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When I find someone I can be friends with, as well as have great sex with, I want it all. All day sex sessions. Film nights with take aways. Sexy dinner and drinks nights. Nights away. Cooking new things for each other. Comedy nights. Live music… I’ll stop now  | |||
"Oh hi
When I find someone I can be friends with, as well as have great sex with, I want it all. All day sex sessions. Film nights with take aways. Sexy dinner and drinks nights. Nights away. Cooking new things for each other. Comedy nights. Live music… I’ll stop now "
You put it so eloquently | |||
"Oh hi
When I find someone I can be friends with, as well as have great sex with, I want it all. All day sex sessions. Film nights with take aways. Sexy dinner and drinks nights. Nights away. Cooking new things for each other. Comedy nights. Live music… I’ll stop now "a relationship basically  | |||
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"Oh hi
When I find someone I can be friends with, as well as have great sex with, I want it all. All day sex sessions. Film nights with take aways. Sexy dinner and drinks nights. Nights away. Cooking new things for each other. Comedy nights. Live music… I’ll stop now "Hey stranger, looking good
I guess that begs the question, what separates a FWB to a relationship for you ? Are you able to go through all the above with someone whilst withholding feelings or do you let nature take its course and let be what will be ? | |||
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"Of course we all want different but with my fbs, fwbs, I do meals, drinks, visit art galleries and generally hang out when we have time to spend together. Will spend nights, weekends, holidays together. Yes we hold hands. I guess it’s like a relationship in miniature. For that period of time that we are in each other’s company. When we part there are no emotions, no yearnings involved. We crack on with our own thing, until we mutually agree another time could be a week, a month, 6months later" Do you do wet suit removal techniques | |||
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"I guess that begs the question, what separates a FWB to a relationship for you ? Are you able to go through all the above with someone whilst withholding feelings or do you let nature take its course and let be what will be ? " Not much separation! 
But I can be sensible and gently extract myself if I feel I’m getting too into someone. | |||
"I think it would probably vary depending on the other person, but someone I could talk to about anything and everything, spend time with outside of the bedroom, but not be exclusive with." Should there be more time spent in or out of the bedroom? | |||
"Of course we all want different but with my fbs, fwbs, I do meals, drinks, visit art galleries and generally hang out when we have time to spend together. Will spend nights, weekends, holidays together. Yes we hold hands. I guess it’s like a relationship in miniature. For that period of time that we are in each other’s company. When we part there are no emotions, no yearnings involved. We crack on with our own thing, until we mutually agree another time could be a week, a month, 6months later" That's a good way of looking at it  | |||
"Oh hi
When I find someone I can be friends with, as well as have great sex with, I want it all. All day sex sessions. Film nights with take aways. Sexy dinner and drinks nights. Nights away. Cooking new things for each other. Comedy nights. Live music… I’ll stop now a relationship basically " | |||
"Of course we all want different but with my fbs, fwbs, I do meals, drinks, visit art galleries and generally hang out when we have time to spend together. Will spend nights, weekends, holidays together. Yes we hold hands. I guess it’s like a relationship in miniature. For that period of time that we are in each other’s company. When we part there are no emotions, no yearnings involved. We crack on with our own thing, until we mutually agree another time could be a week, a month, 6months later" I LOVE art galleries! | |||
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"I guess that begs the question, what separates a FWB to a relationship for you ? Are you able to go through all the above with someone whilst withholding feelings or do you let nature take its course and let be what will be ? Not much separation!
But I can be sensible and gently extract myself if I feel I’m getting too into someone."Ah we're the opposite, when I feel like I'm getting into someone it's because I gently insert myself | |||
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"Someone who you actually like - not just lust after - as a person, and enjoy being around in normal, non-sexual social situations... as well as enjoying sex with them. " Perfect | |||
"I guess that begs the question, what separates a FWB to a relationship for you ? Are you able to go through all the above with someone whilst withholding feelings or do you let nature take its course and let be what will be ? Not much separation!
But I can be sensible and gently extract myself if I feel I’m getting too into someone.
Ah we're the opposite, when I feel like I'm getting into someone it's because I gently insert myself " | |||
"Oh hi
When I find someone I can be friends with, as well as have great sex with, I want it all. All day sex sessions. Film nights with take aways. Sexy dinner and drinks nights. Nights away. Cooking new things for each other. Comedy nights. Live music… I’ll stop now "Have you just put your application in | |||
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"Both of us are on the same line on the same page in the same book. We put greater emphasis on the friendship part and that means no pressure at all when it comes to the benefits part. We trust each other implicitly, support each other through difficult days and enjoy great sex together. " You said it better than I could  now do you faf | |||
"I have a couple of FWB things going on... one very close to a relationship - we go out on dates - days out, nights out, cook for each other, pop round for cuppas, have all night sex sessions, and other nights where we might just cuddle all night. We still have other separate fab encounters and are fully supportive of that for each other, but we keep our vanilla lives separate from.our friendship. My family know about him as a friend but I've never felt the need to introduce him. I have another friend where we meet for coffee and dinner between our meets - which are always over night in hotels. In both instances I consider them to be confidantes and talk to them both regularly about almost everything that's going on in my life. Both friendships have very different dynamics and give me emotional and physical nourishment in different ways, and yes I'd miss either one of them if they weren't in my life for whatever reason, but knowing they are friends rather than partners keeps the emotional commitment under control." Do you have PlayStation parties | |||
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"Do you have PlayStation parties " Not yet... but I've borrowed games and regularly get given hints and tips! | |||
"Both of us are on the same line on the same page in the same book. We put greater emphasis on the friendship part and that means no pressure at all when it comes to the benefits part. We trust each other implicitly, support each other through difficult days and enjoy great sex together. You said it better than I could now do you faf "You're so beneficial at times | |||
"Both of us are on the same line on the same page in the same book. We put greater emphasis on the friendship part and that means no pressure at all when it comes to the benefits part. We trust each other implicitly, support each other through difficult days and enjoy great sex together. You said it better than I could now do you faf
You're so beneficial at times "Why thank you | |||
"I think it would probably vary depending on the other person, but someone I could talk to about anything and everything, spend time with outside of the bedroom, but not be exclusive with. Should there be more time spent in or out of the bedroom? " Definitely in, the benefits part is very important | |||
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"I'm fascinated. Love how you're able to have these amazing experiences without pesky feelings getting involved. I tried, but couldn't do it. "Of course feelings are involved, humans are social species. Why do you think they shouldn't be? | |||
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"I'm fascinated. Love how you're able to have these amazing experiences without pesky feelings getting involved. I tried, but couldn't do it.
Of course feelings are involved, humans are social species. Why do you think they shouldn't be?"The gloaty ‘sounds like a relationship’ comments at the start of the thread  | |||
"I'm fascinated. Love how you're able to have these amazing experiences without pesky feelings getting involved. I tried, but couldn't do it.
Of course feelings are involved, humans are social species. Why do you think they shouldn't be?
The gloaty ‘sounds like a relationship’ comments at the start of the thread "It’s quite nice to ignore other comments and be confident you can enjoy a relationship on your terms, whether it’s a conventional relationship, something very different or somewhere in the middle. TL;DR: fuck what anyone else thinks | |||
"It’s quite nice to ignore other comments and be confident you can enjoy a relationship on your terms, whether it’s a conventional relationship, something very different or somewhere in the middle. TL;DR: fuck what anyone else thinks " you’re right | |||
"...fuck what anyone else thinks "I'm autistic, most of the time I don't recognise that anyone else thinks anything | |||
"The gloaty ‘sounds like a relationship’ comments at the start of the thread "I guess to me, it is a relationship. Just not one where I want to move in with someone and get married. There are a small number of ladies/couples who I enjoy their company...for a limited time. Call it a relationship if you want, why not? | |||
"All the fun without the feelings. Someone who can wet your knickers by making you laugh and horny. Someone you feel comfortable enough with to rock no make up and just his t shirt. Someone who doesn't blow up your phone but geniunely cares enough to check in. Someone who doesn't need directions to the orgasm button. Overall a good person with a good heart and a great penis "1,000,000% this | |||
" ... Of course feelings are involved, humans are social species. Why do you think they shouldn't be?" Neatly countered by the post further down "I'm autistic, most of the time I don't recognise that anyone else thinks anything " Not all humans are the same! | |||
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"All the fun without the feelings. Someone who can wet your knickers by making you laugh and horny. Someone you feel comfortable enough with to rock no make up and just his t shirt. Someone who doesn't blow up your phone but geniunely cares enough to check in. Someone who doesn't need directions to the orgasm button. Overall a good person with a good heart and a great penis "Couldn't have put it better myself!  | |||
"I want my fwb’s firstly to be friends, people I like hanging out with, spending time together... ... As with regular friendships, I don’t want just one friend, so I don’t want just one fwb, I want all of the above with several people and for them to have the same, and we each meet up when diaries allow but we aren’t each other’s sole priority. " Yes! And just as with friendships just because you have more friends doesn't mean you care less about any of them | |||
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"I'm fascinated. Love how you're able to have these amazing experiences without pesky feelings getting involved. I tried, but couldn't do it.
Of course feelings are involved, humans are social species. Why do you think they shouldn't be?"It's not that I think they shouldn't be no feelings at all. I mean the feeling of wanting more with that person when it isn't supposed to be more than FWB and the feeling isn't mutual. It's why I used pesky. I could have worded it better. What I'm reading here sounds great. It makes me see what other people get from fwb as I honestly didn't get it because of my experiences. I'm low-key annoyed with myself for missing out, while happy that others are having a good time. | |||
"Oh hi
When I find someone I can be friends with, as well as have great sex with, I want it all. All day sex sessions. Film nights with take aways. Sexy dinner and drinks nights. Nights away. Cooking new things for each other. Comedy nights. Live music… I’ll stop now "That’s a girlfriend/boyfriend deal surely.
Op. Something similar like this…. but it’s more about communication, friends are real with each other and talk. It’s not just about the sex you might share. | |||
"Oh hi
When I find someone I can be friends with, as well as have great sex with, I want it all. All day sex sessions. Film nights with take aways. Sexy dinner and drinks nights. Nights away. Cooking new things for each other. Comedy nights. Live music… I’ll stop now ". Same for me | |||
