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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"How many people would just meet up with someone just by there body pics? For me I would have to see the face before a meet."
No way would I meet without a face pic. I would also be very suspicious of a man who would be prepared to meet me without one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn’t, no.
I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No way! Had one guy day he wouldn't send pics under any circumstances, but I wouldn't be disappointed. How he knew that, I don't know.
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He must of thought of himself that highly he would fit absolutely everyone's type 
Miss S x |
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"I wouldn’t, no.
I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this "
I'd think twice too if your face was like that...  
LvM |
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"I wouldn’t, no.
I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this "
Are you sure it was
Or what is more like? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t, no.
I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this
I'd think twice too if your face was like that...
LvM"
 for you two, I’ll wear a balaclava |
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I have a few times and it's a risky game to play.
One woman was gorgeous and I was very happy.
One woman was not that attractive to me and had I seen her face before hand I probably would not have not met her... but funnily enough we still hook up from time to time as I quite like her as a person.
One guy was fine to look at but not really my cup of tea and I probably would not have met him. |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
Yes I've done this many times.
Face picture isn't particularly important to me, as firstly I'm not attracted to faces (I don't plan on kissing you anyway), and secondly it can be faked equally as much as any other body part.
I hate how the implied idea that a face pic somehow adds credibility to a profile is encouraging some people to weaponize their face pics by including it amongst their gallery of dismembered body parts when sending them to you - unsolicited - like I'm supposed to automatically return the favour or something lol jog on.
Any face picture that isn't attached to the rest of the body in the photo, is about as much use as a verification tool as a foot or elbow picture. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have a type as far as looks go, it's more the full package that draws me in and turns me on. I need a connection, a miminum level of comfort.
Can't imagine getting naked/intimate/vulnerable with a person who was effectively a total stranger. |
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"Yes I've done this many times.
Face picture isn't particularly important to me, as firstly I'm not attracted to faces (I don't plan on kissing you anyway), and secondly it can be faked equally as much as any other body part.
I hate how the implied idea that a face pic somehow adds credibility to a profile is encouraging some people to weaponize their face pics by including it amongst their gallery of dismembered body parts when sending them to you - unsolicited - like I'm supposed to automatically return the favour or something lol jog on.
Any face picture that isn't attached to the rest of the body in the photo, is about as much use as a verification tool as a foot or elbow picture."
I've seen you express this view before, and no question you are entirely free to have it. But the certainty with which you express it, as if it were self-evidently true, interests me. For the vast majority of people,the face is not just 'a body part' akin to an elbow, but the site of the personality. |
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I met a lady once, a few years ago, we’d exchanged face pics but she looked absolutely nothing like it. Turned out it was 10 years out of date, her hair was different style, colour and length. No glasses in photo, glasses at the meet, etc etc. I had to guess judging by her being the only single lady in the coffee shop.
Anyway it didn’t matter too much. Things went very well. |
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"I wouldn’t, no.
I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this
I'd think twice too if your face was like that...
LvM
for you two, I’ll wear a balaclava"
Make it a latex one and you're on 
LvM |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
"I've seen you express this view before, and no question you are entirely free to have it. But the certainty with which you express it, as if it were self-evidently true, interests me. For the vast majority of people,the face is not just 'a body part' akin to an elbow, but the site of the personality."
Greetings. Thanks for taking an interest in my forum activity.
I stated my opinion in full knowledge that it would almost certainly not be the popular consensus viewpoint here. This is not my very first day on a dating app (as you know).
You may be somewhat taken aback by how stridently I adhere to this view, but it's clearly just an opinion and nothing more than that. How one chooses to manage their pictures & how one chooses to receive/perceive pictures from others, is clearly something that's up to the individual to decide. For example, the way you perceive a face as some kind of window to the soul, is not the same way I perceive one, where to me it's merely just the location of the noise-hole.
Needless to say I won't be changing my opinion  |
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"I wouldn’t, no.
I’ve had a couple of guys I’ve been chatting to that have suggested meeting having not seen my face yet, at which point my face was like this "
I’m sure that face wouldn’t put anyone off anyways unless it was like  |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"No way! Had one guy day he wouldn't send pics under any circumstances, but I wouldn't be disappointed. How he knew that, I don't know.
XX"
Wow he fancies himself
I had a man say years ago I didn't need to see his face to meet for a drink ,err yeah I do & I stopped chatting to him. |
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I'm cautious, mainly because I'm a pretty introverted fella. Yes I want to exchange face pics, because tight thing to do. Clicking early saves everyone's time. However, I value privacy and know that many of us have respectable jobs, work in public spaces or can bump into people in non-Fab land. And I'd prefer to avoid uncomfortable glares. Also I think it's probably paranoid thoughts, but don't like the idea of sharing intimate information that can be scammed, black mailed or used against me.
I accept that this is a trust thing and maybe a few more exchanges are needed to check that things are going the right way before sharing face pics which can loose a connections interest (and I'm sure it way harder for men to attract females than females screening a full indox) but there you go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Superficial as fuck maybe.. But body off Baywatch etc not for us! Feeling bad for saying it honestly.."
Why feel bad? Most people need to be attracted to the people they fuck.  |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
It's also a slightly different situation for Tgirls like me as opposed to women.
Often a lot of men are closeted about their attraction to t=girls & often, don't want to send you any pictures AT ALL. Not even body pics (which is just ridiculous), and certainly not face pics.
so to try & make it easier for them to contact people like me, i will disregard the "requirement" for face pics as they don't do anything for me sexually anyway, & I don't think they hold much water as a method for filtering out timewasters/catfish or assessing credibility.
From MY POV it's a pointless hoop to make people jump through at the end of the day. |
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