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Are you just friends or more?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The point when you sit down and have a adult conversation about being in one
And if it’s closed semi closed or fully open
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So we don’t have to have kissed?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The point when you sit down and have a adult conversation about being in one
And if it’s closed semi closed or fully open
So we don’t have to have kissed? "
Nope not at all relationships can transcend touch |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The point when you sit down and have a adult conversation about being in one
And if it’s closed semi closed or fully open
So we don’t have to have kissed?
Nope not at all relationships can transcend touch "
I talk to my mate Dave and we don’t touch. Am I in a relationship with him?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When you say to each other that you are. Anything else is just thoughts in each others heads."
Do you have to confirm it first? Could you have been in a relationship and not even know it then? |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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"The point when you sit down and have a adult conversation about being in one
And if it’s closed semi closed or fully open
So we don’t have to have kissed?
Nope not at all relationships can transcend touch
I talk to my mate Dave and we don’t touch. Am I in a relationship with him? "
Has he added you on TikTok ? Does he let you carry his school books home ? If in doubt ask one of your mates to ask one of his  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The point when you sit down and have a adult conversation about being in one
And if it’s closed semi closed or fully open
So we don’t have to have kissed?
Nope not at all relationships can transcend touch
I talk to my mate Dave and we don’t touch. Am I in a relationship with him?
Has he added you on TikTok ? Does he let you carry his school books home ? If in doubt ask one of your mates to ask one of his "
I’m more of a Snapchat type of guy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The point when you sit down and have a adult conversation about being in one
And if it’s closed semi closed or fully open
So we don’t have to have kissed?
Nope not at all relationships can transcend touch "
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When hormones are calming down and reality sets in. This is often when your relationships can go “deeper” in their connection and that’s when happens for me. Although there’s those rare relationships that happen instantly. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When you change your bookfacetwittergramtoktik status to “in a reltionship with…..” "
… when I read - ‘it’s complicated!’
No shit, so your married then??? |
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It's been a long time since I started a new one. But it was a case of me travelling up to Scotland, shagging each other senseless that night and the following morning I asked him if we were a couple now. It worked for us |
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I hate the need to label.
I care about my partners, we have fun together, everyone involved knows that we're seeing other people and there's no need to call it anything. Just enjoy what it is rather than needing to pin it down or squash it into a predefined box. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When both acknowledge and agree. No two the same I've found. You can draw your own lines and if you need rules etc like on fab style relationships. Even off fab, there are lots more unconventional styles of relationship becoming more prevalent these days. ENM, poly, people who marry but live apart... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doesn't it just kind of happen when you spend time together regularly and are mostly aware of what each other are doing when you're not together?"
So you don’t need to confirm it? You just know? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The point when you sit down and have a adult conversation about being in one
And if it’s closed semi closed or fully open
So we don’t have to have kissed?
Nope not at all relationships can transcend touch
I talk to my mate Dave and we don’t touch. Am I in a relationship with him? "
We’ll have you talked to him about being In a realship |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The point when you sit down and have a adult conversation about being in one
And if it’s closed semi closed or fully open
So we don’t have to have kissed?
Nope not at all relationships can transcend touch
I talk to my mate Dave and we don’t touch. Am I in a relationship with him?
We’ll have you talked to him about being In a realship "
I think he’d be suprised between talking about football and films. |
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"At what point are you in a relationship with someone?
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I assume you mean a romantic one. I suppose it depends on the individuals and what they consider a relationship.
In our case it just sort of evolved from friends to sex to more and ultimately to living together and marriage.
My previous serious relationship happened in a similar way.
In my mind, if you are right for each other, it's obvious when that transition has happened.
Nita |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The point when you sit down and have a adult conversation about being in one
And if it’s closed semi closed or fully open
So we don’t have to have kissed?
Nope not at all relationships can transcend touch
I talk to my mate Dave and we don’t touch. Am I in a relationship with him?
We’ll have you talked to him about being In a realship
I think he’d be suprised between talking about football and films. "
Well then no yous are not and in your head one way conversations don’t count |
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