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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Morning all 
So do you send one automatically when you send the first message?
Do you expect to receive one in a first message?
Will you only respond if you see a face first?
Curious |
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When we are sending a first message we'll generally send a face picture along with it. And we're far more likely to respond to new messages that do the same, it makes figuring out initial attraction a lot easier and there's no awkward back pedalling two weeks down the line when they finally send a face pic 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd only send one if I have been chatting a bit and wanted to test any attraction. No point otherwise.
Sending one to me without mentioning and agreeing it first won't get you one in return.
Saying it's 'owed' gets you binned. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I now send one after a couple of messages. We're introduced, so then it's time to see if they're attracted to me while the connection isn't there yet as I've had where we've been messaging a while, I then send a face pic and the conversation stops. It feels shit so wouldn't let it get to that point again |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
Tend to send face pics if we initiate, don't expect one on first message received. But we will ask, there's little point continuing a conversation if the attraction isn't there.. |
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By *ourbonKissMan
over a year ago
a land up north..... of leicester |
9 times out of 10 I do send atleast one and I'm not overly fussed if I don't receive one back straight away but I do need one before we get onto chatting about meeting etc.
As for the last question, well I respect people's privacy and that it's got to earned. So no, if I get a good vibe then I'll always respond |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
I don’t really expect to receive one unless we are actually talking meeting. Obviously if you’ve been chatting a while it is nice to know who you are talking to, but not essential to me unless we plan on meeting.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have our face pictures public anyway but we’d want to see face pictures after the first few messages. There’s no point in messaging back and forward only to find out there’s no attraction. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
It's important to share early on. I want to see a face from the get go and it's only fair I reciprocate. If either of us thinks that the other looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp it's better to find out sooner than later |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
I don't send one when I send a first message I also don't expect to receive one. And someone sending me a face pic doesn't have any bearing on whether I answer a message or not. Their profile the message and if they have read my profile and not ignored what I say in it or my filters will determine if I answer or not. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's important to share early on. I want to see a face from the get go and it's only fair I reciprocate. If either of us thinks that the other looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp it's better to find out sooner than later"
Haha I haven’t seen/heard that phrase in so long |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We send one with a first message - we like to establish a mutual attraction early on, and if they don’t like the look of us from the off there’s no point us wasting their time!  "
Early on seems the norm… |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
NORWAY Wherever I lay my hat |
"It's important to share early on. I want to see a face from the get go and it's only fair I reciprocate. If either of us thinks that the other looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp it's better to find out sooner than later
Haha I haven’t seen/heard that phrase in so long "
Well they say the old ones are the best ones, right?! |
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"Morning all
So do you send one automatically when you send the first message?
Do you expect to receive one in a first message?
Will you only respond if you see a face first?
Curious "
Nope, nope aaaaand nope
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's important to share early on. I want to see a face from the get go and it's only fair I reciprocate. If either of us thinks that the other looks like a bulldog chewing a wasp it's better to find out sooner than later
Haha I haven’t seen/heard that phrase in so long
Well they say the old ones are the best ones, right?! "
Very true…I’d like to sample more old ones…. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to receive a face picture in a first message, I never send one though as I don't like to reveal that I look like Princess Fiona from Shrek too early on.....  "
But which Fiona? Green version? |
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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago
Boo's World |
"I like to receive a face picture in a first message, I never send one though as I don't like to reveal that I look like Princess Fiona from Shrek too early on.....
But which Fiona? Green version? "
Yes the green one |
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I ask politely for people to send one with their first msg. If they don't, I ask them to read the profile. If they still don't, they get deleted.
That's where the attraction lies for me, not the rest of their body, certainly not their dick. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"We send one with a first message - we like to establish a mutual attraction early on, and if they don’t like the look of us from the off there’s no point us wasting their time!
Early on seems the norm… "
Well, the norm is irrelevant really, it’s about how people want to use Fab and make it work for themselves. We find this is best for us, but for others they may completely disagree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning all
So do you send one automatically when you send the first message?
Do you expect to receive one in a first message?
Will you only respond if you see a face first?
Curious "
A. I never send it in a first message unless it's a face pic Friday.
B. No I have no such an expectation.
C. I respond not because of the face. I can chat to people I am not attracted to as well.
Ps. Stop asking multiple questions in one posts! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just to add, I think if there is an initial connection which prompts to easy and exciting message exchange it is good to get it out if the way fairly early. Saves awkward rejections down the line if face attractions matters to someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning all
So do you send one automatically when you send the first message?
Do you expect to receive one in a first message?
Will you only respond if you see a face first?
Curious "
Yes, yes and yes |
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I don't send messages and haven't done in 3 years so the answer to the first part of your query is no.
I normally only share facepics with those I've already agreed to meet.
Very few conversations I have on here have a sexual liaison as the ultimate goal and as a result I've chatted to people for weeks and months without every knowing what each other looked like.
I don't expect anyone to send me a pic. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like to receive a face picture in a first message, I never send one though as I don't like to reveal that I look like Princess Fiona from Shrek too early on.....
But which Fiona? Green version?
Yes the green one "
She has a great smile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I ask politely for people to send one with their first msg. If they don't, I ask them to read the profile. If they still don't, they get deleted.
That's where the attraction lies for me, not the rest of their body, certainly not their dick."
Seems fair |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We send one with a first message - we like to establish a mutual attraction early on, and if they don’t like the look of us from the off there’s no point us wasting their time!
Early on seems the norm…
Well, the norm is irrelevant really, it’s about how people want to use Fab and make it work for themselves. We find this is best for us, but for others they may completely disagree."
I was referring to responses seen so far…. Not what everyone agrees |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Morning all
So do you send one automatically when you send the first message?
Do you expect to receive one in a first message?
Will you only respond if you see a face first?
Curious
A. I never send it in a first message unless it's a face pic Friday.
B. No I have no such an expectation.
C. I respond not because of the face. I can chat to people I am not attracted to as well.
Ps. Stop asking multiple questions in one posts! "
Oh no….do you not like the use of one thread for multiple questions? Should I have started one for each part of it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Morning all
So do you send one automatically when you send the first message?
Do you expect to receive one in a first message?
Will you only respond if you see a face first?
Curious
A. I never send it in a first message unless it's a face pic Friday.
B. No I have no such an expectation.
C. I respond not because of the face. I can chat to people I am not attracted to as well.
Ps. Stop asking multiple questions in one posts!
Oh no….do you not like the use of one thread for multiple questions? Should I have started one for each part of it? "
Nah. I'm guilty of it too. Hence seeing it done by others makes me realise how confusing it can be  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just to add, I think if there is an initial connection which prompts to easy and exciting message exchange it is good to get it out if the way fairly early. Saves awkward rejections down the line if face attractions matters to someone. "
Makes sense |
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"Morning all
So do you send one automatically when you send the first message?
Do you expect to receive one in a first message?
Will you only respond if you see a face first?
Curious
A. I never send it in a first message unless it's a face pic Friday.
B. No I have no such an expectation.
C. I respond not because of the face. I can chat to people I am not attracted to as well.
Ps. Stop asking multiple questions in one posts!
Oh no….do you not like the use of one thread for multiple questions? Should I have started one for each part of it?
Nah. I'm guilty of it too. Hence seeing it done by others makes me realise how confusing it can be "
Id like to make you guilty of sexual misconduct with a guy called Todgermoore from a well respected swingers site!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Morning all
So do you send one automatically when you send the first message?
Do you expect to receive one in a first message?
Will you only respond if you see a face first?
Curious
A. I never send it in a first message unless it's a face pic Friday.
B. No I have no such an expectation.
C. I respond not because of the face. I can chat to people I am not attracted to as well.
Ps. Stop asking multiple questions in one posts!
Oh no….do you not like the use of one thread for multiple questions? Should I have started one for each part of it?
Nah. I'm guilty of it too. Hence seeing it done by others makes me realise how confusing it can be "
It’s just a list of question shaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s just a list of question shaha
Blame caffeine withdrawal this morning. Moaning cow ignore me
Changing my screen name to Caffeine!!  "
Sorry, you are latte!
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It’s just a list of question shaha
Blame caffeine withdrawal this morning. Moaning cow ignore me
Changing my screen name to Caffeine!!
Sorry, you are latte!
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Latte or too latte completely?? Pmsl that was a genius reply xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rarely send a face pic in a first message.
I avoid profiles that demand it.
I never expect a face pic back when send unprompted, but if someone has asked for mine then I'd expect it to be returned. |
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"When we are sending a first message we'll generally send a face picture along with it. And we're far more likely to respond to new messages that do the same, it makes figuring out initial attraction a lot easier and there's no awkward back pedalling two weeks down the line when they finally send a face pic
LvM"
Yes, our philosophy too |
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