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Fab Personality Vrs real life Personality
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
Do you act the same here as you would in the real world,,?
I try my best to be as normal as possible on here,,
For example i have never gone up to an attractive lady in a bar/club and whipped my cock out and shouted,, hey, what you think of my wee lad there missus,,
Likewise i have never send a lady a cock pic here and said Hola,
So am i alone on this or will we get folk confessing to being Fab trench coat flashers,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm the same sarcastic knobhead but do I ask strangers to glaze my gash.. no I don't."
Jesus......as if we both pasted the exact same start to a reply at the same time. It's fate....we must fuck immediately |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm definitely alot more annoying and less sexy on here. By less sexy I mean I make threads about stinky dicks whereas I can actually get women in the mood in real life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Flashing strangers… no
Exactly the same in life outside of Fab… hell yes!
This is me and that’s all I ever will be  "
And you is all you ever need to be ,a beautiful lady inside and out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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they way i chat with people is who i am genuinely.
however my fab persona is just that. in the 'real world', im as awkward as they come, with very little confidence. Px  |
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I'd swear I was genuinely me but reading this I'm thinking ........ if I came face to face with a 6foot 6inch bearded, tatted, aggressive type - I'd prob make sure I was pretty far away before I kicked her bike over. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"they way i chat with people is who i am genuinely.
however my fab persona is just that. in the 'real world', im as awkward as they come, with very little confidence. Px "
You seem lovely and have great boobs. You deserve confidence.
Also what's with every redheaded female being hot as fuck on this site?! |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"Do you act the same here as you would in the real world,,?
I try my best to be as normal as possible on here,,
For example i have never gone up to an attractive lady in a bar/club and whipped my cock out and shouted,, hey, what you think of my wee lad there missus,,
Likewise i have never send a lady a cock pic here and said Hola,
So am i alone on this or will we get folk confessing to being Fab trench coat flashers,
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I am the same as here I am a bit more open about swinging and the lifestyle on here but I treat people the same |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"I'd swear I was genuinely me but reading this I'm thinking ........ if I came face to face with a 6foot 6inch bearded, tatted, aggressive type - I'd prob make sure I was pretty far away before I kicked her bike over. "
wouldn't we all |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"they way i chat with people is who i am genuinely.
however my fab persona is just that. in the 'real world', im as awkward as they come, with very little confidence. Px "
really,
I didnt see that coming, |
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"Flashing strangers… no
Exactly the same in life outside of Fab… hell yes!
This is me and that’s all I ever will be
And you is all you ever need to be ,a beautiful lady inside and out "
How lovely of you to say. Thank you  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I'm quiet as a mouse in real life and wouldn't say boo to a goose.
A and here??? "
I'm quiet as a mouse and wouldn't say boo to a goose, reserved, never share my opinions and generally don't speak unless spoken to.
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"I'm quiet as a mouse in real life and wouldn't say boo to a goose.
A and here???
I'm quiet as a mouse and wouldn't say boo to a goose, reserved, never share my opinions and generally don't speak unless spoken to.
A
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so the same in both worlds so,,
Way it should be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm probably a little more compassionate in real life.
I'm more cynical on/of fab
Is that because you reckon theres a lot more BS here than in your RL. "
I'm not sure about more but it's certainly easier to fabricate BS on here, and easier to judge people face to face
So healthy dose of cynicism goes a long way |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
Manchester (he/him) |
I think that no one will be exactly the same on here as in person as the written word, plus forum rules and the impact of wanting others to view us favourably means that we will always curate responses to a certain degree.
Whether that translates as a persona is within the realms of subjective opinion and a matter of perspective |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"I'm probably a little more compassionate in real life.
I'm more cynical on/of fab
Is that because you reckon theres a lot more BS here than in your RL.
I'm not sure about more but it's certainly easier to fabricate BS on here, and easier to judge people face to face
So healthy dose of cynicism goes a long way "
agreed  |
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By *red333Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Do you act the same here as you would in the real world,,?
I try my best to be as normal as possible on here,,
For example i have never gone up to an attractive lady in a bar/club and whipped my cock out and shouted,, hey, what you think of my wee lad there missus,,
Likewise i have never send a lady a cock pic here and said Hola,
So am i alone on this or will we get folk confessing to being Fab trench coat flashers,
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I am with you on this, i dont send cock pics, i have had ladies comment on my penis and my personality is the same here as it is in life  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I'm quiet as a mouse in real life and wouldn't say boo to a goose.
A and here???
I'm quiet as a mouse and wouldn't say boo to a goose, reserved, never share my opinions and generally don't speak unless spoken to.
A
so the same in both worlds so,,
Way it should be "
Actually neither is true.
I'm the same in real life as I am on here. Not worried about fitting in, appealing to anyone in particular just to seems popular or needing to feel part of a certain group. I don't hold back my views and am happy to defend my opinions when necessary. I'm confident in my abilities and skills, and comfortable on my own or in company.
I only put what I originally put to show how easy it is for people to claim to be whatever they want online and potentially have other assume they're being open and accurate with their portrayal of themselves and their viewpoints.
This is the internet. You can be whoever you want to be online and some will never know the difference between that and reality.
Sometimes that's good. Sometimes not.
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"The same but not as confident as my pics suggest"
Your pictures look great
I'm a bit shy in real life and a little bit here but over last few weeks got help from a nice lassie here on re-doing my profile and its getting a few results.
I'm also, cheeky when folk gey to know me |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"I'm quiet as a mouse in real life and wouldn't say boo to a goose.
A and here???
I'm quiet as a mouse and wouldn't say boo to a goose, reserved, never share my opinions and generally don't speak unless spoken to.
A
so the same in both worlds so,,
Way it should be
Actually neither is true.
I'm the same in real life as I am on here. Not worried about fitting in, appealing to anyone in particular just to seems popular or needing to feel part of a certain group. I don't hold back my views and am happy to defend my opinions when necessary. I'm confident in my abilities and skills, and comfortable on my own or in company.
I only put what I originally put to show how easy it is for people to claim to be whatever they want online and potentially have other assume they're being open and accurate with their portrayal of themselves and their viewpoints.
This is the internet. You can be whoever you want to be online and some will never know the difference between that and reality.
Sometimes that's good. Sometimes not.
A"
but still the way it should be lol,
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IRL it would be unusual for me to be surrounded by studying women in varying states of undress.
I’m also in glorious technicolour.
But I’m still a glib little git with far too much lip for my own good |
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
Back of Nowhere and Beyond |
In the world I'm terrified of people, anxious about everything and oftentimes very quiet.
But in a social situation you would never know it. One to one that side of me comes out when I am comfortable with a person, but pretty much "Posh" is the part of me that most people will see.
The rest of me is still a raging pervert and has verbal diarrhea 90% of the time though.
I'm genuinely not sure if that answered the question or not, OP. So, FAF?
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I'm finding I have to watch what I write in the forums as what I see as a bit of gentle ribbing gets me a rush of replies telling me all the things I'm doing wrong.
In the real face to face world, swinging and non swinging, I seem to do OK and can't actually remember upsetting anyone. Liz.
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By *exieTV/TS
over a year ago
Cheltenham |
"they way i chat with people is who i am genuinely.
however my fab persona is just that. in the 'real world', im as awkward as they come, with very little confidence. Px "
Do you believe that, (and I’m not saying you do or are) but does this warrant, in your eyes, indefinite and unlimited freedoms to what constitutes perhaps by definition ‘trolls-Dom ’ and if that can be considered a legitimate mental state and ultimately connects to some ‘disorder’ or other.’
I’m asking as I’m experiencing extreme amounts of (what I see as narcissistic and the ‘in the long game’ sociopathic behavioural type) directed abuse like excessive and non stop ghosting - here, email and or phone; maybe it’s a worrying new badge of honour or pleasure past-time to some people some of who I know or/and knew. Some I have caught in flagrante.
What I’m wanting to ask; do you think you’d be this person online if you hadn’t been so awkward in real life? And how far does anyone’s patience need to be entertaining a persons ‘crass banter… and toxicity’ when in fact in a real life situation I’d walk away and cease contact. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I never reveal my opinions on here because I'm desperate for people to like me. I keep it sickly sweet and arse licking so that people will Fab my pics and beg to fuck me. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Ish. I type as I talk. Different people see different sides to me, with some I'm more relaxed. Others I'm more free to indulge in my nerdy side unashamedly. Others still I'm more reserved because I tend to keep the majority of people at arms length.
I'm probably more prone to using wanky lexicon away from the site. But generally yes, you can read my overall mood fairly easily going by what I post. The topics I comment on. It's quite an apt insight into how I'm feeling.
I'm less prone to getting my boobs out though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pretty much the same... I'm generally a nice/caring person and that carries over... But I'm waaaaay more impatient in person though and take no prisoners  |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"Ish. I type as I talk. Different people see different sides to me, with some I'm more relaxed. Others I'm more free to indulge in my nerdy side unashamedly. Others still I'm more reserved because I tend to keep the majority of people at arms length.
I'm probably more prone to using wanky lexicon away from the site. But generally yes, you can read my overall mood fairly easily going by what I post. The topics I comment on. It's quite an apt insight into how I'm feeling.
I'm less prone to getting my boobs out though. "
i was hoping you wouldn't say that,
I had this image of you strutting round boobs out, cars and buses crashing left and right,  |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"I'm pretty much the same... I'm generally a nice/caring person and that carries over... But I'm waaaaay more impatient in person though and take no prisoners "
i think i have a longer fuse in real life than a do here, that may boil down to this positive intervention we have in work,,  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Ish. I type as I talk. Different people see different sides to me, with some I'm more relaxed. Others I'm more free to indulge in my nerdy side unashamedly. Others still I'm more reserved because I tend to keep the majority of people at arms length.
I'm probably more prone to using wanky lexicon away from the site. But generally yes, you can read my overall mood fairly easily going by what I post. The topics I comment on. It's quite an apt insight into how I'm feeling.
I'm less prone to getting my boobs out though. i was hoping you wouldn't say that,
I had this image of you strutting round boobs out, cars and buses crashing left and right, "
Ha! No, day to day I dress quite... conservatively. Like a slightly slutty grad student. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty much the same... I'm generally a nice/caring person and that carries over... But I'm waaaaay more impatient in person though and take no prisoners i think i have a longer fuse in real life than a do here, that may boil down to this positive intervention we have in work,, "
There isn't much to wind me up on fab .. It's just a website that i can delete if i want to |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"I'm pretty much the same... I'm generally a nice/caring person and that carries over... But I'm waaaaay more impatient in person though and take no prisoners i think i have a longer fuse in real life than a do here, that may boil down to this positive intervention we have in work,,
There isn't much to wind me up on fab .. It's just a website that i can delete if i want to "
my way of thinking exactly,
Saying that missus i do get wound up by the bully msgs from time to time, |
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By *he Ambassador OP Man
over a year ago
IRLANDA. / Prague. / Cil Dara |
"Ish. I type as I talk. Different people see different sides to me, with some I'm more relaxed. Others I'm more free to indulge in my nerdy side unashamedly. Others still I'm more reserved because I tend to keep the majority of people at arms length.
I'm probably more prone to using wanky lexicon away from the site. But generally yes, you can read my overall mood fairly easily going by what I post. The topics I comment on. It's quite an apt insight into how I'm feeling.
I'm less prone to getting my boobs out though. i was hoping you wouldn't say that,
I had this image of you strutting round boobs out, cars and buses crashing left and right,
Ha! No, day to day I dress quite... conservatively. Like a slightly slutty grad student. "
ohhh you had me at Slightly Slutty,,
Well actually you had me ages ago at nipple clamp but Sussst, im trying to keep the cool dude image alive here, |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm pretty much the same... I'm generally a nice/caring person and that carries over... But I'm waaaaay more impatient in person though and take no prisoners i think i have a longer fuse in real life than a do here, that may boil down to this positive intervention we have in work,,
There isn't much to wind me up on fab .. It's just a website that i can delete if i want to my way of thinking exactly,
Saying that missus i do get wound up by the bully msgs from time to time, "
Having had a time out for calling one out, i now just steer clear and participate in the threads i enjoy |
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Irl shy, introverted and awkward until I'm comfortable around people, on here they can't see that so I can waffle to my hearts delight and show the personality that people see once I'm comfortable with them x
Tinder x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to spread my cock pics equally between fab, Facebook, and Linked In.
So like most, I'm the same off fab as on it. Other than having less fab jail time. Thanks mods
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By *piderBunnyCouple
over a year ago
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"I tend to spread my cock pics equally between fab, Facebook, and Linked In.
So like most, I'm the same off fab as on it. Other than having less fab jail time. Thanks mods
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See... I knew we should be Facebook friends!
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