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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!! |
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It's situational must of the time. If it's making my heart race, quickening my pulse, then I can get hard as rock. Sometimes it's about attraction, but sometimes that attraction is so much more than how good looking someone is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
Physical attraction is somewhat there but I prefer the mental attraction more, can’t meet at short notice simply because I don’t know if I’m going to get the right vibe no matter how good someone looks |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You thinking of ordering a gimp mask op?"
Haha well it could be an option! Just wondering if women are right to be dubious when guys on here drool over the opportunity to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would I be with someone I'm not attracted to.
It has a mind of its own and does me proud  "
That's what I thought would be the case for most but it seems there are exceptions |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Why would I be with someone I'm not attracted to.
It has a mind of its own and does me proud
That's what I thought would be the case for most but it seems there are exceptions"
I'm exceptional |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why would I be with someone I'm not attracted to.
It has a mind of its own and does me proud
That's what I thought would be the case for most but it seems there are exceptions
I'm exceptional "
I don't doubt that for a second |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Why would I be with someone I'm not attracted to.
It has a mind of its own and does me proud
That's what I thought would be the case for most but it seems there are exceptions
I'm exceptional
I don't doubt that for a second"
You're welcome to prove me wrong  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I once got approached and asked if I was interested in being a gigolo and part of the reason I said no is because I wondered about the answer to this. Not sure how they do it with anything that gives them money. I’m sure there’s an answer. |
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Some of the best sex I’ve had are from women I don’t or didn’t think were good looking. But their sensual and sexual awareness were way above average.
When I was younger my dick would get hard for no apparent reason and before HD and 4K porn seeing new naked women was excitingly HOT!!!
In those days I could shag a “Sack of Spuds” I mean the type that believed laying back and allowing you to enter was all they needed to do to partake.
So the answer to your question is OP.
It depends  |
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Never had a problem myself because of physical appearance as few of us are perfect.
However a bad attitude, abrasive personality, selfish expectation, poor hygiene etc can blunt interest quite quickly although not met that yet with Fabsters. |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
Kingsbridge |
"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
Need an attraction but to be honest it doesn’t take much to get me really hard! Lol |
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By *immy PMan
over a year ago
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i can generally stay hard even if there's no attraction.. there's got to be some form of foreplay or interaction to get the old boy alive though... but tbf the sight of a pair of boobies does the trick...  |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
For me if I am having sex with someone there has to be some type of connection be it flirting, physical or mental attraction
Keeping hard is not always guaranteed…multiple reasons. Could be tired from work, alcohol, if playing at a club could be something as simple as someone is to close watching.
If I was watching a group play or couple and there was no physical attraction and we hadn’t spoken then I would probably not stay hard if invited.
Sometimes if I fancy person a lot then I struggle to stay hard
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"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
nope you have to be turned on to stay hard if youre not attracted how can you do it unless you use a dare i say it gloryhole |
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For me sexual attraction is not a physical thing in the conventional "types" way.
A fun,flirty, dirty, playful attitude outweighs any physical attributes. A classic pornstar body with a bad attitude or dead between the ears is a big turn off.
I only met one person who didnt excite me in that way and yes, after a stuningly good blowjob the tools were available for the task in hand but it was not a good experience.
My last encounter used the words "for fuck sake never take viagra"
So yeah, he usually rises to his work and puts in a good shift. |
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I need to be attracted to whom I’m going to fuck with both physically and mentally. Just fucking for the sake of being there is dull. I will and have got erect with woman a didn’t vibe with but the experience just isn’t the same. |
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God no. It's not just about physical attraction, either. I've turned down a threesome with two women I found extremely attractive (many years ago, not on Fab) because I wasn't feeling that they both really wanted it.
I hope it works for women, too. I know the cliché is that men want a hole and women want a person, but there are definitely women who just want a cock to get off. Good for them! But that couldn't work for me. I don't necessarily have to be The One, but I want it to be special and intimate - because, for me, sex always is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"God no. It's not just about physical attraction, either. I've turned down a threesome with two women I found extremely attractive (many years ago, not on Fab) because I wasn't feeling that they both really wanted it.
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I can relate to this.
To answer the op - I could probably get an erection by having anyone simply stroke it, but it only gets really HARD when everything clicks. The attraction that’s both ways and the situation we are in, in that moment. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You thinking of ordering a gimp mask op?
Haha well it could be an option! Just wondering if women are right to be dubious when guys on here drool over the opportunity to meet."
Get one and put up a meet.I think 5 women with mask will suffice |
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"Attraction comes in many levels, physical and mental.
A sight a smell a tease, all different, but when you feel that twitch you just know."
Absolutely this! It can be as simple as a cheeky little smile, or a glint in their eye and away you go….. |
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By *ent57Man
over a year ago
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When I was younger I certainly had a 'any port in a storm' attitude.
In answer to the OP's question - I'm sure I would struggle to get and stay hard now... I'd rather be polite and not get into that situation!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Helps if there's a physical attraction and mental attraction isn't always needed. For me though, it's more about feeling relaxed and confident in myself or it won't happen |
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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago
Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield |
Thinking about it trying to write an answer, it's probably more complex and harder to define than a straight yes or no. Generally there has to be physical attraction, I wouldn't play with someone I wasn't attracted to, so doubt I'd get excited if I tried. I can't ever remember being turned on by someone I found unattractive.
Whether there needs to be a deeper connection depends on context. Joining in with a group session in a public playroom at a club, probably not, but for more one on one then yes, there has to be something - or at the very least, I wouldn't play if her personality were actively a turn-off regardless of looks. |
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I know of more than one penis owner that could easily find *something* fuckable about almost anyone.
One in particular could find someone unattractive to look at, yet if they had what he considered a nice arse, she was fuckable.
One was a horrid person, yet gave wonderful compliments and those compliments turned him on and made her fuckable.
One had an accent that made her fuckable.
One was going through a tough time, and knowing she'd "feel better" after seeing him made her fuckable.
One had a clothing style that made her fuckable.
Some blokes can pinpoint one thing, one thing that can turn that flaccid chunk of flesh into a hard on, and sometimes that one thing can simply be willingness. |
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"I know of more than one penis owner that could easily find *something* fuckable about almost anyone.
One in particular could find someone unattractive to look at, yet if they had what he considered a nice arse, she was fuckable.
One was a horrid person, yet gave wonderful compliments and those compliments turned him on and made her fuckable.
One had an accent that made her fuckable.
One was going through a tough time, and knowing she'd "feel better" after seeing him made her fuckable.
One had a clothing style that made her fuckable.
Some blokes can pinpoint one thing, one thing that can turn that flaccid chunk of flesh into a hard on, and sometimes that one thing can simply be willingness."
really hey i think some peoples self worth is low though and they simply dont feel attractive when they are? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know of more than one penis owner that could easily find *something* fuckable about almost anyone.
One in particular could find someone unattractive to look at, yet if they had what he considered a nice arse, she was fuckable.
One was a horrid person, yet gave wonderful compliments and those compliments turned him on and made her fuckable.
One had an accent that made her fuckable.
One was going through a tough time, and knowing she'd "feel better" after seeing him made her fuckable.
One had a clothing style that made her fuckable.
Some blokes can pinpoint one thing, one thing that can turn that flaccid chunk of flesh into a hard on, and sometimes that one thing can simply be willingness."
Very accurate. Only turn off for me is attitude. Always find something about a woman that will raise the mast.
If she has a personality/attitude that I don't like. Ain't no level of hardness that'll make me fuck her. |
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"I know of more than one penis owner that could easily find *something* fuckable about almost anyone.
One in particular could find someone unattractive to look at, yet if they had what he considered a nice arse, she was fuckable.
One was a horrid person, yet gave wonderful compliments and those compliments turned him on and made her fuckable.
One had an accent that made her fuckable.
One was going through a tough time, and knowing she'd "feel better" after seeing him made her fuckable.
One had a clothing style that made her fuckable.
Some blokes can pinpoint one thing, one thing that can turn that flaccid chunk of flesh into a hard on, and sometimes that one thing can simply be willingness.really hey i think some peoples self worth is low though and they simply dont feel attractive when they are? "
Absolutely without question.
But that doesn't detract from the fact there are fellas who can bang away with no attraction.
Another example, this same bloke was balls deep in another geezer. He wasn't into geezers, but, he thought I may like it so whilst ploughing other penis owner he was smiling away watching for my reaction. It was the excitement that got him excited. The unknown. The possibility of a positive outcome. |
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By *host63Man
over a year ago
Bedfont Feltham |
"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The penis has a mind of its own and will get hard for no reason at anytime.
It can refuse to play sometimes no matter what the situation.
The younger the more spontaneous erections.
Like banana the older they are the softer they get.
Meds are a blessing to older guys providing youth like porn star erections with staying power of a porn star |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
If I was not attracted to a female and did not fancy the female then I would not be with them full stop. |
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"I know of more than one penis owner that could easily find *something* fuckable about almost anyone.
One in particular could find someone unattractive to look at, yet if they had what he considered a nice arse, she was fuckable.
One was a horrid person, yet gave wonderful compliments and those compliments turned him on and made her fuckable.
One had an accent that made her fuckable.
One was going through a tough time, and knowing she'd "feel better" after seeing him made her fuckable.
One had a clothing style that made her fuckable.
Some blokes can pinpoint one thing, one thing that can turn that flaccid chunk of flesh into a hard on, and sometimes that one thing can simply be willingness.really hey i think some peoples self worth is low though and they simply dont feel attractive when they are?
Absolutely without question.
But that doesn't detract from the fact there are fellas who can bang away with no attraction.
Another example, this same bloke was balls deep in another geezer. He wasn't into geezers, but, he thought I may like it so whilst ploughing other penis owner he was smiling away watching for my reaction. It was the excitement that got him excited. The unknown. The possibility of a positive outcome."
This 
I know many play Bi guys who would never play with a man 1 to 1, but will happily sink balls deep in men, while they watch the ladies playing together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also there's the really basic answer of how horny we feel at the time.
I'm sure alot of men would if a girl was being thirsty for it and they had a raging hard on at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
Have to fancy them for cock to get hard |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
For me, it all comes down to a mix of attraction and situation.
People can be extremely engaging and sensual without being classically attractive. If I was already in a frisky mood, someone who was cerebrally hitting my spot could easily fit the bill for me. Other times, I could be aroused by seeing someone who I thought was gorgeous and made themselves sexually available.
If you've read my other posts before, you'll know I'm Bisexual but don't "fancy" blokes. However, if I'm already having sex with a woman and her partner wants to get involved with me sexually, I'd be delighted.
So I guess I'm saying that the whole situation might attract me, not necessarily just the physical appearance of one person.
Of course, if there was something off putting like bad hygiene, that would be an immediate passion killer.
Gbat
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask yourself this. Glory holes.
Men folk get hard and release a jizz squiz. They don't even know the gender of the person on the other side.
The situation is the turn on."
That is a good situation  |
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"Ask yourself this. Glory holes.
Men folk get hard and release a jizz squiz. They don't even know the gender of the person on the other side.
The situation is the turn on.
That is a good situation "
But how anyone can say they need to be attracted to a person to have sex with them yet have sex with an unknown person on the other side of a hole boggles my head.
It proves to me that the situation plays a FAR higher percentage of inducing a boner than anything else. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask yourself this. Glory holes.
Men folk get hard and release a jizz squiz. They don't even know the gender of the person on the other side.
The situation is the turn on.
That is a good situation
But how anyone can say they need to be attracted to a person to have sex with them yet have sex with an unknown person on the other side of a hole boggles my head.
It proves to me that the situation plays a FAR higher percentage of inducing a boner than anything else."
I agree with you! I'm guessing these men mean conventional meets from chatting on here to meeting and having sex which is different.
But right place, right time, right level of horniness, we are all (men and women) guilty of fucking people below our usual self standards right?! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting thread.
We recently received a message for a single guy asking us to play.
We replied, saying we wouldn't agree to a play date until we had met, as much prefer there to be an attraction / connection.
To which he replied, "don't know why you need a connection, I just treat people like a sex toy"
Each to their own  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it’s all about the situation and the amount of teasing and chasing that leads up to that point. I’m not ashamed to say that a couple of times I’ve been rock hard with the flirting and teasing leading up to the moment of sex but then lost it.
The penis is a very weird organ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was a teenager, twenties (maybe thirties, it gets a bit blurry there) it would get hard at anything virtually anything.
As I've got olderr there definitely needs to be an attraction before the old boy wakes up. |
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Oh, I'd love to be all cool and spiritual and say that a connection is integral; I need some deep and meaningful voodoo to rouse my soul alongside my dong... 
But reality is, I could be walking the the trail at 6am past that Scandinavian bakery place, and they'll be baking those cinnamon thingys they do... next thing you know I'm doing the ninja walk home via Lob-on Lane
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By *9alMan
over a year ago
Bridgend |
"Ask yourself this. Glory holes.
Men folk get hard and release a jizz squiz. They don't even know the gender of the person on the other side.
The situation is the turn on.
That is a good situation "
I enjoy Glory Hole fun |
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The answer is yes. It’s how men are sexually assaulted.
The other answer is yes, I was once a long long time ago with someone as a group, absolutely not my cup of tea but she was really into to, I stayed hard the issue was it was really bad and no matter what I did I couldn’t cum. After she had a couple times, I ended up behind her pulling out, taking the condom off and making sure I had I a lot of spit pretending to cum, and spitting a lot of her bum and back.
She didn’t need to know anything different, and she had great time. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Obvs I'm not a penis haver,
However I've seen a male profile stating he doesn't send or ask for face pics before a meet,that makes me think looks are not important to him when meeting,cos it's not socials he's talking about.
A couple of years ago I was chatting to a bloke who told me he'd met this woman ,didn't really fancy her but still shagged her cos she was there!
So some men can get it up without attraction yes,I've no doubt on that. |
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"The answer is yes. It’s how men are sexually assaulted.
The other answer is yes, I was once a long long time ago with someone as a group, absolutely not my cup of tea but she was really into to, I stayed hard the issue was it was really bad and no matter what I did I couldn’t cum. After she had a couple times, I ended up behind her pulling out, taking the condom off and making sure I had I a lot of spit pretending to cum, and spitting a lot of her bum and back.
She didn’t need to know anything different, and she had great time. "
It's quite easy to fake an orgasm when you're wearing a condom, if you're not really 'feeling it', or can't finish.... |
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"Ask yourself this. Glory holes.
Men folk get hard and release a jizz squiz. They don't even know the gender of the person on the other side.
The situation is the turn on."
Only once been fortunate to find a gloryhole in a club with someone on the other side, and it was definitely a woman (because her fella motioned me over to it, and I cheated by taking a quick peek), and whilst it was quite nice having my cock sucked, it didn't get me off, so I gave up and thanked her as I left. The lack of visual stimulus coupled to zero connection/attraction to the giver just didn't do it for me. Ticked a box off the list though! |
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Men are generally opportunist when it comes to sex, attraction is secondary. If you look good and healthy you will get dicks thrown towards you at any given opportunity, if you look unkempt then it becomes half and half weighing the risk and award.
Attraction is complex you might be attracted to a trait or some traits does not mean you want your partner to have that. You don't need to be attracted to someone to get hard. Now that doesn't mean any hole is a goal ...just the risk or award. I can get hard doesn't mean I will follow through regardless of how pretty...maybe. lol |
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"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
Love the research questions.
Mines always hard.
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Attraction tends to be a state of mind, as long as you connect there, be it via looks, suggestion, or touch, erection happens.
Against that there are turn-offs, such as poor hygiene or boredom, which block or detract from attraction and arousal.
With age erection make take a little longer to start, but as a general rule, I find it hard to stop an erection if a woman has the intention of causing one. |
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"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
In truth, and i only speak for myself here, i can get hard quite easily... That being said the person and situation involved makes quite a difference to, shall we say, performance, many moons ago there would be truth to the any holes a goal theorem and i suspect thatd be the case for many young guys, but with maturity things change and like i said the person and situation becomes more important, so much so that now i have to fancy the person.. so to summarise, yes and no. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No and yes
No in the sense that if I am not attracted to you it isn’t going to go up
Yes if you bang my ass it will go up no matter what
The real question there is will it stay up after your done banging |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Such a myriad of responses here!! I think I have always (very naively) assumed that without attraction it was a no-go.
I will have to vet the penis havers more thoroughly in future haha. |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?"
On the rare occasions that I actually use mine, I MUST be attracted to them otherwise the other person is going to be very disappointed.
So no if I'm not attracted to them or at least something about them, I won't even get hard. |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Mine definitely needs sexual attraction , more than physical. I know this from a time in a club when I was ordered to ‘put some cock in here’ , she was very pretty and fit but her request turned me right off. Other times as a couple , same result if I didn’t connect with the woman, but when I do I can stay hard all night long |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any man should get regular hard ons if he is healthy. And they should be able to touch their cock in a way that it will get hard too, and stay hard too, and so they probably can when they are having a wank, because they are concentrated when they are on their own wanking, but when they are with a woman they can get distracted easy or let down a bit, so they end up getting a flob on lol so I would say it's up to the woman to keep it hard if they want it to stay hard for them. Work it and get on it. It's like a machine, you have to give it attention |
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I've never had a problem getting hard,but a woman would have to do it for me, for me to get a bonk on.
Some fellas will shag anything, so I'd imagine they'll have no problem getting a boner. Where with me there has to be something deeper going on.
Hope this helps! |
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" lol so I would say it's up to the woman to keep it hard if they want it to stay hard for them. Work it and get on it. It's like a machine, you have to give it attention"
Lube and a bit of teasing |
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"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
Definitely has to be a connection/attraction, either physically, mentally or both is better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
Attraction is need for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can’t get aroused with someone I’m not physically attracted to. In my head I’m saying “no”. My body follows that accordingly. The little fella stays hidden away. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not many people talk about physically attractive people who there’s no spark with (for whatever reason). I’ve been in that situation and no amount of good looks can get me through it.
For me, if I like someone and they like me, then I find them physically attractive too. |
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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago
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"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
Can get hard and perform just from horny situations. Don’t need to be attracted to get hard at all. X |
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"So, those amongst us with a cock.
Can you get hard and stay hard if you're not attracted to the person you are with?
Is it "any holes a goal" or do you need to fancy them?
I'm asking for research purposes!!"
I wouldn't be with someone I didn't find attractive |
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Think I like it that way too. 
