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By *gentlegiant66 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering

Can somebody please explain why the number of teenage girls that are transitioning has increased so dramatically over the last decade ?

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By *anes HubbyCouple  over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay

Why would anyone on here know the answer to that?

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple  over a year ago

Lincoln

Can you please explain why this is bothering you? Live and let live.

K

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By *tephTV67TV/TS  over a year ago

Cheshire

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Society is improving to the point where people can accept themselves as they are and be accepted. Long may it continue.

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By *cottishVikingBearMan  over a year ago

N. London

Probably a combination of factors, including, but not limited to:

Increasing social acceptance of transgender people.

Improved medical advances, allowing better, less surgically invasive and easier transitioning.

More focus on an individual's identity, and a societal acceptance of allowing young people to be themselves.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman  over a year ago

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Because they feel as if the world maybe a bit more accepting than it was even only 10 years ago.

I can't see how feeling that you can be who ever you need to be, and being comfortable to live your life how you choose to can be a bad thing.

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By *gentlegiant66 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering


"Can you please explain why this is bothering you? Live and let live.

K"

Why is asking a simple question so problematic?

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey

First define your terms . What is a girl ?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Because they feel as if the world maybe a bit more accepting than it was even only 10 years ago.

I can't see how feeling that you can be who ever you need to be, and being comfortable to live your life how you choose to can be a bad thing."

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By *ittlebirdWoman  over a year ago

The Big Smoke

The honest answer I would give you OP is because they can. If they want to then they will. If they didn’t want to they wouldn’t. Simples really

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey

If they believe they've been trapped in the wrong body since birth ..then are they a girl ? . The mind boggles ..I was trapped in a females body once ..but then my mum gave birth

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By *gentlegiant66 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering

Because I have personal involvement, somebody in the family is considering transitioning and I would like to gain others opinions

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By *anes HubbyCouple  over a year ago

Babbacombe Torquay


"Because I have personal involvement, somebody in the family is considering transitioning and I would like to gain others opinions "

Then that family member is the most obvious person to ask surely?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Because I have personal involvement, somebody in the family is considering transitioning and I would like to gain others opinions "

I think he should get professional counselling to support him.

If appropriate, perhaps you should get some for yourself, if this is troubling you.

Ultimately it's his choice and he'll do it with or without you.

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By *gentlegiant66 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering

I find it very odd that such a question is so troublesome, does it read that I'm questioning the person involved? I'm simply trying to gain understanding of others experiences

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By *ed VoluptaWoman  over a year ago

Wirral.


"I find it very odd that such a question is so troublesome, does it read that I'm questioning the person involved? I'm simply trying to gain understanding of others experiences "

Because asking a question around that subject on here and some folks will label you transphobic

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By *gentlegiant66 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering


"I find it very odd that such a question is so troublesome, does it read that I'm questioning the person involved? I'm simply trying to gain understanding of others experiences

Because asking a question around that subject on here and some folks will label you transphobic "

That implies I have an irrational fear of the trans community, I don't! I can now see why the subject is so problematic

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By *penbicoupleCouple  over a year ago

Northampton


"Because I have personal involvement, somebody in the family is considering transitioning and I would like to gain others opinions "

If someone in your family is considering transitioning, I'd suggest you might find better answers other than on fab. If this place - as much as we love it - was to become an epitome of informed research on issues of great personal importance then someone help us all!

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Because I have personal involvement, somebody in the family is considering transitioning and I would like to gain others opinions

If someone in your family is considering transitioning, I'd suggest you might find better answers other than on fab. If this place - as much as we love it - was to become an epitome of informed research on issues of great personal importance then someone help us all! "

So much this

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By *penbicoupleCouple  over a year ago

Northampton


"Because asking a question around that subject on here and some folks will label you transphobic

...That implies I have an irrational fear of the trans community, I don't! I can now see why the subject is so problematic "

You're the only person around here using the word 'problematic' (twice), or framing things in that way. Why is that?

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By *gentlegiant66 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering


"Because asking a question around that subject on here and some folks will label you transphobic

...That implies I have an irrational fear of the trans community, I don't! I can now see why the subject is so problematic

You're the only person around here using the word 'problematic' (twice), or framing things in that way. Why is that?"

I asked a question to try and gain understanding of a situation and get questioned as to why I'm so interested. Why is the subject so toxic ???

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan  over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Because asking a question around that subject on here and some folks will label you transphobic

...That implies I have an irrational fear of the trans community, I don't! I can now see why the subject is so problematic

You're the only person around here using the word 'problematic' (twice), or framing things in that way. Why is that?

I asked a question to try and gain understanding of a situation and get questioned as to why I'm so interested. Why is the subject so toxic ???"

The subject is such a toxic one because there is a large minority of people who still think that trans rights shouldn’t be allowed, that transitioning shouldn’t be allowed and that there are only Males and Females… basically bigotry

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By *gentlegiant66 OP   Man  over a year ago

Kettering


"Because asking a question around that subject on here and some folks will label you transphobic

...That implies I have an irrational fear of the trans community, I don't! I can now see why the subject is so problematic

You're the only person around here using the word 'problematic' (twice), or framing things in that way. Why is that?

I asked a question to try and gain understanding of a situation and get questioned as to why I'm so interested. Why is the subject so toxic ???

The subject is such a toxic one because there is a large minority of people who still think that trans rights shouldn’t be allowed, that transitioning shouldn’t be allowed and that there are only Males and Females… basically bigotry "

Of course there are only males and females, it's simple biology, can't be argued, can it ?

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By *lephantisMan  over a year ago

Oxford


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Of course there are only males and females, it's simple biology, can't be argued, can it ?"

From what I have seen on this thread, you certainly cannot argue.

I'll grant you simple, though.

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By *amantha TSWoman  over a year ago

Swindon

OP - if you're looking for a greater understanding or a compassionate place to ask questions or research... First thank you for doing so. Taking an active interest and becoming an ally is a really supportive thing to do.

But Fab really isn't a great place to be looking! Might I suggest Mermaids, who are more aligned for under 18 transgender people, and their families. Also there's a lot of friendly folk on Reddit, r/asktransgender is a good place to start

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By *penbicoupleCouple  over a year ago

Northampton


"Of course there are only males and females, it's simple biology, can't be argued, can it ?"

And, of course, no one saw that coming.

OP, you are the only person here who has described things as 'problematic' and you introduced the word 'toxic.' Almost as if you were anticipating - or even wanting - a bigger response than you got.

You claim you just wanted a discussion to gain understanding, but then you offer statements like that above which you know would be inflammatory (and display an alarming attitude towards your apparent family member).

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By *mber and FireCouple  over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

There's a big long piece of writing attached to this that I'm not posting, because it's huge and rambly. But I will say this.

One day we'll catch up with how fundamentally important, and possibly unique human consciousness is. On a level parr with biology, genetics and physiology in general. It (may) gives us (the concept of) free will; we all chase it and crave it in our own ways. We all consider it imperative to our own survival. Choice matters to us, deeply entwined with everything we do.

If you had a choice to make yourself feel more comfortable in your own skin, wouldn't you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Why would anyone on here know the answer to that?"

Have you seen the professionals on here who know everything?

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman  over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I find it very odd that such a question is so troublesome, does it read that I'm questioning the person involved? I'm simply trying to gain understanding of others experiences "

Unfortunately OP your original question was much more narrow than that, and in written correspondence people take it at face value.

It's great you're trying to understand the situation, but going to more relevant sources of information as already suggested would be the best start.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"There's a big long piece of writing attached to this that I'm not posting, because it's huge and rambly. But I will say this.

One day we'll catch up with how fundamentally important, and possibly unique human consciousness is. On a level parr with biology, genetics and physiology in general. It (may) gives us (the concept of) free will; we all chase it and crave it in our own ways. We all consider it imperative to our own survival. Choice matters to us, deeply entwined with everything we do.

If you had a choice to make yourself feel more comfortable in your own skin, wouldn't you?"

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

We had it at school at the 90's. Kids need to forge their own identities at their own pace, they can also change their mind if they want to. All we should do is support them. I find it curious how many are actually trans species atm. Schools are finding that particularly hard to cope with

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because I have personal involvement, somebody in the family is considering transitioning and I would like to gain others opinions "

The only opinion that matters, is the one of the person transitioning

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We had it at school at the 90's. Kids need to forge their own identities at their own pace, they can also change their mind if they want to. All we should do is support them. I find it curious how many are actually trans species atm. Schools are finding that particularly hard to cope with"

Trans species?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can somebody please explain why the number of teenage girls that are transitioning has increased so dramatically over the last decade ?"

It could be the same reason there seems to be more gay/ bi/ etc people these days. Because it's more acceptable than it was in years gone by and people feel they can be themselves.

There may be different reasons and I think it should be openly discussed and not shut down as being transphobic. Asking questions should always be allowed.

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"We had it at school at the 90's. Kids need to forge their own identities at their own pace, they can also change their mind if they want to. All we should do is support them. I find it curious how many are actually trans species atm. Schools are finding that particularly hard to cope with

Trans species?"

Yes. Identifying as animals, being a "furry" at school

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"We had it at school at the 90's. Kids need to forge their own identities at their own pace, they can also change their mind if they want to. All we should do is support them. I find it curious how many are actually trans species atm. Schools are finding that particularly hard to cope with

Trans species?

Yes. Identifying as animals, being a "furry" at school"

Ffs. I can imagine that in primary school but not older.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Brainwashing

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan  over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK


"Because asking a question around that subject on here and some folks will label you transphobic

...That implies I have an irrational fear of the trans community, I don't! I can now see why the subject is so problematic

You're the only person around here using the word 'problematic' (twice), or framing things in that way. Why is that?

I asked a question to try and gain understanding of a situation and get questioned as to why I'm so interested. Why is the subject so toxic ???

The subject is such a toxic one because there is a large minority of people who still think that trans rights shouldn’t be allowed, that transitioning shouldn’t be allowed and that there are only Males and Females… basically bigotry

Of course there are only males and females, it's simple biology, can't be argued, can it ?"

There are numerous relatively recent scientific studies I could link to if it was allowed on here that say otherwise…. However , thanks to this comment, it’s becoming clear that you won’t actually look at any of them because you actually wanted to just throw your outdated attitude out into the world…

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

They're not really in comparison to young men. I have a theory that T levels decreasing among men over the years alongside a lot of societal influence may have something to do with that side of things, but I digress.

As people have said though, to each their own. If it doesn't hurt you then it's no bother and these people can get on with their lives unabated.

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By *hrista BellendWoman  over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"We had it at school at the 90's. Kids need to forge their own identities at their own pace, they can also change their mind if they want to. All we should do is support them. I find it curious how many are actually trans species atm. Schools are finding that particularly hard to cope with

Trans species?

Yes. Identifying as animals, being a "furry" at school

Ffs. I can imagine that in primary school but not older. "

It's in the secondary schools and some do go on to be in a furry dynamic, it's when they use it to be disruptive in class that is the pain, barking at inappropriate times is unfair to the other students trying to learn

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

OP, I'd suggest you stop this thread, pause, and status a new one.

Taker the time to think about what you want to understand. Relate it to what you are going through. And take care of your language.

Your first post read a soemwhate sensationalist "dramatic increase" and this thread has taken that energy.

And it shows no real empathy to your family member.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Can somebody please explain why the number of teenage girls that are transitioning has increased so dramatically over the last decade ?"

Yawn I'm going back to sleep, im don't care

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Yawn I'm going back to sleep, im don't care "

Cool thanks for posting, don't come back.

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By *ora the explorerWoman  over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"We had it at school at the 90's. Kids need to forge their own identities at their own pace, they can also change their mind if they want to. All we should do is support them. I find it curious how many are actually trans species atm. Schools are finding that particularly hard to cope with

Trans species?

Yes. Identifying as animals, being a "furry" at school

Ffs. I can imagine that in primary school but not older.

It's in the secondary schools and some do go on to be in a furry dynamic, it's when they use it to be disruptive in class that is the pain, barking at inappropriate times is unfair to the other students trying to learn"

Really?! And people think this is acceptable?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"

Yawn I'm going back to sleep, im don't care

Cool thanks for posting, don't come back. "

Just for you I'll pop back on

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Knew it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Knew it"

Peace and love my friend have a great day.

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By *eavenscentitCouple  over a year ago

barnstaple

As a teenage girl many years ago, I wanted to be male. I would go as far to say I hated my developing body. When I look back it was due to inequalities I experienced as a female, oversexualisation that made me feel unsafe, sexual abuse, and a feeling of being a second class citizen. That is many years ago but, I feel the same now except I recognise what I wanted was freedom and real equality. People undergoing any procedures need understanding and support.

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By *itvclaireTV/TS  over a year ago

Birmingham


"There's a big long piece of writing attached to this that I'm not posting, because it's huge and rambly. But I will say this.

One day we'll catch up with how fundamentally important, and possibly unique human consciousness is. On a level parr with biology, genetics and physiology in general. It (may) gives us (the concept of) free will; we all chase it and crave it in our own ways. We all consider it imperative to our own survival. Choice matters to us, deeply entwined with everything we do.

If you had a choice to make yourself feel more comfortable in your own skin, wouldn't you?"

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By *ophieslutTV/TS  over a year ago

Central

People are more aware of their needs and opportunities. Thankfully, the world has moved on in many ways and is somewhat less bigoted and prejudiced, including supporting more opportunities for women and minorities. It's fairly complex.

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By *oiluvfunMan  over a year ago

Penrith


"Can somebody please explain why the number of teenage girls that are transitioning has increased so dramatically over the last decade ?"

Maybe they just want ‘more’…..

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By *cott73Man  over a year ago

brighton


"I'd like to know if anyone can explain why a Kit Kat Chunky is around half the size it was a couple of years ago

Ughhhhhhh. I know, right?!!!

It’s an abomination. "

You'll be livid when you see what they've done to the humble Yorkie!

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By *BW TV JadaTV/TS  over a year ago

North West

It's probably similar to the way that the number of people identifying as left-handed shot up rapidly in the early 20th century when it was seen less and less as a taboo.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking?

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By *uninlondon69Man  over a year ago

Tower Bridge South


"I'd like to know if anyone can explain why a Kit Kat Chunky is around half the size it was a couple of years ago

Ughhhhhhh. I know, right?!!!

It’s an abomination.

You'll be livid when you see what they've done to the humble Yorkie!"

Are they letting girls buy them now? Fucking woke CONfectionary!

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By *sBlueWoman  over a year ago

Up North


"Can somebody please explain why the number of teenage girls that are transitioning has increased so dramatically over the last decade ?"

Because they can

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By *ackformore100Man  over a year ago

Tin town

I think it's a good and relevant question op. I'm surprised some people are trying so hard to insult or challenge asking the question.

I wonder what the impact of Wall to wall advertising and celebration has on those teens who are impressionable. Now before anyone overheats. A legitimate concern. A good friends daughter sadly took her own life before she had the opportunity to decide what was best for her. Surely it deserves sensible adult discussion?

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By *ackformore100Man  over a year ago

Tin town


"The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking? "

Yes and no. Conceptually of course it's as simple. Today matthew I'm going to transition. But reality is emotions, mental well being, school life, home life, relationships all need appropriate consideration. I can't imagine how complex it is.

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking?

Yes and no. Conceptually of course it's as simple. Today matthew I'm going to transition. But reality is emotions, mental well being, school life, home life, relationships all need appropriate consideration. I can't imagine how complex it is. "

Controversial question here ..but without societies overbearing influence would these young people feel the need to transition ??? IV seen plenty of trans people who wish they'd never made the transition and maybe such a young age is not necessarily the right to be discussing the subject .. if you can't have sex until 16 you certainly shouldn't be allowed to change sex before you're 16 .

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking?

Yes and no. Conceptually of course it's as simple. Today matthew I'm going to transition. But reality is emotions, mental well being, school life, home life, relationships all need appropriate consideration. I can't imagine how complex it is.

Controversial question here ..but without societies overbearing influence would these young people feel the need to transition ??? IV seen plenty of trans people who wish they'd never made the transition and maybe such a young age is not necessarily the right to be discussing the subject .. if you can't have sex until 16 you certainly shouldn't be allowed to change sex before you're 16 ."

Where are people allowed to make permanent changes before 16, or even 18?

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By *ackformore100Man  over a year ago

Tin town


"The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking?

Yes and no. Conceptually of course it's as simple. Today matthew I'm going to transition. But reality is emotions, mental well being, school life, home life, relationships all need appropriate consideration. I can't imagine how complex it is.

Controversial question here ..but without societies overbearing influence would these young people feel the need to transition ??? IV seen plenty of trans people who wish they'd never made the transition and maybe such a young age is not necessarily the right to be discussing the subject .. if you can't have sex until 16 you certainly shouldn't be allowed to change sex before you're 16 ."

I think it's a good question. Advertising and society influences minds and desires. It's why people spend money on advertising. It's a good question to understand how that influences wants and needs to transition.

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking?

Yes and no. Conceptually of course it's as simple. Today matthew I'm going to transition. But reality is emotions, mental well being, school life, home life, relationships all need appropriate consideration. I can't imagine how complex it is.

Controversial question here ..but without societies overbearing influence would these young people feel the need to transition ??? IV seen plenty of trans people who wish they'd never made the transition and maybe such a young age is not necessarily the right to be discussing the subject .. if you can't have sex until 16 you certainly shouldn't be allowed to change sex before you're 16 .

Where are people allowed to make permanent changes before 16, or even 18?"

Scotland

"Trans people aged 16 and older applying for a GRC will be required to make a legally binding declaration that they are already living in their acquired gender and intend to do so permanently"

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking?

Yes and no. Conceptually of course it's as simple. Today matthew I'm going to transition. But reality is emotions, mental well being, school life, home life, relationships all need appropriate consideration. I can't imagine how complex it is.

Controversial question here ..but without societies overbearing influence would these young people feel the need to transition ??? IV seen plenty of trans people who wish they'd never made the transition and maybe such a young age is not necessarily the right to be discussing the subject .. if you can't have sex until 16 you certainly shouldn't be allowed to change sex before you're 16 .

Where are people allowed to make permanent changes before 16, or even 18?

Scotland

"Trans people aged 16 and older applying for a GRC will be required to make a legally binding declaration that they are already living in their acquired gender and intend to do so permanently"

"

And I'm not 100 % sure here ..but don't some transgenders begin hormone treatment therapy prior to pubity ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking?

Yes and no. Conceptually of course it's as simple. Today matthew I'm going to transition. But reality is emotions, mental well being, school life, home life, relationships all need appropriate consideration. I can't imagine how complex it is.

Controversial question here ..but without societies overbearing influence would these young people feel the need to transition ??? IV seen plenty of trans people who wish they'd never made the transition and maybe such a young age is not necessarily the right to be discussing the subject .. if you can't have sex until 16 you certainly shouldn't be allowed to change sex before you're 16 .

Where are people allowed to make permanent changes before 16, or even 18?

Scotland

"Trans people aged 16 and older applying for a GRC will be required to make a legally binding declaration that they are already living in their acquired gender and intend to do so permanently"

"

that's about getting a certificate tho. Not the medical side of things. My understanding at least.

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking?

Yes and no. Conceptually of course it's as simple. Today matthew I'm going to transition. But reality is emotions, mental well being, school life, home life, relationships all need appropriate consideration. I can't imagine how complex it is.

Controversial question here ..but without societies overbearing influence would these young people feel the need to transition ??? IV seen plenty of trans people who wish they'd never made the transition and maybe such a young age is not necessarily the right to be discussing the subject .. if you can't have sex until 16 you certainly shouldn't be allowed to change sex before you're 16 .

Where are people allowed to make permanent changes before 16, or even 18?

Scotland

"Trans people aged 16 and older applying for a GRC will be required to make a legally binding declaration that they are already living in their acquired gender and intend to do so permanently"

that's about getting a certificate tho. Not the medical side of things. My understanding at least. "

Legal certification makes your sex legally altered .it's supposedly a binding agreement so a permanent decision too

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking?

Yes and no. Conceptually of course it's as simple. Today matthew I'm going to transition. But reality is emotions, mental well being, school life, home life, relationships all need appropriate consideration. I can't imagine how complex it is.

Controversial question here ..but without societies overbearing influence would these young people feel the need to transition ??? IV seen plenty of trans people who wish they'd never made the transition and maybe such a young age is not necessarily the right to be discussing the subject .. if you can't have sex until 16 you certainly shouldn't be allowed to change sex before you're 16 .

Where are people allowed to make permanent changes before 16, or even 18?

Scotland

"Trans people aged 16 and older applying for a GRC will be required to make a legally binding declaration that they are already living in their acquired gender and intend to do so permanently"

"

That sounds like marriage. Intending to do something permanently.

Seems sensible to make it a non trivial commitment, 16 is an age where some adult commitments are introduced for young people.

I'd had, like, surgery permanent in mind rather than marriage permanent

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"The answer is simple isn’t it?

The people that wanna transition are more aware of it, are more confident in being able to speak out about it, and the opportunities for it happening are on the increase.

Or am i to simplified in my thinking?

Yes and no. Conceptually of course it's as simple. Today matthew I'm going to transition. But reality is emotions, mental well being, school life, home life, relationships all need appropriate consideration. I can't imagine how complex it is.

Controversial question here ..but without societies overbearing influence would these young people feel the need to transition ??? IV seen plenty of trans people who wish they'd never made the transition and maybe such a young age is not necessarily the right to be discussing the subject .. if you can't have sex until 16 you certainly shouldn't be allowed to change sex before you're 16 .

Where are people allowed to make permanent changes before 16, or even 18?

Scotland

"Trans people aged 16 and older applying for a GRC will be required to make a legally binding declaration that they are already living in their acquired gender and intend to do so permanently"

And I'm not 100 % sure here ..but don't some transgenders begin hormone treatment therapy prior to pubity ? "

Puberty blockers don't permanently put someone in one camp or another, they stop what's also a permanent process

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey

Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics "

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent "

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

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By *mber and FireCouple  over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics "

Actually, conceptually and practically they are different. This isn't a case of semantics, this is a case of real world application, not "ah, but!".

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above "

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

Actually, conceptually and practically they are different. This isn't a case of semantics, this is a case of real world application, not "ah, but!"."

Ah but obviously somewhere we're letting four year olds decide they can be surgically turned into cats, because Scotland lets young adults sign a legally binding form.

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By *oeofsussexMan  over a year ago

Eastbourne

I would imagine because they’re intelligent and figure being a man is easier than being a woman. Honestly, who’d seriously want to be a woman in this day and age?

It’s always been a man’s man’s world and still is! Stale, male and pale like me - well, sadly, we’re still masters of the universe and minorities such as women naturally don’t like that so it’s a simple case of, if you can’t beat them join them!

Better to screw than be screwed I suppose!

And of course transitioning is actively promoted as a choice in schools in PSHE lessons so it has the ‘cool’ factor!

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

Actually, conceptually and practically they are different. This isn't a case of semantics, this is a case of real world application, not "ah, but!"."

Do they have permanent long lasting effects ? Do they need to be overseen by a medical health professional ? Surgery and medication are two different resolutions to the same issue

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves."

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

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By *mber and FireCouple  over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

Actually, conceptually and practically they are different. This isn't a case of semantics, this is a case of real world application, not "ah, but!".

Do they have permanent long lasting effects ? Do they need to be overseen by a medical health professional ? Surgery and medication are two different resolutions to the same issue "

You literally just said it yourself.

Two. Different. Resolutions.

Would you like me to semantically pull them apart for you?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision "

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

Actually, conceptually and practically they are different. This isn't a case of semantics, this is a case of real world application, not "ah, but!".

Do they have permanent long lasting effects ? Do they need to be overseen by a medical health professional ? Surgery and medication are two different resolutions to the same issue

You literally just said it yourself.

Two. Different. Resolutions.

Would you like me to semantically pull them apart for you?"

Different in application not results .both have long term potentially irreversible effects

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By *heHornyWandererMan  over a year ago

glasgow


"Can somebody please explain why the number of teenage girls that are transitioning has increased so dramatically over the last decade ?"

Rise of the internet.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

Actually, conceptually and practically they are different. This isn't a case of semantics, this is a case of real world application, not "ah, but!".

Do they have permanent long lasting effects ? Do they need to be overseen by a medical health professional ? Surgery and medication are two different resolutions to the same issue

You literally just said it yourself.

Two. Different. Resolutions.

Would you like me to semantically pull them apart for you?

Different in application not results .both have long term potentially irreversible effects "

Potentially

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

So ageing into the wrong gender doesn't have potentially irreversible results?

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By *ea monkeyMan  over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In response to your original post; because younger people have less stigma attached to gender, they’re more aware of themselves and the identities that society forced upon them.

Gender is a fluid concept and is very separate from biological sex but many people conflate the two.

I would suggest that anyone that has a closed mind to this should do some reading.

There is so much more to bodies and minds than was taught in year 9 biology

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now. "

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

Actually, conceptually and practically they are different. This isn't a case of semantics, this is a case of real world application, not "ah, but!".

Do they have permanent long lasting effects ? Do they need to be overseen by a medical health professional ? Surgery and medication are two different resolutions to the same issue

You literally just said it yourself.

Two. Different. Resolutions.

Would you like me to semantically pull them apart for you?

Different in application not results .both have long term potentially irreversible effects "

so if some applies for a GRC and then changes their mind a few years later what are their options ?

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By *mber and FireCouple  over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time "

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

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By *ackformore100Man  over a year ago

Tin town

Kind of getting of the op into the how and not the why?

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time "

Ok, cool, if you're worried about the NHS paying for multiple reassignments then limit it like IVF. Not a problem with me.

But social transition - stuff like clothes and name, not legally binding or permanent.

Puberty blockers - also used in other kids without a gigantic fuss.

A declaration of intending to do something permanently to change your gender on government documentation - 16+ in Scotland.

Surgery - 18+, and probably longer because the waiting lists are years.

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous."

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse "

What percentage of the NHS budget is used for gender reassignment, that it would make even a noticeable difference?

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By *mber and FireCouple  over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse "

That is not the reason why the NHS is about to collapse, and you know it. Or maybe you don't, whatever. But your implications are deeply offensive.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse

That is not the reason why the NHS is about to collapse, and you know it. Or maybe you don't, whatever. But your implications are deeply offensive."

So... social transition is nothing permanent and changes to government documents aren't as scary as I make them out to be, and puberty blockers are also used in kids for other reasons... All the really permanent stuff is in adults.

*Flails for a reason to demonise trans people*

It costs money!

(I'd love to do a comparison of "I want to delay my period because I'm going on holiday" versus gender reassignment as a percentage of NHS costs. I bet the latter is comparable. I'd chop the former entirely. Your period comes when your period comes, unless it's precocious puberty)

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse

What percentage of the NHS budget is used for gender reassignment, that it would make even a noticeable difference? "

.would be interesting to find out ..as op states the increase in numbers is telling ..perhaps the funding for support has increased ..clearly education on the subject has increased as it's being taught in schools . Wish it was taught when I was a kid as I clearly don't know anything about it . ..however contrary to your beliefs I believe the media and sheeple effect has a massive bearing on the amount of people transitioning .. societal beliefs have shifted drastically .. religion morality and self happiness have decreased.. laws have changed theirs multiple reasons why it's increasing . Perhaps the fact it's beeming talked about also helps .. I find out astounding how people get offended on behalf of other people on here . It stinks of nepotism

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse

What percentage of the NHS budget is used for gender reassignment, that it would make even a noticeable difference?

.would be interesting to find out ..as op states the increase in numbers is telling ..perhaps the funding for support has increased ..clearly education on the subject has increased as it's being taught in schools . Wish it was taught when I was a kid as I clearly don't know anything about it . ..however contrary to your beliefs I believe the media and sheeple effect has a massive bearing on the amount of people transitioning .. societal beliefs have shifted drastically .. religion morality and self happiness have decreased.. laws have changed theirs multiple reasons why it's increasing . Perhaps the fact it's beeming talked about also helps .. I find out astounding how people get offended on behalf of other people on here . It stinks of nepotism "

Nepotism? My daddy ain't promoting me into anything because I support equality. He finds all of this shit a bit baffling

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse

What percentage of the NHS budget is used for gender reassignment, that it would make even a noticeable difference?

.would be interesting to find out ..as op states the increase in numbers is telling ..perhaps the funding for support has increased ..clearly education on the subject has increased as it's being taught in schools . Wish it was taught when I was a kid as I clearly don't know anything about it . ..however contrary to your beliefs I believe the media and sheeple effect has a massive bearing on the amount of people transitioning .. societal beliefs have shifted drastically .. religion morality and self happiness have decreased.. laws have changed theirs multiple reasons why it's increasing . Perhaps the fact it's beeming talked about also helps .. I find out astounding how people get offended on behalf of other people on here . It stinks of nepotism "

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By *mber and FireCouple  over a year ago

Carmarthenshire


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse

What percentage of the NHS budget is used for gender reassignment, that it would make even a noticeable difference?

.would be interesting to find out ..as op states the increase in numbers is telling ..perhaps the funding for support has increased ..clearly education on the subject has increased as it's being taught in schools . Wish it was taught when I was a kid as I clearly don't know anything about it . ..however contrary to your beliefs I believe the media and sheeple effect has a massive bearing on the amount of people transitioning .. societal beliefs have shifted drastically .. religion morality and self happiness have decreased.. laws have changed theirs multiple reasons why it's increasing . Perhaps the fact it's beeming talked about also helps .. I find out astounding how people get offended on behalf of other people on here . It stinks of nepotism "

You use words that you've no clue the meaning of. Any point you had was lost at the very end. Also, tldr. Out.

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By *hagTonightMan  over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am not sure, but, it might be too early as they are still in the puberty age and goes through many phases and might change their minds afterwards, what could be done then?

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse

What percentage of the NHS budget is used for gender reassignment, that it would make even a noticeable difference?

.would be interesting to find out ..as op states the increase in numbers is telling ..perhaps the funding for support has increased ..clearly education on the subject has increased as it's being taught in schools . Wish it was taught when I was a kid as I clearly don't know anything about it . ..however contrary to your beliefs I believe the media and sheeple effect has a massive bearing on the amount of people transitioning .. societal beliefs have shifted drastically .. religion morality and self happiness have decreased.. laws have changed theirs multiple reasons why it's increasing . Perhaps the fact it's beeming talked about also helps .. I find out astounding how people get offended on behalf of other people on here . It stinks of nepotism

Nepotism? My daddy ain't promoting me into anything because I support equality. He finds all of this shit a bit baffling "

You support equality ? In what sense because equality implies that there is equal right for my opinion as there is for yours . But we can't have an open dialogue on this subject without certain parties being offended..or claiming offense atleast .

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

When I was at school they didn't think girls could be autistic apart from the profoundly disabled.

You know why I sought the diagnosis?

Because something was wrong and I needed to make peace with myself.

There's more recognition of girls on the spectrum now. Does this harm girls? It probably saves them a lot of fucking misery. Because I was autistic no matter how much or little it was recognised.

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By *hetalkingstoveMan  over a year ago

London


" Wish it was taught when I was a kid as I clearly don't know anything about it "

Yeah, this is very obvious.

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse

What percentage of the NHS budget is used for gender reassignment, that it would make even a noticeable difference?

.would be interesting to find out ..as op states the increase in numbers is telling ..perhaps the funding for support has increased ..clearly education on the subject has increased as it's being taught in schools . Wish it was taught when I was a kid as I clearly don't know anything about it . ..however contrary to your beliefs I believe the media and sheeple effect has a massive bearing on the amount of people transitioning .. societal beliefs have shifted drastically .. religion morality and self happiness have decreased.. laws have changed theirs multiple reasons why it's increasing . Perhaps the fact it's beeming talked about also helps .. I find out astounding how people get offended on behalf of other people on here . It stinks of nepotism

Nepotism? My daddy ain't promoting me into anything because I support equality. He finds all of this shit a bit baffling

You support equality ? In what sense because equality implies that there is equal right for my opinion as there is for yours . But we can't have an open dialogue on this subject without certain parties being offended..or claiming offense atleast . "

You're confusing equality with free speech, and free speech with "but someone disagreed with me, they're censoring me "

Free speech includes my free speech to argue back. Sorry, not sorry.

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"Surgery permanent isn't greatly different from hormone replacement is it ..just semantics

You're changing the subject.

I said surgery permanent versus marriage permanent.

Marriage is a legal declaration that you intend to spend the rest of your life with someone.

As we know, that's definitely permanent

No sorry you said permanent . Marriage is intended to be permanent

Gender assignment is also intended to be permanent as it states above

Yes, it's *intended* to be permanent. We don't want people making these changes for trivial reasons.

I'm ok with 16 year olds making some legally binding decisions, but not all. I'm aware that *intending to be permanent* and *actually permanent* are not the same thing.

Puberty blockers are also used for, for example, little girls whose period comes when they're five. It's not permanently making them a boy or whatever, it's holding that off until it's more appropriate. In the case of trans kids, allowing the radical changes of puberty to be held off until they're old enough to be able to make binding decisions about themselves.

Can you read ? They have to be living as their chosen sex prior to 16 . So they've already made their binding decision

I can read. It means social transition.

Taking on a name of the other gender and being treated as the other gender.

They've made a decision, at 16 they're allowed legal recognition if they can show a commitment before that, if they declare an *intention* for it to be permanent.

None of this is actually permanent, it's a commitment. I lived as a committed Christian as a teenager and was working towards a (spiritually not legally) binding ceremony to celebrate my coming of age. I'm an atheist now.

Religion is a personal choice but Gender assignment or reassignment treatment or surgery when funded by the NHS should be legally binding.

Waivers should be signed. if you choose to select your gender that's fine .but you should be held responsible for any financial costs incurred if you want to reassign your gender at a later time

And what, if they change their mind then suddenly their breaking the law?

Ridiculous.

How committed can you be to being trapped in the wrong body if you're capable of changing your mind ? If that's the case should the young person not be treated and analysed for their deficiency rather than medicated or modified to be something they're not sure of??? ...pretty self explanatory to me . But each to their own I guess . The NHS shouldn't be funding anyone's personal ambitions to change sex. IVF costs extravagant amounts ..so should other health choices and maybe the health system in Britain wouldn't be about to collapse

What percentage of the NHS budget is used for gender reassignment, that it would make even a noticeable difference?

.would be interesting to find out ..as op states the increase in numbers is telling ..perhaps the funding for support has increased ..clearly education on the subject has increased as it's being taught in schools . Wish it was taught when I was a kid as I clearly don't know anything about it . ..however contrary to your beliefs I believe the media and sheeple effect has a massive bearing on the amount of people transitioning .. societal beliefs have shifted drastically .. religion morality and self happiness have decreased.. laws have changed theirs multiple reasons why it's increasing . Perhaps the fact it's beeming talked about also helps .. I find out astounding how people get offended on behalf of other people on here . It stinks of nepotism

You use words that you've no clue the meaning of. Any point you had was lost at the very end. Also, tldr. Out."

Excuse me what word don't I know the meaning of ? Nepotism ? Google the definition.. you literally msgd me on a different thread yesterday telling me how awful my opinions are and telling people to report me for my opinions . That's nepotism and it's clicky. your influencing people with similar opinions to your own to gang up on an individual. You're not inclusive tolerant or a believer of equality if you can't accept people have differing opinions

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I accept you have a different opinion. You have a right to believe whatever you want.

As do I. And I have a right to disagree with you.

I'm not infringing on your rights.

Nepotism usually implies familial promotion within an organisation, not a group of people (who may or may not know each other and may or may not be friends) agreeing with each other on a subject.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Because I have personal involvement, somebody in the family is considering transitioning and I would like to gain others opinions "

Surely then other opinions, ours and yours do not matter, I like chocolate hobnobs, doesn’t mean I’m right about those either, it’s just what triggers contentment in my brain, others consider sky diving to be the thing, others consider changing gender, let people be, if they have made a mistake, the skydivers will know about it

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By *inaTitzTV/TS  over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

When you scan a thread and see paragraphs of text, you know it's gotten tasty.

I've not got time to read it all, so if anyone can tell me who's making themselves look silly, it would be convenient

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By *ixie BeanMan  over a year ago

Wallasey


"I accept you have a different opinion. You have a right to believe whatever you want.

As do I. And I have a right to disagree with you.

I'm not infringing on your rights.

Nepotism usually implies familial promotion within an organisation, not a group of people (who may or may not know each other and may or may not be friends) agreeing with each other on a subject."

Wiki definition of nepotism

the practice among those with power or influence of favouring relatives, friends, or associates,

.perhaps theres a better adjective to describe how some in the fab community gang up against people with differing opinions but nepotism works .

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I accept you have a different opinion. You have a right to believe whatever you want.

As do I. And I have a right to disagree with you.

I'm not infringing on your rights.

Nepotism usually implies familial promotion within an organisation, not a group of people (who may or may not know each other and may or may not be friends) agreeing with each other on a subject.

Wiki definition of nepotism

the practice among those with power or influence of favouring relatives, friends, or associates,

.perhaps theres a better adjective to describe how some in the fab community gang up against people with differing opinions but nepotism works ."

... Maybe people just disagree with you?

Nepotism would be if it were the mods. (Dear mods, I'm not accusing you of anything, it's a hypothetical)

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Why would anyone on here know the answer to that?"

I actually know why. It’s the same answer as for the numbers of them getting tattoos and piercings. Identify, accessibility and it’s cool.

If you can think of it it will happen next

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By *mber and FireCouple  over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

Trust me, I have no influence or sway amongst the fab community. Just a loud mouth and an inability to keep it shut. Something Lou is always telling me off for. But nepotism, it is not.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"First define your terms . What is a girl ?"

LOOOOL, search for a woman on the search tab and there is your answer. All jokes aside a girl is a human born with a vagina and womb

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