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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning fabville dwellers  
What’s your thoughts on veris?
Do you insist on receiving / giving one post meet?
Do you determine response to profiles having read their previous meets?
Does what is written drive your expectations to how your meet with them will go?
Just over here curious about your thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All veris prove that you are a real human. We all have our different experiences with people so they are irrelevant really. One woman's shit show is another's knight and shining boner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve previously been on fab and been verified. I won’t go chasing those same people to re-verify that I’m genuine as I consider this bad form.
What irks me are those who are “new to fab” and less than 1 minute there’s a green tick…  |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
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"Morning fabville dwellers
What’s your thoughts on veris?
Do you insist on receiving / giving one post meet?
Do you determine response to profiles having read their previous meets?
Does what is written drive your expectations to how your meet with them will go?
Just over here curious about your thoughts "
Veris mean nothing except to forumites, you dont need them many women, couples will meet you without them, if you need them Op meet verified people but i personally concentrate on the person not the veris  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to see people's veris, shows their real, I don't like overly graphic ones so don't display some.
Mrs "
Love to know how u get a veri to prove ur real for those who wanna meet and dont trust yr real when u cant meet anyone in thr first pkace to get a veri from cause why ... cause i dont havr veris hahahaha |
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"I like to see people's veris, shows their real, I don't like overly graphic ones so don't display some.
Mrs
Love to know how u get a veri to prove ur real for those who wanna meet and dont trust yr real when u cant meet anyone in thr first pkace to get a veri from cause why ... cause i dont havr veris hahahaha"
Try the cam rooms to get one or a club/group social x |
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I'm quite private sexually so keep my sexual veris hidden for my own pleasure. I always veri who I have met, some don't go through due to filters, some people don't display them, but I'll always display social veris and happily re-veri as well.
On another's profile, I use the veris they leave, as a small insight, as to how they treat other people. And yes I've discarded people when they have been veried by someone I wish to have no sexual contact with.
Oh and I love reading veris as some are absolutely hilarious  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All veris prove that you are a real human. We all have our different experiences with people so they are irrelevant really. One woman's shit show is another's knight and shining boner."
Amen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not always.
Over the years we’ve found it’s much easier to stay under the radar.
People get all bent outta shape when their forum crush meets others."
This is the issue…a veri jenga..get the wrong one and it could all collapse haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to see them as it says a lot about whether somebody is reliable. Beyond that, everything in it is somebody else’s opinion, so to be taken with massive heaps of salt. We follow our own process for finding out if Rosie connects with someone x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Morning fabville dwellers
What’s your thoughts on veris?
Do you insist on receiving / giving one post meet?
Do you determine response to profiles having read their previous meets?
Does what is written drive your expectations to how your meet with them will go?
Just over here curious about your thoughts Veris mean nothing except to forumites, you dont need them many women, couples will meet you without them, if you need them Op meet verified people but i personally concentrate on the person not the veris "
I agree …your experience with that person is priority over who they have met? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a double edged sword: No veri's can be a little suspicious / too many and it can be offputting (personally). Ultimately, there is no substitute for conversation, meeting and using your own judgement. I take them all with a pinch of salt  |
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I enjoy flexing my creative writing skills so yes, I do write them but I’ll ask if they would like one first generally. I also have introduced people to the site and therefore veri them as soon as they arrive here … |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I enjoy flexing my creative writing skills so yes, I do write them but I’ll ask if they would like one first generally. I also have introduced people to the site and therefore veri them as soon as they arrive here … "
So you’d say your writing skills are to be admired? |
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"I enjoy flexing my creative writing skills so yes, I do write them but I’ll ask if they would like one first generally. I also have introduced people to the site and therefore veri them as soon as they arrive here …
So you’d say your writing skills are to be admired? "
I would want to meet someone based on what I write about them and it’s all true, unlike many veris on here which have been admitted post meet to be complete fiction  |
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"I like how every woman has excellent oral skills. The truth is somewhat different.
Frank
You’re saying women don’t? "
Allegedly not according to the lads at the pub last night, mine however are 8/10 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I enjoy flexing my creative writing skills so yes, I do write them but I’ll ask if they would like one first generally. I also have introduced people to the site and therefore veri them as soon as they arrive here …
So you’d say your writing skills are to be admired?
I would want to meet someone based on what I write about them and it’s all true, unlike many veris on here which have been admitted post meet to be complete fiction "
Yeah…I find it difficult to believe people would leave / display a bad veri…. People have off days  |
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"I like how every woman has excellent oral skills. The truth is somewhat different.
Frank
You’re saying women don’t? "
I'm saying I've had blow jobs from women who were described as having excellent skills and I've been left underwhelmed. Though I will acknowledge different people like different styles
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I’ll display a few if I’m looking to meet new people. I’ve never displayed the summary though. I don’t leave veris unless someone requests one and I’d never leave/show any sexual ones. I do like having a nosy at other people’s though |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I totally judge someone on them, and do love giving/receiving them. I would never ask for one though. Its nice, but not that important!"
Judge them on who they have met? Or on how they have ‘performed’ |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like how every woman has excellent oral skills. The truth is somewhat different.
Frank
You’re saying women don’t?
I'm saying I've had blow jobs from women who were described as having excellent skills and I've been left underwhelmed. Though I will acknowledge different people like different styles
Frank"
Ah okay… just checking |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’ll display a few if I’m looking to meet new people. I’ve never displayed the summary though. I don’t leave veris unless someone requests one and I’d never leave/show any sexual ones. I do like having a nosy at other people’s though "
Everyone loves a good nosey  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I keep mine hidden
Always like 1 veri from a person just so I can look back on it
But other than that don’t need one ever time I meet them
Also they hiden for a reason to meny people get caught up on fab politics and such
Oooo you meet so and so now I not meet you and so on
So best just to keep them hiden it’s none off they business who I meet before |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I totally judge someone on them, and do love giving/receiving them. I would never ask for one though. Its nice, but not that important!
Judge them on who they have met? Or on how they have ‘performed’ "
On the type of veri they choose to display. Anything overly graphic is offputting for me. Who they meet tells me a lot as well, I suppose its another layer of filtering really.
And as another poster said, having a nosey! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's like sexual trip advisor lol "
You mean shag advisor
And yes some woman has it tattooed on her
Think this tops fabs verified system
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CLOmqfc0qek |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm quite private sexually so keep my sexual veris hidden for my own pleasure. I always veri who I have met, some don't go through due to filters, some people don't display them, but I'll always display social veris and happily re-veri as well.
On another's profile, I use the veris they leave, as a small insight, as to how they treat other people. And yes I've discarded people when they have been veried by someone I wish to have no sexual contact with.
Oh and I love reading veris as some are absolutely hilarious "
This. And also I didnt realise till recently that veris don't go through due to filters!
Only took few years  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's like sexual trip advisor lol
You mean shag advisor
And yes some woman has it tattooed on her
Think this tops fabs verified system
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CLOmqfc0qek"
Should bring stars out as well just to bring the veri system up to speed and into 2023 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I keep mine hidden
Always like 1 veri from a person just so I can look back on it
But other than that don’t need one ever time I meet them
Also they hiden for a reason to meny people get caught up on fab politics and such
Oooo you meet so and so now I not meet you and so on
So best just to keep them hiden it’s none off they business who I meet before "
That makes sense…. Have it to look back but not to share as it’s your memory |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm quite private sexually so keep my sexual veris hidden for my own pleasure. I always veri who I have met, some don't go through due to filters, some people don't display them, but I'll always display social veris and happily re-veri as well.
On another's profile, I use the veris they leave, as a small insight, as to how they treat other people. And yes I've discarded people when they have been veried by someone I wish to have no sexual contact with.
Oh and I love reading veris as some are absolutely hilarious
This. And also I didnt realise till recently that veris don't go through due to filters!
Only took few years "
They don’t through? What do you mean? |
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We always find it helpful to look at veris of potential meets. We agree that they are subjective and just someone else's opinion but if a coherent pattern emerges across multiple veris it seems likely to be a more valid description of what the verified person is really like. Also agree that there is a sweet spot in terms of numbers - too many can be off-putting and too few can be a concern. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's like sexual trip advisor lol
You mean shag advisor
And yes some woman has it tattooed on her
Think this tops fabs verified system
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=CLOmqfc0qek
Should bring stars out as well just to bring the veri system up to speed and into 2023"
Ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I keep mine hidden
Always like 1 veri from a person just so I can look back on it
But other than that don’t need one ever time I meet them
Also they hiden for a reason to meny people get caught up on fab politics and such
Oooo you meet so and so now I not meet you and so on
So best just to keep them hiden it’s none off they business who I meet before
That makes sense…. Have it to look back but not to share as it’s your memory "
Yip exactly |
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If someone verifies me after meeting then I will verify them in return. I don't really care if they don't verify me though, as I've enough to prove I'm real, which is all I really want them for.
Some of my more explicit ones are hidden, as I don't care to have them on public display, and I very rarely get explicit in a veri I give unless I'm specifically asked to mention something.
I like to read veris on the profile of someone who interests me, but I don't get hung up on who has verified whom or what specifically happened when that person met someone else on here, I'm just quite nosy and like to see if they have a particular type they go for etc.
It seems to me that they're taken very seriously by some folk when there's no real need to over think them so much. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We always find it helpful to look at veris of potential meets. We agree that they are subjective and just someone else's opinion but if a coherent pattern emerges across multiple veris it seems likely to be a more valid description of what the verified person is really like. Also agree that there is a sweet spot in terms of numbers - too many can be off-putting and too few can be a concern. "
What’s your sweet spot? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually won't meet someone who isn't verified in person (cam veris don't count haha) . I think you can tell alot about someone by their veris so I always have a read and I love to receive them it's fun to see what people say  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually won't meet someone who isn't verified in person (cam veris don't count haha) . I think you can tell alot about someone by their veris so I always have a read and I love to receive them it's fun to see what people say "
I best go read yours so I can work out :p |
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We love falling down the veri rabbit hole, it’s always a good feeler for what they are like & the people they meet.
Graphic ones not so much, we don’t really want to know how well she took it or how hard he smashed! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We love falling down the veri rabbit hole, it’s always a good feeler for what they are like & the people they meet.
Graphic ones not so much, we don’t really want to know how well she took it or how hard he smashed! "
The veri hole can get you lost for hours ha |
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By *inkycatWoman
over a year ago
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I like to know someone I’m meeting has been verified but I’ve had more unverified meets than verified ones! I don’t like anything too graphic and have consciously made a choice not to meet someone because of something in a veri. Veris I do leave are very tame and I have occasionally verified a single guy we met in a club as I know it can help them. |
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I like veris, they do indeed confirm that the person is genuine, turns up and hopefully resembles their profile.
It's another layer to detecting fakes, not saying no veris is a red flag, but helps build a picture. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to know someone I’m meeting has been verified but I’ve had more unverified meets than verified ones! I don’t like anything too graphic and have consciously made a choice not to meet someone because of something in a veri. Veris I do leave are very tame and I have occasionally verified a single guy we met in a club as I know it can help them. "
Used differently for everyone it seems …. If they help then why not right |
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"I like to see people's veris, shows their real, I don't like overly graphic ones so don't display some.
Mrs
Love to know how u get a veri to prove ur real for those who wanna meet and dont trust yr real when u cant meet anyone in thr first pkace to get a veri from cause why ... cause i dont havr veris hahahaha"
Attand a social event, go to a club, go on cam, it's not difficult to get a verification if you try.
Don't think that having verifications makes it any easier to meet though.
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"I have veris but don't share them. Funnily enough, the women I have verified don't share theirs either."
Same. I was thinking this. The people I meet wouldn’t even ask for a veri. I don’t think it’s ever been discussed. I’d be really shocked if they did. I think I’m just attracted to likeminded people who are also very private. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer to see no veris at all on a profile. 4 max.
I find it really weird that on a site for adults, so many people need babysitting and trust that veris to 'prove' anything at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer to see no veris at all on a profile. 4 max.
I find it really weird that on a site for adults, so many people need babysitting and trust that veris to 'prove' anything at all. "
I guess the site is used by everyone differently … from ‘adults’ to trusters and doubters to private folk…. |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Morning fabville dwellers
What’s your thoughts on veris?
Do you insist on receiving / giving one post meet?
Do you determine response to profiles having read their previous meets?
Does what is written drive your expectations to how your meet with them will go?
Just over here curious about your thoughts Veris mean nothing except to forumites, you dont need them many women, couples will meet you without them, if you need them Op meet verified people but i personally concentrate on the person not the veris
I agree …your experience with that person is priority over who they have met? "
exactly and would you take the advice of a stranger youve never met i certainly would....... Dont miss out on this one |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Morning fabville dwellers
What’s your thoughts on veris?
Do you insist on receiving / giving one post meet?
Do you determine response to profiles having read their previous meets?
Does what is written drive your expectations to how your meet with them will go?
Just over here curious about your thoughts Veris mean nothing except to forumites, you dont need them many women, couples will meet you without them, if you need them Op meet verified people but i personally concentrate on the person not the veris
I agree …your experience with that person is priority over who they have met? exactly and would you take the advice of a stranger youve never met i certainly would....... Dont miss out on this one "
wouldn't |
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As others have said, veris are a way of proving someone's real. It's not an absolute prerequisite for me, I'll meet someone if their profile is appealing. I've been let down by as many profiles with veris as without.
Don't like judgment around other people's veris. If a profile doesn't appeal I just leave well alone. I think women and gay men in particular face a lot of judgment if veris look to be what some fabbers deem to be 'too high' in their minds. Some people don't put photos on because of home or work circumstances. Veris are the next best thing |
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People with upwards of 2/300 are amazing to meet them for fun sexy stories about Adventures with a majority of their verifications being Social interactions.
But saying that we do not bother verifying people unless pacifically contacted and requesteded and that's only the people we get naked with not some random chat in the back of club it's competition |
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I have a 'laissez-faire' approach to verifications. It's not a prerequisite for me, but I'm still open to giving and receiving.
When it's warranted I often send benign but light-hearted/witty verifications, often drafted and sent as a private message before formally posting it.
Hopefully I've kept mine (sent or received) purposely vague so that it's not immediately obvious which one is sexual or just a social. |
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"I like to see people's veris, shows their real, I don't like overly graphic ones so don't display some.
Mrs
Love to know how u get a veri to prove ur real for those who wanna meet and dont trust yr real when u cant meet anyone in thr first pkace to get a veri from cause why ... cause i dont havr veris hahahaha"
Find your local Social or club, go along talk to people, be friendly and ask if they wouldn't mind verifying you - easy enough. |
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"We always find it helpful to look at veris of potential meets. We agree that they are subjective and just someone else's opinion but if a coherent pattern emerges across multiple veris it seems likely to be a more valid description of what the verified person is really like. Also agree that there is a sweet spot in terms of numbers - too many can be off-putting and too few can be a concern.
What’s your sweet spot? "
For us probably between about 4 and 100. So not so much of a spot as a range. It will also depend upon how long a person has been on Fab - obvs people who have only joined recently won't have many. Others will have their own thoughts on this no doubt |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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I think the longer you are here they do more harm than good, particularly with forum people.
Ok to share a few social ones but best to be discrete when it comes to your sex life. I’ve never read an explicit one that hasn’t put me off the person
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I've met people and verified them but not received one in return and they have never displayed my verification. I've also had meets where neither of us verified each other. Not because there were bad meets but they were never discussed.
I've never seen a verification yet that would encourage me to meet someone but I've seen plenty that would put me off.
I don't put any value into other peoples opinions of potential meets but if the veries aren't consistent with the rest of their profile I'm not interested.
More often than not it's the person who has written the verification that is more off-putting than the content but I always make up my own mind about people. |
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