, the neighbours kids are little feckers, my knees hurt my crack creaks..living the dream really .
Alls good woundnt change a thing |
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Happiness is always something I struggle with.
This is mostly borne from the feeling that I don't live my life to fullest and that I'm letting it slip through my fingers. It seems to me everyone else is having more fun than I am and experiencing so much more.
Though I have these feelings I am also well aware of how lucky I am, and that I have good friends and loving family. I have a roof over my head and money in the bank. My problems in life are remarkably small compared to most peoples.
Arguably my life has never been better, it's not the wow factor but it's a slow and steady progression in the right direction.
So yes, although I have my personal woes and doubts about my life (just like we all do) I am happy in my life (mostly) |
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"Happiness is always something I struggle with.
This is mostly borne from the feeling that I don't live my life to fullest and that I'm letting it slip through my fingers. It seems to me everyone else is having more fun than I am and experiencing so much more.
Though I have these feelings I am also well aware of how lucky I am, and that I have good friends and loving family. I have a roof over my head and money in the bank. My problems in life are remarkably small compared to most peoples.
Arguably my life has never been better, it's not the wow factor but it's a slow and steady progression in the right direction.
So yes, although I have my personal woes and doubts about my life (just like we all do) I am happy in my life (mostly)"
So you don't live your life to the fullest ? That interested me. What does a full life look like ?
I'm very content. Happier than I was in my early years. I long for nothing and I do what I want when I want. So if I feel like fart arsing about on here I will but if I feel I should be doing something more constructive I will....... I do most things as and when I want ......
Isn't being in the moment ...... living ? I'm not racing so fast toward a goal that I miss what is already here .
I'm happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not happy. I am lucky to find happy moments in my day, with my daughter and partner, but other than that, there isn't much that is making me happy. I'm stuck in a very negative mindset and struggling with loads of crap. I'm hoping things will improve eventually. |
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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago
Secret hideaway in the pennines |
"Scores out of 10
Work 8
Financially 8
Health 9 (only have to go back for scans every 12 months)
Fab experience 2
Stop exaggerating your FAB exp. A.C."
if it wasn't for the forums, it would be a negative number granny  |
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By *ohn KanakaMan
over a year ago
Not all that North of North London |
I'd say 7, being optimistic an 8. I'm certainly not unhappy. I'm feeling physically fitter than I ever have, my mental health is in a good place amd I'm reconciling all the issues I had last year, I'm enjoying my new job, and the combination of all these has had a positive impact on my relationship.
So yeah, life feels pretty good right now |
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"Happiness is always something I struggle with.
This is mostly borne from the feeling that I don't live my life to fullest and that I'm letting it slip through my fingers. It seems to me everyone else is having more fun than I am and experiencing so much more.
Though I have these feelings I am also well aware of how lucky I am, and that I have good friends and loving family. I have a roof over my head and money in the bank. My problems in life are remarkably small compared to most peoples.
Arguably my life has never been better, it's not the wow factor but it's a slow and steady progression in the right direction.
So yes, although I have my personal woes and doubts about my life (just like we all do) I am happy in my life (mostly)
So you don't live your life to the fullest ? That interested me. What does a full life look like ?
I'm very content. Happier than I was in my early years. I long for nothing and I do what I want when I want. So if I feel like fart arsing about on here I will but if I feel I should be doing something more constructive I will....... I do most things as and when I want ......
Isn't being in the moment ...... living ? I'm not racing so fast toward a goal that I miss what is already here .
I'm happy. "
A full life would mean something different to each person. To me it just means having more fun and experiencing more of the what the world has to offer.
You could argue that being in the moment is simply existing... though I think that is very much dependant on what moment is and what that moment means to you. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
"Happiness is always something I struggle with.
This is mostly borne from the feeling that I don't live my life to fullest and that I'm letting it slip through my fingers. It seems to me everyone else is having more fun than I am and experiencing so much more.
Though I have these feelings I am also well aware of how lucky I am, and that I have good friends and loving family. I have a roof over my head and money in the bank. My problems in life are remarkably small compared to most peoples.
Arguably my life has never been better, it's not the wow factor but it's a slow and steady progression in the right direction.
So yes, although I have my personal woes and doubts about my life (just like we all do) I am happy in my life (mostly)
So you don't live your life to the fullest ? That interested me. What does a full life look like ?
I'm very content. Happier than I was in my early years. I long for nothing and I do what I want when I want. So if I feel like fart arsing about on here I will but if I feel I should be doing something more constructive I will....... I do most things as and when I want ......
Isn't being in the moment ...... living ? I'm not racing so fast toward a goal that I miss what is already here .
I'm happy.
A full life would mean something different to each person. To me it just means having more fun and experiencing more of the what the world has to offer.
You could argue that being in the moment is simply existing... though I think that is very much dependant on what moment is and what that moment means to you."
I’ve lived my best hedonist years. To me its more about meaning and sense of purpose, you can have these without money, great health & even freedoms. Some of my “happiest” were raising kids with very little money or time
I’m pretty fulfilled now , meaningful relationships & work, excited about future adventures, and generally at peace with the world and the choices I’ve made. |
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"I'm not happy. I am lucky to find happy moments in my day, with my daughter and partner, but other than that, there isn't much that is making me happy. I'm stuck in a very negative mindset and struggling with loads of crap. I'm hoping things will improve eventually."
Hey LBC, sorry to hear this. You always seem so happy and upbeat on fab! I hope it’s these interactions that bring you some light relief in your day. |
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I'd say a 7 things could always be better but I'm appreciative of what I do have, an amazing family, a man as wierd as myself who seems to love me for whatever crazy reason, a roof over my head and food in the cupboards.
Yes there's things that could be improved but if not I've got all I need.
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Prob a 5 at the minute.
Just separated from my wife in October. She knew about fab as it's how we met and had a cpls acc.
No one else involved just personal stuff that caused her to want to be on her own.
Saving grace is my daughter(11) lives with me and having her here is giving me something to get better for and to keep her happy.
So hopefully soon I will getting a higher score |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I'm hoping this year is gonna be much better than the last few.
I'm starting a new job next week ,on days after doing nights a good while.Fingers crossed that will improve my sleep and energy levels.
Plus I'll have more time to do things at normal hours ,so even when I'm working at the weekend I will still be able to go for a meal or a few drinks etc.
I hope this year is a happier year for all that need it to be .x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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About 7-8 work lofe is epic wprk when i like doung the jobs i like hiking kayaking ...
Family.lifes good kids healthy me healthy friends happy . Good hobboes football hiking outdpors etc ..
Fab and sex life where its lacking . 0 sex life and zrro fab life making me feel extremly unattarctive
Be so nice to click just once |
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By *oanne ETV/TS
over a year ago
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My fab life is currently 10 out of ten, I'm absolutely loving it and not just the sex (but it is great) xxxxxx and this is making my personal and professional life great too. Like everyone I can have my ups and downs. Remember we all have a past we cannot change, the present is up to us and we can shape our futures. Love you all xxxx    |
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"Happiness is always something I struggle with.
This is mostly borne from the feeling that I don't live my life to fullest and that I'm letting it slip through my fingers. It seems to me everyone else is having more fun than I am and experiencing so much more.
Though I have these feelings I am also well aware of how lucky I am, and that I have good friends and loving family. I have a roof over my head and money in the bank. My problems in life are remarkably small compared to most peoples.
Arguably my life has never been better, it's not the wow factor but it's a slow and steady progression in the right direction.
So yes, although I have my personal woes and doubts about my life (just like we all do) I am happy in my life (mostly)
So you don't live your life to the fullest ? That interested me. What does a full life look like ?
I'm very content. Happier than I was in my early years. I long for nothing and I do what I want when I want. So if I feel like fart arsing about on here I will but if I feel I should be doing something more constructive I will....... I do most things as and when I want ......
Isn't being in the moment ...... living ? I'm not racing so fast toward a goal that I miss what is already here .
I'm happy.
A full life would mean something different to each person. To me it just means having more fun and experiencing more of the what the world has to offer.
You could argue that being in the moment is simply existing... though I think that is very much dependant on what moment is and what that moment means to you."
That's a good point. I don't take advantage of all that the world has to offer but I have no urge to.....
At one time I did ...... now I don't. There is nothing on the planet that would improve how I feel... in my head and heart.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve sorted my job out. I’m
Much happier with my work life now so that’s awesome.
I need to find a happy sex life, sexual frustration hits me now and again, and I’ve put up with this for around 2 year.  |
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"Happiness is always something I struggle with.
This is mostly borne from the feeling that I don't live my life to fullest and that I'm letting it slip through my fingers. It seems to me everyone else is having more fun than I am and experiencing so much more.
Though I have these feelings I am also well aware of how lucky I am, and that I have good friends and loving family. I have a roof over my head and money in the bank. My problems in life are remarkably small compared to most peoples.
Arguably my life has never been better, it's not the wow factor but it's a slow and steady progression in the right direction.
So yes, although I have my personal woes and doubts about my life (just like we all do) I am happy in my life (mostly)
So you don't live your life to the fullest ? That interested me. What does a full life look like ?
I'm very content. Happier than I was in my early years. I long for nothing and I do what I want when I want. So if I feel like fart arsing about on here I will but if I feel I should be doing something more constructive I will....... I do most things as and when I want ......
Isn't being in the moment ...... living ? I'm not racing so fast toward a goal that I miss what is already here .
I'm happy.
A full life would mean something different to each person. To me it just means having more fun and experiencing more of the what the world has to offer.
You could argue that being in the moment is simply existing... though I think that is very much dependant on what moment is and what that moment means to you.
That's a good point. I don't take advantage of all that the world has to offer but I have no urge to.....
At one time I did ...... now I don't. There is nothing on the planet that would improve how I feel... in my head and heart.
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As long as you're happy in your life and the decisions you make that is all that matters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Happiness is a fleeting emotion. Right now I'm average on the happiness scale, but in 40 mins time when I'm no longer waiting in the car for my son to finish his appointment I'll be scoring differently.
Life is ok right now. Not everything is ok, but I'm content overall and feel strong enough to glare those challenges in the face and give them the stink eye. Probably because Marcus Aurelius and Seneca have been keeping me company recently and those ancient dudes really know their onions.
Nell
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"I’ve sorted my job out. I’m
Much happier with my work life now so that’s awesome.
I need to find a happy sex life, sexual frustration hits me now and again, and I’ve put up with this for around 2 year. "
Snap! Last year I was miffed with work but it’s better now (helped by having January and February off  )
Still looking for a single woman that gets me and loves sex!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve sorted my job out. I’m
Much happier with my work life now so that’s awesome.
I need to find a happy sex life, sexual frustration hits me now and again, and I’ve put up with this for around 2 year.
Snap! Last year I was miffed with work but it’s better now (helped by having January and February off )
Still looking for a single woman that gets me and loves sex!!"
you spend most of your hours of the week in work, if you are not happy it rolls into your other areas of your life.
Good to read that someone else is feeling better with work. |
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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago
Where the flamboyance of flamingos live |
I think I’m about an 8, taking into account everything.
Do I wish a family feud could be resolved and I had some of my extended family back in my life, yes. Do I wish I had no financial worries, yes.
Do I wish I was slimmer, and taller, yes.
Do I wish my job was a little easier at the moment, yes.
But along with being happy comes being content and I feel that right now . It’s been a long time to get here, but I’m grateful for my lot . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say we're at around a 8.5 in life so overall we're very happy with our lot, we have amazing friends and an amazing family that we see loads we're also mortgage free so we're pretty much where we'd want to be at this stage in life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not great at the moment to be fair. But my hair has never looked better
Actually my hair is lush at the moment so I’ll go with you there "
I got a very expensive hair tool for christmas...game changer |
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Overall I’d say I’m pretty happy, probably about a 7 or 8. There’s things I’d change of course but nothing that makes me unhappy or I’m stressed about. I have a great circle of friends in my normal life and my fab life. Things to look forward to this year. I’ve also met someone on here who adds that something extra to my life. Our main thing is not enough time these days but that’s between work and kids and to be expected. We don’t do badly but I always seem to want more.
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It's about 6½ out of ¹°.
I want my hair back (bloody Alopecia).
I need a new job. My work is as stale as yesterday's jam.
My Fab odyssey is eventful and pleasurable. But everything else, in relative terms, is all gøød...and I should be grateful.
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Just hoping my fledgling business is successful.
I’d love to get my formerly athletic body back but as I’ve passed my sell by date in my chosen sport it’s tough to find the motivation I always took for granted. Maybe my ever so slowly increasing dad bod will suit me |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"How happy are you with your life right? It could be anything - the state of your hair, finances, home life. Your fab experience. Relationships, friendships. Is there anything you're hoping to change this coming year? "
I’m doing quite well all things considered.
I had a shocking November/December, however have been able to move passed it. Its been helped by being able to divert funds to my lego collection as well as being supported by friends old and new! |
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I’m pretty happy.
My hair is shit - but clippers & scissors will fix that…. Just need time. Which I never get.
I adore my job, although it is brutal & relentless.
I have love.
Fab brings me real joy.
There are things that make me sad, but I’m naturally an optimist & a stubborn shit. So I keep plugging away at my goals.
Hugs to anyone feeling blue. |
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By *eli OP Woman
over a year ago
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I'll reply properly to these in the morning, thank you everyone for sharing. It means a lot in a slightly odd way.
I hope everyone's happiness increases even if in a really tiny way. Sometimes the simplest of things can raise a smile, however fleeting.  |
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By *ryan...Man
over a year ago
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"How happy are you with your life right? It could be anything - the state of your hair, finances, home life. Your fab experience. Relationships, friendships. Is there anything you're hoping to change this coming year? "
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I'd like to change my wife for an Esc*rt.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll reply properly to these in the morning, thank you everyone for sharing. It means a lot in a slightly odd way.
I hope everyone's happiness increases even if in a really tiny way. Sometimes the simplest of things can raise a smile, however fleeting. "
Nothing better than a smile xx |
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Actually... I'm having a glorious, joyful time of it at the moment.
Could I be happier? Yes, work could be better and I have some family stresses, but I have great friends (some with fantastic benefits!), some supportive family members, a roof over my head and a job I enjoy that covers my bills.
I'm in good health and in great spirits, and I'm happy as a pig in shite.
Thanks for asking the question and reminding me to count my blessings OP. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Such an interesting read from all posters.
I'd say I'm happy/content with everything in my life. What other option is there, my choices have led me here.
Happiness is our natural state. Rupert Spira is worthwhile discovery for your ears and eyes if happiness is a struggle in your life. |
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"How happy are you with your life right? It could be anything - the state of your hair, finances, home life. Your fab experience. Relationships, friendships. Is there anything you're hoping to change this coming year? "
I’m at quite a happy stage with my life. I have managed to let go of a lot of my insecurities which is a great feeling. My only change now is to hopefully have more fun on here so that I can express my new found confidence and meet some cool and fun people along the way |
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Not good. But it's fairly common knowledge on here that recent months have been bloody awful for me. My hope is for some kind of easing this year, although I don't know how when it feels like any forgetting would be betrayal. |
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10 always a 10.
Because I am humble I have love, shelter, clean running water and sanitation, food, safe in the knowledge that my kids will not have the struggles I did as a boy.
The rest is just materialistic bullshit that is easy come easy go.
The mr |
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"10 always a 10.
Because I am humble I have love, shelter, clean running water and sanitation, food, safe in the knowledge that my kids will not have the struggles I did as a boy.
The rest is just materialistic bullshit that is easy come easy go.
The mr "
I like that very true , same here |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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I am very content and happy with my life. I count my blessings and feel lucky to have the life I have.
If I could make one change it would be to live next door to my children forever, until I pop off at least |
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