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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So me and Fel were discussing who is soft in our relationship and kind to other people and who’s cruel and straight to point. 
Haha in this case I’m the one who is straight to point and if I don’t like it, either my face will show or I will just say it either way. but Fel is softie 
How about you guys ?
Do you tell often people no or you just too soft for it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm like a lovable teddy bear with a hard on!
I think I've essentially screamed at people 3 times in my adult life. Once I had to wait over an hour at a restaurant and I was hangry and I literally made the rest of the restaurant silent  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I use to be but hart brake as turned me cold and hard
In the sens off if someone dosent like it there’s the door "
That’s how I’m like. Can’t baby everyone and think about their feelings being hurt. there’s more important things to worry about,honestly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I use to be but hart brake as turned me cold and hard
In the sens off if someone dosent like it there’s the door
That’s how I’m like. Can’t baby everyone and think about their feelings being hurt. there’s more important things to worry about,honestly. "
Yip there is that |
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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago
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I've been soft in the past but now I'm not so much , now I tell it like it is and if someone doesnt like it theres the door
That said there has to be give and take because I'm a very giving person |
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"So me and Fel were discussing who is soft in our relationship and kind to other people and who’s cruel and straight to point.
Haha in this case I’m the one who is straight to point and if I don’t like it, either my face will show or I will just say it either way. but Fel is softie
How about you guys ?
Do you tell often people no or you just too soft for it ? "
I'm a softie until you hit a nerve  |
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I don’t care if the truth will upset someone so I guess I’m the cunt. My wife is the most caring person I’ve ever met and tries her best to not upset people. I think we could both learn to be a bit more like each other. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I think I'm quite soft really. Bit chaotic at times. I don't like hurting people. I wouldn't lie to someone but I have a hard time letting people down or being cruel when I could deliver something with kindness. You can be straight with someone without being cruel.
If I'm unhappy with something I'm more likely to say "hey, don't worry about it" if they notice I'm a bit meh because... I can manage my hurt. Try and minimise afflicting it on others. Self appointed martyrdom thanks to upbringing.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don’t care if the truth will upset someone so I guess I’m the cunt. My wife is the most caring person I’ve ever met and tries her best to not upset people. I think we could both learn to be a bit more like each other."
I love my partner to bits. Because he can be soft and try’s to teach me in which situations I should be too and other times I’m like him and then he asks what’s wrong with me |
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"I don’t care if the truth will upset someone so I guess I’m the cunt. My wife is the most caring person I’ve ever met and tries her best to not upset people. I think we could both learn to be a bit more like each other.
I love my partner to bits. Because he can be soft and try’s to teach me in which situations I should be too and other times I’m like him and then he asks what’s wrong with me "
In the 10 years with my wife I’ve definitely gotten softer but there’s still a long way to go. |
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I'm very direct, but not intentionally cruel. I don't see any point in mollycoddling people, and it's easy enough to be direct pleasantly.
I'd much prefer it if everybody I met was direct with me, I can't be doing with wishy washy "politicians" answers and trying to guess what people really mean. |
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Wish to God I was more to the point but the thought of upsetting someone I can't bare. Its to my own detriment but its who I am despite my efforts to change it  x I even got sacked once for being too nice!!! Smh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A depends who I'm talking to, what I'm talking to them about, what needs to be said. If it's my sponsees who need to be told about themselves then they get it Straight |
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