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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"I don’t think it matters.
This ^^
We're all on a journey here   "
It would be great that whilst on these journeys, some of you (the good looking ones, not the fugley ones) made a detour past my place  |
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There's a lot of definitions that some would not call swingers but cliques will always exist.
No they have to be married? Can it just be an unmarried boyfriend & girlfriend? Can it be 2 unmarried girls, or boys? Can it be a 3rd in a throuple as the 3 isn't married? When you boil it down you essentially just mean single men, using Fab as a dating site. |
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"There's a lot of definitions that some would not call swingers but cliques will always exist.
No they have to be married? Can it just be an unmarried boyfriend & girlfriend? Can it be 2 unmarried girls, or boys? Can it be a 3rd in a throuple as the 3 isn't married? When you boil it down you essentially just mean single men, using Fab as a dating site."
Maybe just as many women. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them"
But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them"
So a single can’t be a swinger  |
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"There's a lot of definitions that some would not call swingers but cliques will always exist.
No they have to be married? Can it just be an unmarried boyfriend & girlfriend? Can it be 2 unmarried girls, or boys? Can it be a 3rd in a throuple as the 3 isn't married? When you boil it down you essentially just mean single men, using Fab as a dating site.
Maybe just as many women."
That may be true, but in a club nobody ever complains about groups of feral women following a man around |
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By *rtyIanMan
over a year ago
Gateway to the Beacons |
"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them"
So a single can’t be a swinger
noun: swinger; plural noun: swingers
1.
INFORMAL
a lively and fashionable person who goes to a lot of social events.
"one of the oldest swingers in town"
2.
INFORMAL
a person who engages in group sex or the swapping of sexual partners.
"a twilight world of swingers and wife-swapping"
3.
CRICKET
a bowler who makes a delivery of a ball deviate sideways from a regular course in the air.
"the left-handed swinger was the toughest player in the League"
a ball delivery that deviates sideways from a regular course.
"the innings fell away to Johnson's away swingers" |
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"There's a lot of definitions that some would not call swingers but cliques will always exist.
No they have to be married? Can it just be an unmarried boyfriend & girlfriend? Can it be 2 unmarried girls, or boys? Can it be a 3rd in a throuple as the 3 isn't married? When you boil it down you essentially just mean single men, using Fab as a dating site.
Maybe just as many women.
That may be true, but in a club nobody ever complains about groups of feral women following a man around"
I don’t think feral men in a club are using fab as a dating site. |
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"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them
But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers"
Just because you wish it so doesn't make it so |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them
But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers
Just because you wish it so doesn't make it so "
Its taking the part not everyone needs to get a badge |
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"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them
But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers
Just because you wish it so doesn't make it so
Its taking the part not everyone needs to get a badge "
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them
But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers
Just because you wish it so doesn't make it so
Its taking the part not everyone needs to get a badge
agreed "
Hence a single female is classified as a unicorn Absolutely singles are swingers. Swingers are not just couples who couple swap. Swingers are just anyone whom takes part within the lifestyle |
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"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them
But he/she is engaging within the lifestyle so anyone whom is would be a swingers
Just because you wish it so doesn't make it so
Its taking the part not everyone needs to get a badge
agreed
Hence a single female is classified as a unicorn Absolutely singles are swingers. Swingers are not just couples who couple swap. Swingers are just anyone whom takes part within the lifestyle "
And the lifestyle is not just about sex, its the friendships you make in this lifestyle as well. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them"
A couple can't be because they are parents think I've heard so much bs when folk engage into something but clearly don't understand what is once involved omg |
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"I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one"
Is that with the intention of eventually swinging do you think?Otherwise why not just use a dating site.
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"Why do we need a cock length contest over who’s a swinger and who isn’t every few months?
It’s been done to death "
Pretty much this
People are free to use the site anyway they want once it's inside the site rules.
I find it amusing how annoyed people get when others use the site differently to them. As though their way is right and everyone who do things different are wrong.If they spent more time concentrating on those who are after the same thing they would be much better off.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one"
And…..
Who cares?
It’s a tired old argument, that goes round and round in circles. Never truly gets answers, and everyone resumes the status quo.
Why does wanting to meet 1-2-1 mean that someone isn’t a swinger? |
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I wish to embark on lunch/dinner dates.
I want to gaze upon a Pre-Raphaelite with someone, handholding optional.
I hanker for the unconventional.
I want to have sex, hither and thither.
I have no idea what this labels me as. If at all. |
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"Surely someone who will play with others is a single who will play with a single without it being within the confines of a relationship OP
Or am I not getting the meaning of being a swinger? "
that's one to one |
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"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them
So a single can’t be a swinger "
sibgle people can be swingers but one to one isnt swinging |
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"What about couples that are looking for singles and by extension, the singles they meet. Are they swingers or not?
The couple are the swingers not the single who meets them
So a single can’t be a swinger sibgle people can be swingers but one to one isnt swinging"
oh yes it is  |
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"I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one"
Does it matter? If they and others have one to one meets and enjoy. Don’t all have to be a swinger? Yes that site name but some might want to build up to swinging scene |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would say around about 30% if not more on here who are single are not swingers looking more one to one
How about you, OP? "
Yes. If you’re a single female, going by what your profile says and your views in your posts on this thread, you shouldn’t be on here?
It’d be a quiet site if everyone except the couples left |
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