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why is it hard to find a straight swop couple?
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am a straight female and my partner is a bi-curious male.we have tried to find a straight swop couple but it seems lots wont do that. I certainly have no intrest in the female just the male.plus am happy for my partner to play with the female.are woman in a couples profile reluctant to let their man play with another female? Or meaby its because am straight and would just want the male?. |
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Could be a multitude of things, could be because your partner is curious, could be you're straight, could be they only do things a certain way and just don't match you, who knows. A good majority of couples are happy to swap, some aren't. People have their preferences amd dynamics, I'm sure there will be someone out there for you x
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"am a straight female and my partner is a bi-curious male.we have tried to find a straight swop couple but it seems lots wont do that. I certainly have no intrest in the female just the male.plus am happy for my partner to play with the female.are woman in a couples profile reluctant to let their man play with another female? Or meaby its because am straight and would just want the male?."
Have you read your own profile? |
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"am a straight female and my partner is a bi-curious male.we have tried to find a straight swop couple but it seems lots wont do that. I certainly have no intrest in the female just the male.plus am happy for my partner to play with the female.are woman in a couples profile reluctant to let their man play with another female? Or meaby its because am straight and would just want the male?.
Have you read your own profile?"
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your profile says you're looking for X, but then this forum post says you're looking for Y..
could be why you aren't getting the responses you're wanting. Px |
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"It’s a small point, but your profile is also written in the third person, it just feels “off”."
maybe it’s their preferred pronoun ? I always think describing a singular as they sounds like bad grammar. |
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"It’s a small point, but your profile is also written in the third person, it just feels “off”.
maybe it’s their preferred pronoun ? I always think describing a singular as they sounds like bad grammar."
Good point, I didn’t think of that…but in this case it’s ‘they’ where ‘we’ would normally be, and ‘we’ is also gender neutral if that was the aim. |
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"It’s a small point, but your profile is also written in the third person, it just feels “off”.
maybe it’s their preferred pronoun ? I always think describing a singular as they sounds like bad grammar.
Good point, I didn’t think of that…but in this case it’s ‘they’ where ‘we’ would normally be, and ‘we’ is also gender neutral if that was the aim."
This is true. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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I'm half a couple and straight and we find it hard because most want some fem to fem play .
However our profile is clear it would he a straight swap only,yours is a bit confusing and reads like it's a man you're after. Either for fun with both or for fun with you whilst he watches.
Maybe clear up what it is you actually want on your profile and mention couples if you want to meet them.If you are after couples I'd suggest some more pics of the man other than just his cock as fellow straight women will want to see him too. |
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Cos such a small percentage of the population are :- a couple, up for sex with other couples, both straight, members of this site , fancy you as a couple and are available on the days and times that suit you and are within travelling distance.
It would be odd if you got easy meets. |
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"I'm half a couple and straight and we find it hard because most want some fem to fem play .
However our profile is clear it would he a straight swap only,yours is a bit confusing and reads like it's a man you're after. Either for fun with both or for fun with you whilst he watches.
Maybe clear up what it is you actually want on your profile and mention couples if you want to meet them.If you are after couples I'd suggest some more pics of the man other than just his cock as fellow straight women will want to see him too."
I have always found that more often than not it's to see the females together that is the priority |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I'm half a couple and straight and we find it hard because most want some fem to fem play .
However our profile is clear it would he a straight swap only,yours is a bit confusing and reads like it's a man you're after. Either for fun with both or for fun with you whilst he watches.
Maybe clear up what it is you actually want on your profile and mention couples if you want to meet them.If you are after couples I'd suggest some more pics of the man other than just his cock as fellow straight women will want to see him too.
I have always found that more often than not it's to see the females together that is the priority "
Same Granny ,I've seen many say straight swap with no fem play is boring . |
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"Quite opposite for us. The Mrs is not interested in the male in the couple. Just wants to have fun with the girl and watch the Mr enjoy another woman.  "
I had an experience where I felt the spare wheel. There’s a reason why single females are called Unicorns. |
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I used to play on his as a couple and the simple fact is you are always having to deal with 4 ppl liking each other rather than two.
Problem I found is you will have one person who isn’t attracted to the opposite partner or you are looking for different things or you have different boundaries (safe or bareback etc).
Finding the right coule is tricky but not impossible |
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A lot of couples I met when in a couple, was many wanted to soft play. Which to us was absurd, but each to their own.
Maybe it’s that we attracted newbies to the scene.
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"am a straight female and my partner is a bi-curious male.we have tried to find a straight swop couple but it seems lots wont do that. I certainly have no intrest in the female just the male.plus am happy for my partner to play with the female.are woman in a couples profile reluctant to let their man play with another female? Or meaby its because am straight and would just want the male?."
We know lots of people that only do straight swap and they don’t seem to have any issues finding couples.Maybe make it clearer on your profile as it comes across slightly confused.
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"A lot of couples I met when in a couple, was many wanted to soft play. Which to us was absurd, but each to their own.
Maybe it’s that we attracted newbies to the scene.
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Lots of couples express their displeasure at the idea of soft swap but we're never clear on why, what makes it absurd? |
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"I'm half a couple and straight and we find it hard because most want some fem to fem play .
However our profile is clear it would he a straight swap only,yours is a bit confusing and reads like it's a man you're after. Either for fun with both or for fun with you whilst he watches.
Maybe clear up what it is you actually want on your profile and mention couples if you want to meet them.If you are after couples I'd suggest some more pics of the man other than just his cock as fellow straight women will want to see him too.
I have always found that more often than not it's to see the females together that is the priority
Same Granny ,I've seen many say straight swap with no fem play is boring ."
I would say the majority of couples want Bi fem play.
It’s the ladies who will claim that they will play straight on a meet but still try it on when we are all getting down and dirty.
It’s almost as though they think that consent doesn’t apply to them or the struggle to control themselves. Either way it puts us off meeting couples with bi ladies. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I'm half a couple and straight and we find it hard because most want some fem to fem play .
However our profile is clear it would he a straight swap only,yours is a bit confusing and reads like it's a man you're after. Either for fun with both or for fun with you whilst he watches.
Maybe clear up what it is you actually want on your profile and mention couples if you want to meet them.If you are after couples I'd suggest some more pics of the man other than just his cock as fellow straight women will want to see him too.
I have always found that more often than not it's to see the females together that is the priority
Same Granny ,I've seen many say straight swap with no fem play is boring .
I would say the majority of couples want Bi fem play.
It’s the ladies who will claim that they will play straight on a meet but still try it on when we are all getting down and dirty.
It’s almost as though they think that consent doesn’t apply to them or the struggle to control themselves. Either way it puts us off meeting couples with bi ladies."
We've had it on our joint profile where we've spoken to couples with bi fems and they've said straight swap Is fine .Later on in chat they've brought up the girls playing & at that point we stop the chat as if they can't respect I'm straight on here ,I doubt they would if we met. |
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"Maybe because that’s not what your profile is looking for "
OP you should read your profile and look at what you’re looking for. Plenty of straight couples out there - but they won’t find you if you have your looking for set to male couple and single men  |
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